I've asked this before but am really interested in people's opinions. On a night when single males, single females and couples can attend, what would be an ideal men to women ratio? I think 3 males for every 2 females. Your thoughts please. |
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Isn't 3 men to 2 woman complicated to work out,I'm not too good at maths 
I tend to make it simple
Count the ladies in a couple as a lady
Count the men in a couple as a man
So add the ladies all together eg 30
So add the men all together eg 60
Making a simple 2men-1lady
There is always no shows that evens out generally on the night if at a club with a few regulars
If you head for 2-1 ladies then you shouldn't exceed in having too many males
That's how I do it |
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"You don't think 2-1 is too high. For example 30 women to 60 guys wouldn't look to man heavy?"
Not really most parties I enjoy 1 to 3 men
Some woman like to be greedy
Some woman don't play
Some woman may play once
You will never get it perfect there are always no shows and above
How would you work out a 3-2 ratio |
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This is hard to judge, and sometimes it's not the number of men but the 'type' of men!
We were at a party night last Friday and there were packs of men following us around all night so I just felt intimidated.
We used to go to EWS in Sutton where the ratio was probably 3 to 1 and that felt good because then men didnt form into predatory packs.
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"This is hard to judge, and sometimes it's not the number of men but the 'type' of men!
We were at a party night last Friday and there were packs of men following us around all night so I just felt intimidated.
We used to go to EWS in Sutton where the ratio was probably 3 to 1 and that felt good because then men didnt form into predatory packs.
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"This is hard to judge, and sometimes it's not the number of men but the 'type' of men!
We were at a party night last Friday and there were packs of men following us around all night so I just felt intimidated.
We used to go to EWS in Sutton where the ratio was probably 3 to 1 and that felt good because then men didnt form into predatory packs.
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Totally agree. Sociable males help relax the females. |
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"This is hard to judge, and sometimes it's not the number of men but the 'type' of men!
We were at a party night last Friday and there were packs of men following us around all night so I just felt intimidated.
We used to go to EWS in Sutton where the ratio was probably 3 to 1 and that felt good because then men didnt form into predatory packs.
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Exactly I use to go to Ews I never complained it use to be a regular haunt of mine  |
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"You don't think 2-1 is too high. For example 30 women to 60 guys wouldn't look to man heavy?"
We think that would be fine.
Been to several parties that doesn't have enough guys to choose from.
Not all guys are going to tick the boxes (smokers, looks etc).
For a specific demographic of party, such as the one on Friday we think 2:1 is fine or maybe even 3:1!
For a normal Friday night club night it could be too much.
But, I think others will be in agreement here, is girls go to this kind of party for a fulfilling night. Not enough guys to choose from leads to a frustrating night.
Plus some ladies prefer more than one at a time!
I'm still yet to achieve my 5 guy playing with me at once at a party, that said I am fussy... |
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"You don't think 2-1 is too high. For example 30 women to 60 guys wouldn't look to man heavy?
We think that would be fine.
Been to several parties that doesn't have enough guys to choose from.
Not all guys are going to tick the boxes (smokers, looks etc).
For a specific demographic of party, such as the one on Friday we think 2:1 is fine or maybe even 3:1!
For a normal Friday night club night it could be too much.
But, I think others will be in agreement here, is girls go to this kind of party for a fulfilling night. Not enough guys to choose from leads to a frustrating night.
Plus some ladies prefer more than one at a time!
I'm still yet to achieve my 5 guy playing with me at once at a party, that said I am fussy..."
Good points. Guess it just a balancing act!
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"This is hard to judge, and sometimes it's not the number of men but the 'type' of men!
We were at a party night last Friday and there were packs of men following us around all night so I just felt intimidated.
We used to go to EWS in Sutton where the ratio was probably 3 to 1 and that felt good because then men didnt form into predatory packs.
Totally agree. Sociable males help relax the females."
We are not a pack of frightened mammals you know. I'm very good at intimidating men when I walk sober around clubs, I do it deliberately to out the shy and scared. |
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"This is hard to judge, and sometimes it's not the number of men but the 'type' of men!
We were at a party night last Friday and there were packs of men following us around all night so I just felt intimidated.
We used to go to EWS in Sutton where the ratio was probably 3 to 1 and that felt good because then men didnt form into predatory packs.
Totally agree. Sociable males help relax the females.
We are not a pack of frightened mammals you know. I'm very good at intimidating men when I walk sober around clubs, I do it deliberately to out the shy and scared."
I definitely would not make the cut! |
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"You don't think 2-1 is too high. For example 30 women to 60 guys wouldn't look to man heavy?
We think that would be fine.
Been to several parties that doesn't have enough guys to choose from.
Not all guys are going to tick the boxes (smokers, looks etc).
For a specific demographic of party, such as the one on Friday we think 2:1 is fine or maybe even 3:1!
For a normal Friday night club night it could be too much.
But, I think others will be in agreement here, is girls go to this kind of party for a fulfilling night. Not enough guys to choose from leads to a frustrating night.
Plus some ladies prefer more than one at a time!
I'm still yet to achieve my 5 guy playing with me at once at a party, that said I am fussy...
Good points. Guess it just a balancing act!
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Not all women will tick the boxes either so 1 to 1 would make sense to us. |
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