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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I’m trying to be brave enough to attend the Attic party tomorrow as a single lady. I’ve been a few times but as a couple. Not sure how common it is and whether I’ll stand out like a sore thumb! I’m not really shy but equally I’m not super outgoing.
Any single ladies been alone and was it really daunting? |
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I always used to go alone pretty much and had a great time. As a single woman you’ll find people are very chatty - whether interested in play or not - and I liked the flexibility to do as I wanted. Enjoy! |
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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago
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I completely understand how you are feeling and sometimes get really nervous going to clubs as a single lady, I am always glad that I have gone once there, nerves dissolve and people are very friendly and welcoming. |
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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago
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"I’m trying to be brave enough to attend the Attic party tomorrow as a single lady. I’ve been a few times but as a couple. Not sure how common it is and whether I’ll stand out like a sore thumb! I’m not really shy but equally I’m not super outgoing.
Any single ladies been alone and was it really daunting?"
A few of my friends are going for that party, I'm sure they would be happy for you to join them? |
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By *offee27Man
over a year ago
Wiltshire |
Met plenty of girls at route 69 and swingers quay who turned up on their own. Staff always look after and make sure they are kept safe. Never seen any mistreatment from other members too. Go on and have a great time |
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"I’m trying to be brave enough to attend the Attic party tomorrow as a single lady. I’ve been a few times but as a couple. Not sure how common it is and whether I’ll stand out like a sore thumb! I’m not really shy but equally I’m not super outgoing.
Any single ladies been alone and was it really daunting?"
As you say you've been a few times there already (but as a couple), it will hardly be unfamiliar territory, so not that daunting really? |
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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago
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"I think it’s just the going in alone and once through the door, what do I do?! Head straight to the locker room and breathe?!!"
yes and smile, say hello to everybody or nod, put your things away, and head to the bar. I bet by the time you've been in there 15 minutes max, your nerves will have gone |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I’m trying to be brave enough to attend the Attic party tomorrow as a single lady. I’ve been a few times but as a couple. Not sure how common it is and whether I’ll stand out like a sore thumb! I’m not really shy but equally I’m not super outgoing.
Any single ladies been alone and was it really daunting?"
I'm going to that too. First time as a single guy. Very nervous haha |
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"I’m trying to be brave enough to attend the Attic party tomorrow as a single lady. I’ve been a few times but as a couple. Not sure how common it is and whether I’ll stand out like a sore thumb! I’m not really shy but equally I’m not super outgoing.
Any single ladies been alone and was it really daunting?
A few of my friends are going for that party, I'm sure they would be happy for you to join them?"
lol I was just gonna offer
You are more than welcome to tag along with us if you like  |
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"I’m trying to be brave enough to attend the Attic party tomorrow as a single lady. I’ve been a few times but as a couple. Not sure how common it is and whether I’ll stand out like a sore thumb! I’m not really shy but equally I’m not super outgoing.
Any single ladies been alone and was it really daunting?
I'm going to that too. First time as a single guy. Very nervous haha"
And you are welcome to say hello lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Yes but I think it’s different when you’re alone. At first you don’t have anyone familiar to speak to or calm those nerves. I know I’ll be self conscious until I’ve started chatting to someone.
I’m sure after a few minutes and a stiff drink I’ll be ok. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I go to a club on my own quite regularly, i now prefer it to going with someone. People are generally very friendly, and you're free to do what you want with who you want, and leave whenever you feel like it.
Bite the bullet and go for it, you'll be glad you did. |
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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago
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"Yes but I think it’s different when you’re alone. At first you don’t have anyone familiar to speak to or calm those nerves. I know I’ll be self conscious until I’ve started chatting to someone.
I’m sure after a few minutes and a stiff drink I’ll be ok. "
Chat to the staff to start with, they are a friendly bunch. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’m trying to be brave enough to attend the Attic party tomorrow as a single lady. I’ve been a few times but as a couple. Not sure how common it is and whether I’ll stand out like a sore thumb! I’m not really shy but equally I’m not super outgoing.
Any single ladies been alone and was it really daunting?
I'm going to that too. First time as a single guy. Very nervous haha
And you are welcome to say hello lol "
Ditto  I'll be the tool dressed as a soldier |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I’m trying to be brave enough to attend the Attic party tomorrow as a single lady. I’ve been a few times but as a couple. Not sure how common it is and whether I’ll stand out like a sore thumb! I’m not really shy but equally I’m not super outgoing.
Any single ladies been alone and was it really daunting?
I'm going to that too. First time as a single guy. Very nervous haha
And you are welcome to say hello lol
Ditto I'll be the tool dressed as a soldier "
Might see you at the bar then! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I’m trying to be brave enough to attend the Attic party tomorrow as a single lady. I’ve been a few times but as a couple. Not sure how common it is and whether I’ll stand out like a sore thumb! I’m not really shy but equally I’m not super outgoing.
Any single ladies been alone and was it really daunting?
I'm going to that too. First time as a single guy. Very nervous haha
And you are welcome to say hello lol
Ditto I'll be the tool dressed as a soldier
Might see you at the bar then!"
Probably there's new rooms apparently |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I’m trying to be brave enough to attend the Attic party tomorrow as a single lady. I’ve been a few times but as a couple. Not sure how common it is and whether I’ll stand out like a sore thumb! I’m not really shy but equally I’m not super outgoing.
Any single ladies been alone and was it really daunting?
A few of my friends are going for that party, I'm sure they would be happy for you to join them?
lol I was just gonna offer
You are more than welcome to tag along with us if you like "
What sort of time will you all be getting there?
Big fat nerves kicking in now. Eek! |
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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago
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What sort of time will you all be getting there?
Big fat nerves kicking in now. Eek!"
You'll be fine , chew something , some research shows chewing something makes you less nervous  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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What sort of time will you all be getting there?
Big fat nerves kicking in now. Eek!
You'll be fine , chew something , some research shows chewing something makes you less nervous "
What do you suggest I chew?!  |
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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago
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What sort of time will you all be getting there?
Big fat nerves kicking in now. Eek!
You'll be fine , chew something , some research shows chewing something makes you less nervous
What do you suggest I chew?! "
I better be careful this could end up in dangerous territory lol. I always carry some airwaves with me, I can give you one |
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"I’m trying to be brave enough to attend the Attic party tomorrow as a single lady. I’ve been a few times but as a couple. Not sure how common it is and whether I’ll stand out like a sore thumb! I’m not really shy but equally I’m not super outgoing.
Any single ladies been alone and was it really daunting?
A few of my friends are going for that party, I'm sure they would be happy for you to join them?
lol I was just gonna offer
You are more than welcome to tag along with us if you like
What sort of time will you all be getting there?
Big fat nerves kicking in now. Eek!"
Think we are aiming for 9 ish but you know us ladies lol
If you want to send me a message we will keep you posted. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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First time I went on my own, I was terrified - for about 20 minutes!! After than, I relaxed & chatted & it was great.
Definitely easier when I was with G, but so glad I did it ... I’m there a lot on my own now & love it!!
Have fun OP!! x |
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