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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Is there any stigma attached to single guys at swingers clubs such as Chams etc ?
How do 'regulars' and couples at the clubs view single guys who become members ?
Thinking of joining so any feedback/comments much appreciated |
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Swingers clubs couldn't survive without single guys. That's where they make their money. There are plenty of couples and single girls looking for single guys. There is nothing wrong in becoming a member... it's definitely more cost effective. You'd be extremely fortunate to gain a single guy membership for Chams. They are very restrictive on the number of single guy members. I've heard you have to wait for someone to die to get membership!
Good luck wherever you go. Just remember the golden rules. Then talk and be friendly because you never know when someone is in need of a wingman.  |
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"Swingers clubs couldn't survive without single guys. That's where they make their money. There are plenty of couples and single girls looking for single guys. There is nothing wrong in becoming a member... it's definitely more cost effective. You'd be extremely fortunate to gain a single guy membership for Chams. They are very restrictive on the number of single guy members. I've heard you have to wait for someone to die to get membership!
Good luck wherever you go. Just remember the golden rules. Then talk and be friendly because you never know when someone is in need of a wingman. "
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By (user no longer on site)
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Another one here that looks for guys at clubs, most single girls are. Polite respectful guys who are happy to mingle and chill out are always very welcome  guys that race around furiously wanking and asking every lady if they want to suck their cock aren't! Theres plenty of clubs that welcome singke fellas thst dont have the waiting list of chams - try jaydees, VA and eurekas x |
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Been attending clubs for a while now. Firstly as a single guy then as a couple now single guy again so can see both sides to be fair. It’s definitely about respect for single guys in clubs. Take your time to be friendly and chat to the couples and single females in there. Don’t ever think that your going have sex in the club. Treat it as going to the pub or nightclub. Good luck if you join Chams. I go to Pandora regular and love the club scene made so many great friends there |
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Being fairly new to this, any recommended 'no pressure' clubs also welcome.
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No clubs should be "pressured" - nobody has to do anything they don't want to and everyone should be able to enjoy the club how they see fit - whether it's just a social evening and some dancing, or having a massive orgy Most clubs have a bar/social area to relax and talk in. Have a look at the club reviews and go try one that takes your fancy! |
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Being fairly new to this, any recommended 'no pressure' clubs also welcome.
No clubs should be "pressured" - nobody has to do anything they don't want to and everyone should be able to enjoy the club how they see fit - whether it's just a social evening and some dancing, or having a massive orgy Most clubs have a bar/social area to relax and talk in. Have a look at the club reviews and go try one that takes your fancy!"
Places like Kestrel Hydro that have hot tubs/jacuzzis are good as it’s an easy place to chat in and to get to know people. |
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There are lots of single guys who go to Chams. If you are polite and chat to both the man and woman of a couple you will be fine.
Its the guys who just follow you from room to room and never talk who piss me off.
I know a few single guys who do really well at clubs. Just be polite and respectful and you will do well. |
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Love single men.You can add them or subtract them and have them in many permutations. They are like the lubricant of the swinging world. It would be a tragic loss if single men were not allowed in clubs. You you can borrow them like a book and put them right back. No commitment. No falling out. Just a simple transaction. |
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"Love single men.You can add them or subtract them and have them in many permutations. They are like the lubricant of the swinging world. It would be a tragic loss if single men were not allowed in clubs. You you can borrow them like a book and put them right back. No commitment. No falling out. Just a simple transaction."
Don’t worry, clubs wouldn’t survive without them! |
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"GUYS NUMBER ONE TIP...don't wear joggers trainers and gym gear....always smart attire and smell nice and be polite ...gives u a better chance ...honest"
A rule of thumb!!
Basics!! |
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"Swingers clubs couldn't survive without single guys. That's where they make their money. There are plenty of couples and single girls looking for single guys. There is nothing wrong in becoming a member... it's definitely more cost effective. You'd be extremely fortunate to gain a single guy membership for Chams. They are very restrictive on the number of single guy members. I've heard you have to wait for someone to die to get membership!
Good luck wherever you go. Just remember the golden rules. Then talk and be friendly because you never know when someone is in need of a wingman. "
What are the golden rules? |
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"Swingers clubs couldn't survive without single guys. That's where they make their money. There are plenty of couples and single girls looking for single guys. There is nothing wrong in becoming a member... it's definitely more cost effective. You'd be extremely fortunate to gain a single guy membership for Chams. They are very restrictive on the number of single guy members. I've heard you have to wait for someone to die to get membership!
Good luck wherever you go. Just remember the golden rules. Then talk and be friendly because you never know when someone is in need of a wingman.
What are the golden rules? "
No means no. |
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"Swingers clubs couldn't survive without single guys. That's where they make their money. There are plenty of couples and single girls looking for single guys. There is nothing wrong in becoming a member... it's definitely more cost effective. You'd be extremely fortunate to gain a single guy membership for Chams. They are very restrictive on the number of single guy members. I've heard you have to wait for someone to die to get membership!
Good luck wherever you go. Just remember the golden rules. Then talk and be friendly because you never know when someone is in need of a wingman.
What are the golden rules? "
The penitent man is humble before the swingers club |
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I used to be a regular at chams, not so much now, but I wouldn't have a clue who was a new member and who wasn't, unless I saw them have a tour but I would forget the next time I saw them.
It's always nice to have new faces, no matter which club it is, you get out of it what you put in. |
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"Love single men.You can add them or subtract them and have them in many permutations. They are like the lubricant of the swinging world. It would be a tragic loss if single men were not allowed in clubs. You you can borrow them like a book and put them right back. No commitment. No falling out. Just a simple transaction."
Deposits and withdrawals? |
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Have visited clubs as couple and single man, I always try and get single men involved if they're respectful and also struggling, I usually share my toys but my advice as single is don't go expecting action that's where lots go wrong they treat it like an all you can eat brothel just because they have paid. |
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I’ve been as a single on quite a few occasions, always enjoyed myself.
I think some blokes turn up with unreal expectations. Put simply if you are the kind of bloke who’d stand out in a bar eg. You’re either one of or a combination of good looking, charming, funny, then you’ll be alright in a club. You’ll find ladies and couples keen to play.
If you’re none of these things then join the wanking zombies stumbling from playroom to playroom begging for some attention! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I’ve been as a single on quite a few occasions, always enjoyed myself.
I think some blokes turn up with unreal expectations. Put simply if you are the kind of bloke who’d stand out in a bar eg. You’re either one of or a combination of good looking, charming, funny, then you’ll be alright in a club. You’ll find ladies and couples keen to play.
If you’re none of these things then join the wanking zombies stumbling from playroom to playroom begging for some attention! "
really anoying the zombies.....I say just they are rude people and not not in a fab way and thry should be avoided.. |
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