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Swinger Clubs, are they worth it for single guys?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi all, never been to a swingers club, but I've been recommended by a friend to go try it out. I don't trust the guy enough to go at the drop of a hat. Anyone here think it's worth it?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I definitely think it is worth it, as long as you are presentable and confident enough to chat to people - and go in with the right attitude (i.e. don't expect to play but if it happens its a bonus).
I have been to three clubs for a proper visit now and have been lucky enough to have played each time - but I still don't go expecting that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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What would make it 'worth it'?
£50+ entry fee to go watch people have sex.
Possibly be ignored by everyone there or possibly get chatted up and shagged. |
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"What would make it 'worth it'?
£50+ entry fee to go watch people have sex.
Possibly be ignored by everyone there or possibly get chatted up and shagged. "
Not a problem for you, I would think....!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What would make it 'worth it'?
£50+ entry fee to go watch people have sex.
Possibly be ignored by everyone there or possibly get chatted up and shagged. "
Lots of clubs are much less than 50 quid for a guy to get in. On weeknights some places are a tenner for gents, and most of the clubs I go to are 25 or 30 on weekends for guys. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What would make it 'worth it'?
£50+ entry fee to go watch people have sex.
Possibly be ignored by everyone there or possibly get chatted up and shagged.
Not a problem for you, I would think....!!!"
Why's that then? Only the price is different for single women. The rest is still the same. |
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Depends on the guy.
If he is willing to put himself forward and make an effort to be friendly, sociable and chatty. Then yes.
If he is introverted, sits in a corner fiddling with himself or trailing around after people, not making eye contact and expecting to get shagged silly.... then no, not really. |
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"Depends on the guy.
If he is willing to put himself forward and make an effort to be friendly, sociable and chatty. Then yes.
If he is introverted, sits in a corner fiddling with himself or trailing around after people, not making eye contact and expecting to get shagged silly.... then no, not really."
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OPs local is Quest in Leeds , which is byo drink. A cheap fun night out socialising, and getting to understand the scene has got to be worth it. Anything else is a bonus.
Oh and meet veri can be got simply too.
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"Hi all, never been to a swingers club, but I've been recommended by a friend to go try it out. I don't trust the guy enough to go at the drop of a hat. Anyone here think it's worth it?
Cheers"
Depends what you mean by worth it? If you mean will you get to meet other Like minded friendly people then yes. If you mean will you get a guaranteed leg over then the answer is no. If you put the effort in then yes it's worth going, no effort then it's not for you |
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"Hi all, never been to a swingers club, but I've been recommended by a friend to go try it out. I don't trust the guy enough to go at the drop of a hat. Anyone here think it's worth it?
Cheers
Depends what you mean by worth it? If you mean will you get to meet other Like minded friendly people then yes. If you mean will you get a guaranteed leg over then the answer is no. If you put the effort in then yes it's worth going, no effort then it's not for you "
Exactly this
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
Newcastle and Gateshead |
"Hi all, never been to a swingers club, but I've been recommended by a friend to go try it out. I don't trust the guy enough to go at the drop of a hat. Anyone here think it's worth it?
Cheers"
in the nicest way i hate that question?
worth it in what respect?
any club will tell you you are paying for the facilities... and if anything else happend then that it is a bonus.... but for anything else to happy you still have to work at it...
you still have to talk to people, show you can be a decent human being and not be a prize arse....
if you are going because you think it is easier to get your leg over... i'd think again! |
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"Hi all, never been to a swingers club, but I've been recommended by a friend to go try it out. I don't trust the guy enough to go at the drop of a hat. Anyone here think it's worth it?
Cheers
in the nicest way i hate that question?
worth it in what respect?
any club will tell you you are paying for the facilities... and if anything else happend then that it is a bonus.... but for anything else to happy you still have to work at it...
you still have to talk to people, show you can be a decent human being and not be a prize arse....
if you are going because you think it is easier to get your leg over... i'd think again!"
Exactly this. I've visited two clubs, and have yet to lose my 'club virginity'. The club scene is not for everyone, and the experience is probably miles away from what you may think. That being said, you might like it. Only one way to find out.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What would make it 'worth it'?
£50+ entry fee to go watch people have sex.
Possibly be ignored by everyone there or possibly get chatted up and shagged.
Lots of clubs are much less than 50 quid for a guy to get in. On weeknights some places are a tenner for gents, and most of the clubs I go to are 25 or 30 on weekends for guys. "
which clubs would you recommend for my kind of area then that's reasonable and likely too be a success for a single bloke? |
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All clubs are.much the same people going with no expectations. .....it's a swinging club jt a sex club swinging starts as socalizing most men I see at clubs seem to wonder from room to room and make no effort to socialise what so ever like one person has already mentioned if you want sex hire a prostitution. ....your guaranteed then |
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Make an effort to socialise with out being pushy.listen and try and engage with the conversation without being a know it all .
smile have fun and in your mind try and forgot about sex and talk nicely and you may be suprised |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What would make it 'worth it'?
£50+ entry fee to go watch people have sex.
Possibly be ignored by everyone there or possibly get chatted up and shagged.
Lots of clubs are much less than 50 quid for a guy to get in. On weeknights some places are a tenner for gents, and most of the clubs I go to are 25 or 30 on weekends for guys. which clubs would you recommend for my kind of area then that's reasonable and likely too be a success for a single bloke?"
Jaydees is a nice little club which is near you and is 25 or 30 for a gents entry I think.
However, you need to rethink your idea of a "successful" night - you may need to go a few times to socialise and mingle and get yourself known before being invited to play. The mentality of a success being sex will ruin your night and most likely turn you into one if the wanking zombies that you see in every club, who don't talk to anyone and just hover around in silence with their cock on their hand  |
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By *oo hotCouple
over a year ago
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"Hi all, never been to a swingers club, but I've been recommended by a friend to go try it out. I don't trust the guy enough to go at the drop of a hat. Anyone here think it's worth it?
Cheers"
Knowing what I know now after 13/14 years of playing this game... if I was a single guy I would ONLY go to Clubs.
That said, I would also make sure that I was gym fit, squeeky clean and in great shape overall mentally and physically.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I definitely think it is worth it, as long as you are presentable and confident enough to chat to people - and go in with the right attitude (i.e. don't expect to play but if it happens its a bonus).
I have been to three clubs for a proper visit now and have been lucky enough to have played each time - but I still don't go expecting that."
Great advise |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi all, never been to a swingers club, but I've been recommended by a friend to go try it out. I don't trust the guy enough to go at the drop of a hat. Anyone here think it's worth it?
Cheers
Knowing what I know now after 13/14 years of playing this game... if I was a single guy I would ONLY go to Clubs.
That said, I would also make sure that I was gym fit, squeeky clean and in great shape overall mentally and physically.
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Really!! |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL |
"What would make it 'worth it'?
£50+ entry fee to go watch people have sex.
Possibly be ignored by everyone there or possibly get chatted up and shagged.
Lots of clubs are much less than 50 quid for a guy to get in. On weeknights some places are a tenner for gents, and most of the clubs I go to are 25 or 30 on weekends for guys. which clubs would you recommend for my kind of area then that's reasonable and likely too be a success for a single bloke?"
What's your definition of success?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi all, never been to a swingers club, but I've been recommended by a friend to go try it out. I don't trust the guy enough to go at the drop of a hat. Anyone here think it's worth it?
Cheers
Knowing what I know now after 13/14 years of playing this game... if I was a single guy I would ONLY go to Clubs.
That said, I would also make sure that I was gym fit, squeeky clean and in great shape overall mentally and physically.
Really!!"
hahaa made me chuckle hehe......well it's a game of two halves for sure the |
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Jaydees is cheaper for single guys ,and we enjoy inviting single guys to join in with the fun . The only ones who go and waste their money are the ones who don't get into conversation with people or just walk around Or go around hunting searching for those having sex , the rude ones who try to grope . Lucky jaydees are strict and have managed to control and we have met several decent guys |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Great advise on this post "
yep its the nature of the beast it seems onlooking! I'm looking at them types every week in clubs....some get lucky! some dont!
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"What would make it 'worth it'?
£50+ entry fee to go watch people have sex.
Possibly be ignored by everyone there or possibly get chatted up and shagged.
Lots of clubs are much less than 50 quid for a guy to get in. On weeknights some places are a tenner for gents, and most of the clubs I go to are 25 or 30 on weekends for guys. which clubs would you recommend for my kind of area then that's reasonable and likely too be a success for a single bloke?"
I bloody hate this mindset. There could be hundreds of women looking for sex in a club but not one of them wants to fuck you.
The last time I was at Libs I was turned down twice and I'm very happy that the men who said no did. Shows that attraction matters to them. Both of them were involved in the social scene, chatting, flirting and laughing and I'm pretty sure they had a fantastic evening. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ok. So. I started swinging in February and I love it. Look at it like a working mens club with an annual fee. I have massive self confidence issues with the way I look but do very well at clubs because im polite and corteaous and good conversation.
Most women find this much more attractive than a huge cock and a six pack |
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"Hi all, never been to a swingers club, but I've been recommended by a friend to go try it out. I don't trust the guy enough to go at the drop of a hat. Anyone here think it's worth it?
Cheers
Knowing what I know now after 13/14 years of playing this game... if I was a single guy I would ONLY go to Clubs.
That said, I would also make sure that I was gym fit, squeeky clean and in great shape overall mentally and physically.
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Well, I can do the 'squeeky clean' part; I shower every Sunday night, whether I need to or not
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By *inaryGuyMan
over a year ago
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"Hi all, never been to a swingers club, but I've been recommended by a friend to go try it out. I don't trust the guy enough to go at the drop of a hat. Anyone here think it's worth it?
Cheers"
Yes of course it is, it's part of your investment in socialising with people and you may hit it off with them. Besides this is a much better route than sending millions of messages or hoping someone messages you  |
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"Ok. So. I started swinging in February and I love it. Look at it like a working mens club with an annual fee. I have massive self confidence issues with the way I look but do very well at clubs because im polite and corteaous and good conversation.
Most women find this much more attractive than a huge cock and a six pack"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Most of my Veri's are from socials very few from clubs. I generally only use this site to find new places to meet people for socials and hang out but even with that mindset I feel clubs (In london i might add) are barley worth it.
If your going to get laid then don't even bother is my opinion. the moment you enter with that mind set you've missed the point and end up giving single men a harder time.
If however you are going to meet new friends and find a comfortable place to chat and relax do it. but be prepared to pay for the experience.
Given my out goings i can only afford to go once or twice a month here in London as most places (bare in mind i live in central and don't currently drive) are around £50 - £60 per night. even then that's on nights when single guys are welcome.
Given the alternative which is look for people here where there is 15 men to every single woman you have a better chance of having a great time and making new friends.
Now if you are looking at it from the mindset of making friends your better option is to find a social and meet people that way. from my own experience it's cheaper and people are all there generally with the same plan.
From there i feel you can decide if you like people and want to party with them.
Being a GENUINE single male in my personal opinion that's the best way forward.Be yourself and if your a dick be Polite and friendly and open to new people. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Make an effort to socialise with out being pushy.listen and try and engage with the conversation without being a know it all .
smile have fun and in your mind try and forgot about sex and talk nicely and you may be suprised"
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Clubs are great.Its so much more fun to socialise and have a nice time.I do suffer from confidence and shyness however in a club i am the opposite maybe its the less clothes no idea.Anyway i have witnessed many first timers and shown them round and they have had great times.Be yourself be happy and enjoy |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I AGREE WITH POST ABOVE .BLACKPOOL CONNECTIONS IS LOW PRICED FOR ALL INCLUDING SINGLE MALES.ITS A CLASSY CLUB NEWLY BUILT AND IS OPEN SOON.DETAILS ON CLUB WEBSITE.EVEN HOTELS ARE VERY CHEAP IN BLACKPOOL NOW MAKING IT POSSIBLE TO HAVE A SWINGING LOW COST WEEKEND .THERES THE FUN FAIR WITH PLENTY OF FUN RIDES IF YOU DONT GET FUN IN THE CLUBS  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In Europe never mind brexit that's another subject or another day. Lol Clubs abroad
Single guys...... There is no change from a Ton spot.....lets put it that way.. |
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The club is definitely worth it for single guys, a lot of guys put too much emphasis on the ladies saying no in the clubs , am very appreciative of the ladies saying no to me in the club cause it helps me to move on to the next lady very quickly lol |
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