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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hiya people ive suggested to my wife that we try our local club (clubf) i like to show her off as she is gorgeous and i think a club would be a great place to meet like minded people im just looking for pros and cons of visiting a club?? |
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It's probably easier to look at what specifically she's wary of and to see how likely they are to happen.
We were wary of bumping into someone we know from work in a club at that's not happened yet!  |
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No cons in visiting clubs! Treat your first visit as a social visit. You will find people using clubs for a whole variety of reasons - some just go on their own to have fun in an erotic environment, some just to chat, some want to watch their partner, others want to play with other couples but not singles, some with just singles and not couples! 
Best plan is not to get d*unk, agree what is acceptable and stick to it on the first visit. You are far better off wishing you'd done more and going back another time than regretting doing something you're not yet ready for.
Enjoy, every club and every night is different, but they are far better than being in a lairy nightclub  |
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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago
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"No cons in visiting clubs! Treat your first visit as a social visit. You will find people using clubs for a whole variety of reasons - some just go on their own to have fun in an erotic environment, some just to chat, some want to watch their partner, others want to play with other couples but not singles, some with just singles and not couples!
Best plan is not to get d*unk, agree what is acceptable and stick to it on the first visit. You are far better off wishing you'd done more and going back another time than regretting doing something you're not yet ready for.
Enjoy, every club and every night is different, but they are far better than being in a lairy nightclub "
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"No cons in visiting clubs! Treat your first visit as a social visit. You will find people using clubs for a whole variety of reasons - some just go on their own to have fun in an erotic environment, some just to chat, some want to watch their partner, others want to play with other couples but not singles, some with just singles and not couples!
Best plan is not to get d*unk, agree what is acceptable and stick to it on the first visit. You are far better off wishing you'd done more and going back another time than regretting doing something you're not yet ready for.
Enjoy, every club and every night is different, but they are far better than being in a lairy nightclub "
Exactly right, don't worry about bumping into someone known, remember it goes both ways !! enjoy and if she is not happy .... leave. |
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I have the opposite problem. My Wife is more than happy to swing in clubs as the rules and organisation gives her a sense of safety to relax in. But following previous disasters there is no way she would ever consider swinging through online ever again. When ever I suggest it now she very bluntly tells me no and why. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hiya people ive suggested to my wife that we try our local club (clubf) i like to show her off as she is gorgeous and i think a club would be a great place to meet like minded people im just looking for pros and cons of visiting a club??"
Club f is a very friendly place, and the staff are all great, they will show you around and make you feel at home, we were very nervous about going but once we did we never looked back and always have a very good night there, x |
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