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By *adyA01Woman
over a year ago
Wellington |
Hi,
BMFC has a website wbere you can sign up to become a member and you will then get regular updates for upcoming events.
The BMFC events are a great place to meet and socialise...obviously other stuff happens too..
Years a go I regularly went, had a great time it served my purpose at the time... if I was to go now, it would be social only, as I prefer to meet privately when I do..
Go a long and try one, everyone is normally very friendly and there is no pressure etc..
Hope you get out of it what you want
Good Luck
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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago
Wherever the party is! |
"I'm a bit nervous "
Were you thinking of which venue to go to first? I would say to just try the one nearest to you if you can. If you feel a bit more adventurous you could travel to one further away and book a hotel. Maybe even check out the town/city while you're there! Might be a good idea to put up a meet request or forum post so you can chat with others who are looking to go.
The great thing I've found about BMFC is they have some loyal regulars who travel around so once you start making friends you can travel to another venue and hopefully bump into people you know from before!
Also, the organisers are quite friendly too!
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"I'm a bit nervous "
I was asked about BMFC by various people, and some were quite intimidated, as they imagine it is a giant orgy.
Sorry to disappoint you, not quite
I would say it is regular party with people more open minded. If you wanna stay in social area, will be social for you for all night.
Which I think is important for first timers, who are not sure what they wanna do, and where their boundaries are. And that's why I think single ladies feel comfortable and attend there much more often then other swinger party.
So don't be nervous, if you are charming and sexy, and I bet you do, defo you will have great night
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By *MFC PartiesWoman
over a year ago
Here, There & Everywhere |
"I'm a bit nervous
Were you thinking of which venue to go to first? I would say to just try the one nearest to you if you can.."
Sorry to do this, but this is where i disagree
The advice i always give is - go to the BMFC website and check out the venue selection that we have by reading the venue descriptions
Then make a list of what you want out of your BMFC experience - then choose the venue that most suits you
IE - Do you want an intimate party, house party, night club feel?
Do you want private rooms?
Are lockers important?
Do you want a jacuzzi?
To just pick the venue closest to you may mean that your expectations are not met as teh venue facilities may not be what you're looking for
Its a bit like choosing your holiday hotel - you would spend time reading the hotel description to ensure that you dont book one in the mountains if you want to be at the beach ... |
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By *adyA01Woman
over a year ago
Wellington |
It can be very nerve racking, look for people who might be going a long and see if you can go with them. The first time I went, I went with friends which was great as they were good company and looked out for me. Single ladies quite often couple up with a single guy to go, as it us nice to feel you have someone else you can chat too and to look for you..
Once you have been you will either love it and wonder what you were nervous about or it might not be for you..
But there is only one way to find out
Good Luck x
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