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Where would be best for first club visit
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I have ten days completely free soon and I'm still not sure if what I'm looking for is in the fab community but to do that I need to speak with people first.
I figure as a single guy best way would be getting involved and going to places.
I'm looking for somewhere that's not full on as some of the comments make out. I'm an introvert unless I'm comfortable or d*unk. So would like something that's friendly and easy going with people looking to mingle. |
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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago
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Ideal first place to go is Atlantis in Stoke. Friendly club that is like a nightclub feel. Chat by the bar, have a dance and the evening gradually gets sexier. Everyone gets a tour of the club and the chance to ask any questions.
Check the reviews of the club to see how highly it is rated especially by first time visitors. Friday is the main night when single ladies, single gents and couples go. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Ideal first place to go is Atlantis in Stoke. Friendly club that is like a nightclub feel. Chat by the bar, have a dance and the evening gradually gets sexier. Everyone gets a tour of the club and the chance to ask any questions.
Check the reviews of the club to see how highly it is rated especially by first time visitors. Friday is the main night when single ladies, single gents and couples go. "
Thanks for the reply, I was starting to feel cold out there in the dark so long 
It sounds great and I like the idea of a tour, that's comforting. I'll go have a little look now  |
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Any decent club will give you a tour. Have a look at townhouse as it's your closest club. You would have to go on a Wednesday night initially to become a member.
Make sure the type of night you are going to suits you, that's just as important as picking a club. |
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Do a tour of the NW clubs, there's great ones. Avoid drinking for confidence, it can be counter productive, maybe just a couple over the night.
Some have daytime and good midweek evenings too.
Best way to get started imo.
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"I have ten days completely free soon and I'm still not sure if what I'm looking for is in the fab community but to do that I need to speak with people first.
I figure as a single guy best way would be getting involved and going to places.
I'm looking for somewhere that's not full on as some of the comments make out. I'm an introvert unless I'm comfortable or d*unk. So would like something that's friendly and easy going with people looking to mingle. "
Most clubs we've been to are not "full on". Most are full of people unsure about making the first approach either because they are hoping for better to walk through the door or because they are worried about rejection.
I'd be curious to know what a full on club is like and where they exist.
Do they basically rip your knickers off as you walk through the door.
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Most clubs we've been to are not "full on". Most are full of people unsure about making the first approach either because they are hoping for better to walk through the door or because they are worried about rejection.
I'd be curious to know what a full on club is like and where they exist.
Do they basically rip your knickers off as you walk through the door.
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Haven't been to the ones where you have to strip naked, then they oil you up and fire you down the chute into the orgy?
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Op this is good advice. You have to socialise and make an effort. You might stumble onto a woman who's gone for a gb and wants extra men to join, but most of the time you need to relax into the social area, or hot-tub etc and get chatting. The balance between being approachable / chatty Vs pushy is a delicate one.
Your 10 day holiday will give you opportunity for a crash course! |
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Most clubs we've been to are not "full on". Most are full of people unsure about making the first approach either because they are hoping for better to walk through the door or because they are worried about rejection.
I'd be curious to know what a full on club is like and where they exist.
Do they basically rip your knickers off as you walk through the door.
Haven't been to the ones where you have to strip naked, then they oil you up and fire you down the chute into the orgy?
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Op this is good advice. You have to socialise and make an effort. You might stumble onto a woman who's gone for a gb and wants extra men to join, but most of the time you need to relax into the social area, or hot-tub etc and get chatting. The balance between being approachable / chatty Vs pushy is a delicate one.
Your 10 day holiday will give you opportunity for a crash course!"
We tend to chat for about 5 or ten minutes about alsorts, not just sex and then give space to move on. If interested we'll normally say something like feel free to join us. |
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We tend to chat for about 5 or ten minutes about alsorts, not just sex and then give space to move on. If interested we'll normally say something like feel free to join us."
That's a good way, it's non-pushy and allows both sides a friendly, no stress way to either decline or play.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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Most clubs we've been to are not "full on". Most are full of people unsure about making the first approach either because they are hoping for better to walk through the door or because they are worried about rejection.
I'd be curious to know what a full on club is like and where they exist.
Do they basically rip your knickers off as you walk through the door.
Haven't been to the ones where you have to strip naked, then they oil you up and fire you down the chute into the orgy?
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Op this is good advice. You have to socialise and make an effort. You might stumble onto a woman who's gone for a gb and wants extra men to join, but most of the time you need to relax into the social area, or hot-tub etc and get chatting. The balance between being approachable / chatty Vs pushy is a delicate one.
Your 10 day holiday will give you opportunity for a crash course!"
Senior frogs in Mexico isnt far from being thrown literally down a shoot in to an orgy
And thanks all I'll take it on what you have said and have a good look around, day time seems good idea. |
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"Never done a day visit so no idea what numbers would be like. We tried a day visit but backed out as we were to chicken, the comfort of darkness is something we appreciate. "
Cupids do motd on certain Tuesdays, daytime, which gets good numbers. Need to get on the guest list, by searching it in the forum and asking the staff.
It dies feel strange going in during the day day though! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Try Townhouse on a Wednesday night, they have a Newbie night. It's also a very friendly club, so any initial nerves will go quite quickly when you start chatting to people in the bar and lounge. |
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