My local club is chams at darleston and ive been a few times. I have a fantasy where I'd go into one of the rooms, put on a blindfold and be fucked by whoever wanted me and I wouldnt speak to anybody and Id never know who they were (dont know if Id ever be brave enough or if its best left as a sexy fantasy) My question is this, As a single woman in that situation do I have to voice that I want everybody to use protection or is it general practice for everybody to use condoms anyway? I wouldnt want to put myself in any danger or a bad situation |
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"If I were you I'd want a trusted friend, male or female to watch your back and ensure everyone playing with you was doing it safely... could all be done in silence but I'd want that reassurance "
I agree completely but I dont have anybody like that. I felt a club might be a safer bet than trying to arrange something privately
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No one can guarantee you anything not even the management but if you really want this best thing is to have a friend with you that you can trust or build a friendship with someone from the club or second option have a woman condom  |
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By *eadyforachangeWoman
over a year ago
Second star to the right, and straight on till morning. |
You are the one who states what you want. A good club could help you organise a gang bang and also help provide a wing man/woman for your peace of mind. I would suggest that under no circumstances should you trust all involved if you don't know them as sadly not everyone is respectful.
I have witnessed a good and bad scenario of this fantasy and the difference was someone in control of the room. PM me for good club details. x |
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By *oxesMan
over a year ago
Southend, Essex |
"My local club is chams at darleston and ive been a few times. I have a fantasy where I'd go into one of the rooms, put on a blindfold and be fucked by whoever wanted me and I wouldnt speak to anybody and Id never know who they were (dont know if Id
ever be brave enough or if its best left as a sexy fantasy) My question is this, As a single woman in that situation do I have to voice that I want everybody to use protection or is it general practice for everybody to use condoms anyway? I wouldnt want to put myself in any danger or a bad situation"
It's in most clubs rules. |
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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago
Wherever the party is! |
"If I were you I'd want a trusted friend, male or female to watch your back and ensure everyone playing with you was doing it safely... could all be done in silence but I'd want that reassurance I agree completely but I dont have anybody like that. I felt a club might be a safer bet than trying to arrange something privately"
If you really don't have any friends on the scene, the best thing to do would be to go to the club a few times and make friends with some other swingers with a view to doing this at a later date. You don't have to tell them what you are planning, just network and build your own trusted circle.
What you want to do is possible and has been done before but not at the drop of a hat. I could probably recommend a few ladies who could look out for you but then you would still need to build up your own trust in them.
I hope you realise your fantasy sooner rather than later! x   |
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