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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So hi everyone, sorry if this have been covered in loads of threads previously...
I have never been to a club before and find myself drawn to the thought of going.... seeing men and women scantily clad socialising and playing does sound appealing!!
Where do people recommend to go? And any advice would be greatly appreciated...
I would be going as a single male... unless any ladies want to take me along haha |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Yes Bristol is close to me aswel as one in Worcester so I'm a little bit curious as to which is best,
Hopefully someone will comment with some advice |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There is only one way to find out and that is to go and see for yourself. If you dont like what you see then just leave. Hopefully you will enjoy yourselves. Remember swing clubs aren't what people think they are in as much as they are generally very relaxed places and no one is going to jump on you the second you walk through the door. That kind of stuff is what you read in the tabliods, the truth is very very different!  x |
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"There is only one way to find out and that is to go and see for yourself. If you dont like what you see then just leave. Hopefully you will enjoy yourselves. Remember swing clubs aren't what people think they are in as much as they are generally very relaxed places and no one is going to jump on you the second you walk through the door. That kind of stuff is what you read in the tabliods, the truth is very very different! x"
Very true 
Just be yourself, socialise & enjoy OP |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I haven't been yet I'm away with work until the end of September, my plan was to hopefully arrange a meet when I get back just to have the company ofnice lady and ease myself back into society haha then go to a club after |
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We went to our first club on Sunday.
Was better than expected,
Found it hard to socialise as everyone had already formed their groups but we still had a bloody good night.
So relaxed and just kinda felt right.
Will be going again very soon. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We went to our first club on Sunday.
Was better than expected,
Found it hard to socialise as everyone had already formed their groups but we still had a bloody good night.
So relaxed and just kinda felt right.
Will be going again very soon. "
You are always going to find that clubs have groups of people who know each other. Some clubs are more friendly than others. Normally when you have been a few times the barriers to formed groups start to come down |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We went to our first club on Sunday.
Was better than expected,
Found it hard to socialise as everyone had already formed their groups but we still had a bloody good night.
So relaxed and just kinda felt right.
Will be going again very soon.
You are always going to find that clubs have groups of people who know each other. Some clubs are more friendly than others. Normally when you have been a few times the barriers to formed groups start to come down "
Ok interesting I need to visit a couple times to fully get the feel of it then |
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"We went to our first club on Sunday.
Was better than expected,
Found it hard to socialise as everyone had already formed their groups but we still had a bloody good night.
So relaxed and just kinda felt right.
Will be going again very soon.
You are always going to find that clubs have groups of people who know each other. Some clubs are more friendly than others. Normally when you have been a few times the barriers to formed groups start to come down "
That's fully understandable. Can't expect people to drop everything for us.
We are going back as it was a nice relaxed evening.
Will try others too in the near future |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We went to our first club on Sunday.
Was better than expected,
Found it hard to socialise as everyone had already formed their groups but we still had a bloody good night.
So relaxed and just kinda felt right.
Will be going again very soon.
You are always going to find that clubs have groups of people who know each other. Some clubs are more friendly than others. Normally when you have been a few times the barriers to formed groups start to come down
Ok interesting I need to visit a couple times to fully get the feel of it then"
Its a good idea to find your feet, so yes.. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We went to our first club on Sunday.
Was better than expected,
Found it hard to socialise as everyone had already formed their groups but we still had a bloody good night.
So relaxed and just kinda felt right.
Will be going again very soon.
You are always going to find that clubs have groups of people who know each other. Some clubs are more friendly than others. Normally when you have been a few times the barriers to formed groups start to come down
Ok interesting I need to visit a couple times to fully get the feel of it then
Its a good idea to find your feet, so yes.. "
I shall have to venture out into the scary world of clubs then hahah |
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By *rs PickWoman
over a year ago
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"We went to our first club on Sunday.
Was better than expected,
Found it hard to socialise as everyone had already formed their groups but we still had a bloody good night.
So relaxed and just kinda felt right.
Will be going again very soon.
You are always going to find that clubs have groups of people who know each other. Some clubs are more friendly than others. Normally when you have been a few times the barriers to formed groups start to come down
Ok interesting I need to visit a couple times to fully get the feel of it then
Its a good idea to find your feet, so yes..
I shall have to venture out into the scary world of clubs then hahah"
Clubs are absolute great fun. Cant beat face to face than on here thats for sure. Shame you're so far away as Townhouse is a great club. Lush surroundings with sexy friendly people. Single guy friendly too  |
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"We're the same, debating it but not been before. We're looking at Bristol and the 2 clubs there the office and dare to but want to see what people think...."
Office is widely regarded as bloody awefull, dont go it will put you off clubs completely.
Dare To is very friendly and has lots of different events. Tonight is liberations, should be a good mix of people. The fet nights are also fun, if you fancy seeing a different scene.
Couples can turn up, but bring some ID, it has a bar and you will be happily shown around and introduced to few folk, if you want.
Singles need to book, be vetted (vouched for, have a varified fab account) always ring before attending to insure access.
Myself and wiggles help out at club and would be happy to make you feel welcome and comfy.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Clubs are absolute great fun. Cant beat face to face than on here thats for sure. Shame you're so far away as Townhouse is a great club. Lush surroundings with sexy friendly people. Single guy friendly too "
I'm very tempted by them! I always read the reviews from People and they sound so exciting!
I just have no idea what I like haha
Face to face is deffinately better! And I'll be looking for some meets when I get back home,
Where is this townhouse then? I love being surrounded by friendly people as I like to have a laugh and fun with people around me, hahaha is that a hint?;) |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"We're the same, debating it but not been before. We're looking at Bristol and the 2 clubs there the office and dare to but want to see what people think....
Office is widely regarded as bloody awefull, dont go it will put you off clubs completely.
Dare To is very friendly and has lots of different events. Tonight is liberations, should be a good mix of people. The fet nights are also fun, if you fancy seeing a different scene.
Couples can turn up, but bring some ID, it has a bar and you will be happily shown around and introduced to few folk, if you want.
Singles need to book, be vetted (vouched for, have a varified fab account) always ring before attending to insure access.
Myself and wiggles help out at club and would be happy to make you feel welcome and comfy.
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Amazing reply! That's very insightful Thankyou and also very humbling of you to offer to help me:D I may just take you up on the offer |
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"We went to our first club on Sunday.
Was better than expected,
Found it hard to socialise as everyone had already formed their groups but we still had a bloody good night.
So relaxed and just kinda felt right.
Will be going again very soon.
You are always going to find that clubs have groups of people who know each other. Some clubs are more friendly than others. Normally when you have been a few times the barriers to formed groups start to come down
Ok interesting I need to visit a couple times to fully get the feel of it then
Its a good idea to find your feet, so yes..
I shall have to venture out into the scary world of clubs then hahah
Clubs are absolute great fun. Cant beat face to face than on here thats for sure. Shame you're so far away as Townhouse is a great club. Lush surroundings with sexy friendly people. Single guy friendly too "
Isn't there an age limit to new single guys joining Townhouse though, under 40 only? |
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"We went to our first club on Sunday.
Was better than expected,
Found it hard to socialise as everyone had already formed their groups but we still had a bloody good night.
So relaxed and just kinda felt right.
Will be going again very soon.
You are always going to find that clubs have groups of people who know each other. Some clubs are more friendly than others. Normally when you have been a few times the barriers to formed groups start to come down
Ok interesting I need to visit a couple times to fully get the feel of it then
Its a good idea to find your feet, so yes..
I shall have to venture out into the scary world of clubs then hahah"
My advice would be to find a club regular to either go in with, or meet inside, anyone male, female, or couple. It's awful going in as a single male by yourself, and can be every bit as off-putting as it is enticing |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We went to our first club on Sunday.
Was better than expected,
Found it hard to socialise as everyone had already formed their groups but we still had a bloody good night.
So relaxed and just kinda felt right.
Will be going again very soon.
You are always going to find that clubs have groups of people who know each other. Some clubs are more friendly than others. Normally when you have been a few times the barriers to formed groups start to come down
Ok interesting I need to visit a couple times to fully get the feel of it then
Its a good idea to find your feet, so yes..
I shall have to venture out into the scary world of clubs then hahah
My advice would be to find a club regular to either go in with, or meet inside, anyone male, female, or couple. It's awful going in as a single male by yourself, and can be every bit as off-putting as it is enticing "
Thankyou I'll see what I can do |
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