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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi
I am pretty new to the scene and I'm starting to think that a club might be a great way to get started.
Is it strange for a single man to go to a club on his own ??
Or do you get clubs where its pretty much all males !?
Any feedback would be greatly appreciated
Thanks
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Unfortunately that is very much a "how long is a piece of string" sort of question!
I'd suggest trying to find an event or social at a club for your first time as they tend to be a reasonably balanced mix of people.
Other than that it's a matter of looking at the feedback, who says what. Also worth posting up a while in advance asking well in advance if anyone is going to your chosen venue, that way hopefully you'll have a friendly face or two to show you around & break the ice.
Hope that helps a little. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Most nights in clubs we've been to where single males can attend, have been in fairness not much fun.
Most (not all as we've met some nice guys) are like vultures and just barging around. you can smell the testosterone flowing around.
Any advice we can give, don't go expecting to get lucky! don't go with a chip on your shoulder, expect competition.
If you're not a knob and down right rude you've got as much chance as anyone. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Like the other poster said do not expect to get lucky just because you paid to get in if you show respect and are non pushy you will be OK.
Never expect to play at a club if going as a single guy.
Greedy girl nights might work for you as the girls want multiple partners.
Also make sure you have own condoms as having to ask the female for one or other people kills the mood for the female as it shows you don't practice safe sex at all times |
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Nothing wrong with going alone... So long as you aren't expecting women to fall at your feet when you walk in. Be approachable (that doesn't mean approach people), hold a conversation and be interesting. If you are, you will get noticed. Remember that on these nights not all the couples are looking for a single male.
I go on my own sometimes, purely for a night out, anything else is a bonus. I'm going for the scene, not the sex.... Good luck op |
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