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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hey guys im not new to the swinging scene but ive never been to a club before. Id love to go to one but id like to know what to expect.
Please no piss takes as im genuinely interested in trying this.
What is normally worn? What normally happens? Do you have full sex there or meet and go elsewhere? Do you get to choose if you arent interested in playing etc?
If someone could give me a step by step of a typical night in one of the club's that would be amazing! |
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1-you pay and go in
2-you either head to the bar (if there is one), a big common room, or the changing rooms (for dress down places, or to change into whatever you've brought with you, if you aren't wearing it already).
---choice of dress depends on the club, so call in advance if you aren't sure. Most places, a nice short black dress and heels seems to be good. Be sure to ask, when you call, if there's a themed event that night so you dress accordingly.
3-You chat with people, check out all the rooms/areas available, flirt as much or as little as you like.
4-You play when and only if you like. There's no compulsion to play with ANYONE, and if anyone pressures you or bothers you in a way you don't like, report it to staff, they'll take care of it.
5-You are there for YOUR pleasure, not to please anyone else, so do whatever you like! (within club rules)
---call ahead to see if you should bring your own bottle or if drinks are sold there.
---post on here to tell people where you're going and when, it's nice to have a chat beforehand with people going the same night and possibly meet up to show you around and introduce you to the regulars.
--HAVE FUN. |
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