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 . It's really worked well, I've got absolutely nothing against anyone single there last time a lady was having a wail of a time, an we saw a 4 some with a single guy and a lady who's husband had to leave.
I just don't go there to be a free sex show, they stand on the side of the pool or in the doorway wanking, I don't understand this. They watch us from outside in the garden doing it which is amusing because they can't possibly see much bless em.
Do we think single women would do the same there NO of course not. Bit of self respect at times surely must come into it? | |||
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"We reported Jabba when we were leaving and he was known to them as was touchy hot tub. I know the staff would have spoken to them as I can't speak more highly of the staff, I would have told Jabba exactly what I thought if I had known what he was doing wen my husband told him to leave us alone. I've found a great way of letting them know we aren't interested when they come over in the pool by changing our conversation to how we aren't interested in others etc and what we talk about turns us on at the same time so winner . It's really worked well, I've got absolutely nothing against anyone single there last time a lady was having a wail of a time, an we saw a 4 some with a single guy and a lady who's husband had to leave.
I just don't go there to be a free sex show, they stand on the side of the pool or in the doorway wanking, I don't understand this. They watch us from outside in the garden doing it which is amusing because they can't possibly see much bless em.
Do we think single women would do the same there NO of course not. Bit of self respect at times surely must come into it?"Not slating this club but we have noticed the standard of single guys is not as good as it was and we maybe wrong but it does seem a lot of workmen. We have had a Cpl of times where we have been pestered alan gives them a very firm warning to clear off then depending on the situation he takes matters into his own hands Hot tub / pool he gets the guy by the balls and makes his eyes pop out they seem to leave us alone then. One guy said harder lol we did have a laugh. But we should not tar all singles with the same brush but we do think a lot thing they have paid so your all on the menu. Shame really but that's life | |||
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"Just to put it out there... us larger fellas don't much like the term Jabba. Regardless that behaviour is never acceptable. Why do people think being at a club means it's any less assault without consent!" I’d live with it if I got Princess Leia just saying | |||
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"Just to put it out there... us larger fellas don't much like the term Jabba. Regardless that behaviour is never acceptable. Why do people think being at a club means it's any less assault without consent!" I'm not sizest at all we all come in different shapes and sizes I described this man alone as that as he was utterly repulsive in every single way possible with zero redeeming factors ! I'm actually more than often in absolute awe and probably even jealous of the larger ladies at clubs because of their body confidence and their sexiness because I used to be anorexic and a size 6/8, but due to becoming disabled I've got bigger due to medication and hate it BUT I've got massive tits so I've decided to live with it ! It's these clubs that have given me more confidence ! So please don't think I'm being horrible about larger people as we are all attractive in our own ways but not him ! | |||
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"We hate this club.......single men should not be allowed in.i don't care how much they pay...... we're looking to swing, not be creeped out by them following you everywhere , even into the toilets. "Sorry so swinging is couples only is it - hmmmmmm | |||
"We hate this club.......single men should not be allowed in.i don't care how much they pay...... we're looking to swing, not be creeped out by them following you everywhere , even into the toilets.
Sorry so swinging is couples only is it - hmmmmmm
"I have to be honest mate; reading your verifications is the only reason I have considered visiting another club, after my two previous lack-lustre/off-putting experiences as a single guy in a club. Possibly the only positive I've drawn from this particular thread  | |||
"We hate this club.......single men should not be allowed in.i don't care how much they pay...... we're looking to swing, not be creeped out by them following you everywhere , even into the toilets.
Sorry so swinging is couples only is it - hmmmmmm
"There are some that believe that for sure. Came across the same attitude in PDI September 2016. | |||
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"We hate this club.......single men should not be allowed in.i don't care how much they pay...... we're looking to swing, not be creeped out by them following you everywhere , even into the toilets.
Sorry so swinging is couples only is it - hmmmmmm
I have to be honest mate; reading your verifications is the only reason I have considered visiting another club, after my two previous lack-lustre/off-putting experiences as a single guy in a club. Possibly the only positive I've drawn from this particular thread "I will be honest and say I have got it wrong sometimes as well. A couple that you think are interest you make a sexual move to be told no sorry, or been asked to leave a room because one couple isn’t happy with a. Single guy in group play. Someone asked me to be quiet on Saturday, when talking as I was a bit loud, tbh I didn’t think I was at the time and the guy that said had a bit to drink, I just thought well maybe I was. Also I have the opposite when not made a move and been told I should have as they were interested. It’s not easy the swinging world for both couples, females and males | |||
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"We hate this club.......single men should not be allowed in.i don't care how much they pay...... we're looking to swing, not be creeped out by them following you everywhere , even into the toilets.
Sorry so swinging is couples only is it - hmmmmmm
I have to be honest mate; reading your verifications is the only reason I have considered visiting another club, after my two previous lack-lustre/off-putting experiences as a single guy in a club. Possibly the only positive I've drawn from this particular thread
I will be honest and say I have got it wrong sometimes as well. A couple that you think are interest you make a sexual move to be told no sorry, or been asked to leave a room because one couple isn’t happy with a. Single guy in group play.
Someone asked me to be quiet on Saturday, when talking as I was a bit loud, tbh I didn’t think I was at the time and the guy that said had a bit to drink, I just thought well maybe I was.
Also I have the opposite when not made a move and been told I should have as they were interested.
It’s not easy the swinging world for both couples, females and males "It's over an hour's drive for me, to any club, which makes it easy to decide not to bother in the first place | |||
We like going to Clubs with single guys there, the dynamic is much more interesting as Couples can be a bit slower to ‘get going’.
So what should a guy do? Talk first in the bar area or somewhere other than when you see a couple starting to get jiggy. We look for personality, humour, flirtiness, average to fit bodies, reasonable/interesting looks and finally whether or not they have a cock! But they have to have made an effort to say hi first! It really is not that difficult  | |||
"It is over an hours drive for us to go to Clubs and that is fine. We don’t play locally, so it is part of the event - we either drive there and back or stay over. We have never had a problem with anyone in Clubs, but if we did the staff would know straight away & they could resolve it. If they didn’t, then we wouldn’t return and we’d leave a review to that effect! We have been to AbFabs and had a great time - several times
We like going to Clubs with single guys there, the dynamic is much more interesting as Couples can be a bit slower to ‘get going’.
So what should a guy do? Talk first in the bar area or somewhere other than when you see a couple starting to get jiggy. We look for personality, humour, flirtiness, average to fit bodies, reasonable/interesting looks and finally whether or not they have a cock! But they have to have made an effort to say hi first! It really is not that difficult "All points noted | |||
"We hate this club.......single men should not be allowed in.i don't care how much they pay...... we're looking to swing, not be creeped out by them following you everywhere , even into the toilets. "Alot of males from couples can be just as bad maybe couples should not be let in either. | |||
"It is over an hours drive for us to go to Clubs and that is fine. We don’t play locally, so it is part of the event - we either drive there and back or stay over. We have never had a problem with anyone in Clubs, but if we did the staff would know straight away & they could resolve it. If they didn’t, then we wouldn’t return and we’d leave a review to that effect! We have been to AbFabs and had a great time - several times
We like going to Clubs with single guys there, the dynamic is much more interesting as Couples can be a bit slower to ‘get going’.
So what should a guy do? Talk first in the bar area or somewhere other than when you see a couple starting to get jiggy. We look for personality, humour, flirtiness, average to fit bodies, reasonable/interesting looks and finally whether or not they have a cock! But they have to have made an effort to say hi first! It really is not that difficult
All points noted "  | |||
"We hate this club.......single men should not be allowed in.i don't care how much they pay...... we're looking to swing, not be creeped out by them following you everywhere , even into the toilets.
Alot of males from couples can be just as bad maybe couples should not be let in either."Actually this as well!!!! | |||
"It is over an hours drive for us to go to Clubs and that is fine. We don’t play locally, so it is part of the event - we either drive there and back or stay over. We have never had a problem with anyone in Clubs, but if we did the staff would know straight away & they could resolve it. If they didn’t, then we wouldn’t return and we’d leave a review to that effect! We have been to AbFabs and had a great time - several times
We like going to Clubs with single guys there, the dynamic is much more interesting as Couples can be a bit slower to ‘get going’.
So what should a guy do? Talk first in the bar area or somewhere other than when you see a couple starting to get jiggy. We look for personality, humour, flirtiness, average to fit bodies, reasonable/interesting looks and finally whether or not they have a cock! But they have to have made an effort to say hi first! It really is not that difficult
All points noted
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"Single men puts me off going to the club" ...just this one?  | |||
"It is over an hours drive for us to go to Clubs and that is fine. We don’t play locally, so it is part of the event - we either drive there and back or stay over. We have never had a problem with anyone in Clubs, but if we did the staff would know straight away & they could resolve it. If they didn’t, then we wouldn’t return and we’d leave a review to that effect! We have been to AbFabs and had a great time - several times
We like going to Clubs with single guys there, the dynamic is much more interesting as Couples can be a bit slower to ‘get going’.
So what should a guy do? Talk first in the bar area or somewhere other than when you see a couple starting to get jiggy. We look for personality, humour, flirtiness, average to fit bodies, reasonable/interesting looks and finally whether or not they have a cock! But they have to have made an effort to say hi first! It really is not that difficult "You’re right, it’s not that difficult!!! | |||
"Single men puts me off going to the club" You are only looking for women according to your profile so that’s understandable. | |||
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"within i a handful of twunks there is another handful of nice respectful men Dont run away from them or hide behind your husband say NO and if they try again report to the staff x" No means no, and the staff are very quick to act on a complaint. | |||
"It’s a shame you’ve had this experience. I often go as a single female and never have any issues. When I have been with male friends and we didn't want to involve others, we made it clear and everyone has been perfectly ok with it and left us to it. Wanking at a distance happens. You’ll never stop it and just have to ignore it and take the compliment that whatever you are up to is obviously hot! Letting staff know ASAP is the key, not on your way home, as what bothers you may not bother others around you. Each to their own and all that! Personally, I’d be lost without the banter of the single guys there and anyway, without their huge entrance fee the club wouldn’t survive (said in jest before you all start picking on me!) "Many a true word said in jest.......... | |||
We are really new first went to VA in July, and i've always been overly shy but not now! These men have no right to behave this way towards anyone just because they've paid 50 quid or whatever !
Being in a pool naked is awesome, and it's blatant that we are only interested in each other sexually ! When we go to VA we actually had the entire hot tube room stop and watch us, including 4 somes the full hot tub, it was amazing and surreal and probably wont happen again, so its not like we don't like being watched.
We had never encountered single men before, but we have spoken to so many lovely people there. But they are like stalking couples up and down, in and out of rooms. I'm like just Fuck off will you ! | |||
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"I've had some very nice experiences with single guys at kestrels and hoping for some more tomorrow B x"Shame I can’t make it otherwise I would have liked to say hello | |||
"Hello everyone, It will be my first time at Jaydees this Saturday Night, After reading this I'm now worried! I don't want to annoy anyone. I was simply going to hopefully make friends try and put faces to names, any been here? Or going fancy giving me a heads up? Please X" Hope you’ve been practising walking on eggshells all week lol? After reading through this thread, I’m sure I’m not the only one interested to hear how you get on mate. | |||
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"I'm not being funny are you gay mate we're just into each other ( me & my wife) and just like to be left alone mate " Who was this directed at? | |||
"Hello everyone, It will be my first time at Jaydees this Saturday Night, After reading this I'm now worried! I don't want to annoy anyone. I was simply going to hopefully make friends try and put faces to names, any been here? Or going fancy giving me a heads up? Please X Hope you’ve been practising walking on eggshells all week lol? After reading through this thread, I’m sure I’m not the only one interested to hear how you get on mate. "No need to walk on eggshells... its a lovely club and one of the friendliest. | |||
"I've had some very nice experiences with single guys at kestrels and hoping for some more tomorrow B x" | |||
"Hello everyone, It will be my first time at Jaydees this Saturday Night, After reading this I'm now worried! I don't want to annoy anyone. I was simply going to hopefully make friends try and put faces to names, any been here? Or going fancy giving me a heads up? Please X Hope you’ve been practising walking on eggshells all week lol? After reading through this thread, I’m sure I’m not the only one interested to hear how you get on mate.
No need to walk on eggshells... its a lovely club and one of the friendliest. "I’m sure you, as a couple, always have a great time. But single guys in clubs don’t have it as easy, which is how this thread started. Granted, there are those who don’t behave well, but the main problem is that guys tend to be tarred by the same brush | |||
"Hello everyone, It will be my first time at Jaydees this Saturday Night, After reading this I'm now worried! I don't want to annoy anyone. I was simply going to hopefully make friends try and put faces to names, any been here? Or going fancy giving me a heads up? Please X Hope you’ve been practising walking on eggshells all week lol? After reading through this thread, I’m sure I’m not the only one interested to hear how you get on mate.
No need to walk on eggshells... its a lovely club and one of the friendliest.
I’m sure you, as a couple, always have a great time. But single guys in clubs don’t have it as easy, which is how this thread started. Granted, there are those who don’t behave well, but the main problem is that guys tend to be tarred by the same brush "We understand that, we have come across single guys that we really like and those which didnt as much. Some of the nice guys happened to be a few wankers in the VA hottub lol they where there talking to us and just playing with themselves, whilst we put on a show 
And we always have fun | |||
"I'm not being funny are you gay mate we're just into each other ( me & my wife) and just like to be left alone mate Who was this directed at? " it was mike because he said he had some nice experiences with single guys | |||
"I'm not being funny are you gay mate we're just into each other ( me & my wife) and just like to be left alone mate Who was this directed at? it was mike because he said he had some nice experiences with single guys" What a very odd thing to say!! Just weird | |||
"I'm not being funny are you gay mate we're just into each other ( me & my wife) and just like to be left alone mate Who was this directed at? it was mike because he said he had some nice experiences with single guys What a very odd thing to say!! Just weird" not really | |||
"I'm not being funny are you gay mate we're just into each other ( me & my wife) and just like to be left alone mate Who was this directed at? it was mike because he said he had some nice experiences with single guys" Ahh, he quoted an earlier post from a woman, and was answering her, if you see what I mean | |||
"Hello everyone, It will be my first time at Jaydees this Saturday Night, After reading this I'm now worried! I don't want to annoy anyone. I was simply going to hopefully make friends try and put faces to names, any been here? Or going fancy giving me a heads up? Please X Hope you’ve been practising walking on eggshells all week lol? After reading through this thread, I’m sure I’m not the only one interested to hear how you get on mate.
No need to walk on eggshells... its a lovely club and one of the friendliest.
I’m sure you, as a couple, always have a great time. But single guys in clubs don’t have it as easy, which is how this thread started. Granted, there are those who don’t behave well, but the main problem is that guys tend to be tarred by the same brush
We understand that, we have come across single guys that we really like and those which didnt as much. Some of the nice guys happened to be a few wankers in the VA hottub lol they where there talking to us and just playing with themselves, whilst we put on a show
And we always have fun "Yep, anyone can see, when they look down the club listing reviews, that couples and single women generally have a great time at clubs. It's roughly 1 in every 10th review from a single guy, which usually coincides with a Greedy Girl or BMFC event, where single guys are actively sought | |||
"Hello everyone, It will be my first time at Jaydees this Saturday Night, After reading this I'm now worried! I don't want to annoy anyone. I was simply going to hopefully make friends try and put faces to names, any been here? Or going fancy giving me a heads up? Please Hope you’ve been practising walking on eggshells all week lol? After reading through this thread, I’m sure I’m not the only one interested to hear how you get on mate.
No need to walk on eggshells... its a lovely club and one of the friendliest.
I’m sure you, as a couple, always have a great time. But single guys in clubs don’t have it as easy, which is how this thread started. Granted, there are those who don’t behave well, but the main problem is that guys tend to be tarred by the same brush
We understand that, we have come across single guys that we really like and those which didnt as much. Some of the nice guys happened to be a few wankers in the VA hottub lol they where there talking to us and just playing with themselves, whilst we put on a show
And we always have fun
Yep, anyone can see, when they look down the club listing reviews, that couples and single women generally have a great time at clubs. It's roughly 1 in every 10th review from a single guy, which usually coincides with a Greedy Girl or BMFC event, where single guys are actively sought "Its difficult for single guys of course it is. However we have invited single guys to clubs with the intention to play and had a fair few not turn up lol | |||
"I'm not being funny are you gay mate we're just into each other ( me & my wife) and just like to be left alone mate Who was this directed at? it was mike because he said he had some nice experiences with single guys What a very odd thing to say!! Just weird not really " Yes really! Mike wasnt even addressing you! And dont get me started on the rest of the content of that post! " are you gay mate?" seriously? | |||
"I'm not being funny are you gay mate we're just into each other ( me & my wife) and just like to be left alone mate " Not as far as I know, and tbh if you read my profile it clearly states I am straight . Also would bring gay or bi be an issue?
Also if I was to approach you I certainly wouldn’t now as the way you have come across on this thread is actually quiet off putting.
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"I'm not being funny are you gay mate we're just into each other ( me & my wife) and just like to be left alone mate Not as far as I know, and tbh if you read my profile it clearly states I am straight . Also would bring gay or bi be an issue?
Also if I was to approach you I certainly wouldn’t now as the way you have come across on this thread is actually quiet off putting.
"It sure is. Quite unpleasant and unnecessary | |||
"I'm not being funny are you gay mate we're just into each other ( me & my wife) and just like to be left alone mate Not as far as I know, and tbh if you read my profile it clearly states I am straight . Also would bring gay or bi be an issue? i havent got a issue gay or straight we just dont like being wanked at
Also if I was to approach you I certainly wouldn’t now as the way you have come across on this thread is actually quiet off putting.
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"I've had some very nice experiences with single guys at kestrels and hoping for some more tomorrow B x
Shame I can’t make it otherwise I would have liked to say hello "sorry mike i read it wrong apologies | |||
"I've had some very nice experiences with single guys at kestrels and hoping for some more tomorrow B x
Shame I can’t make it otherwise I would have liked to say hello sorry mike i read it wrong apologies"im abit fucked sorry | |||
"I've had some very nice experiences with single guys at kestrels and hoping for some more tomorrow B x
Shame I can’t make it otherwise I would have liked to say hello sorry mike i read it wrong apologiesim abit fucked sorry"Come back when you're sober maybe? Homophobic comments wont win you any friends around here | |||
"I've had some very nice experiences with single guys at kestrels and hoping for some more tomorrow B x
Shame I can’t make it otherwise I would have liked to say hello sorry mike i read it wrong apologiesim abit fucked sorry
im not homophopic my son is gay
Come back when you're sober maybe?
Homophobic comments wont win you any friends around here" | |||
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"we are not homophobic we have a gay son we do nt want to be aproched by anyone and we do not want to be wanked at and were not sayig all single men do it fair enough watch from distance not 1 foot away from us wanking if ppl wanted them to be close then they be invited no invite stay away" Oakie doke. Your son is gay? Well then you'll understand how inappropriate your comment was Or not As I said, best to come back onto the forums when you're sober | |||
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"Hello everyone, It will be my first time at Jaydees this Saturday Night, After reading this I'm now worried! I don't want to annoy anyone. I was simply going to hopefully make friends try and put faces to names, any been here? Or going fancy giving me a heads up? Please Hope you’ve been practising walking on eggshells all week lol? After reading through this thread, I’m sure I’m not the only one interested to hear how you get on mate.
No need to walk on eggshells... its a lovely club and one of the friendliest.
I’m sure you, as a couple, always have a great time. But single guys in clubs don’t have it as easy, which is how this thread started. Granted, there are those who don’t behave well, but the main problem is that guys tend to be tarred by the same brush
We understand that, we have come across single guys that we really like and those which didnt as much. Some of the nice guys happened to be a few wankers in the VA hottub lol they where there talking to us and just playing with themselves, whilst we put on a show
And we always have fun
Yep, anyone can see, when they look down the club listing reviews, that couples and single women generally have a great time at clubs. It's roughly 1 in every 10th review from a single guy, which usually coincides with a Greedy Girl or BMFC event, where single guys are actively sought
Its difficult for single guys of course it is. However we have invited single guys to clubs with the intention to play and had a fair few not turn up lol"I answered a ‘club meet tonight’ from a woman who was going to the club I had chosen for my first ever visit, sent her a friendly message explaining I would be there, it was my first time, and I would be nervous etc, and included my face pic. She read my message, checked out my profile, but did not reply. She was there on the night, recognised me, but avoided me all night, even turning her head when I tried to catch her eye. Fair enough. In September, I answered another woman who was looking for a guy to accompany her to Pandora’s, and as I was staying over that weekend, I jumped at the chance, sending her a nice message, included face pics again. Once more, message read, and ignored. I went for a curry and beers with mates instead, probably a better night all round | |||
"Hello everyone, It will be my first time at Jaydees this Saturday Night, After reading this I'm now worried! I don't want to annoy anyone. I was simply going to hopefully make friends try and put faces to names, any been here? Or going fancy giving me a heads up? Please Hope you’ve been practising walking on eggshells all week lol? After reading through this thread, I’m sure I’m not the only one interested to hear how you get on mate.
No need to walk on eggshells... its a lovely club and one of the friendliest.
I’m sure you, as a couple, always have a great time. But single guys in clubs don’t have it as easy, which is how this thread started. Granted, there are those who don’t behave well, but the main problem is that guys tend to be tarred by the same brush
We understand that, we have come across single guys that we really like and those which didnt as much. Some of the nice guys happened to be a few wankers in the VA hottub lol they where there talking to us and just playing with themselves, whilst we put on a show
And we always have fun
Yep, anyone can see, when they look down the club listing reviews, that couples and single women generally have a great time at clubs. It's roughly 1 in every 10th review from a single guy, which usually coincides with a Greedy Girl or BMFC event, where single guys are actively sought
Its difficult for single guys of course it is. However we have invited single guys to clubs with the intention to play and had a fair few not turn up lol
I answered a ‘club meet tonight’ from a woman who was going to the club I had chosen for my first ever visit, sent her a friendly message explaining I would be there, it was my first time, and I would be nervous etc, and included my face pic. She read my message, checked out my profile, but did not reply. She was there on the night, recognised me, but avoided me all night, even turning her head when I tried to catch her eye. Fair enough. In September, I answered another woman who was looking for a guy to accompany her to Pandora’s, and as I was staying over that weekend, I jumped at the chance, sending her a nice message, included face pics again. Once more, message read, and ignored. I went for a curry and beers with mates instead, probably a better night all round "Clue... she did not reply to message, she probably did not want to send out the wrong message by talking to you at the club. Yes does appear somewhat rude, as a hello and i have a meet organised tonight but nice talking to you etc could have been a better way of dealing with it. Us personally would be upfront and say in response to your message, hi come say hi if we are interested. (Which im sure she would have, if she was interested) But dont forget the golden rule on fabs, no reply is a polite no thanks! | |||
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"Hello everyone, It will be my first time at Jaydees this Saturday Night, After reading this I'm now worried! I don't want to annoy anyone. I was simply going to hopefully make friends try and put faces to names, any been here? Or going fancy giving me a heads up? Please Hope you’ve been practising walking on eggshells all week lol? After reading through this thread, I’m sure I’m not the only one interested to hear how you get on mate.
No need to walk on eggshells... its a lovely club and one of the friendliest.
I’m sure you, as a couple, always have a great time. But single guys in clubs don’t have it as easy, which is how this thread started. Granted, there are those who don’t behave well, but the main problem is that guys tend to be tarred by the same brush
We understand that, we have come across single guys that we really like and those which didnt as much. Some of the nice guys happened to be a few wankers in the VA hottub lol they where there talking to us and just playing with themselves, whilst we put on a show
And we always have fun
Yep, anyone can see, when they look down the club listing reviews, that couples and single women generally have a great time at clubs. It's roughly 1 in every 10th review from a single guy, which usually coincides with a Greedy Girl or BMFC event, where single guys are actively sought
Its difficult for single guys of course it is. However we have invited single guys to clubs with the intention to play and had a fair few not turn up lol
I answered a ‘club meet tonight’ from a woman who was going to the club I had chosen for my first ever visit, sent her a friendly message explaining I would be there, it was my first time, and I would be nervous etc, and included my face pic. She read my message, checked out my profile, but did not reply. She was there on the night, recognised me, but avoided me all night, even turning her head when I tried to catch her eye. Fair enough. In September, I answered another woman who was looking for a guy to accompany her to Pandora’s, and as I was staying over that weekend, I jumped at the chance, sending her a nice message, included face pics again. Once more, message read, and ignored. I went for a curry and beers with mates instead, probably a better night all round
Clue... she did not reply to message, she probably did not want to send out the wrong message by talking to you at the club. Yes does appear somewhat rude, as a hello and i have a meet organised tonight but nice talking to you etc could have been a better way of dealing with it.
Us personally would be upfront and say in response to your message, hi come say hi if we are interested. (Which im sure she would have, if she was interested)
But dont forget the golden rule on fabs, no reply is a polite no thanks!"As much as I would love it to be, I don't think the club scene is for me. I'll give it one last chance with a club visit I have planned for January, and I am genuinely keeping an open, an unexpectant, mind, but then leave it at that | |||
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"Can we all agree that people go to clubs for different things. - some couples want to be watched, others don't. some couples want conversation, others don't. For some consent is allowing a touch on the leg, for others it isn't. For some it's couples for couples, for others, it isn't. We can't assume everyone else knows our preferences! For sure people who don't take NO for an answer, in any context should be reported (and ultimately banned).. for those who don't want to interact with single men, you do have a choice to go on a strict couples night. I don't think there's a need to make this about men of a certain shape or ethnicity. Poor behaviour can be addressed and should be, regardless of who does it. " | |||
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"Can we all agree that people go to clubs for different things. - some couples want to be watched, others don't. some couples want conversation, others don't. For some consent is allowing a touch on the leg, for others it isn't. For some it's couples for couples, for others, it isn't. We can't assume everyone else knows our preferences! For sure people who don't take NO for an answer, in any context should be reported (and ultimately banned).. for those who don't want to interact with single men, you do have a choice to go on a strict couples night. I don't think there's a need to make this about men of a certain shape or ethnicity. Poor behaviour can be addressed and should be, regardless of who does it. " Nicely and concisely said...As a single male day time visitor I can only say that I've had and am having great fun with like-minded couples and single ladies...Sorry that some male lack the ability to take 'No' for answer...Sipping pink bubbly in the jacuzzi and enjoying the naked beautiful ladies is orgasmic experience on it's own. Everything else is just a bonus - a feast for the senses and the soul. Kestrel to me, still offers best and most friendly atmosphere... Cheers... | |||
"Had alot of fun with some sweet, attractive and very talented single guys today. They were polite, respectful and showed me a great time. B x" | |||
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"I'm not sure why any single men go there, to be honest. £60 and it seems no better or worse than other non-selective swinging clubs. Perhaps the excessive price has an effect on the guys it does attract, possibly feeling that they have to extract some kind of "value for money"? " Daytime single guy price is £40 for a member. | |||
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"We reported Jabba when we were leaving and he was known to them as was touchy hot tub. I know the staff would have spoken to them as I can't speak more highly of the staff, I would have told Jabba exactly what I thought if I had known what he was doing wen my husband told him to leave us alone. I've found a great way of letting them know we aren't interested when they come over in the pool by changing our conversation to how we aren't interested in others etc and what we talk about turns us on at the same time so winner . It's really worked well, I've got absolutely nothing against anyone single there last time a lady was having a wail of a time, an we saw a 4 some with a single guy and a lady who's husband had to leave.
I just don't go there to be a free sex show, they stand on the side of the pool or in the doorway wanking, I don't understand this. They watch us from outside in the garden doing it which is amusing because they can't possibly see much bless em.
Do we think single women would do the same there NO of course not. Bit of self respect at times surely must come into it?"Do you know what I nearly punch one of them European boys and Ive seen them alot coming in groups.what happened was i chatting with a couple in the swimming pool one of them idiots came straight towards the lady without saying anything he grabs her Tits...I was fumed grab him on the throat and said to him....WTF you doing.....he said ..please Mr, please Mr, ,,no fight please. I said to him...go away before i do something bad to you...he went early that night as I report it to the staff and said to them....please don't let this kind of people in.so he got thrown out that evening. | |||
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"If anyone makes you uncomfortable and is persistent when you've said no report them to the staff. They would speak to them. We've seen them remove people " Yes the staff take any complaints seriously. | |||
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"For me and I think this is where I can see where there are issues and I have always said this It’s black and white that you don’t go and grab someone either cock, pussy, boob etc also standing back not doing anything means you don’t offend someone The grey area and after reading this thread and other threads is where you have been chatting in a jacuzzi and someone has touched a leg or arm. Now if the couple are unhappy move the hand away and say thank you but no thank you. Now some will say you should ask and me to an extent included however some couples will feel that because you haven’t shown an interest that your not I Intreasted in them. Or another grey area is when a couple are playing in open room and your watching some like them men to take the lead but won’t invite, some like to just be watched. I can understand how communication can be misunderstood. It is not easy for a single guy in situations like this, and I think this is probably slightly easier for couples, I am going to raise a question a lot of couples saying they don’t want single guys wanking over them, how would they feel if a couple was wanking over them male and female would that be a difference ?" And this is what I mean when I talk about single guys having to walk on eggshells. It’s far easier just using Fab to arrange private meets guys, you know the person or couple is actually interested in you, and want you to be there | |||
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no it's not a rude at all, in fact it's a valid question which i can understand. We ended up here because back in May this year i was painfully shy, whereby i wouldn't even change in front of my own husband, obviously sex was different. But we watched a flashing video and thought we would give it a whirl, and we did and tried dogging with no touching of course, first time amazing, daytime on the grass, 2nd 3rd absolutely shit for me!
I wanted something more, we decided same room own couple sex, hence here, didn't happen so we ended up at VA, on our 4th visit around 50 people in the hot tub room stopped what they were doing including 4somes and watched just us in the hot tub, i didn't know until i lay back in the water and saw, it was the most horny thing i'd ever experienced and i still regret not telling him to fuck me on the side and i would have cum in front of them all. So it's not that we don't like being watched because we do, it's the way its done i guess. We love Kestrells, we don't mind being watched, but like i said how about respecting us and what about some self respect.
it's not all the single men and it's like others have said, a lot of the foreign men are the issue for others. I don't appreciate being touched someone said on here about men not knowing where they are as we chatted to him in the tub that's exactly how he knew NOT to touch me! We chatted to some lovely single men there. We don't judge anyone until they behave in such a way they should be! | |||
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"hi, It's Louisa i'm back no it's not a rude at all, in fact it's a valid question which i can understand. We ended up here because back in May this year i was painfully shy, whereby i wouldn't even change in front of my own husband, obviously sex was different. But we watched a flashing video and thought we would give it a whirl, and we did and tried dogging with no touching of course, first time amazing, daytime on the grass, 2nd 3rd absolutely shit for me!
I wanted something more, we decided same room own couple sex, hence here, didn't happen so we ended up at VA, on our 4th visit around 50 people in the hot tub room stopped what they were doing including 4somes and watched just us in the hot tub, i didn't know until i lay back in the water and saw, it was the most horny thing i'd ever experienced and i still regret not telling him to fuck me on the side and i would have cum in front of them all. So it's not that we don't like being watched because we do, it's the way its done i guess. We love Kestrells, we don't mind being watched, but like i said how about respecting us and what about some self respect.
it's not all the single men and it's like others have said, a lot of the foreign men are the issue for others. I don't appreciate being touched someone said on here about men not knowing where they are as we chatted to him in the tub that's exactly how he knew NOT to touch me! We chatted to some lovely single men there. We don't judge anyone until they behave in such a way they should be!"As you say there are some lovely single men there. | |||
"hi, It's Louisa i'm back no it's not a rude at all, in fact it's a valid question which i can understand. We ended up here because back in May this year i was painfully shy, whereby i wouldn't even change in front of my own husband, obviously sex was different. But we watched a flashing video and thought we would give it a whirl, and we did and tried dogging with no touching of course, first time amazing, daytime on the grass, 2nd 3rd absolutely shit for me!
I wanted something more, we decided same room own couple sex, hence here, didn't happen so we ended up at VA, on our 4th visit around 50 people in the hot tub room stopped what they were doing including 4somes and watched just us in the hot tub, i didn't know until i lay back in the water and saw, it was the most horny thing i'd ever experienced and i still regret not telling him to fuck me on the side and i would have cum in front of them all. So it's not that we don't like being watched because we do, it's the way its done i guess. We love Kestrells, we don't mind being watched, but like i said how about respecting us and what about some self respect.
it's not all the single men and it's like others have said, a lot of the foreign men are the issue for others. I don't appreciate being touched someone said on here about men not knowing where they are as we chatted to him in the tub that's exactly how he knew NOT to touch me! We chatted to some lovely single men there. We don't judge anyone until they behave in such a way they should be!
As you say there are some lovely single men there. ". Only to say hello to tho because me and my Mrs are to busy to chat shit to them only time we got time is when we're having a fag Geof | |||
"hi, It's Louisa i'm back no it's not a rude at all, in fact it's a valid question which i can understand. We ended up here because back in May this year i was painfully shy, whereby i wouldn't even change in front of my own husband, obviously sex was different. But we watched a flashing video and thought we would give it a whirl, and we did and tried dogging with no touching of course, first time amazing, daytime on the grass, 2nd 3rd absolutely shit for me!
I wanted something more, we decided same room own couple sex, hence here, didn't happen so we ended up at VA, on our 4th visit around 50 people in the hot tub room stopped what they were doing including 4somes and watched just us in the hot tub, i didn't know until i lay back in the water and saw, it was the most horny thing i'd ever experienced and i still regret not telling him to fuck me on the side and i would have cum in front of them all. So it's not that we don't like being watched because we do, it's the way its done i guess. We love Kestrells, we don't mind being watched, but like i said how about respecting us and what about some self respect.
it's not all the single men and it's like others have said, a lot of the foreign men are the issue for others. I don't appreciate being touched someone said on here about men not knowing where they are as we chatted to him in the tub that's exactly how he knew NOT to touch me! We chatted to some lovely single men there. We don't judge anyone until they behave in such a way they should be!
As you say there are some lovely single men there. . Only to say hello to tho because me and my Mrs are to busy to chat shit to them only time we got time is when we're having a fag Geof "So non-smoker single guys take note! | |||
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" We did have a giggle once tho. Another couple were getting fed up with the attention so we decided on a game. We sat in one room, they in another. They started playing and when they got the meerkats they stopped and we started. The meerkats all ran to our room so we stopped and they started. We called it wank tennis lol. Naughty but we were all so frustrated that day." That's hilarious! I can imagine the gaggle of blokes running between rooms to the Benny Hill music
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"Can we all agree that people go to clubs for different things. - some couples want to be watched, others don't. some couples want conversation, others don't. For some consent is allowing a touch on the leg, for others it isn't. For some it's couples for couples, for others, it isn't. We can't assume everyone else knows our preferences! For sure people who don't take NO for an answer, in any context should be reported (and ultimately banned).. for those who don't want to interact with single men, you do have a choice to go on a strict couples night. I don't think there's a need to make this about men of a certain shape or ethnicity. Poor behaviour can be addressed and should be, regardless of who does it. " | |||
