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By *lirtytimes OP Couple
over a year ago
Near Winchester |
Hi, what are your thoughts about the most relaxed club for nervous newbies to the club scene?
We're definitely not new to the scene in general, and have enjoyed our fair share of 3 sums, 4 sums, 6 sums, etc...  ...just thinking about delving into the club world too.
We're looking for somewhere where we can flirt, play maybe with other couples and have fun without either being constantly harassed/stalked by single guys (although no problem with there being some around, NO OFFENCE meant to nice single guys!) or deafened by really loud music.
Thanks for your input. Love from Mr & Mrs Fx |
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We've found all the club's we've been to have been welcoming.
Have a look at the websites of a few and, as Sally said, go for a couples only night.
Wherever you go, just enjoy the atmosphere and take things at a speed you're comfortable with.
Nita |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We go to different club and can say we don't really get hassled by single guy(we must be ugly) they say hi and are polite if you say no, then it's a no must single guys will respect your wishes. You may get the odd one that will follow you round but they will soon follow someone else once they see you are not interested in them. If you have any trouble then mention it to a member of staff and they will deal with it.
Don't tar all guys with the same brush we've met some great guys over the years, and the odd bad one but the good guys out weigh the bad one. Go and enjoy your night out and have some fun.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well we just popped our club cherry at BGHS in Brighton. We chose it because it's a nudist spa first and foremost so we could build some confidence before doing anything rather than feeling committed to playing because we were there.
Worked a treat for us with the added bonus of a nice sauna and steam
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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago
Stoke area |
Atlantis EVOLUTION in Burslem is my local club. It's very friendly and there is no single guy stalking you, whether you go on a Friday when single men are allowed or a Saturday when it's couples and ladies only. The club also run occasional newbie nights too. |
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By *lirtytimes OP Couple
over a year ago
Near Winchester |
Thanks everyone for the thoughts and suggestions. We shall definitely look into all the clubs suggested! 
The only reason we are wary of some single guys (and we know its definitely NOT all of them!) is from personal experiences relayed to us by other friends on here... but we do appreciate that not everyone's experience will be the same!
Love and hugs,
Mr & Mrs F. x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Try the Vanilla Alternative. Great venue. On the last Dark Desires party there were quite a few 1st timers. Some spent so much time on the dancefloor and socialising they had to organize a little after party to get their play on! |
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