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This is not a review because I have never been to this well known club in the Midlands. I have read the reviews and to be honest, I can't question nor corroborate them. What do I have to say then; I hear you scream!!!
On Saturdays according to the description, it's open to only couples and fems. I have a suggestion. Why not have a single guys' section on the same Saturday. A section with, if you like, a valve style gate/ door. I'll explain.
There should be an adjoining passage where fems and couples can cross over to "have a look" or indulge if they so wish - club rules still in operation.
Advantages: 1) single guys don't feel left out.
2) gay guys don't feel left out.
3) bi guys don't get left out.
4) fems can crossover and have a look at greener pastures on the other side.
5) couples may do as (4) above.
6) broad smiles for all stake holders.
If you owned this club, would you consider this suggestion?
If not, why? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Why should anyone feel the need to cater for everyone all of them time.
Who cares if some feel left out Sometimes.
We're all big boys now and don't need to be wrapped in cotton wool.
And that's Mr S speaking here.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why should anyone feel the need to cater for everyone all of them time.
Who cares if some feel left out Sometimes.
We're all big boys now and don't need to be wrapped in cotton wool.
And that's Mr S speaking here.
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Well said.
We have been both nights.
Fridays we get single guys trying to convince us that we are missing out. Amusing, but also sad that they can behave like that.
Saturdays, we don't get that bother and just enjoy our night.
After all, like everyone else we pay to go in and have fun, not get bothered by people who can't take no for an answer.
Please leave Saturdays as they are thanks, we wouldn't want it any other way.
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By *tasiaCouple
over a year ago
West Bromwich |
"Not sure if this is aimed at us, or others, but please check out our club diary for January 2018 onwards. 
Xtasia isn’t letting in men on a Saturday from January is it?"
Have a good read of our diary for saturdays from jan onwards. |
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"Love that the OP thinks guys would like to be treated like a cattle market in a fenced off area  "
I can think of nothing worse! I’d love to be able to go to a club on a Saturday (I know the attic does allow this to be fair) but I’d like to go as a respectful guy experienced in the club scene and welcomed as such rather than a pariah in the corner threatened with eviction if I crossed a white line! |
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"Its one thing some couples will like some wont.
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I’ve always said that for the 2 club ‘biggies’ in the West Midlands having their guys allowed day and guys banned day on the same days halves their potential attendees - I’m sure those who like guys and those that don’t might attend a Friday and Saturday if feasible |
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"Not sure if this is aimed at us, or others, but please check out our club diary for January 2018 onwards.
Xtasia isn’t letting in men on a Saturday from January is it?
Have a good read of our diary for saturdays from jan onwards. "
I've looked, I'd probably spend my whole time in flirts if I went on a Saturday |
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By (user no longer on site)
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OP,
Points two and three are catered for on Monday nights anyway. Is losing Saturday night really that much of an issue, given the rest of the week is open? |
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"OP,
Points two and three are catered for on Monday nights anyway. Is losing Saturday night really that much of an issue, given the rest of the week is open?"
Not by other clubs |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Saturday nights tend to be pretty female/couple orientated. There are plenty of alternatives. And yes swinging is a meat market and I find it amusing and dishonest when people try to pretend that it isn't. Especially in relation to single men.
There is one way to counteract that though...it involves having a partner that you're willing to "share". I, like many single men on here, are not comfortable with that therefore you have to take the loss of being the least catered to demographic in the scene. Swings and roundabouts really. |
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"OP,
Points two and three are catered for on Monday nights anyway. Is losing Saturday night really that much of an issue, given the rest of the week is open?"
Saturday night is the night to hit the town in any language on earth!
Majority of earth dwellers work Mon - fri ( undebatable). As a result, to be excluded on Saturday night is a bit of a bummer. This is free consultancy for the stakeholders. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Newsflash. It's a swingers club.
You aren't technically swinging if you're single. And you certainly aren't in short supply.
What is in short supply is couples to swap with.
If anyone wanted a single lad to fuck they just go to any pub or club anywhere and pick one.
Accept that you're allowed join in whenever you are allowed. Why demand more? That's the reason people dislike single males and consider them pests for the most part with some exceptions. |
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"Newsflash. It's a swingers club.
You aren't technically swinging if you're single. And you certainly aren't in short supply.
What is in short supply is couples to swap with.
If anyone wanted a single lad to fuck they just go to any pub or club anywhere and pick one.
Accept that you're allowed join in whenever you are allowed. Why demand more? That's the reason people dislike single males and consider them pests for the most part with some exceptions. "
There speaks the voice of reasonand common sense.
We spoke earlier of the guy who kept trying to convince us we wanted to go to the BMFC night. We tolerated it, but it was a bit silly really as it was plain from the beginning we weren't interested.
We understand that we have to put up with it on a Friday night, but love the fact that we don't even have to think about it on Saturdays. |
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"This is not a review because I have never been to this well known club in the Midlands. I have read the reviews and to be honest, I can't question nor corroborate them. What do I have to say then; I hear you scream!!!
On Saturdays according to the description, it's open to only couples and fems. I have a suggestion. Why not have a single guys' section on the same Saturday. A section with, if you like, a valve style gate/ door. I'll explain.
There should be an adjoining passage where fems and couples can cross over to "have a look" or indulge if they so wish - club rules still in operation.
Advantages: 1) single guys don't feel left out.
2) gay guys don't feel left out.
3) bi guys don't get left out.
4) fems can crossover and have a look at greener pastures on the other side.
5) couples may do as (4) above.
6) broad smiles for all stake holders.
If you owned this club, would you consider this suggestion?
If not, why?"
you dont even like clubs....why are you bothered what their admittance policies are? |
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By *tasiaCouple
over a year ago
West Bromwich |
"Not sure if this is aimed at us, or others, but please check out our club diary for January 2018 onwards.
Xtasia isn’t letting in men on a Saturday from January is it?
Have a good read of our diary for saturdays from jan onwards.
I've looked, I'd probably spend my whole time in flirts if I went on a Saturday "
lol, and you'd be more than welcome to do so. xx |
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"Saturday nights tend to be pretty female/couple orientated.
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But why should it be like above,?
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Exactly that’s a historic thing - just because the rumour goes all single men are married and not allowed out on a Saturday night doesn’t mean some of us aren’t and actually might want to go to a club! I mean personally I wouldn’t go that often as I think it’d lose the buzz of going on a saturday but it’s be nice to have the option! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"At the end of the day... clubs are not going to change just because 1 guy thinks it’s his right to be let into a club when he wants.. get over it!! "
And seems some clubs are gonna change |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Doubtful as it would upset couples who already attend on a Saturday .. we will see "
Look at the xtasisa site. Seems optional extras on a sat.
Unless im assuming wrong |
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"At the end of the day... clubs are not going to change just because 1 guy thinks it’s his right to be let into a club when he wants.. get over it!! "
Whilst we all have our preferences it’s a bit harsh to tell ladies and couples who enjoy the company of men to ‘get over it’ when I fail to see why their preference is any less valid than yours or anyone else’s
Personally I think nights where couples only are allowed and singles are allowed in are perfectly valid - the issue certainly here in the West Midlands has been up to now both the main clubs have their no men nights on the same night every week limiting choice for those with other preferences on a Saturday
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"At the end of the day... clubs are not going to change just because 1 guy thinks it’s his right to be let into a club when he wants.. get over it!!
Whilst we all have our preferences it’s a bit harsh to tell ladies and couples who enjoy the company of men to ‘get over it’ when I fail to see why their preference is any less valid than yours or anyone else’s
Personally I think nights where couples only are allowed and singles are allowed in are perfectly valid - the issue certainly here in the West Midlands has been up to now both the main clubs have their no men nights on the same night every week limiting choice for those with other preferences on a Saturday
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I was referring to the guy moaning .. not the couples !! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Not sure if this is aimed at us, or others, but please check out our club diary for January 2018 onwards.
Xtasia isn’t letting in men on a Saturday from January is it?
Have a good read of our diary for saturdays from jan onwards. "
Oh so this is why Sparkzz is no longer on a Saturday  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Not sure if this is aimed at us, or others, but please check out our club diary for January 2018 onwards.
Xtasia isn’t letting in men on a Saturday from January is it?
Have a good read of our diary for saturdays from jan onwards.
Oh so this is why Sparkzz is no longer on a Saturday "
No idea. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We like Saturdays being no singles after 7.30pm!! Go earlier or on a Friday (or other night) if you want singles - simples"
So do we.
Although what Xtasia is doing is a great compromise for all. |
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By *tasiaCouple
over a year ago
West Bromwich |
"Not sure if this is aimed at us, or others, but please check out our club diary for January 2018 onwards.
Xtasia isn’t letting in men on a Saturday from January is it?
Have a good read of our diary for saturdays from jan onwards.
Oh so this is why Sparkzz is no longer on a Saturday "
And basic economics!  |
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By *tasiaCouple
over a year ago
West Bromwich |
"We like Saturdays being no singles after 7.30pm!! Go earlier or on a Friday (or other night) if you want singles - simples
So do we.
Although what Xtasia is doing is a great compromise for all."
We're trying to see if a balanced approach works....we've seen it work elsewhere, so giving it a good go ourselves. |
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"We like Saturdays being no singles after 7.30pm!! Go earlier or on a Friday (or other night) if you want singles - simples
So do we.
Although what Xtasia is doing is a great compromise for all.
We're trying to see if a balanced approach works....we've seen it work elsewhere, so giving it a good go ourselves.
It's great that thought is going into this xx"
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