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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago
Wherever the party is! |
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If it's being advertised then I'm guessing there's a high chance of the club knowing about it. As for if they are ok with it? Not sure why they would care either way. As far as I know it's still legal to have bareback sex with someone. There are at least a couple of instances where it 'may' be illegal but I'm sure you can work that out for yourself.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The Cock/condom police!! We are all responsible adults I think!! People are aware of the dangers involved!! So if people wanna play bareback let them. The club is not gonna be blamed for any problems that might happen from it. It's between the people involved. |
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By *otgirl32Woman
over a year ago
Ashton Under Lyne |
Several years ago I got chewed out by the hostess at a local club for having BB sex with 2 guys. Later on turned on that one of the blokes was her lover and she flipped out. Stopped going to clubs after that I only go to house parties. I am told things have changed but clubs WERE dumping their sense of morality on others. Reality is consenting adults should do what they want at sex clubs it's no body's business (as long as legal) |
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By *etsome OP Man
over a year ago
birmingham |
"Sorry to interrupt your play but I’m the club police. Please stand with your hands on your head so I can inspect your cock for a condom.
It could work?  "
I'm not complaining about it. I intend to help fill her up |
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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago
Wherever the party is! |
"Sorry to interrupt your play but I’m the club police. Please stand with your hands on your head so I can inspect your cock for a condom.
It could work?
I'm not complaining about it. I intend to help fill her up"
Thanks for helping to advertise the event...oh...wait a minute... |
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By *D40Couple
over a year ago
Wolverhampton |
"Sorry to interrupt your play but I’m the club police. Please stand with your hands on your head so I can inspect your cock for a condom.
It could work?
I'm not complaining about it. I intend to help fill her up
Thanks for helping to advertise the event...oh...wait a minute..."
Thank heavens for the local clap clinic is all i can say....... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It happens a lot in clubs. A few years ago we were in a couoles room on a couples night and everyone in there was playing bare. We assumed they all knew each other and just played with each other and watched.
After we talked and they had all met for the first time that night...
So it does happen.. And like grown adults you decide if you want to partake or pass it by x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We always bareback with each other in clubs no one has ever asked if we are a couple and nor are they likely to at any club ? "
 Im sure most couples dont use condoms together. |
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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago
Wherever the party is! |
"We always bareback with each other in clubs no one has ever asked if we are a couple and nor are they likely to at any club ? Im sure most couples dont use condoms together. "
Omg, I thought everyone missed that!   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I believe clubs have a responsibility to promote safe sex and they do so by ensuring condoms are available (well every club I have been in). Some even have nights where sexual health testing is available. Beyond this it is up to the individual to choose. How can clubs police bareback activity, it would be impossible and also intrusive. |
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It would be very hard to force we are a self-confessed bareback couple we don't like condoms as my partner is allergic however we try to be as careful as we can normally we select guys that we have been chatting to for days or weeks to meet us at clubs or we go for guys that carry condoms with them but we feel they would be the guys that we feel safe to get carried away with, We have adopted a process where we get tested every month as which most people I know in this scene who play bareback at clubs do also |
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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago
Wherever the party is! |
"It would be very hard to force we are a self-confessed bareback couple we don't like condoms as my partner is allergic however we try to be as careful as we can normally we select guys that we have been chatting to for days or weeks to meet us at clubs or we go for guys that carry condoms with them but we feel they would be the guys that we feel safe to get carried away with, We have adopted a process where we get tested every month as which most people I know in this scene who play bareback at clubs do also"
Latex free condoms tho.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Swing Clubs promote safe sex, I think it in licence, sex clubs are very rigid about it, certain times certain rooms tho lol"
above providing condoms that's and some having clinics available.. never been to a club thays rigid about it.
I'm allergic to condoms and a lot of lube used in them. So just take my own latex free and ones we know im okay with. Does make it awkward at a party as I need everyone too use latex free as just having worn one can affect me |
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OP never been at a club that did anything other than recommend safe sex.
Your health is important to them but they can't reasonably tell consenting adults what to do in the context of a adult members club.
Lots of people play bareback in clubs.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I once got yelled at by a club owner because he THOUGHT I had played B.B. I hadn’t and don’t. But what the hell had it to do with him .....never set foot in the place again....  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sorry to interrupt your play but I’m the club police. Please stand with your hands on your head so I can inspect your cock for a condom.
It could work? "
If your doing this cani come watch |
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"Not for me in clubs and I would consider not playing with someone if they were playing bb"
You see bareback a lot in clubs, but much will be between couples rather than with meets.
Not all want to do full swap, so just because there are several people, it doesn't mean they are having unprotected sex with a stranger... Even if they are, that's their business not mine.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sorry to interrupt your play but I’m the club police. Please stand with your hands on your head so I can inspect your cock for a condom.
It could work? "
Hilarious  |
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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago
Cambridge |
"Sorry to interrupt your play but I’m the club police. Please stand with your hands on your head so I can inspect your cock for a condom.
It could work? "
Do you make house calls too? |
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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago
harrow |
"Not for me in clubs and I would consider not playing with someone if they were playing bb
You see bareback a lot in clubs, but much will be between couples rather than with meets.
Not all want to do full swap, so just because there are several people, it doesn't mean they are having unprotected sex with a stranger... Even if they are, that's their business not mine.
Nita"
Sorry I mean swapping bb just to clarify |
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"Sorry to interrupt your play but I’m the club police. Please stand with your hands on your head so I can inspect your cock for a condom.
It could work?
I'm not complaining about it. I intend to help fill her up
Thanks for helping to advertise the event...oh...wait a minute...
Thank heavens for the local clap clinic is all i can say......."
if it was only clap we had to worry about that would be bad and not too bad, why would anyone play Russian roulette with their lives  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"someone is advertising a bareback meeting in a club. she wants to be filled up.
would the club be aware of this and would they be ok with it?"
If the people involved consent to it then let them. If you don't consent to it then wear a condom. Simple.
The club has absolutely zero say in the activities between consenting adults. Their duty of care is covered as long as there are condoms provided. |
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"if it was only clap we had to worry about that would be bad and not too bad, why would anyone play Russian roulette with their lives "
That must be something of a record.
I've never seen a bb thread last this long without some 'sense of perspective' challenged person mentioning russian roulette. |
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"It is quite common in clubs.... I have had quite a few bareback meets with both guys and girls....only way to play for me "
Not for us but I salute anyone prepared to be honest about this and let others choose if they want to play with you
I am however wondering what your secret is - it sounds a bit creepy  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It is quite common in clubs.... I have had quite a few bareback meets with both guys and girls....only way to play for me
Not for us but I salute anyone prepared to be honest about this and let others choose if they want to play with you
I am however wondering what your secret is - it sounds a bit creepy "
Creepy? It is something I share if a meet is on the cards |
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"It is quite common in clubs.... I have had quite a few bareback meets with both guys and girls....only way to play for me
Not for us but I salute anyone prepared to be honest about this and let others choose if they want to play with you
I am however wondering what your secret is - it sounds a bit creepy
Creepy? It is something I share if a meet is on the cards"
Yes bordering on sinister. Just my opinion |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It is quite common in clubs.... I have had quite a few bareback meets with both guys and girls....only way to play for me
Not for us but I salute anyone prepared to be honest about this and let others choose if they want to play with you
I am however wondering what your secret is - it sounds a bit creepy
Creepy? It is something I share if a meet is on the cards
Yes bordering on sinister. Just my opinion "
Yes, opinions are just that..... |
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"if it was only clap we had to worry about that would be bad and not too bad, why would anyone play Russian roulette with their lives
That must be something of a record.
I've never seen a bb thread last this long without some 'sense of perspective' challenged person mentioning russiarn roulette."
As someone else has pointed out, the Russian roulette is an incredibly bad analogy. That gives you a one in six chance of certain death.
If you are a man and have vaginal sex with someone who is hiv positive your chances of infection are 0.04%. If you are a woman having vaginal sex with an infected man it's 0.08. The number of adults in the UK with hiv is 0.16%.
Thus, in theory. Your chances of getting hiv in a random bareback encounter are around 0.01%.
Obviously, it's also the case that your odds will significantly increase if you keep doing bareback, but the risks of getting hiv will still be very low.
A better analogy would be crossing a deserted road in the Scottish Highlands without looking both ways. It's possible a car may come speeding round the corner and hit you, but it's very unlikely. The more times you do it, the more likely it becomes, but it remains unlikely. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sorry to interrupt your play but I’m the club police. Please stand with your hands on your head so I can inspect your cock for a condom.
It could work?
I'm not complaining about it. I intend to help fill her up
Thanks for helping to advertise the event...oh...wait a minute...
Thank heavens for the local clap clinic is all i can say.......if it was only clap we had to worry about that would be bad and not too bad, why would anyone play Russian roulette with their lives "
Ah the classic line of russian roulette! Cannot have a BB post without it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If someone wants to have BB in a club thats up to them and their decision.
I cant see a club policing it as we are all "adults" and consenting and lets be honest it goes on not like it doesnt
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"don't be daft don't be silly ware a condom on your Willy ....
What? I’ve been taking taking 2 condoms with a glass of water 15-20 minutes before sex! "
make it 3 glasses  |
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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago
Cambridge |
"don't be daft don't be silly ware a condom on your Willy ....
What? I’ve been taking taking 2 condoms with a glass of water 15-20 minutes before sex!
make it 3 glasses "
Then I'm protected from everything? I mean come on, think people. Why would they make them flavoured if you're meant to put them on your Willy? |
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"Biggest spreader of gonnareah is a blow job. Don’t see many condom bjs in clubs. "
What about going down on a woman without protection? Just a thought, take it us guys can catch some std's with such acts also.
Does anyone know stats etc on this? |
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"Biggest spreader of gonnareah is a blow job. Don’t see many condom bjs in clubs.
What about going down on a woman without protection? Just a thought, take it us guys can catch some std's with such acts also.
Does anyone know stats etc on this? "
just read up on the stats it doesn't say what the percentage are but the common ones you are likely to get are syphilis, gonorrhoea and genital herpes, that's all it said not saying you cannot catch anything else but those are the most common . |
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"One thing confuses me...if clubs promote safe sex why charge people for condoms as many do now?
Surely the profit motive shouldn't enter into a sexual health debate?"
Because they were being supplied by nhs free of charge to some clubs and now they are no longer so the club can no longer offer them free of charge. Take responsibility for your own sex-life I say and bring your own! |
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It's not feasible for clubs to police this. We do play with others at clubs (always protected), but we also play with each other in playrooms, and obviously we don't need protection then. But how would a casual observer know this? |
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By *ancduoCouple
over a year ago
Manchester |
All clubs promote safe sex. Stupid not to. But they can’t enforce it as it’s personal choice. I prefer bare. But I’d never force anyone to go bare with me. I respect their wishes just as much as I expect mine if I don’t want fisting or something.
But. If you dare to bare, at least get tested regularly. For your own peace of mind at least.
We used to be regular club goers. No one asked us to go bare. They just assumed condoms were expected. And I liked that. No pressure. Most people are responsible and respectful. It’s just personal choice. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's not feasible for clubs to police this. We do play with others at clubs (always protected), but we also play with each other in playrooms, and obviously we don't need protection then. But how would a casual observer know this?"
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"Several years ago I got chewed out by the hostess at a local club for having BB sex with 2 guys. Later on turned on that one of the blokes was her lover and she flipped out. Stopped going to clubs after that I only go to house parties. I am told things have changed but clubs WERE dumping their sense of morality on others. Reality is consenting adults should do what they want at sex clubs it's no body's business (as long as legal)"
Her problem not yours! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Madness, sheer madness. Some people just seem to be hell bent on self destruction. Is the thrill of having bare back sex worth the possibility of contracting an STI or HIV , surely not ? Don't people think or care for that matter of the fallout ie death , pain of bereavement and financial hardship to loved ones including children omfg unbelievable. This is EXACTLY why we would NEVER take anyone's word that the are still or HIV free. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We are talking safe sex here so regardless of whether they use condoms or not together then they will be using condoms with swinging partners so why on earth does it matter whether they do or don't use condoms when having sex as a couple? ??? |
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By *ucy LewdWoman
over a year ago
North Oxfordshire |
"Should couples who wish to play in clubs with others use a condom when playing with each other prior to other contact. Just wondering what everyone prefers."
I don't really want to play with women who have played bare with men earlier that evening, including their partners. I don't want someone else's jizz on me really. Out of politeness my partner and I always use condoms at clubs, even if we don't at home. Plus it's just less messy afterwards and keeps he club more hygienic. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Should couples who wish to play in clubs with others use a condom when playing with each other prior to other contact. Just wondering what everyone prefers.
I don't really want to play with women who have played bare with men earlier that evening, including their partners. I don't want someone else's jizz on me really. Out of politeness my partner and I always use condoms at clubs, even if we don't at home. Plus it's just less messy afterwards and keeps he club more hygienic."
We have never( nor would we ) used condoms together in a club and never once had anyone have an issue... but then we mostly play with like minded people and that for us means other women that love to get facials or swap cum with our mouths. We tend to not finish each other off till we are ready to leave though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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What people do in a club is amongst consenting adults and not breaking any club rules.
Bareback goes on have seen it plenty of times at clubs where people have swapped partners and barebacked each other.
What people do is their personal preference not for anyone to criticise.
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By *roticaCouple
over a year ago
Gloucestershire |
We go bareback as a couple but never with anyone else. Only been to a club a couple of times and on my first visit a chap tried to shove his unprotected willy inside me while my back was turned. What was interesting was the reaction of the other single chaps. They were cross with the chap and pulled him off saying it was not right! They checked i was ok and alienated the chap for the rest of the night. So maybe there are unwritten rules and morals in clubs!  |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL |
"someone is advertising a bareback meeting in a club. she wants to be filled up.
would the club be aware of this and would they be ok with it?"
So back to the original post.. I'm sure the club is aware of it, all they can do is promote safe sex they can't enforce it between consenting adults. So all the Russian Roulette type posts on here are totally unnecessary, it comes down to personal choice between the people involved. It's not for us to judge as this is going off topic. |
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