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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Been on fabs a couple of years and been reading the posts about single women at clubs.
Need a bit of advice please.
Starting to seriously think of attending one but would want to go to one that's fairly close to me (cambridge) and one where the bar/social area is seperate from any of the play areas.
I don't think I would play on a first visit, I'm more interested in chatting and meeting people on the scene for my first visit.
My questions are:
1- what club best suits this situation
2- what is the cost
3- am I better coming alone or with a male or female friend
4- is it acceptable to attend a club and not play
5- are single women safe at these, ie, is there someone you can goto if your feeling intimidated ect.
Any advice is greatly appreciated.
Sorry if these sorts of questions have been asked before. I'm a complete newbie when it comes to the club scene  |
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By *teed99Man
over a year ago
Kettering |
The Vanilla Alternative is one of the closest clubs to you and welcomes single ladies. The bar and snug area is completely separate to the play areas and we have some visitors that use the club as a purely social venue. In answering your questions:
1. Answered above.
2. For single ladies it's £10 on Friday nights when a maximum of 10 single guys attend (except 1st Friday of the month when it's Bi-Night) and £15 on Saturday nights when it's couples and single ladies only.
3. The choice is yours as there is no 'better' solution. It somewhat depends how comfortable you feel and also what your interests are.
4. It's quite acceptable to attend and not play and we have regular visitors who do just that.
5. Single ladies are made to feel safe and welcomed at VA's. There are always female members of the staff team on duty although everyone keeps an eye out for our single lady visitors. |
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Just to reiterate Steed's points -
VA is fairly close and the bar/lounge is separate from the play areas.
Of course you can attend just to socialise!
Apart from the staff if you did feel intimidated in any way I'm sure the other clients would intervene!
We've been to VA a few times for the daytime milf club and Friday night parties and they are relaxed and friendly social events, with playtime if you want to.
Hope this helps!
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thankyou for the advice.
I've looked at VA website quite alot recently and thought that was the one closest to me. But just needed the reassurance I guess.
Think I'll pay a visit when I have no kids
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By *utie91Woman
over a year ago
Hitchin |
Jaydees is also quite close to you.
It’s Miss Red’s greedy girls event this Friday, 16th feb.
It’s become quite popular, many single women attend on there own, so you wouldnt feel uncomfortable. Newbies are looked after by the staff and the regulars, and they will be given a tour and introduced to a few people on their first visit. I shall be doing some of the tours myself this Friday.
Downstairs is social with private lockable playrooms at one end of the club and upstairs is open play, so there is that separation.
Single females are free to attend for members (lifetime membership is £10) otherwise £5 a time.
Lockers at £10 refundable deposit
Everyone is very friendly and approachable, the gentlemen are respectful and vetted by the club before being allowed into the guest list.
Saturdays at Jaydees are normally party nights. Very popular with couples. And are very social and fun. Single guys are more limited on Saturdays
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I would second the positive comments on Jaydees. Just get a good feeling when parking and walking in. You know you will be greeted by lovely likeminded people, the relaxed chat in the kitchen area is worth the admission alone.
I’m sure OP you are overwhelmed with offers but I would love to walk in there with ‘you on my arm’ if that’s not too old fashioned an expression?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Chams in Birmingham for us - quite often a single lady in there — for a first visit to a club - pick a night when it’s coupl and single ladies only
Or you’ll be surrounded like bees round honey x |
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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago
Stoke area |
OP. It is very acceptable for single ladies going to club's and not playing. People will accept you are new and just checking it out. I probably play about a third of the time I go to club's. It's very much a social night out. Chatting to friends and new people. Drinking, dancing. They are good nights out.
You will possibly be bombarded with chaps wanting to chat to you on the night. So be prepared for that. If you want to go with a chap, so that you are not as anxious, the gent above offering to accompany you is a lovely fella.
Personally I would go as a single lady, but agree to meet inside, so that you can have company for the first hour until you find your feet.
Whichever club you go to, talk to staff and they will be happy to show you around and answer any questions. Have fun. |
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