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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Their is loads of BBC worship clubs but is their any club nights for white guys wanting to meet black girls

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

amen to that.

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By *alandNitaCouple  over a year ago

Scunthorpe

There seem to be very few "non-white" ladies in the swinging world.

Cal

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"There seem to be very few "non-white" ladies in the swinging world.

Cal"

Keeping a low profile

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By *rLucky777Man  over a year ago

Leeds

I find black women incredibly attractive. I’d be well up for a night like that! Show yourselves ladies!

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By *inkydarkness90Man  over a year ago

North West

I'd have to agree too, black ladies are stunning. Would absolutely love to be with an intelligent black woman!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I’d love to go to a club night like that!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Isn't that what the BWFC (Black women's Fan Club) parties about ?

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By *r an Mrs xMan  over a year ago

liverpool

I find Most black girls don’t usually do black guys. ......

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Isn't that what the BWFC (Black women's Fan Club) parties about ? "

Where’s that?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I find Most black girls don’t usually do black guys. ...... "

Of course you think that

Only white people seem to think everyone wants to fuck them (because they're white) whilst simultaneously asking why nobody wants to have sex with them...

The reason swinging does not attract black women is because most of you are unattractive race fetishists and losers.

U mean to tell me a site with sexually inexperienced middle aged dudes who make massive generalized statements (like the one above) doesn't attract black women? Say it ain't so...

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By *rLucky777Man  over a year ago

Leeds


"I find Most black girls don’t usually do black guys. ......

Of course you think that

Only white people seem to think everyone wants to fuck them (because they're white) whilst simultaneously asking why nobody wants to have sex with them...

The reason swinging does not attract black women is because most of you are unattractive race fetishists and losers.

U mean to tell me a site with sexually inexperienced middle aged dudes who make massive generalized statements (like the one above) doesn't attract black women? Say it ain't so... "

What a pair of idiotic comments. I don’t think anyone will ever be qualified to speak for an entire race of people. If you think you are qualified you are wrong.

People like all kinds of things. Some may be into it some are into other things across the whole spectrum.

There will never be a definitive that will apply to all. I’ve dated black girls, white girls and mixed raced girls and people are more similar then they are different.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I find Most black girls don’t usually do black guys. ......

Of course you think that

Only white people seem to think everyone wants to fuck them (because they're white) whilst simultaneously asking why nobody wants to have sex with them...

The reason swinging does not attract black women is because most of you are unattractive race fetishists and losers.

U mean to tell me a site with sexually inexperienced middle aged dudes who make massive generalized statements (like the one above) doesn't attract black women? Say it ain't so...

What a pair of idiotic comments. I don’t think anyone will ever be qualified to speak for an entire race of people. If you think you are qualified you are wrong.

People like all kinds of things. Some may be into it some are into other things across the whole spectrum.

There will never be a definitive that will apply to all. I’ve dated black girls, white girls and mixed raced girls and people are more similar then they are different. "

Mr Superfreak is qualified to speak for us all

He is a very intelligent man

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

There are a few black women about keeping a low profile unless we are in a mischievous mood a persons colour doesnt attract or dissuade me it’s the connection that’s crucial

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By *ada22Couple  over a year ago

Manchester

Boo!!!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Agree I love black girls I find them really sexy. I find mixed girls hotter than full black but that's my preference. Black girls are just sexy

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Agree I love black girls I find them really sexy. I find mixed girls hotter than full black but that's my preference. Black girls are just sexy "

Full black . I guess I’m less hot

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Their is loads of BBC worship clubs but is their any club nights for white guys wanting to meet black girls "

Love black and mixes ladies. Deffo not many into swinging

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Probably the best way to meet all sorts of people is not to come across as racist, homophobic, arrogant or any of the other bigotted ways human beings can trip themselves up with.

Treat everyone with respect and how you would want to be treated yourself and you will be rewarded with all sorts of naughty fun.

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By *s_bettyboopWoman  over a year ago

-3

Quite a few in Midlands and London way. Use the advanced search.

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By *oolcouple400Couple  over a year ago

kingston

We are a mixed couple!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"We are a mixed couple! "

Snap

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By *offee with MilkCouple  over a year ago

Over the roundabout and then turn right.

Ditto

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Will not complain as had few black women in my bed and the love swinging the just bit shy bit ones you get to know them the open for everything

Black women bring me into swinging

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

If any black girls are interested in a chat pm me as I would love to meet some but not many around in my 96% white town and not sure where to meet them

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By *rfunMan  over a year ago

Southampton


"Probably the best way to meet all sorts of people is not to come across as racist, homophobic, arrogant or any of the other bigotted ways human beings can trip themselves up with.

Treat everyone with respect and how you would want to be treated yourself and you will be rewarded with all sorts of naughty fun.

"

so BMFC should change its name then?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I tend not to fetishise race, unless the girl is into such things in roleplay.

That said, atleast in the North of the UK, black girls are a rarity on this scene, which is a shame, as there is something gorgeous about them.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Isn't that what the BWFC (Black women's Fan Club) parties about ? "
that's the one...I've brought this topic up in the past..

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Isn't that what the BWFC (Black women's Fan Club) parties about ?

Where’s that?"

Hi mixed chic they are usually held at Radlet to my knowledge.

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By *lub Rouge ManchesterCouple  over a year ago

manchester

Well as a club owner I see lots of black / Asian /mixed race girls in the club ......and I’m taking from experience ...... same as Bbw and bbc nights tend to attract the same people

Plus we hold the black lush parties at another venue. .... white guys welcome ( though to watch only )

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By *hocko87Man  over a year ago

dublin

I did get to meet one hot black lady once but I only got to lick her pussy. But she was smoking hot ..luv to meet a few more .

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By *herrybaby114Couple  over a year ago

Luton

Mixed couple here

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By *LCCCouple  over a year ago

Cambridge


"

The reason swinging does not attract black women is because most of you are unattractive race fetishists and losers.

"

Lovely

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

i'm in

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By *lubPartyPeepsCouple  over a year ago

London

Black woman are awesome. My hubby will tell you that.

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By *LCCCouple  over a year ago

Cambridge


"Black woman are awesome. My hubby will tell you that. "

you've got him well trained!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I thought it was the other away around super f

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman  over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows


"I find Most black girls don’t usually do black guys. ......

Of course you think that

Only white people seem to think everyone wants to fuck them (because they're white) whilst simultaneously asking why nobody wants to have sex with them...

The reason swinging does not attract black women is because most of you are unattractive race fetishists and losers.

U mean to tell me a site with sexually inexperienced middle aged dudes who make massive generalized statements (like the one above) doesn't attract black women? Say it ain't so...

What a pair of idiotic comments. I don’t think anyone will ever be qualified to speak for an entire race of people. If you think you are qualified you are wrong.

People like all kinds of things. Some may be into it some are into other things across the whole spectrum.

There will never be a definitive that will apply to all. I’ve dated black girls, white girls and mixed raced girls and people are more similar then they are different.

Mr Superfreak is qualified to speak for us all

He is a very intelligent man"

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By *oolcouple400Couple  over a year ago

kingston

We are a mixed couple and often meet in clubs in greater London area so could meet interested guys that are into black girls there

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By *antrelWoman  over a year ago

Birmingham/Cardiff


"Black woman are awesome. My hubby will tell you that. "

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Darker the Cherry the sweeter the juice

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By *orcestermanMan  over a year ago

kidderminster


"I’d love to go to a club night like that!"
so would I!!! Black women are the best by far!!! Can't get enough!

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By *orcestermanMan  over a year ago

kidderminster


"Black woman are awesome. My hubby will tell you that.

"

i agree. Black women are hot!! The best lovers

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By *orcestermanMan  over a year ago

kidderminster


"Agree I love black girls I find them really sexy. I find mixed girls hotter than full black but that's my preference. Black girls are just sexy

Full black . I guess I’m less hot "

youre very hot x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Agree I love black girls I find them really sexy. I find mixed girls hotter than full black but that's my preference. Black girls are just sexy

Full black . I guess I’m less hot youre very hot x"

Fanks

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

So back to the point??

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By *LCCCouple  over a year ago

Cambridge


"Agree I love black girls I find them really sexy. I find mixed girls hotter than full black but that's my preference. Black girls are just sexy

Full black . I guess I’m less hot youre very hot x

Fanks "

He is obviously basing that on your profile silhouette

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I'm in total and utter agreement.

I love interracial but as many people have said,the balance of black girls in the North who swing is very small compared say to London and the South East and the West Midlands.

However, with the black girls I have slept with, they personally preferred white guys, due to some black guys (and may I just clarify at this point not ALL black guys) treating them like crap.

I'd love more AfroAmerican/Afro Carribean girls to join up here and take that step into playing, so if such a night was to be considered at somewhere like Quest,Pandora, or Cupids say for instance, I'd be a regular . Xxx

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By *oo hotCouple  over a year ago

North West


"Agree I love black girls I find them really sexy. I find mixed girls hotter than full black but that's my preference. Black girls are just sexy "

Full black

WTF

Give yr head a wobble

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Agree I love black girls I find them really sexy. I find mixed girls hotter than full black but that's my preference. Black girls are just sexy

Full black . I guess I’m less hot youre very hot x

Fanks

He is obviously basing that on your profile silhouette "

We know each other

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

The reason why there are so few black women into white men is because unlike white women we have to deal with them acting like everything about us is different just because we're black

Ie -does out pussy taste like chocolate

-comments about our "black pussy"

-comments about our "booty"

-being refered to as desserts, chocolate/caramel

God forbid we actually get treated as, you know, normal female human beings.

I only meet white men for play as a choice, but the second I feel like I'm only being spoken to as if I'm some kind of check off or bucket list entry or the ebony queen/chocolate goddess comments start I stop all talks.

Alot of white men are offensive towards black women without even realising and wonder why none will have sex with them

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I find Most black girls don’t usually do black guys. ......

Of course you think that

Only white people seem to think everyone wants to fuck them (because they're white) whilst simultaneously asking why nobody wants to have sex with them...

The reason swinging does not attract black women is because most of you are unattractive race fetishists and losers.

U mean to tell me a site with sexually inexperienced middle aged dudes who make massive generalized statements (like the one above) doesn't attract black women? Say it ain't so... "

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By *LCCCouple  over a year ago

Cambridge


"Agree I love black girls I find them really sexy. I find mixed girls hotter than full black but that's my preference. Black girls are just sexy

Full black . I guess I’m less hot youre very hot x

Fanks

He is obviously basing that on your profile silhouette

We know each other "

Ah ok, I thought it was a terrible case of white knighting! My apologies.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"The reason why there are so few black women into white men is because unlike white women we have to deal with them acting like everything about us is different just because we're black

Ie -does out pussy taste like chocolate

-comments about our "black pussy"

-comments about our "booty"

-being refered to as desserts, chocolate/caramel

God forbid we actually get treated as, you know, normal female human beings.

I only meet white men for play as a choice, but the second I feel like I'm only being spoken to as if I'm some kind of check off or bucket list entry or the ebony queen/chocolate goddess comments start I stop all talks.

Alot of white men are offensive towards black women without even realising and wonder why none will have sex with them"

Yes absolutely this

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Agree I love black girls I find them really sexy. I find mixed girls hotter than full black but that's my preference. Black girls are just sexy

Full black . I guess I’m less hot youre very hot x

Fanks

He is obviously basing that on your profile silhouette

We know each other

Ah ok, I thought it was a terrible case of white knighting! My apologies. "

Haha yeah can see that could have been the case x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Agree I love black girls I find them really sexy. I find mixed girls hotter than full black but that's my preference. Black girls are just sexy "

Lol

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By *0tt0nSu3Woman  over a year ago

London


"The reason why there are so few black women into white men is because unlike white women we have to deal with them acting like everything about us is different just because we're black

Ie -does out pussy taste like chocolate

-comments about our "black pussy"

-comments about our "booty"

-being refered to as desserts, chocolate/caramel

God forbid we actually get treated as, you know, normal female human beings.

I only meet white men for play as a choice, but the second I feel like I'm only being spoken to as if I'm some kind of check off or bucket list entry or the ebony queen/chocolate goddess comments start I stop all talks.

Alot of white men are offensive towards black women without even realising and wonder why none will have sex with them

Yes absolutely this

"

I third this!

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By *0tt0nSu3Woman  over a year ago

London


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Alot of white men are offensive towards black women without even realising and wonder why none will have sex with them

"

In fact there one particular fabber who does this and in the same breath asks where all the black women are, when his comments have made them hit the block button.

What a tool... and a fool.

Meh

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By *0tt0nSu3Woman  over a year ago

London

I also wanted to make clear that I don't play with white men from choice.

I play with men who I am attracted to and they don't have to be white. The color of a person's skin is not a criteria. Their intelligence is a criteria for me.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


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Alot of white men are offensive towards black women without even realising and wonder why none will have sex with them

In fact there one particular fabber who does this and in the same breath asks where all the black women are, when his comments have made them hit the block button.

What a tool... and a fool.

Meh

"

Ah I haven't had the pleasure, only fabbet like this I've seen in the one on this topic lol

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By *0tt0nSu3Woman  over a year ago

London


"

Alot of white men are offensive towards black women without even realising and wonder why none will have sex with them

In fact there one particular fabber who does this and in the same breath asks where all the black women are, when his comments have made them hit the block button.

What a tool... and a fool.

Meh

Ah I haven't had the pleasure, only fabbet like this I've seen in the one on this topic lol "

The Green arrow can be a useful tool sometimes....

I'm just saying...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


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Alot of white men are offensive towards black women without even realising and wonder why none will have sex with them

In fact there one particular fabber who does this and in the same breath asks where all the black women are, when his comments have made them hit the block button.

What a tool... and a fool.

Meh

Ah I haven't had the pleasure, only fabbet like this I've seen in the one on this topic lol

The Green arrow can be a useful tool sometimes....

I'm just saying...

"

Ah yes, I see lol

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By *eliWoman  over a year ago

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"Alot of white men are offensive towards black women without even realising and wonder why none will have sex with them

Yes absolutely this

I third this!

"

Sadly, I'm going to have to fourth this. It's actually a bit frustrating realising how little self awareness they have. You get chatting, cue lots of clips/stories about interracial porn without checking in that's your thing.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Funny how they have all gone quiet now we are voicing our concerns

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By *oul BrothaMan  over a year ago

A Galaxy far far away


"The reason why there are so few black women into white men is because unlike white women we have to deal with them acting like everything about us is different just because we're black

Ie -does out pussy taste like chocolate

-comments about our "black pussy"

-comments about our "booty"

-being refered to as desserts, chocolate/caramel

God forbid we actually get treated as, you know, normal female human beings.

I only meet white men for play as a choice, but the second I feel like I'm only being spoken to as if I'm some kind of check off or bucket list entry or the ebony queen/chocolate goddess comments start I stop all talks.

Alot of white men are offensive towards black women without even realising and wonder why none will have sex with them"

It's not too dissimilar for black men to be honest. I've had meets, not from this site, that are intrigued because of my race, and 'big black cock'

Of course not all meets and individuals are like this, but there is a degree of fetishism when it comes to many interracial encounters.

Anyway, the important question is, does your pussy taste like chocolate?

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By *eeowlsMan  over a year ago

sheffield

Had the pleasure of meeting and playing with black, mixed race, white and Asian females and found them all sexy ok maybe I have a preference but all women black white mixed race asian can be sexy in their own ways it’s all about the person x

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By *0tt0nSu3Woman  over a year ago

London


"Funny how they have all gone quiet now we are voicing our concerns "

Yeah, it's because they're looking back on their old posts.

It's not as if the subject hasn't been raised before. It has in many a thread. Women post and say the reasons why again and again, but the question still arises.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I find Most black girls don’t usually do black guys. ......

Of course you think that

Only white people seem to think everyone wants to fuck them (because they're white) whilst simultaneously asking why nobody wants to have sex with them...

The reason swinging does not attract black women is because most of you are unattractive race fetishists and losers.

U mean to tell me a site with sexually inexperienced middle aged dudes who make massive generalized statements (like the one above) doesn't attract black women? Say it ain't so... "

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By *0tt0nSu3Woman  over a year ago

London


"Had the pleasure of meeting and playing with black, mixed race, white and Asian females and found them all sexy ok maybe I have a preference but all women black white mixed race asian can be sexy in their own ways it’s all about the person x"

Totally agree.

However when you read posts which say things like

'I'd like a meet with a black woman/man, it's something I want to tick off my bucket list...'

Or

'I'd like a meet with a black girl. They just look really dirty... '

it doesn't make pleasant reading.

It seems that some fabbers regard people of colour like trinkets and not human beings.

Some have apologised. True. But it still doesn't make pleasant reading. And the fact they have have to be reminded that what they have written is not nice rankles somewhat.

Awful. Just bloody awful.

Ok, rant over.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"The reason why there are so few black women into white men is because unlike white women we have to deal with them acting like everything about us is different just because we're black

Ie -does out pussy taste like chocolate

-comments about our "black pussy"

-comments about our "booty"

-being refered to as desserts, chocolate/caramel

God forbid we actually get treated as, you know, normal female human beings.

I only meet white men for play as a choice, but the second I feel like I'm only being spoken to as if I'm some kind of check off or bucket list entry or the ebony queen/chocolate goddess comments start I stop all talks.

Alot of white men are offensive towards black women without even realising and wonder why none will have sex with them"

You gorgeous person, have hit the nail squarely on the head. I couldn't agree more with your summation.

I'm a PERSON first and foremost and not something on someone's bucket list!

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By *inkydarkness90Man  over a year ago

North West

I'd like to apologise and I hope no one was truly offended by my posts in this topic. Everyone is fabulous regardless of age, race, gender, brew to milk ratio and so on

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By *ungmagic10Man  over a year ago

Northampton

Now that you have their attention, speaking to a few shouldn't be a problem right? Good luck and enjoy!

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By *eeowlsMan  over a year ago

sheffield


"Had the pleasure of meeting and playing with black, mixed race, white and Asian females and found them all sexy ok maybe I have a preference but all women black white mixed race asian can be sexy in their own ways it’s all about the person x

Totally agree.

However when you read posts which say things like

'I'd like a meet with a black woman/man, it's something I want to tick off my bucket list...'

Or

'I'd like a meet with a black girl. They just look really dirty... '

it doesn't make pleasant reading.

It seems that some fabbers regard people of colour like trinkets and not human beings.

Some have apologised. True. But it still doesn't make pleasant reading. And the fact they have have to be reminded that what they have written is not nice rankles somewhat.

Awful. Just bloody awful.

Ok, rant over.

"

Well I must say you look very sexy on your pics the fact I’m saying that is I see a sexy female x black or not x x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"We are a mixed couple!

Snap "

I’m just mixed up!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Agree I love black girls I find them really sexy. I find mixed girls hotter than full black but that's my preference. Black girls are just sexy

Lol "

Blimey are we really doing this??? Can I introduce my slightly yellow friend into the mix with your mixed and full black girls please? I also have a slightly off tan Mate and also one who is pink and blotchy from the sun. Those honkys just never know when to give the sun a miss!

I know this isn’t tinder but has anyone considered chatting to people before deciding whether their skin will ‘do it for them’?...

Obviously not withstanding the fact that only the ‘full black’ fellas have a cock like a babies arm.....

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By *atinaBabeCouple  over a year ago

casa caliente


"Their is loads of BBC worship clubs but is their any club nights for white guys wanting to meet black girls "
I have olive skin that’s okay for you ??? Lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Agree I love black girls I find them really sexy. I find mixed girls hotter than full black but that's my preference. Black girls are just sexy

Lol

Blimey are we really doing this??? Can I introduce my slightly yellow friend into the mix with your mixed and full black girls please? I also have a slightly off tan Mate and also one who is pink and blotchy from the sun. Those honkys just never know when to give the sun a miss!

I know this isn’t tinder but has anyone considered chatting to people before deciding whether their skin will ‘do it for them’?...

Obviously not withstanding the fact that only the ‘full black’ fellas have a cock like a babies arm....."

This is funny but it’s not us you have to tell!!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"The reason why there are so few black women into white men is because unlike white women we have to deal with them acting like everything about us is different just because we're black

Ie -does out pussy taste like chocolate

-comments about our "black pussy"

-comments about our "booty"

-being refered to as desserts, chocolate/caramel

God forbid we actually get treated as, you know, normal female human beings.

I only meet white men for play as a choice, but the second I feel like I'm only being spoken to as if I'm some kind of check off or bucket list entry or the ebony queen/chocolate goddess comments start I stop all talks.

Alot of white men are offensive towards black women without even realising and wonder why none will have sex with them

You gorgeous person, have hit the nail squarely on the head. I couldn't agree more with your summation.

I'm a PERSON first and foremost and not something on someone's bucket list! "

Thank you dear x

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By *ames1763Man  over a year ago

Aberdeen

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By *ames1763Man  over a year ago

Aberdeen

I think black girls are really cool and very very beautiful.

In my opinion the reason why we don't have very many black girls on the scene is because they are already used to fucking very very big cocks with very high energy in bed from the black guys in vanilla.

Most of the black ladies already have chocolate at home so the incentive to come on the scene is not that high , although we still have quite a few black girls on the scene.

This is my opinion.

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By *isspussycatWoman  over a year ago

Bath


"The reason why there are so few black women into white men is because unlike white women we have to deal with them acting like everything about us is different just because we're black

Ie -does out pussy taste like chocolate

-comments about our "black pussy"

-comments about our "booty"

-being refered to as desserts, chocolate/caramel

God forbid we actually get treated as, you know, normal female human beings.

I only meet white men for play as a choice, but the second I feel like I'm only being spoken to as if I'm some kind of check off or bucket list entry or the ebony queen/chocolate goddess comments start I stop all talks.

Alot of white men are offensive towards black women without even realising and wonder why none will have sex with them"

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I think black girls are really cool and very very beautiful.

In my opinion the reason why we don't have very many black girls on the scene is because they are already used to fucking very very big cocks with very high energy in bed from the black guys in vanilla.

Most of the black ladies already have chocolate at home so the incentive to come on the scene is not that high , although we still have quite a few black girls on the scene.

This is my opinion."

These are exactly the type of comments I was talking about

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I also wanted to make clear that I don't play with white men from choice.

I play with men who I am attracted to and they don't have to be white. The color of a person's skin is not a criteria. Their intelligence is a criteria for me. "

That last sentence rules out most considering g the messages we get!!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I love the contrast of skin tones, but is also love a beautiful sunflower and a frosty morning.

Besides, I dislike objectification. What lies beneath, what stimulates the mind is the key.

Stating a preference is fine, but is the sun more beautiful than the moon?

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By *oiretblancCouple  over a year ago

London


"Had the pleasure of meeting and playing with black, mixed race, white and Asian females and found them all sexy ok maybe I have a preference but all women black white mixed race asian can be sexy in their own ways it’s all about the person x

Totally agree.

However when you read posts which say things like

'I'd like a meet with a black woman/man, it's something I want to tick off my bucket list...'

Or

'I'd like a meet with a black girl. They just look really dirty... '

it doesn't make pleasant reading.

It seems that some fabbers regard people of colour like trinkets and not human beings.

Some have apologised. True. But it still doesn't make pleasant reading. And the fact they have have to be reminded that what they have written is not nice rankles somewhat.

Awful. Just bloody awful.

Ok, rant over.

So..you meet a lovely guy in a club; chat, chat, drink, drink, flirt, snog...and then he says " I really fancy black girls" FUCK! Moment over.

Why oh why do white guys say this shit so much?

Chanel

xxx

"

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By *herrybaby114Couple  over a year ago

Luton

Spot on

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Preach.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I find Most black girls don’t usually do black guys. ...... "

Mmmm

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

No he is not!!

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By *ames1763Man  over a year ago

Aberdeen

Well if someone says what you don't want to hear, you check them accordingly , you don't excuse them. If am chatting to a lady and she says something I don't like, I am going to walk away from her as if she was never there.

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By *ames1763Man  over a year ago

Aberdeen

I see it like this, I don't really care what anyone thinks about me, good or bad , what am particular about is what I think about myself because my thoughts control everything about me, this is what is important in my opinion

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By *oiretblancCouple  over a year ago

London


"I see it like this, I don't really care what anyone thinks about me, good or bad , what am particular about is what I think about myself because my thoughts control everything about me, this is what is important in my opinion"

You sound just like Donald Trump...with all of his charm and concern for other people.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I see it like this, I don't really care what anyone thinks about me, good or bad , what am particular about is what I think about myself because my thoughts control everything about me, this is what is important in my opinion"

So you don't really care if black women find your comments about black women offensive or not. Right, ok

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Tattoos tess. Some people are too narrow minded. Hope their comments haven’t upset you? X

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By *0tt0nSu3Woman  over a year ago

London


"I think black girls are really cool and very very beautiful.

In my opinion the reason why we don't have very many black girls on the scene is because they are already used to fucking very very big cocks with very high energy in bed from the black guys in vanilla.

Most of the black ladies already have chocolate at home so the incentive to come on the scene is not that high , although we still have quite a few black girls on the scene.

This is my opinion."

I rest my case.

Don't even bother looking for the Green arrow....

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By *ames1763Man  over a year ago

Aberdeen

Well I mean no disrespect to anyone , If you notice at the end of my statement I said it was an opinion which means it is a thought process and not a statement of fact yet and is therefore subject to debate.

There is nothing offensive in what I stated, niether is the statement directed at anyone and it comes directly from my female friends who are black, when I invite them to parties they tell me the incentive is not really there for them cause as far as they are concerned they already have all they need in vanilla.

Now when I say black girls have chocolate at home, the chocolate I am referring to is the black guys they have at home, the black guys are the chocolate as I was told by my female friends who are black.

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By *ames1763Man  over a year ago

Aberdeen

One thing I am very careful about is people framing my narative , I always try to explain what I mean so this does not happen.

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By *ydrewMan  over a year ago

forest

I love the contrast of black skin on white it looks so sexy

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Ohhhh helllo white boys...

Have you tried a Big tight black tranny booty before????

Cum and say hi

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Well I mean no disrespect to anyone , If you notice at the end of my statement I said it was an opinion which means it is a thought process and not a statement of fact yet and is therefore subject to debate.

There is nothing offensive in what I stated, niether is the statement directed at anyone and it comes directly from my female friends who are black, when I invite them to parties they tell me the incentive is not really there for them cause as far as they are concerned they already have all they need in vanilla.

Now when I say black girls have chocolate at home, the chocolate I am referring to is the black guys they have at home, the black guys are the chocolate as I was told by my female friends who are black.

"

The only fing chocolate I have at home is a massive bag of malteasers what the!

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By *LCCCouple  over a year ago

Cambridge

Well I'm glad he explained what "chocolate" meant, because no one had a clue what he was talking about.

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By *0tt0nSu3Woman  over a year ago

London


"Well I mean no disrespect to anyone , If you notice at the end of my statement I said it was an opinion which means it is a thought process and not a statement of fact yet and is therefore subject to debate.

There is nothing offensive in what I stated, niether is the statement directed at anyone and it comes directly from my female friends who are black, when I invite them to parties they tell me the incentive is not really there for them cause as far as they are concerned they already have all they need in vanilla.

Now when I say black girls have chocolate at home, the chocolate I am referring to is the black guys they have at home, the black guys are the chocolate as I was told by my female friends who are black.

"

Are you for real?!?!

There's a planet out there for you, you adventurer.

I don't know where it is... But I think it needs to be found...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

can we just get back to the thread please. ladies step into my inbox, thanks.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

one of the best times I've had was with a black girl and her black lady friend...both as dirty as hell !

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"one of the best times I've had was with a black girl and her black lady friend...both as dirty as hell !"

ahh ffs

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"one of the best times I've had was with a black girl and her black lady friend...both as dirty as hell !

ahh ffs"

What?

jealous??

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I've dated several black women and dated them because I found them attractive and we really connected which is important for any relationship but it's also true I find black/mixed and asian women much more sexy than white women and I can't explain it but I find those races of women much more sexually arousing to me it's just my inner desire I just love the darker skin than white women and love the dark hair. Can I ask you ladies do you find it offensive that someone's sexual desire leans more towards women that are from the ethnicities I've mentioned.

I don't want to cause any offence at all by what I'm saying. I'm a very considerate person and have huge respect for other people's feelings and really do hate to offend.

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By *he girl with dreadlocksWoman  over a year ago

need to know basis in Wolverhampton

I had a guy the other week who wanted to open my pussy to see if it was pink

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I had a guy the other week who wanted to open my pussy to see if it was pink "
I've been with a few black women. The pink does stand out x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"one of the best times I've had was with a black girl and her black lady friend...both as dirty as hell !"

So handy when men make comments like this so I can block them before they bring that shit into my inbox

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I've dated several black women and dated them because I found them attractive and we really connected which is important for any relationship but it's also true I find black/mixed and asian women much more sexy than white women and I can't explain it but I find those races of women much more sexually arousing to me it's just my inner desire I just love the darker skin than white women and love the dark hair. Can I ask you ladies do you find it offensive that someone's sexual desire leans more towards women that are from the ethnicities I've mentioned.

I don't want to cause any offence at all by what I'm saying. I'm a very considerate person and have huge respect for other people's feelings and really do hate to offend. "

There's nothing at all wrong with preferring black or Asian ladies.

The problem arises when you lot make bullshit and borderline racist comments to support ýour 'preference'

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I’m mixed race... and I’ve been called all kinds of things ‘Nubian princess’ ‘Brown sugar’ ... ‘Ms. Chocolate’ .. Caramel... all sorts! By men and women, of all races...black, white and everything in between.

I pay attention to the individual and how he/she means it. If something offensive has been said but I know it’s likely that wasn’t the intention...

I give a bligh... the person may simply be ignorant or ill informed... so I’m happy to educate.

I don’t expect that a guy will notice my personality and character from across the room... or after looking at a scantily clad photo and reading a short paragraph on my profile....... so it’s fine if you’re attracted to my skin colour, hair texture.. body shape... whatever.....

I just better be into what you’ve got that’s good or I’ll send you packing

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By *musedforlifeMan  over a year ago

Scunthorpe

I really don't know what to make of this thread, I thought it was 2017 not 1917. I do know one thing though and that is there are some beautiful people who have posted

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I think black girls are really cool and very very beautiful.

In my opinion the reason why we don't have very many black girls on the scene is because they are already used to fucking very very big cocks with very high energy in bed from the black guys in vanilla.

Most of the black ladies already have chocolate at home so the incentive to come on the scene is not that high , although we still have quite a few black girls on the scene.

This is my opinion.

These are exactly the type of comments I was talking about "

Once again I have to agree with you. Although I did shake my head and laugh whilst reading his opinion. He's very entitled to it; even if it will put women off!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I’m mixed race... and I’ve been called all kinds of things ‘Nubian princess’ ‘Brown sugar’ ... ‘Ms. Chocolate’ .. Caramel... all sorts! By men and women, of all races...black, white and everything in between.

I pay attention to the individual and how he/she means it. If something offensive has been said but I know it’s likely that wasn’t the intention...

I give a bligh... the person may simply be ignorant or ill informed... so I’m happy to educate.

I don’t expect that a guy will notice my personality and character from across the room... or after looking at a scantily clad photo and reading a short paragraph on my profile....... so it’s fine if you’re attracted to my skin colour, hair texture.. body shape... whatever.....

I just better be into what you’ve got that’s good or I’ll send you packing "

Well put!

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By *urvymamaWoman  over a year ago

Doncaster


"I find Most black girls don’t usually do black guys. ......

Of course you think that

Only white people seem to think everyone wants to fuck them (because they're white) whilst simultaneously asking why nobody wants to have sex with them...

The reason swinging does not attract black women is because most of you are unattractive race fetishists and losers.

U mean to tell me a site with sexually inexperienced middle aged dudes who make massive generalized statements (like the one above) doesn't attract black women? Say it ain't so... "

You mean the way you just racially generalised all white people after a comment from one set of them

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"can we just get back to the thread please. ladies step into my inbox, thanks."

I seriously enjoyed the inventive use of a wet t-shirt! Kudos young man

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By *urvymamaWoman  over a year ago

Doncaster


"The reason why there are so few black women into white men is because unlike white women we have to deal with them acting like everything about us is different just because we're black

Ie -does out pussy taste like chocolate

-comments about our "black pussy"

-comments about our "booty"

-being refered to as desserts, chocolate/caramel

God forbid we actually get treated as, you know, normal female human beings.

I only meet white men for play as a choice, but the second I feel like I'm only being spoken to as if I'm some kind of check off or bucket list entry or the ebony queen/chocolate goddess comments start I stop all talks.

Alot of white men are offensive towards black women without even realising and wonder why none will have sex with them"

We fat women can get approached in similar ways that make us feel like a fetish, in fact just calling me a BBW does that, even though I know it’s just them using the widely excepted term for a bigger lady like myself.

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By *urvymamaWoman  over a year ago

Doncaster


"I think black girls are really cool and very very beautiful.

In my opinion the reason why we don't have very many black girls on the scene is because they are already used to fucking very very big cocks with very high energy in bed from the black guys in vanilla.

Most of the black ladies already have chocolate at home so the incentive to come on the scene is not that high , although we still have quite a few black girls on the scene.

This is my opinion."

Oh what total bollocks

As per usual from you

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"The reason why there are so few black women into white men is because unlike white women we have to deal with them acting like everything about us is different just because we're black

Ie -does out pussy taste like chocolate

-comments about our "black pussy"

-comments about our "booty"

-being refered to as desserts, chocolate/caramel

God forbid we actually get treated as, you know, normal female human beings.

I only meet white men for play as a choice, but the second I feel like I'm only being spoken to as if I'm some kind of check off or bucket list entry or the ebony queen/chocolate goddess comments start I stop all talks.

Alot of white men are offensive towards black women without even realising and wonder why none will have sex with them

We fat women can get approached in similar ways that make us feel like a fetish, in fact just calling me a BBW does that, even though I know it’s just them using the widely excepted term for a bigger lady like myself.

"

I appreciate that but as a fat black woman myself I can tell you it's no where near the same. X

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By *ames1763Man  over a year ago

Aberdeen

I am very good when it comes to conversation as am sure you must have noticed, I never respond directly to anyone because when you do that , you give them the lead in the conversation and subject yourself to their control, I never do that.

I really understand it far beyond what the ladies think and am on their side , I do not agree with their mode of operations sometimes, lack of teamwork and lack of a code of conduct, which is very evident on the other side of the fence. My opinions stem from a small number of girls who are my friends, the ideal thing to do is debunk it intellectually working within a code of conduct, I know it's all in parables and requires subsurface thinking lol.

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By *ydrewMan  over a year ago

forest


"The reason why there are so few black women into white men is because unlike white women we have to deal with them acting like everything about us is different just because we're black

Ie -does out pussy taste like chocolate

-comments about our "black pussy"

-comments about our "booty"

-being refered to as desserts, chocolate/caramel

God forbid we actually get treated as, you know, normal female human beings.

I only meet white men for play as a choice, but the second I feel like I'm only being spoken to as if I'm some kind of check off or bucket list entry or the ebony queen/chocolate goddess comments start I stop all talks.

Alot of white men are offensive towards black women without even realising and wonder why none will have sex with them

We fat women can get approached in similar ways that make us feel like a fetish, in fact just calling me a BBW does that, even though I know it’s just them using the widely excepted term for a bigger lady like myself.

I appreciate that but as a fat black woman myself I can tell you it's no where near the same. X"

Would never describe you as fat xx

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By *urvymamaWoman  over a year ago

Doncaster


"The reason why there are so few black women into white men is because unlike white women we have to deal with them acting like everything about us is different just because we're black

Ie -does out pussy taste like chocolate

-comments about our "black pussy"

-comments about our "booty"

-being refered to as desserts, chocolate/caramel

God forbid we actually get treated as, you know, normal female human beings.

I only meet white men for play as a choice, but the second I feel like I'm only being spoken to as if I'm some kind of check off or bucket list entry or the ebony queen/chocolate goddess comments start I stop all talks.

Alot of white men are offensive towards black women without even realising and wonder why none will have sex with them

We fat women can get approached in similar ways that make us feel like a fetish, in fact just calling me a BBW does that, even though I know it’s just them using the widely excepted term for a bigger lady like myself.

I appreciate that but as a fat black woman myself I can tell you it's no where near the same. X"

I can only imagine that’s why I’d used the term similar because I know I can’t fully relate. I can only speak from my own personal experiences x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I've dated several black women and dated them because I found them attractive and we really connected which is important for any relationship but it's also true I find black/mixed and asian women much more sexy than white women and I can't explain it but I find those races of women much more sexually arousing to me it's just my inner desire I just love the darker skin than white women and love the dark hair. Can I ask you ladies do you find it offensive that someone's sexual desire leans more towards women that are from the ethnicities I've mentioned.

I don't want to cause any offence at all by what I'm saying. I'm a very considerate person and have huge respect for other people's feelings and really do hate to offend. "

There's nothing at all wrong with preferring black or Asian ladies.

The problem arises when you lot make bullshit and borderline racist comments to support ýour 'preference'

Re this reply. We're you referring to me.

What in my post is racist. I'm no racist.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I've dated several black women and dated them because I found them attractive and we really connected which is important for any relationship but it's also true I find black/mixed and asian women much more sexy than white women and I can't explain it but I find those races of women much more sexually arousing to me it's just my inner desire I just love the darker skin than white women and love the dark hair. Can I ask you ladies do you find it offensive that someone's sexual desire leans more towards women that are from the ethnicities I've mentioned.

I don't want to cause any offence at all by what I'm saying. I'm a very considerate person and have huge respect for other people's feelings and really do hate to offend. "

There's nothing at all wrong with preferring black or Asian ladies.

The problem arises when you lot make bullshit and borderline racist comments to support ýour 'preference'

Re this reply. We're you referring to me.

What in my post is racist. I'm no racist."

I never said anything in your post was racist. You asked a question which I answered.

The fact that you've got so defensive says more about you than it does about me

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

This fascinates me, everyone is entitled to their opinions but in the end it is down the connection and the colour of skin is irrelevant.

Have fun and be happy.....positive energy!!

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By *abioMan  over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"I think black girls are really cool and very very beautiful.

In my opinion the reason why we don't have very many black girls on the scene is because they are already used to fucking very very big cocks with very high energy in bed from the black guys in vanilla.

Most of the black ladies already have chocolate at home so the incentive to come on the scene is not that high , although we still have quite a few black girls on the scene.

This is my opinion."

really..... my god you talk some shit and just about managed to hit every box on my "stereotypes bingo" card......

so much ignorance in so few words.... its like a gift!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I've dated several black women and dated them because I found them attractive and we really connected which is important for any relationship but it's also true I find black/mixed and asian women much more sexy than white women and I can't explain it but I find those races of women much more sexually arousing to me it's just my inner desire I just love the darker skin than white women and love the dark hair. Can I ask you ladies do you find it offensive that someone's sexual desire leans more towards women that are from the ethnicities I've mentioned.

I don't want to cause any offence at all by what I'm saying. I'm a very considerate person and have huge respect for other people's feelings and really do hate to offend. "

There's nothing at all wrong with preferring black or Asian ladies.

The problem arises when you lot make bullshit and borderline racist comments to support ýour 'preference'

Re this reply. We're you referring to me.

What in my post is racist. I'm no racist."

I never said anything in your post was racist. You asked a question which I answered.

The fact that you've got so defensive says more about you than it does about me.

your reply referring to as you lot is what I find a bit strong and yes I am been defensive because your implying me in that comment.

Your comment is very generalizing and lacks any thought or consideration to us in here are trying to be sensible.

I'm no racist and I take offence to how you put your reply.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I've dated several black women and dated them because I found them attractive and we really connected which is important for any relationship but it's also true I find black/mixed and asian women much more sexy than white women and I can't explain it but I find those races of women much more sexually arousing to me it's just my inner desire I just love the darker skin than white women and love the dark hair. Can I ask you ladies do you find it offensive that someone's sexual desire leans more towards women that are from the ethnicities I've mentioned.

I don't want to cause any offence at all by what I'm saying. I'm a very considerate person and have huge respect for other people's feelings and really do hate to offend. "

There's nothing at all wrong with preferring black or Asian ladies.

The problem arises when you lot make bullshit and borderline racist comments to support ýour 'preference'

Re this reply. We're you referring to me.

What in my post is racist. I'm no racist."

I never said anything in your post was racist. You asked a question which I answered.

The fact that you've got so defensive says more about you than it does about me.

your reply referring to as you lot is what I find a bit strong and yes I am been defensive because your implying me in that comment.

Your comment is very generalizing and lacks any thought or consideration to us in here are trying to be sensible.

I'm no racist and I take offence to how you put your reply. "

I wasn't referring you and as I've already said I never said anything in your post was racist.

When I said "you lot" I meant white men which is the topic at hand no?

You can take all the offence you want because I never once said nor implied that you are racist. So if you want to cry about it that's on you x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

The problem arises when you lot make bullshit and borderline racist comments to support ýour 'preference'

Erm excuse me read again the comment you put.

Think again.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

What does a person's skin tone matter your either attracted to the person or not ,just like their age should not matter as long as they are old enough to play and both parties are mutually attracted to the other age, colour,size or religious beliefs should not come into the equation all that matters is that you want to spend time with one another

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"The problem arises when you lot make bullshit and borderline racist comments to support ýour 'preference'

Erm excuse me read again the comment you put.

Think again."

"You lot" ie white men which is the subject we're talking about

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I personally have no hangups who I meet or who messages me as long as we have a mutual attraction it's all good and if a lovely lady of a different race wanted to get to know me and I felt the same where's the harm

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

By the way Tess love the pics very hot miss x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I don't ever think about it

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By *ames1763Man  over a year ago

Aberdeen

Please do not throw any personal insults at my door, I do not disrespect anyone niether do I accept any kind of disrespect .

The definition of an opinion for the sake of information is a "view or judgement formed about something not necessary based on fact".

Therefore an opinion is not a statement of fact and therefore no license for anyone to result to disrespect.

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By *0tt0nSu3Woman  over a year ago

London


"Please do not throw any personal insults at my door, I do not disrespect anyone niether do I accept any kind of disrespect .

The definition of an opinion for the sake of information is a "view or judgement formed about something not necessary based on fact".

Therefore an opinion is not a statement of fact and therefore no license for anyone to result to disrespect."

So it's ok for you to disrespect black people by calling them 'chocolate' it's it?

How insulting is that?

You should not go around casting insults if you cannot handle them yourself, should you?

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By *urvymamaWoman  over a year ago

Doncaster


"Please do not throw any personal insults at my door, I do not disrespect anyone niether do I accept any kind of disrespect .

The definition of an opinion for the sake of information is a "view or judgement formed about something not necessary based on fact".

Therefore an opinion is not a statement of fact and therefore no license for anyone to result to disrespect."

Most of what you’ve said in this thread as been disrespectful

You just don’t see it

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By *eeowlsMan  over a year ago

sheffield

I must agree with one of the above post wow there is some sexy looking females posted on the thread,

Black ,white or mixed race, wow some stunning sexy ladies xx

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I got about 10 comments down and realised the importance of political correctness regarding certain topics.

Yes, I am attracted to black women.

I'm also attracted to mixed women.

White women, Asian women. Basically, I'm attracted to women.

Equally, for me race/colour does not even remotely affect how that person is treated. Within some cultures and religions there's obviously things that you may have to be more sensitive about but that's it.

I don't even know where to go with this discussion.

I will add, despite it not being my place not particularly anyone else's to say. From personal experience I have noticed that some black men do present themselves as maybe a little entitled by their title of bbc. But once again, some.

I have also seen entitled white men too.

Entitlement or not, it is not appropriate to be pushy and that is one thing that should be discussed more on fab. People need to be respectful of the decisions of those they wish to play with.

I have witnessed a man forcing himself on a woman who felt uncomfortable in his presence. Guys, keep your hands to yourself unless asked to touch!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I had a guy the other week who wanted to open my pussy to see if it was pink "
lmao omg.... can i have a taste to see if its strawberry or rasberry

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I am curious though, what would people's perceptions be of a white man / black woman event?

I can understand that it may be perceived as inappropriate and racially insensitive but someone earlier had a point by it not being questioned having black guy only events. I don't know, I'm having an ethical dilemma right now.

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By *urvymamaWoman  over a year ago

Doncaster


"I am curious though, what would people's perceptions be of a white man / black woman event?

I can understand that it may be perceived as inappropriate and racially insensitive but someone earlier had a point by it not being questioned having black guy only events. I don't know, I'm having an ethical dilemma right now.

"

They do them already BWFC events, they just don’t have the reputation for being as popular as BMFC events

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I am curious though, what would people's perceptions be of a white man / black woman event?

I can understand that it may be perceived as inappropriate and racially insensitive but someone earlier had a point by it not being questioned having black guy only events. I don't know, I'm having an ethical dilemma right now.

They do them already BWFC events, they just don’t have the reputation for being as popular as BMFC events "

Didn't realise that was a thing!

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By *ames1763Man  over a year ago

Aberdeen

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"This is what I don't like , when people try to frame my narrative , trying to twist what I say for personal gain.

How is saying black guys are sweet like chocolate a disrespect to black people, am black and extremely proud and greatful to to be black.

Most black guys have very big cocks to a large degree and are very good in bed and know how to satify their women, how is that a disrespect? "

You did just add a racial stereotype to your own race.

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By *ames1763Man  over a year ago

Aberdeen

This is what I don't like , when people try to frame my narrative , trying to twist what I say for personal gain.

How is saying black guys are sweet like chocolate a disrespect to black people, am black and extremely proud and greatful to be black. I consider myself very very lucky to be black.

Most black guys have very big cocks to a large degree and are very good in bed and know how to satify their women, how is that a disrespect?

I am not into disrespecting anyone , black is sweet and black is beautiful , this is my position.

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By *ngel_screwballCouple  over a year ago

Birmingham

What annoys me is if we had a white man's fan club or white womans fan club, then it would be classed as being racist. To be quite honest it is a joke!!!!!

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By *urvymamaWoman  over a year ago

Doncaster


"This is what I don't like , when people try to frame my narrative , trying to twist what I say for personal gain.

How is saying black guys are sweet like chocolate a disrespect to black people, am black and extremely proud and greatful to be black. I consider myself very very lucky to be black.

Most black guys have very big cocks to a large degree and are very good in bed and know how to satify their women, how is that a disrespect?

I am not into disrespecting anyone , black is sweet and black is beautiful , this is my position."

Do yourself a favour

Just put down the shovel mate

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I find Most black girls don’t usually do black guys. ......

Of course you think that

Only white people seem to think everyone wants to fuck them (because they're white) whilst simultaneously asking why nobody wants to have sex with them...

The reason swinging does not attract black women is because most of you are unattractive race fetishists and losers.

U mean to tell me a site with sexually inexperienced middle aged dudes who make massive generalized statements (like the one above) doesn't attract black women? Say it ain't so...

What a pair of idiotic comments. I don’t think anyone will ever be qualified to speak for an entire race of people. If you think you are qualified you are wrong.

People like all kinds of things. Some may be into it some are into other things across the whole spectrum.

There will never be a definitive that will apply to all. I’ve dated black girls, white girls and mixed raced girls and people are more similar then they are different.

Mr Superfreak is qualified to speak for us all

He is a very intelligent man"

i'm keeping my gob shut lol.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"The reason why there are so few black women into white men is because unlike white women we have to deal with them acting like everything about us is different just because we're black

Ie -does out pussy taste like chocolate

-comments about our "black pussy"

-comments about our "booty"

-being refered to as desserts, chocolate/caramel

God forbid we actually get treated as, you know, normal female human beings.

I only meet white men for play as a choice, but the second I feel like I'm only being spoken to as if I'm some kind of check off or bucket list entry or the ebony queen/chocolate goddess comments start I stop all talks.

Alot of white men are offensive towards black women without even realising and wonder why none will have sex with them

We fat women can get approached in similar ways that make us feel like a fetish, in fact just calling me a BBW does that, even though I know it’s just them using the widely excepted term for a bigger lady like myself.

"

I was gonna put something similar. Hate it when guys say to me that I'm on their bucket list or there mate has dared them to fuck the biggest woman they can find.

Some guys have openly said I'm their fetish.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Some of the comments on here

I'm pansexual, it's the person I'm attracted to, not what colour or race they are or even what they have in between their legs.

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By *LCCCouple  over a year ago

Cambridge


"Some of the comments on here

I'm pansexual, it's the person I'm attracted to, not what colour or race they are or even what they have in between their legs.

"

You pervert, you leave my pots and pans alone.

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By *ames1763Man  over a year ago

Aberdeen

So I thought, when it comes to pointing out what exactly is the disrespect , people will be quiet or deflect from the subject matter, am not into arguments , plus my comments are just opinions.

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By *urvymamaWoman  over a year ago

Doncaster


"So I thought, when it comes to pointing out what exactly is the disrespect , people will be quiet or deflect from the subject matter, am not into arguments , plus my comments are just opinions.

"

And you’re opinions are a combination of disrespectful and non sensical

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By *0tt0nSu3Woman  over a year ago

London


"So I thought, when it comes to pointing out what exactly is the disrespect , people will be quiet or deflect from the subject matter, am not into arguments , plus my comments are just opinions.

"

I HAVE pointed out how I felt disrespected. I certainly have not been quiet not deflected from the subject.

Your comments ARE disrespectful.

As one poster just said, just put down the shovel mate. Just put the shovel down.

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By *urvymamaWoman  over a year ago

Doncaster


"So I thought, when it comes to pointing out what exactly is the disrespect , people will be quiet or deflect from the subject matter, am not into arguments , plus my comments are just opinions.

And you’re opinions are a combination of disrespectful and non sensical

"

Some are also condescending you’re that much of a “charmer”

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By *ames1763Man  over a year ago

Aberdeen

As I stated earlier I mean no disrespect, I am not holding any Shovel so there is no Shovel to put down .

How can a blessing and a compliment be deemed offensive when the comment is an opinion and relay of information from a small group of people and not directed at anyone.

I can see the clearly the severity of the damage and I really feel for guys , how do they cope anyway s I rest my case.

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By *s_bettyboopWoman  over a year ago

-3


"I had a guy the other week who wanted to open my pussy to see if it was pink lmao omg.... can i have a taste to see if its strawberry or rasberry "

Ffs I get this one all the time..

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

well this has turned into a load of bollocks. goodnight

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Haven’t read any of the above but black women do it for me. Completely. I love them

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

The last time I replied to thread like this a black woman insulted me in a pm and blocked me before I could reply. It was a thread about black women who only wanted to meet white men. Asking who wanted to meet them and criticising BMFC.

Because people did not read my previous response properly I will say upfront: I really don't care who sleeps with whom. If a black woman is only attracted to white guys, go for it, noone has the right to criticise attraction. If a white guy is attracted to black women, follow your desire. That goes for attraction between all genders, races and all legal desires.

However what does annoy me is the criticism of interracial parties and BMFC. I quickly realised that the non interracial parties were predominantly white man only and I stopped going to them. I had more fun at interracial parties.

The people who criticise BMFC and interracial parties have not been to them. The wonderful people hosting these parties are very clear that they are open to all races and colours, noone is excluded. Secondly there is normally a split of between 70% black men to 30% white men even 50/50, this is because a number of women attend with their white male partners. The reason why you don't find many single white men at the parties is the same reason you won't find many single men at lesbian swinging event. However if a woman wants a white man there dozens of parties to attend. Therefore there is no need for a specific White Man Fan Club, particularly if the attraction is about black women. The true corrollary of BMFC would be a black woman fan club, but I suspect the point of WMFC is to exclude the black men and not to honour black women and all the men who find them attractive.

My view is that the people who wanted to have interracial parties set up their own parties. I don't see anyone on here committing the time, money and effort to do so for parties based around black women and white men. Are people complaining about Cougars and cubs or Candy girls for example. The people who want their interest satisfied set their own parties up. People who want some thing go for it. I remember a white guy at Rios who admitted he adored black women. He would come up from Devon and go to Chams Birmingham Xstasia and Rios. But he was also funny and a character. He had a changing room of black guys howling with laughter. I had the feeling he would be charming and not gauche like some of the comments on this thread.

The people complaining about the lack of black women are not getting out and about I have chatted at a club to at least two of the lady contributors and have spoken to other black women at various clubs. As this thread shows there is a decent number on of black women on the scene who are attracted to white man. So to use a phrase from my youth: "You have to come correct".

My final point is in regard to the thread I referenced at the top of my comments did it actually spur any parties or club nights?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"What annoys me is if we had a white man's fan club or white womans fan club, then it would be classed as being racist. To be quite honest it is a joke!!!!! "
it would only be racist it was a white only allowed in night.... the fanclubs are for everyone but there is a preference of what people are looking for...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I had a guy the other week who wanted to open my pussy to see if it was pink lmao omg.... can i have a taste to see if its strawberry or rasberry

Ffs I get this one all the time.. "

that's totally shocking

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"The last time I replied to thread like this a black woman insulted me in a pm and blocked me before I could reply. It was a thread about black women who only wanted to meet white men. Asking who wanted to meet them and criticising BMFC.

Because people did not read my previous response properly I will say upfront: I really don't care who sleeps with whom. If a black woman is only attracted to white guys, go for it, noone has the right to criticise attraction. If a white guy is attracted to black women, follow your desire. That goes for attraction between all genders, races and all legal desires.

However what does annoy me is the criticism of interracial parties and BMFC. I quickly realised that the non interracial parties were predominantly white man only and I stopped going to them. I had more fun at interracial parties.

The people who criticise BMFC and interracial parties have not been to them. The wonderful people hosting these parties are very clear that they are open to all races and colours, noone is excluded. Secondly there is normally a split of between 70% black men to 30% white men even 50/50, this is because a number of women attend with their white male partners. The reason why you don't find many single white men at the parties is the same reason you won't find many single men at lesbian swinging event. However if a woman wants a white man there dozens of parties to attend. Therefore there is no need for a specific White Man Fan Club, particularly if the attraction is about black women. The true corrollary of BMFC would be a black woman fan club, but I suspect the point of WMFC is to exclude the black men and not to honour black women and all the men who find them attractive.

My view is that the people who wanted to have interracial parties set up their own parties. I don't see anyone on here committing the time, money and effort to do so for parties based around black women and white men. Are people complaining about Cougars and cubs or Candy girls for example. The people who want their interest satisfied set their own parties up. People who want some thing go for it. I remember a white guy at Rios who admitted he adored black women. He would come up from Devon and go to Chams Birmingham Xstasia and Rios. But he was also funny and a character. He had a changing room of black guys howling with laughter. I had the feeling he would be charming and not gauche like some of the comments on this thread.

The people complaining about the lack of black women are not getting out and about I have chatted at a club to at least two of the lady contributors and have spoken to other black women at various clubs. As this thread shows there is a decent number on of black women on the scene who are attracted to white man. So to use a phrase from my youth: "You have to come correct".

My final point is in regard to the thread I referenced at the top of my comments did it actually spur any parties or club nights?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I would love a night like this

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Jesus, this took a very dark turn. I agree with the most recent novel.

I also have no issue with events and whatnot, as they are there to serve a purpose and it is unlikely they would ever be with a discriminative agenda.

I do hate how many do seem to fetishise a race though, but have no judgement for those who do.

White women have the right to prefer black men, as do white men have the right to prefer black women. Vice versa, blah. It's boring. Racism is bad and any race can be discriminated against. That is all.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

And all I was doing was looking for a club night

What a post this has turned out to be lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Erm so did we find any clubs lol lol lol (?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Reds are discriminated too oh and blondes lol

shhhh!!

Wouldn't want to open a can of worms....

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Erm so did we find any clubs lol lol lol (? "

Erm.., not really

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Black Red White

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Are London clubs more likely to have more black women? Saying that there are a few of us at Chams bbw nights

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Darker the Cherry the sweeter the juice "

Hell, YES!

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