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over a year ago
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Just looking for some general advise from other forum members/club goer’s
I’m new to the whole swinging scene and apart from a few conversations on here I’ve not yet met anyone in person. From what I have read and been told by people I’ve spoken to going to a club would be the best way to a) introduce my self and be verified and b) have a little fun.
My question is what was your first experience at a club and if you were to give any advise what you it be? |
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"Go dressed smart and smelling nice try and be confident and make the effort to chat too many single men sit in the corner and get forgotten don't go with any expectations and just enjoy yourself x"
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"Go dressed smart and smelling nice try and be confident and make the effort to chat too many single men sit in the corner and get forgotten don't go with any expectations and just enjoy yourself x"
And if speaking to a couple. Speak to both |
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"Thank you for the advise guys. 
Dont go in singing My Ding Aling and Wiggle Wiggle
Have you been to a club mate? How did you find it?"
Ive been a few times and it was ok very relaxed and easy going |
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"Thank you for the advise guys.
Dont go in singing My Ding Aling and Wiggle Wiggle
Have you been to a club mate? How did you find it?
Ive been a few times and it was ok very relaxed and easy going"
Club F? |
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"Thank you for the advise guys.
Dont go in singing My Ding Aling and Wiggle Wiggle
Have you been to a club mate? How did you find it?
Ive been a few times and it was ok very relaxed and easy going
Club F?"
Yeah it was ok |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We are club regulars and they really are nothing to be afraid of. No one is going to gangbang you, no one will judge. Just go, watch what others do, relax and follow the few simple rules. |
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We'd say choose the club /night carefully, they vary a lot so find one that you think sounds the best fit for you.
Take the pressure off and go along with a view to just meeting people and seeing what it's all about. That's what we did first time. Then if you are comfortable and meet someone you like and want to play it's a bonus. In fact never assume you'll definitely play.
Talk to anyone and everyone, socialising doesn't have some deeper significance. |
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