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over a year ago
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And I don't just mean like yeah come in pay us your money lol ....... I mean would I do well / make friends as easily as i do in real life? Would my age hinder me ? As well as my single status? ....... Have private pics face etc just ask and then give your honest opinion as I'm on the verge of attending but don't know what club  x |
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I think anyone would be welcome, irrespective of age etc.
It's whether you feel you expect to get some action.
Now, I'm saying this having not been to a club, just reading comments and reviews.
I'm going to go to one soon myself. It'll more than likely be Attic as I've friends there, having lived there for years.
I'm waffling now, what was the question? |
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"I think anyone would be welcome, irrespective of age etc.
It's whether you feel you expect to get some action.
Now, I'm saying this having not been to a club, just reading comments and reviews.
I'm going to go to one soon myself. It'll more than likely be Attic as I've friends there, having lived there for years.
I'm waffling now, what was the question?"
I a sense and for want of better wording yes "would I get some action"? Or is it already a pretty tight group of people ? Regulars? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think anyone would be welcome, irrespective of age etc.
It's whether you feel you expect to get some action.
Now, I'm saying this having not been to a club, just reading comments and reviews.
I'm going to go to one soon myself. It'll more than likely be Attic as I've friends there, having lived there for years.
I'm waffling now, what was the question?
I a sense and for want of better wording yes "would I get some action"? Or is it already a pretty tight group of people ? Regulars? "
There are regulars but we go out of our way to make newbies welcome. But will you get any action....depends if someone is attracted to you. And I dont mean just looks, can get some good looking people who are twats and full of themselves....dont have time for them lol |
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"I think anyone would be welcome, irrespective of age etc.
It's whether you feel you expect to get some action.
Now, I'm saying this having not been to a club, just reading comments and reviews.
I'm going to go to one soon myself. It'll more than likely be Attic as I've friends there, having lived there for years.
I'm waffling now, what was the question?
I a sense and for want of better wording yes "would I get some action"? Or is it already a pretty tight group of people ? Regulars? "
I've heard there are regulars and they could be cliquey but that is the same everywhere.
Even though you're paying a bit to get in, I think the possibility of meeting like-minded people is more important.
Now if you're bloody handsome you could get attention, then again, if you're an arse, they'd soon walk away.
I'd just go, nit expect anything, enjoy the night for what it is, a way to get to know others and see.
That's my tuppence worth |
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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago
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"I think anyone would be welcome, irrespective of age etc.
It's whether you feel you expect to get some action.
Now, I'm saying this having not been to a club, just reading comments and reviews.
I'm going to go to one soon myself. It'll more than likely be Attic as I've friends there, having lived there for years.
I'm waffling now, what was the question?
I a sense and for want of better wording yes "would I get some action"? Or is it already a pretty tight group of people ? Regulars? "
How do regulars become regulars? |
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By *loppsyWoman
over a year ago
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"I think anyone would be welcome, irrespective of age etc.
It's whether you feel you expect to get some action.
Now, I'm saying this having not been to a club, just reading comments and reviews.
I'm going to go to one soon myself. It'll more than likely be Attic as I've friends there, having lived there for years.
I'm waffling now, what was the question?
I a sense and for want of better wording yes "would I get some action"? Or is it already a pretty tight group of people ? Regulars?
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There may be regulars and people who know each other. None of this makes a difference. It's about being polite and socialising. If you get any 'action' its a bonus and not always the case.
Go with an open mind and no expectations.
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"I think anyone would be welcome, irrespective of age etc.
It's whether you feel you expect to get some action.
Now, I'm saying this having not been to a club, just reading comments and reviews.
I'm going to go to one soon myself. It'll more than likely be Attic as I've friends there, having lived there for years.
I'm waffling now, what was the question?
I a sense and for want of better wording yes "would I get some action"? Or is it already a pretty tight group of people ? Regulars?
There may be regulars and people who know each other. None of this makes a difference. It's about being polite and socialising. If you get any 'action' its a bonus and not always the case.
Go with an open mind and no expectations.
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"And I don't just mean like yeah come in pay us your money lol ....... I mean would I do well / make friends as easily as i do in real life? Would my age hinder me ? As well as my single status? ....... Have private pics face etc just ask and then give your honest opinion as I'm on the verge of attending but don't know what club x"
Yes of course you would be welcome but also up to you to put yourself out there a little and mingle too. I always say to guys turning up on there own to try to relax and enjoy the evening otherwise they are just onlookers watching everyone else have a good time!
Club effects vary some are more about the social with no pressure play where as others can be very in your face
Secret is to bite the bullet and try as many as you can to see which one tickles your fancy  |
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Go and be open minded with no expectations or your setting yourself up for a fall,
I've always said to just relax take in the atmosphere chat to people, may not play the first night but remember them people spoke to next time there will remember you was the decent guy who wasn't pushy and being expectant and guess who they will be asking to play next time you see them!! |
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