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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi, we are attending a killing kittens party on 12th April. Pls say hi if you are going. Its our first time and we welcome any advice 
L&Lxx"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have been hearing good things about these! Off to have a look...
K x
What is it???"
A company that organises high class swinging parties.
You have to submit photos to be accepted into there website and then request to attend the parties.
Usually held at high end locations (places like where the kings speech was filmed)
We joined years ago, and for what they charge entry and their website subscription prices....let's just say it's not all that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have been hearing good things about these! Off to have a look...
K x
What is it???"
Swinging events for the "elite"
Basically you need to be a certain size, age and good looking. They vet you by you sending them photos.
TheI events have been on various tv programmes over the years. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have been hearing good things about these! Off to have a look...
K x
What is it???
A company that organises high class swinging parties.
You have to submit photos to be accepted into there website and then request to attend the parties.
Usually held at high end locations (places like where the kings speech was filmed)
We joined years ago, and for what they charge entry and their website subscription prices....let's just say it's not all that. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Think they may have lowered their expectations this time around lol xx "
Its whether they meet yours which is more important ...
Go, have fun and come back to tell us what you think of the event
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Think they may have lowered their expectations this time around lol xx
Its whether they meet yours which is more important...
Go, have fun and come back to tell us what you think of the event
xx"
Thank you ... We are really looking forward to it ... Will fill you in |
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By *osieWoman
over a year ago
Wembley |
"Hi, we are attending a killing kittens party on 12th April. Pls say hi if you are going. Its our first time and we welcome any advice
L&Lxx"
We can only attend the Silver events as I am over 45 
But do tell how it was. At £160 for the entrance, we still have time to change our mind as we are scheduled for June |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think I'm too old to pass muster for these. "
Don't be silly!! I bet you would make everyone there weak at their knees....If I was currently standing then mine would have given way when I saw your photos. |
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By *CPXMan
over a year ago
Harrogate |
I've known of two ladies who were refused entry on the door after previously being passed as ok at the photo verification stage.
Having worked doors as security in the past, the ladies in question were, at best a size 14 (one due to breast size alone, everywhere else she was a 10/12) and they were good looking, erudite, educated and sexy.
They were rightly incensed as they'd paid for outfits, travel, accessories and then been turned down. One commented it was the most humiliating experience of her life, so if you're willing to take the chance, go ahead.
I know I wouldn't get in, but if you can, have fun!! |
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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago
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"I think I'm too old to pass muster for these.
Don't be silly!! I bet you would make everyone there weak at their knees....If I was currently standing then mine would have given way when I saw your photos."
You understand how their selection criteria works, right?  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I've known of two ladies who were refused entry on the door after previously being passed as ok at the photo verification stage.
Having worked doors as security in the past, the ladies in question were, at best a size 14 (one due to breast size alone, everywhere else she was a 10/12) and they were good looking, erudite, educated and sexy.
They were rightly incensed as they'd paid for outfits, travel, accessories and then been turned down. One commented it was the most humiliating experience of her life, so if you're willing to take the chance, go ahead.
I know I wouldn't get in, but if you can, have fun!! "
Now I'm worried ... What if we get turned away ... Arghhh! |
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By *osieWoman
over a year ago
Wembley |
"I've known of two ladies who were refused entry on the door after previously being passed as ok at the photo verification stage.
Having worked doors as security in the past, the ladies in question were, at best a size 14 (one due to breast size alone, everywhere else she was a 10/12) and they were good looking, erudite, educated and sexy.
They were rightly incensed as they'd paid for outfits, travel, accessories and then been turned down. One commented it was the most humiliating experience of her life, so if you're willing to take the chance, go ahead.
I know I wouldn't get in, but if you can, have fun!!
Now I'm worried ... What if we get turned away ... Arghhh! "
You are worried???
I am thinking of not turning up at all; I am 47 and my boyfriend is 42. We were applying for the Silver party meant for where one in the couple is over 45
I think we will stick with Le Boudoir; £100 cheaper too |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I've known of two ladies who were refused entry on the door after previously being passed as ok at the photo verification stage.
Having worked doors as security in the past, the ladies in question were, at best a size 14 (one due to breast size alone, everywhere else she was a 10/12) and they were good looking, erudite, educated and sexy.
They were rightly incensed as they'd paid for outfits, travel, accessories and then been turned down. One commented it was the most humiliating experience of her life, so if you're willing to take the chance, go ahead.
I know I wouldn't get in, but if you can, have fun!!
Now I'm worried ... What if we get turned away ... Arghhh!
You are worried???
I am thinking of not turning up at all; I am 47 and my boyfriend is 42. We were applying for the Silver party meant for where one in the couple is over 45
I think we will stick with Le Boudoir; £100 cheaper too"
I'm sure you will be absolutely fine!! |
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If people resemble their membership photos, come as a couple (or single female) and are not intoxicated or on narcotics they will be admitted to the KK party.
Our last evening here, a smallish night by KK standards, had 29 couples, 8 single females and zero people turned away at the door.
KK and other parties that are openly selective about age / looks are easy targets for those that feel they don't 'fit'. Events like our Silver Kittens and our 'singles nights' are attempts to help accommodate people who might fall foul of the basic rules. However the vast majority of parties are selective - whether they are private or commercial - people tend to want to play with people whom they naturally feel comfortable and attracted to.
Negitivity and gossip only harms the swing scene in general - stay positive and don't deal in hearsay. We hope you all enjoy a party soon be it a KK one or another. |
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"If people resemble their membership photos, come as a couple (or single female) and are not intoxicated or on narcotics they will be admitted to the KK party.
Our last evening here, a smallish night by KK standards, had 29 couples, 8 single females and zero people turned away at the door.
KK and other parties that are openly selective about age / looks are easy targets for those that feel they don't 'fit'. Events like our Silver Kittens and our 'singles nights' are attempts to help accommodate people who might fall foul of the basic rules. However the vast majority of parties are selective - whether they are private or commercial - people tend to want to play with people whom they naturally feel comfortable and attracted to.
Negitivity and gossip only harms the swing scene in general - stay positive and don't deal in hearsay. We hope you all enjoy a party soon be it a KK one or another. "
No single men ? |
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The basic 'standard' KK night is couples and single females only.
There are several 'other' types of night - singles nights (males and females), Silver Kittens (older participants) and Klub Kittens (social non-play nights mostly non-scene tinder crowd). All KK promo material makes clear the basic rules as to what type of night it is.
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"If people resemble their membership photos, come as a couple (or single female) and are not intoxicated or on narcotics they will be admitted to the KK party.
Our last evening here, a smallish night by KK standards, had 29 couples, 8 single females and zero people turned away at the door.
KK and other parties that are openly selective about age / looks are easy targets for those that feel they don't 'fit'. Events like our Silver Kittens and our 'singles nights' are attempts to help accommodate people who might fall foul of the basic rules. However the vast majority of parties are selective - whether they are private or commercial - people tend to want to play with people whom they naturally feel comfortable and attracted to.
Negitivity and gossip only harms the swing scene in general - stay positive and don't deal in hearsay. We hope you all enjoy a party soon be it a KK one or another. "
And people have the right to air their views and knowledge, like the above poster did. If your club / group is that good, your reviews will return a majority of positive replies.
Why oh why so many clubs feel the need to berate people who haven't enjoyed the experience and patronise their opinion.
I would have more respect if you just took it on the chin and admitted it hadn't worked out for a few people.
OP assuming the replies haven't put you off, hope you have a great time. |
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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago
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"If people resemble their membership photos, come as a couple (or single female) and are not intoxicated or on narcotics they will be admitted to the KK party.
Our last evening here, a smallish night by KK standards, had 29 couples, 8 single females and zero people turned away at the door.
KK and other parties that are openly selective about age / looks are easy targets for those that feel they don't 'fit'. Events like our Silver Kittens and our 'singles nights' are attempts to help accommodate people who might fall foul of the basic rules. However the vast majority of parties are selective - whether they are private or commercial - people tend to want to play with people whom they naturally feel comfortable and attracted to.
Negitivity and gossip only harms the swing scene in general - stay positive and don't deal in hearsay. We hope you all enjoy a party soon be it a KK one or another. "
I'm going to bet that I would "fit" into one of your nights. I just don't feel that KK is a "fit" for what I'm trying to achieve at the moment within the lifestyle.
Time,ideas and strategies do change though... |
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"If people resemble their membership photos, come as a couple (or single female) and are not intoxicated or on narcotics they will be admitted to the KK party.
Our last evening here, a smallish night by KK standards, had 29 couples, 8 single females and zero people turned away at the door.
KK and other parties that are openly selective about age / looks are easy targets for those that feel they don't 'fit'. Events like our Silver Kittens and our 'singles nights' are attempts to help accommodate people who might fall foul of the basic rules. However the vast majority of parties are selective - whether they are private or commercial - people tend to want to play with people whom they naturally feel comfortable and attracted to.
Negitivity and gossip only harms the swing scene in general - stay positive and don't deal in hearsay. We hope you all enjoy a party soon be it a KK one or another.
I'm going to bet that I would "fit" into one of your nights. I just don't feel that KK is a "fit" for what I'm trying to achieve at the moment within the lifestyle.
Time,ideas and strategies do change though... "
I like your style. Reject them before they reject you
Sorry just teasing
To me it's a club that invite select people who want to join. Or reject people that fall outside their requirements. And I'm sure there are plenty that would be deemed acceptable, that wouldn't join because of the requirements.
Different strokes for different folks as they say  |
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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago
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"If people resemble their membership photos, come as a couple (or single female) and are not intoxicated or on narcotics they will be admitted to the KK party.
Our last evening here, a smallish night by KK standards, had 29 couples, 8 single females and zero people turned away at the door.
KK and other parties that are openly selective about age / looks are easy targets for those that feel they don't 'fit'. Events like our Silver Kittens and our 'singles nights' are attempts to help accommodate people who might fall foul of the basic rules. However the vast majority of parties are selective - whether they are private or commercial - people tend to want to play with people whom they naturally feel comfortable and attracted to.
Negitivity and gossip only harms the swing scene in general - stay positive and don't deal in hearsay. We hope you all enjoy a party soon be it a KK one or another.
I'm going to bet that I would "fit" into one of your nights. I just don't feel that KK is a "fit" for what I'm trying to achieve at the moment within the lifestyle.
Time,ideas and strategies do change though...
I like your style. Reject them before they reject you
Sorry just teasing
To me it's a club that invite select people who want to join. Or reject people that fall outside their requirements. And I'm sure there are plenty that would be deemed acceptable, that wouldn't join because of the requirements.
Different strokes for different folks as they say "
I've already signed up on the website. I just haven't attended any of their parties.  |
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Hi there. Thanks for taking the time to reply at such length.
We're not too sure where we berated anyone here. We simply pointed out the very reasonable and exhaustive reasons why a person would be turned away from a KK night. None of which matched a certain 'somebody once told me' story aired above.
Perhaps some clubs are defensive because they operate in a hostile regulatory and social environment with a limited market where reputations matter and stories to tarnish them are easy. Especially from people who feel excluded or have their own enterprises to push. Given that making sure 'rumours' don't circulate is pretty sensible.
Sorry we've lessened your respect for us by putting out KK's clear rules on admittance but nevertheless,we hope you have a great time on the scene whatever parties or meets you attend. Who,knows, you might even end up enjoying a KK night. X |
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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago
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"Hi there. Thanks for taking the time to reply at such length.
We're not too sure where we berated anyone here. We simply pointed out the very reasonable and exhaustive reasons why a person would be turned away from a KK night. None of which matched a certain 'somebody once told me' story aired above.
Perhaps some clubs are defensive because they operate in a hostile regulatory and social environment with a limited market where reputations matter and stories to tarnish them are easy. Especially from people who feel excluded or have their own enterprises to push. Given that making sure 'rumours' don't circulate is pretty sensible.
Sorry we've lessened your respect for us by putting out KK's clear rules on admittance but nevertheless,we hope you have a great time on the scene whatever parties or meets you attend. Who,knows, you might even end up enjoying a KK night. X "
I was viewing the KK site on my phone while walking down the street but walked into a lamp post. And broke my nose. My face is obviously disfigured so will I be able to get in by sense of humour alone?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If people resemble their membership photos, come as a couple (or single female) and are not intoxicated or on narcotics they will be admitted to the KK party.
Our last evening here, a smallish night by KK standards, had 29 couples, 8 single females and zero people turned away at the door.
KK and other parties that are openly selective about age / looks are easy targets for those that feel they don't 'fit'. Events like our Silver Kittens and our 'singles nights' are attempts to help accommodate people who might fall foul of the basic rules. However the vast majority of parties are selective - whether they are private or commercial - people tend to want to play with people whom they naturally feel comfortable and attracted to.
Negitivity and gossip only harms the swing scene in general - stay positive and don't deal in hearsay. We hope you all enjoy a party soon be it a KK one or another.
And people have the right to air their views and knowledge, like the above poster did. If your club / group is that good, your reviews will return a majority of positive replies.
Why oh why so many clubs feel the need to berate people who haven't enjoyed the experience and patronise their opinion.
I would have more respect if you just took it on the chin and admitted it hadn't worked out for a few people.
OP assuming the replies haven't put you off, hope you have a great time. "
I didn't read it as berating, I read it as very diplomatically pointing out that if someone has passed the application process but later gets turned away at the door it may well be to do with their intoxication levels on that night, which stands for every club on every scene, safety first and all that |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If people resemble their membership photos, come as a couple (or single female) and are not intoxicated or on narcotics they will be admitted to the KK party.
Our last evening here, a smallish night by KK standards, had 29 couples, 8 single females and zero people turned away at the door.
KK and other parties that are openly selective about age / looks are easy targets for those that feel they don't 'fit'. Events like our Silver Kittens and our 'singles nights' are attempts to help accommodate people who might fall foul of the basic rules. However the vast majority of parties are selective - whether they are private or commercial - people tend to want to play with people whom they naturally feel comfortable and attracted to.
Negitivity and gossip only harms the swing scene in general - stay positive and don't deal in hearsay. We hope you all enjoy a party soon be it a KK one or another. "
'fall foul of the basic rules'
Makes you sound like a bunch of elitist cunts |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If people resemble their membership photos, come as a couple (or single female) and are not intoxicated or on narcotics they will be admitted to the KK party.
Our last evening here, a smallish night by KK standards, had 29 couples, 8 single females and zero people turned away at the door.
KK and other parties that are openly selective about age / looks are easy targets for those that feel they don't 'fit'. Events like our Silver Kittens and our 'singles nights' are attempts to help accommodate people who might fall foul of the basic rules. However the vast majority of parties are selective - whether they are private or commercial - people tend to want to play with people whom they naturally feel comfortable and attracted to.
Negitivity and gossip only harms the swing scene in general - stay positive and don't deal in hearsay. We hope you all enjoy a party soon be it a KK one or another. "
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By (user no longer on site)
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I did attend four of their parties with a previous gf Some years ago. Two of them were outstanding, while the other two were more average. I am pretty sure you'd enjoy it. Have fun. |
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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago
Wherever the party is! |
"If people resemble their membership photos, come as a couple (or single female) and are not intoxicated or on narcotics they will be admitted to the KK party.
Our last evening here, a smallish night by KK standards, had 29 couples, 8 single females and zero people turned away at the door.
KK and other parties that are openly selective about age / looks are easy targets for those that feel they don't 'fit'. Events like our Silver Kittens and our 'singles nights' are attempts to help accommodate people who might fall foul of the basic rules. However the vast majority of parties are selective - whether they are private or commercial - people tend to want to play with people whom they naturally feel comfortable and attracted to.
Negitivity and gossip only harms the swing scene in general - stay positive and don't deal in hearsay. We hope you all enjoy a party soon be it a KK one or another.
'fall foul of the basic rules'
Makes you sound like a bunch of elitist cunts"
Plenty of organisations have "basic rules". I wouldn't call them all "elitist cunts". |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If people resemble their membership photos, come as a couple (or single female) and are not intoxicated or on narcotics they will be admitted to the KK party.
Our last evening here, a smallish night by KK standards, had 29 couples, 8 single females and zero people turned away at the door.
KK and other parties that are openly selective about age / looks are easy targets for those that feel they don't 'fit'. Events like our Silver Kittens and our 'singles nights' are attempts to help accommodate people who might fall foul of the basic rules. However the vast majority of parties are selective - whether they are private or commercial - people tend to want to play with people whom they naturally feel comfortable and attracted to.
Negitivity and gossip only harms the swing scene in general - stay positive and don't deal in hearsay. We hope you all enjoy a party soon be it a KK one or another.
'fall foul of the basic rules'
Makes you sound like a bunch of elitist cunts
Plenty of organisations have "basic rules". I wouldn't call them all "elitist cunts". "
Basic rules!
No fatties
No oldies
No uglies
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"Hi there. Thanks for taking the time to reply at such length.
We're not too sure where we berated anyone here. We simply pointed out the very reasonable and exhaustive reasons why a person would be turned away from a KK night. None of which matched a certain 'somebody once told me' story aired above.
Perhaps some clubs are defensive because they operate in a hostile regulatory and social environment with a limited market where reputations matter and stories to tarnish them are easy. Especially from people who feel excluded or have their own enterprises to push. Given that making sure 'rumours' don't circulate is pretty sensible.
Sorry we've lessened your respect for us by putting out KK's clear rules on admittance but nevertheless,we hope you have a great time on the scene whatever parties or meets you attend. Who,knows, you might even end up enjoying a KK night. X "
Actually I thought your earlier post was fine. Just the last paragraph where you imply the guy who posted the story about the two ladies was untrue.
In my opinion, you're obviously successful or you wouldn't still be going. I think I first looked at your site about 10 years ago and decided it wasn't for me. But take this the right way; I liken club/ group replies a bit like trip advisor. Like when I see one of my favourite restaurants attack and accuse customers of telling lies. Why bother? You will I'm sure have a majority of reviews talking highly of you, so let that speak for itself.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thank you everyone for your comments. They are very much appreciated. We are defiantly gonna take the risk and go ... And hope we don't get rejected lol!
Very much looking forward to it ! We think we will have a fab time, especially from the private messages we have received - hoping to tick off a few boxes so will fill you all in xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If people resemble their membership photos, come as a couple (or single female) and are not intoxicated or on narcotics they will be admitted to the KK party.
Our last evening here, a smallish night by KK standards, had 29 couples, 8 single females and zero people turned away at the door.
KK and other parties that are openly selective about age / looks are easy targets for those that feel they don't 'fit'. Events like our Silver Kittens and our 'singles nights' are attempts to help accommodate people who might fall foul of the basic rules. However the vast majority of parties are selective - whether they are private or commercial - people tend to want to play with people whom they naturally feel comfortable and attracted to.
Negitivity and gossip only harms the swing scene in general - stay positive and don't deal in hearsay. We hope you all enjoy a party soon be it a KK one or another. "
Have no issue with your policies & mindset for your nights, even if we are too old & ugly we respect your way of doing things, there is a place for every type of night, exclusion of some people has always been part of the club scene from greedy girls to age restrictive nights, no one really complains about those nights, enjoy |
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"Thank you everyone for your comments. They are very much appreciated. We are defiantly gonna take the risk and go ... And hope we don't get rejected lol!
Very much looking forward to it ! We think we will have a fab time, especially from the private messages we have received - hoping to tick off a few boxes so will fill you all in xxx"
Oh great. Love to hear how you get on. Have great time |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Le boudoir in London and chic @ liberty elite are also worth a look.
Couldn't possible say if all the really attractive people in those two places are vetted or not..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We are members of KK and have been to several parties at different venues over the years. There are positives and negatives about their parties:
Positives -
Usually sumptuous, classy venues
They attract good looking people - you can't really get in otherwise! (Not sure how we made it! lol
It's all about the girls having a good time and being able to say 'no'
More single girls than your average club.
Negatives -
Quite pricey - we paid £150 for the last party
Venues vary and can be hard to get to and involve the cost of an overnight hotel.
There is a bit of a clique and snobbery amongst some of the guests which makes it a bit unfriendly at times. Hard to talk to other people and we always try to!
Staff are a bit cold and unwelcoming sometimes.. Very money focused rarher then client focused.
As you can see, we find the negatives outweigh the positives for us so decided not to attend anymore and now prefer regular clubs such as VA where you are always assured of a warm welcome and lots of friendly, attractive people.
Each to their own but sadly not for us anymore.
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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago
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"We are members of KK and have been to several parties at different venues over the years. There are positives and negatives about their parties:
Positives -
Usually sumptuous, classy venues
They attract good looking people - you can't really get in otherwise! (Not sure how we made it! lol
It's all about the girls having a good time and being able to say 'no'
More single girls than your average club.
Negatives -
Quite pricey - we paid £150 for the last party
Venues vary and can be hard to get to and involve the cost of an overnight hotel.
There is a bit of a clique and snobbery amongst some of the guests which makes it a bit unfriendly at times. Hard to talk to other people and we always try to!
Staff are a bit cold and unwelcoming sometimes.. Very money focused rarher then client focused.
As you can see, we find the negatives outweigh the positives for us so decided not to attend anymore and now prefer regular clubs such as VA where you are always assured of a warm welcome and lots of friendly, attractive people.
Each to their own but sadly not for us anymore.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We are members of KK and have been to several parties at different venues over the years. There are positives and negatives about their parties:
Positives -
Usually sumptuous, classy venues
They attract good looking people - you can't really get in otherwise! (Not sure how we made it! lol
It's all about the girls having a good time and being able to say 'no'
More single girls than your average club.
Negatives -
Quite pricey - we paid £150 for the last party
Venues vary and can be hard to get to and involve the cost of an overnight hotel.
There is a bit of a clique and snobbery amongst some of the guests which makes it a bit unfriendly at times. Hard to talk to other people and we always try to!
Staff are a bit cold and unwelcoming sometimes.. Very money focused rarher then client focused.
As you can see, we find the negatives outweigh the positives for us so decided not to attend anymore and now prefer regular clubs such as VA where you are always assured of a warm welcome and lots of friendly, attractive people.
Each to their own but sadly not for us anymore.
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Thank you for your message. We have tried clubs, the ones in the north obviously aren't as good as the southern ones lol! We love group play, but I find it very off-putting a group of men wanking by the bed or by a perving window. This has really put me off clubs which is why we have decided to try something more specific that focuses on what we are looking for.
Will let you know how we get on xx |
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"We are members of KK and have been to several parties at different venues over the years. There are positives and negatives about their parties:
Positives -
Usually sumptuous, classy venues
They attract good looking people - you can't really get in otherwise! (Not sure how we made it! lol
It's all about the girls having a good time and being able to say 'no'
More single girls than your average club.
Negatives -
Quite pricey - we paid £150 for the last party
Venues vary and can be hard to get to and involve the cost of an overnight hotel.
There is a bit of a clique and snobbery amongst some of the guests which makes it a bit unfriendly at times. Hard to talk to other people and we always try to!
Staff are a bit cold and unwelcoming sometimes.. Very money focused rarher then client focused.
As you can see, we find the negatives outweigh the positives for us so decided not to attend anymore and now prefer regular clubs such as VA where you are always assured of a warm welcome and lots of friendly, attractive people.
Each to their own but sadly not for us anymore.
Thank you for your message. We have tried clubs, the ones in the north obviously aren't as good as the southern ones lol! We love group play, but I find it very off-putting a group of men wanking by the bed or by a perving window. This has really put me off clubs which is why we have decided to try something more specific that focuses on what we are looking for.
Will let you know how we get on xx"
Yeah, you'll get nicer looking younger wankers
Sorry couldn't resist. Have to say though, I've felt like that few times recently and prefer home meets now because of it. |
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"I've known of two ladies who were refused entry on the door after previously being passed as ok at the photo verification stage.
Having worked doors as security in the past, the ladies in question were, at best a size 14 (one due to breast size alone, everywhere else she was a 10/12) and they were good looking, erudite, educated and sexy.
They were rightly incensed as they'd paid for outfits, travel, accessories and then been turned down. One commented it was the most humiliating experience of her life, so if you're willing to take the chance, go ahead.
I know I wouldn't get in, but if you can, have fun!! "
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"I've known of two ladies who were refused entry on the door after previously being passed as ok at the photo verification stage.
Having worked doors as security in the past, the ladies in question were, at best a size 14 (one due to breast size alone, everywhere else she was a 10/12) and they were good looking, erudite, educated and sexy.
They were rightly incensed as they'd paid for outfits, travel, accessories and then been turned down. One commented it was the most humiliating experience of her life, so if you're willing to take the chance, go ahead.
I know I wouldn't get in, but if you can, have fun!!
That is bloody awful!"
And obvious tosh.
Of course now it's been posted somewhere someone will believe it, get discouraged and miss the opportunity for fun. It's quite depressing how malice and nonsense spread in this scene to the benefit of no-one.
As for the 'wanking men' phenomenon - our rules are quite clear that men can only be in the playrooms when accompanied by a female. Our staff are instructed to enforce that rule without exception.
As for north / south.... We do venture north quite a lot and were also sure there are many great private parties where the caliber of men in attendance and their behaviour is similar to our nights. Northerners and the Scots are such fun X |
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Rarther anoyingly we could make the February event in Edinburgh and can't make the summer one either. But are very much looking forward to eventually going to one.
We have spoken to a few people about them and they sound a great night. |
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"I've known of two ladies who were refused entry on the door after previously being passed as ok at the photo verification stage.
Having worked doors as security in the past, the ladies in question were, at best a size 14 (one due to breast size alone, everywhere else she was a 10/12) and they were good looking, erudite, educated and sexy.
They were rightly incensed as they'd paid for outfits, travel, accessories and then been turned down. One commented it was the most humiliating experience of her life, so if you're willing to take the chance, go ahead.
I know I wouldn't get in, but if you can, have fun!!
That is bloody awful!
And obvious tosh.
Of course now it's been posted somewhere someone will believe it, get discouraged and miss the opportunity for fun. It's quite depressing how malice and nonsense spread in this scene to the benefit of no-one.
As for the 'wanking men' phenomenon - our rules are quite clear that men can only be in the playrooms when accompanied by a female. Our staff are instructed to enforce that rule without exception.
As for north / south.... We do venture north quite a lot and were also sure there are many great private parties where the caliber of men in attendance and their behaviour is similar to our nights. Northerners and the Scots are such fun X "
Well I don't know who to believe really |
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"I've known of two ladies who were refused entry on the door after previously being passed as ok at the photo verification stage.
Having worked doors as security in the past, the ladies in question were, at best a size 14 (one due to breast size alone, everywhere else she was a 10/12) and they were good looking, erudite, educated and sexy.
They were rightly incensed as they'd paid for outfits, travel, accessories and then been turned down. One commented it was the most humiliating experience of her life, so if you're willing to take the chance, go ahead.
I know I wouldn't get in, but if you can, have fun!!
That is bloody awful!
And obvious tosh.
Of course now it's been posted somewhere someone will believe it, get discouraged and miss the opportunity for fun. It's quite depressing how malice and nonsense spread in this scene to the benefit of no-one.
As for the 'wanking men' phenomenon - our rules are quite clear that men can only be in the playrooms when accompanied by a female. Our staff are instructed to enforce that rule without exception.
As for north / south.... We do venture north quite a lot and were also sure there are many great private parties where the caliber of men in attendance and their behaviour is similar to our nights. Northerners and the Scots are such fun X "
We are very much looking forward to the girls being in control
I was referring to the clubs up here, hence why we have decided to prey on the younger looking crowd!
We will definitely be venturing over the water |
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Perception strange isn't it.... regarding the age limit we time and time again find the most attractive sexy women at all the clubs we have visited have been early to mid fourties |
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"Perception strange isn't it.... regarding the age limit we time and time again find the most attractive sexy women at all the clubs we have visited have been mid to late fourties
I agree "
Early to mid 40's are wonderful. It's the 60 year old men that I don't particularly like! We aren't Spring chickens ourselves lol! |
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"Hi there. Thanks for taking the time to reply at such length.
We're not too sure where we berated anyone here. We simply pointed out the very reasonable and exhaustive reasons why a person would be turned away from a KK night. None of which matched a certain 'somebody once told me' story aired above.
Perhaps some clubs are defensive because they operate in a hostile regulatory and social environment with a limited market where reputations matter and stories to tarnish them are easy. Especially from people who feel excluded or have their own enterprises to push. Given that making sure 'rumours' don't circulate is pretty sensible.
Sorry we've lessened your respect for us by putting out KK's clear rules on admittance but nevertheless,we hope you have a great time on the scene whatever parties or meets you attend. Who,knows, you might even end up enjoying a KK night. X "
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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago
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It's just a pity that clubs such as KK decide which age group you would be attracted to and want to play with. Personally I'm not usually attracted to men older than me so I wouldn't be inclined to attend a derogatory 'silver' party. Who wants to go to something that even sounds second best.
For the money they charge I'd like to have more choice of who I play with. I joined but haven't paid and certainly don't want to be labelled by my age. I also font want to be judged on my body shape. There are many admirers of all shapes and sizes. I shall be closing my account on KK. |
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"If people resemble their membership photos, come as a couple (or single female) and are not intoxicated or on narcotics they will be admitted to the KK party.
Our last evening here, a smallish night by KK standards, had 29 couples, 8 single females and zero people turned away at the door.
KK and other parties that are openly selective about age / looks are easy targets for those that feel they don't 'fit'. Events like our Silver Kittens and our 'singles nights' are attempts to help accommodate people who might fall foul of the basic rules. However the vast majority of parties are selective - whether they are private or commercial - people tend to want to play with people whom they naturally feel comfortable and attracted to.
Negitivity and gossip only harms the swing scene in general - stay positive and don't deal in hearsay. We hope you all enjoy a party soon be it a KK one or another.
'fall foul of the basic rules'
Makes you sound like a bunch of elitist cunts
Plenty of organisations have "basic rules". I wouldn't call them all "elitist cunts".
Basic rules!
No fatties
No oldies
No uglies
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"Hi, we are attending a killing kittens party on 12th April. Pls say hi if you are going. Its our first time and we welcome any advice
L&Lxx"
As per the original message, the question was for advice for a newbie to the party. It really didn't merit the above!
Everyone has their own preferences. Some like bbw, bbc, tvs, gangbangs, bi etc. Those events at clubs aren't for everyone they are targeted at a particular group and are not something aimed at me so I wouldn't go or wouldn't comment. We do, however prefer people under 50 and I'm bi so the girl empowerment is really up my tree. We, are therefore their target market - as a bbc night at a club attracts a different market.
The negative comments on here are as judgemental as the actual parties themselves, which I find rather contradictory and ironic.
Suppose what I'm saying is everyone has preferences, and if we were all the same the world would be a very boring place.
Thank you all for your constructive feedback, and hope you all have a filthy weekend, however you may spend it  |
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"Hi, we are attending a killing kittens party on 12th April. Pls say hi if you are going. Its our first time and we welcome any advice
L&Lxx
As per the original message, the question was for advice for a newbie to the party. It really didn't merit the above!
Everyone has their own preferences. Some like bbw, bbc, tvs, gangbangs, bi etc. Those events at clubs aren't for everyone they are targeted at a particular group and are not something aimed at me so I wouldn't go or wouldn't comment. We do, however prefer people under 50 and I'm bi so the girl empowerment is really up my tree. We, are therefore their target market - as a bbc night at a club attracts a different market.
The negative comments on here are as judgemental as the actual parties themselves, which I find rather contradictory and ironic.
Suppose what I'm saying is everyone has preferences, and if we were all the same the world would be a very boring place.
Thank you all for your constructive feedback, and hope you all have a filthy weekend, however you may spend it "
I didn't know how judgemental KK was until I joined it. I had wanted to go to one of their masked balls as someone else on here had suggested it to me. Had I known in advance then I wouldn't have bothered. It's only by having an open discussion on threads such as these that people find out.
I'm sure no offence was meant, people were merely voicing their opinions and experiences. |
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I wasn't being snotty. They look like great parties. I know their rules. I'm too old at 42. So be it. I have been tempted to fib a bit about my age, but that would be totally counter productive. |
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"I wasn't being snotty. They look like great parties. I know their rules. I'm too old at 42. So be it. I have been tempted to fib a bit about my age, but that would be totally counter productive. "
You don't look 42 h |
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By *aeBabeWoman
over a year ago
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"I wasn't being snotty. They look like great parties. I know their rules. I'm too old at 42. So be it. I have been tempted to fib a bit about my age, but that would be totally counter productive. "
You still would be able to go HH, I know a few ladies in their forties and fifties, that look amazing who attend the regular KK events and they always have a great time. |
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"It's just a pity that clubs such as KK decide which age group you would be attracted to and want to play with. Personally I'm not usually attracted to men older than me so I wouldn't be inclined to attend a derogatory 'silver' party. Who wants to go to something that even sounds second best.
For the money they charge I'd like to have more choice of who I play with. I joined but haven't paid and certainly don't want to be labelled by my age. I also font want to be judged on my body shape. There are many admirers of all shapes and sizes. I shall be closing my account on KK."
I think if you would like to attend a club for younger people then it means you aren't wanting to play with older people there. So I don't think they decide for you which age group you'd like to play with, you go if you are looking for people similar to yourself I guess?
Sorry if that sounds really stupid, I'm hungover
H xo |
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"It's just a pity that clubs such as KK decide which age group you would be attracted to and want to play with. Personally I'm not usually attracted to men older than me so I wouldn't be inclined to attend a derogatory 'silver' party. Who wants to go to something that even sounds second best.
For the money they charge I'd like to have more choice of who I play with. I joined but haven't paid and certainly don't want to be labelled by my age. I also font want to be judged on my body shape. There are many admirers of all shapes and sizes. I shall be closing my account on KK.
I think if you would like to attend a club for younger people then it means you aren't wanting to play with older people there. So I don't think they decide for you which age group you'd like to play with, you go if you are looking for people similar to yourself I guess?
Sorry if that sounds really stupid, I'm hungover
H xo"
My point is that they don't decide, the people who attend decide to go because they are the group of people they are attracted to!
Hope the hangover isn't too bad x |
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We are heading down to London at the end of April over the bank holiday (28th-1st May) and have been contemplating which clubs to attend.
Reading reviews,forums and scrolling through various websites KillingKittens has intrigued our interest the most.
This post has been a good insight into people's experiences. Thank you OP
Please let us know how it was for you
Think we'll definitely be attending
Anyone in the London area that weekend fancy some social fun with a down to earth young couple or will be attending some naughtiness drop us a line .. x |
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"We are heading down to London at the end of April over the bank holiday (28th-1st May) and have been contemplating which clubs to attend.
Reading reviews,forums and scrolling through various websites KillingKittens has intrigued our interest the most.
This post has been a good insight into people's experiences. Thank you OP
Please let us know how it was for you
Think we'll definitely be attending
Anyone in the London area that weekend fancy some social fun with a down to earth young couple or will be attending some naughtiness drop us a line .. x"
Yes we will
We got a lovely message from le boudoir, which a lot of people rave about so maybe try that xx |
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Sounds like being a doorman there is a right bundle of laughs. |
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"I have been hearing good things about these! Off to have a look...
K x
What is it???
A company that organises high class swinging parties.
You have to submit photos to be accepted into there website and then request to attend the parties.
Usually held at high end locations (places like where the kings speech was filmed)
We joined years ago, and for what they charge entry and their website subscription prices....let's just say it's not all that.
You beat me to it "
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Hi guys, for those who wanted to know how we got on, here goes ....
- we had dinner - the food at the venue was not very good, but this was secondary to why we were there. We were, however put on a table with a very hot couple so it was perfect!
- the cabaret was fun, it didn't go on for too long and was a great ice breaker. The compare was fun and got the audience involved.
- the people who attended were hot - I was worried we wouldn't get in but I'd say we were in the top percent looks wise. This isn't a big headed statement, but if people have been turned away it would have been because they didn't resemble their pictures.
- the play area wasn't the best because it is in a cabaret bar. We would have preferred a proper play area, maybe private type rooms but we made the most of what was there. infact we made the most of booths, tables, play area ... We definitely had our cake and ate it!
Would we go back again ... Definitely - we want more cake ... Preferably the hot girl type!
For those wondering, definitely worth a visit!
L&L xxx
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"Hi guys, for those who wanted to know how we got on, here goes ....
- we had dinner - the food at the venue was not very good, but this was secondary to why we were there. We were, however put on a table with a very hot couple so it was perfect!
- the cabaret was fun, it didn't go on for too long and was a great ice breaker. The compare was fun and got the audience involved.
- the people who attended were hot - I was worried we wouldn't get in but I'd say we were in the top percent looks wise. This isn't a big headed statement, but if people have been turned away it would have been because they didn't resemble their pictures.
- the play area wasn't the best because it is in a cabaret bar. We would have preferred a proper play area, maybe private type rooms but we made the most of what was there. infact we made the most of booths, tables, play area ... We definitely had our cake and ate it!
Would we go back again ... Definitely - we want more cake ... Preferably the hot girl type!
For those wondering, definitely worth a visit!
L&L xxx
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Good and fair review |
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"Hi guys, for those who wanted to know how we got on, here goes ....
- we had dinner - the food at the venue was not very good, but this was secondary to why we were there. We were, however put on a table with a very hot couple so it was perfect!
- the cabaret was fun, it didn't go on for too long and was a great ice breaker. The compare was fun and got the audience involved.
- the people who attended were hot - I was worried we wouldn't get in but I'd say we were in the top percent looks wise. This isn't a big headed statement, but if people have been turned away it would have been because they didn't resemble their pictures.
- the play area wasn't the best because it is in a cabaret bar. We would have preferred a proper play area, maybe private type rooms but we made the most of what was there. infact we made the most of booths, tables, play area ... We definitely had our cake and ate it!
Would we go back again ... Definitely - we want more cake ... Preferably the hot girl type!
For those wondering, definitely worth a visit!
L&L xxx
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Thanks for taking the time to write about your experience.
We're all booked up for the 29th x |
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"Hi guys, for those who wanted to know how we got on, here goes ....
- we had dinner - the food at the venue was not very good, but this was secondary to why we were there. We were, however put on a table with a very hot couple so it was perfect!
- the cabaret was fun, it didn't go on for too long and was a great ice breaker. The compare was fun and got the audience involved.
- the people who attended were hot - I was worried we wouldn't get in but I'd say we were in the top percent looks wise. This isn't a big headed statement, but if people have been turned away it would have been because they didn't resemble their pictures.
- the play area wasn't the best because it is in a cabaret bar. We would have preferred a proper play area, maybe private type rooms but we made the most of what was there. infact we made the most of booths, tables, play area ... We definitely had our cake and ate it!
Would we go back again ... Definitely - we want more cake ... Preferably the hot girl type!
For those wondering, definitely worth a visit!
L&L xxx
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Glad to hear it. Hope no bean bags were popped |
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