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Our club is very good for newbies, we always tell people that they don't have to swing, just come along and dance, chat and watch what goes on. But you also have the pleasure of using our massive new out of this world Hot Tub and then use the Sauna x. Check all our great reviews under the club section at the top of the Fabswingers page. We are near St. Neots, Bedfordshire which is about 50 to 60 miles from you. We look forward to meeting you should we be lucky enough for you to choose our club. We also run newbie nights our next one is October 7th.  |
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We haven't tried Jaydees, but it is well regarded. The thing about clubs is they vary quite a lot:
- Wet or Dry
- Local or Far
- Singles & Couples or Just Couples
- Themed nights or dress sexy nights
What you are looking for will also make a big difference, as will the luck of the draw - sometimes you can go with limited expectations and have a brilliant time, sometimes the opposite!
You are probably best to try a couple of clubs on different nights to see what you like best, maybe get in touch with people who have left club reviews and when comfortable advertise a meet at a club - as you are after a unicorn ?? you may need to let them know your looking!
Good luck, enjoy we're sure you will  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We haven't tried Jaydees, but it is well regarded. The thing about clubs is they vary quite a lot:
- Wet or Dry
- Local or Far
- Singles & Couples or Just Couples
- Themed nights or dress sexy nights
What you are looking for will also make a big difference, as will the luck of the draw - sometimes you can go with limited expectations and have a brilliant time, sometimes the opposite!
You are probably best to try a couple of clubs on different nights to see what you like best, maybe get in touch with people who have left club reviews and when comfortable advertise a meet at a club - as you are after a unicorn ?? you may need to let them know your looking!
Good luck, enjoy we're sure you will "
We don't mind distance, and we're happy to try most places.
Definitely looking for the fabled unicorn so a place for couples and singles to mingle would be what we want.
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By *ex LutherMan
over a year ago
Closer than you think |
"Really looking forward to trying a club.
What, in people's opinions, would be the best club close to Uxbridge for a first time?
Thanks. x"
There's lots of great clubs for newbies going by your location OP4F near Alexandra Palace is a really friendly club, Ab fab is your closest club, Le Boudoir is an amazing venue too as is the VA and Jaydees |
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Eureka this Saturday is 'Rocky horror' theme and will be an amazing night as always
I will be there like most Saturday nights and prob be about 250 people , everyone welcome and I can guarantee you will dance your socks off haha
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"Eureka this Saturday is 'Rocky horror' theme and will be an amazing night as always
I will be there like most Saturday nights and prob be about 250 people , everyone welcome and I can guarantee you will dance your socks off haha
Welcome to PM me if you want any more info "
Love Rocky Horror!!
This Saturday is a little short notice though.
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OurPlace4Fun, Kestrels and Eurekas are all great clubs. I'd also add Bristol Gardens to the list. It's in Brighton so a bit of a trek but it's quieter and more of a spa with a swingers section stuck in as an afterthought, so I think works well as a good place for first timers. They're strict on "no play in the wet areas" so you can still stay and enjoy the facilities if you decide the other side of it's not for you and it's couples only on weekend evenings, which I think is a good idea to start with. |
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People will answer this question with their favourite club or the club tbey work for.
You are quite spoilt for choice with VA, Jaydees, OP4F. Le Boudoir, Abfabs and othhers all within an easy drive. They are all great clubs but all offer different things. Have a think what you want from a club and see which one offers it |
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Mingles in Colchester! It beats all the rest by a mile... and staff are always friendly too, it's not just about getting your money... they bend over backwards to make newbies feel welcome |
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By *errysMan
over a year ago
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Kestrels on a sunday or wednesday is a fantastic place for a soft start as its not just swinger orientated, (naturist spa) you can see lots and chat when you are comfortable with your surroundings.
Jaydees is good too and they have newbie nights.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Thank you very much.
You're all lovely. x 
Nah, we're all just hoping you'll pick our favourite club to try first and we'll bump into you there. "
Hahaha! Love the honesty.
Again thanks all.
Looking for single women really so it's not easy as we all know.  |
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Given your location I would say Kestrels / AbFab is a great place to start. If you have some free time during the day then go to Kestrels (well, it's all the same venue). They have decent relaxing facilities (pool, hot tubs, sauna) so at the very least you can go and have a really relaxing time. It's not always veyr busy during the day so it will give you a feel for the venue itself. Go on a Monday, for instance, and you can then just stay on into AbFabs where it is bi night. Only been once and it felt to me as though it probably only warms up later in the evening. However, it is a relaxed venue and you will get the chance to either just chill or chat to others there. My experience is that the staff are very friendly and generally the people that go are respectful and friendly. You will get a few of the zombie wankers that follow you around but they can be dismissed easily enough. Definitely a great place to start and very close to you. See how that goes and then try some of the other clubs thta have been mentioned. Try them and you will soon find which ones are your favourites. I think there is a refurb going on but there was also s-club in Slough. That was getting good reviews and comments so keep your eye open for what they do next and when they open up again. |
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"Given your location I would say Kestrels / AbFab is a great place to start. If you have some free time during the day then go to Kestrels (well, it's all the same venue). They have decent relaxing facilities (pool, hot tubs, sauna) so at the very least you can go and have a really relaxing time. It's not always veyr busy during the day so it will give you a feel for the venue itself. Go on a Monday, for instance, and you can then just stay on into AbFabs where it is bi night. Only been once and it felt to me as though it probably only warms up later in the evening. However, it is a relaxed venue and you will get the chance to either just chill or chat to others there. My experience is that the staff are very friendly and generally the people that go are respectful and friendly. You will get a few of the zombie wankers that follow you around but they can be dismissed easily enough. Definitely a great place to start and very close to you. See how that goes and then try some of the other clubs thta have been mentioned. Try them and you will soon find which ones are your favourites. I think there is a refurb going on but there was also s-club in Slough. That was getting good reviews and comments so keep your eye open for what they do next and when they open up again. "
S Private Club isn't reopening any time soon, think there was a dispute with the landlord but Annie and Sam, the couple who ran it are still hunting for new premises, so wherever they end up would be worth checking out. |
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