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over a year ago
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Been wanting to attend abfabs for awhile now. I like the idea of finding a more experienced abfabber to go with. Have a drink before hand, chat about the swingers club etiquette etc.. Anyone out there willing to take a noob? |
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Been wanting to attend abfabs for awhile now. I like the idea of finding a more experienced abfabber to go with. Have a drink before hand, chat about the swingers club etiquette etc.. Anyone out there willing to take a noob?"
I'm always happy to have a wingman. |
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To be honest when a guy puts up this sort of post it just rings alarm bells with women. As in - oh here's a guy that wants to go in as a couple because it's cheaper and/or wants to go Saturday night when it's couples and ladies only. |
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By *issVeryWoman
over a year ago
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"To be honest when a guy puts up this sort of post it just rings alarm bells with women. As in - oh here's a guy that wants to go in as a couple because it's cheaper and/or wants to go Saturday night when it's couples and ladies only. "
Or it's just online fantasy, a real offer might be scary..we shall see, if he logs back on... |
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"To be honest when a guy puts up this sort of post it just rings alarm bells with women. As in - oh here's a guy that wants to go in as a couple because it's cheaper and/or wants to go Saturday night when it's couples and ladies only.
Or it's just online fantasy, a real offer might be scary..we shall see, if he logs
back on..."
Yeah I'm still here. Lol
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"To be honest when a guy puts up this sort of post it just rings alarm bells with women. As in - oh here's a guy that wants to go in as a couple because it's cheaper and/or wants to go Saturday night when it's couples and ladies only. "
Or it could be a legitimate question to try the social side of this site & meet others for friendly advice? |
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We go often and have taken friends along to introduce them to it all. We were introduced this way too.
The issue comes along when one thinks that because they're going together they are DEFINITELY going to play together or when one is having a great time and wants to play and the other isn't and wants to go home and he's your ride home.
Or both are into totally different things. I'm the girl in this couple so would be very wary about going alone with a single male.
My preference would be for a couple to come along with both of us, that way it's easier and less pressure. |
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Been wanting to attend abfabs for awhile now. I like the idea of finding a more experienced abfabber to go with. Have a drink before hand, chat about the swingers club etiquette etc.. Anyone out there willing to take a noob?"
My suggestion would be to find people who want to meet for a social drink ONLY first.
Have a chat, get on with them, get comfortable with them and they with you.
THEN you can talk later about possibly going to a club with them. |
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"We go often and have taken friends along to introduce them to it all. We were introduced this way too.
The issue comes along when one thinks that because they're going together they are DEFINITELY going to play together or when one is having a great time and wants to play and the other isn't and wants to go home and he's your ride home.
I understand your logic.
Thanks for your advice X
Or both are into totally different things. I'm the girl in this couple so would be very wary about going alone with a single male.
My preference would be for a couple to come along with both of us, that way it's easier and less pressure. "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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Been wanting to attend abfabs for awhile now. I like the idea of finding a more experienced abfabber to go with. Have a drink before hand, chat about the swingers club etiquette etc.. Anyone out there willing to take a noob?
My suggestion would be to find people who want to meet for a social drink
ONLY first.
This would be the perfect scenario for me, which in turn would also make myself feel most comfortable.
Thanks for the advice also. X
Have a chat, get on with them, get comfortable with them and they with you.
THEN you can talk later about possibly going to a club with them."
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"To be honest when a guy puts up this sort of post it just rings alarm bells with women. As in - oh here's a guy that wants to go in as a couple because it's cheaper and/or wants to go Saturday night when it's couples and ladies only.
Or it could be a legitimate question to try the social side of this site & meet others for friendly advice? "
So you'd be willing to meet a man and go there with him? |
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