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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

What if I am so nervous I suffer erectile issue

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Then you suffer an erectile issue like pretty much every man does at some point.

Tke s bit of time relax chst with the woman you're playing with have some nice foreplay and before you know it your old chap will be good to go.

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By *ierenzeWoman over a year ago

ORPINGTON

Go initially to watch and chat. You'll probably be fine just don't stress about it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Easy said than done X

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Easy said than done X "

Then don't go.

Really if you worry about it, it's only going to cause you problems. Try and go without expectations. Maybe that'll help.

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By *cduck and Blue eyesCouple over a year ago

nr chester

What club are you thinking of attending?

Mrs blue eyes

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Am thinking of townhouse cos it's local unless you can suggest any others?

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By *cduck and Blue eyesCouple over a year ago

nr chester

"Am thinking of townhouse cos it's local unless you can suggest any others? "
. I figured that's where you were thinking but didn't want to assume

In answer to your question then, you have picked imo a wonderful club, and I think you'll find that the way they help to settle in new members will help with your worries, you will be encouraged to go along and get to know the club in more of a social setting than a sexual one, hopefully then the familiarity will settle your nerves, if and when you do play

Good luck op, you'll be just fine I'm sure

Mrs blue eyes

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By *andomfodCouple over a year ago

walsall

You can't go to a club and put pressure on. Sometimes you won't play, simple. If you put so much pressure on, you won't relax and enjoy it.

We only go with the hope of getting to know people, socialising for the future. Anything more than that and we are happy. Just don't talk yourself out of it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Mrs blue eyes thank you for your lovely advice very nice of you X

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Thank you lovely c

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By *cduck and Blue eyesCouple over a year ago

nr chester

"Mrs blue eyes thank you for your lovely advice very nice of you X "
. Aww no problem, good luck with your journey and remember to have fun

Mrs blue eyes

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Op, my advice, as has been said previously , is just to go there with no expectations and socialise, have a chat with the girls and guys and you'll be cool

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By *eyMrJackMan over a year ago

Leeds

Drink lots of water and not beer

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By *arehamMan over a year ago

handforth

As long as you have a towel on no one will bother if you have a hard on,

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By *ownhouseTwosomeCouple over a year ago

Birkenhead/Liverpool

I really wouldn't worry as it's really common and worry just make it worse! This has happened with lots of guys I've played with...my answer? You have a tongue, get to it

hahaha A fucking is not the be all and end all!

If you find that it is a problem and it bothers you, then a little blue pill is your friend xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I keep hoping that they come up with a drugs that's the polar opposite to Viagra .... I've a constant boner & could do with some respite

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By *ettyboop61Woman over a year ago

St Neots

"Am thinking of townhouse cos it's local unless you can suggest any others? "

Just as people say go and socialise and if your lucky then all the better but don't go with the attitude that your going to get a shag.....that's the bonus

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By *mega_1Woman over a year ago

Birkenhead

As someone above has said Townhouse is a brilliant club to attend as a newbie.

The newbies and Notso's on a Wednesday would be a great chance to come along socialise and chat to people, if anything develops then just go along with it.

I've had guys who've had issues in the past, those that just shrugged their shoulders and carried on with fingers and tounge have been great fun and certainly left me satisfied

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Thanks everyone cheers . But thinking of going with a couple of any out there would like to come with me get in touch X

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By *ownhouseTwosomeCouple over a year ago

Birkenhead/Liverpool

"Thanks everyone cheers . But thinking of going with a couple of any out there would like to come with me get in touch X "

That won't make any difference.

You're not a couple though, so beware...some clubs won't let you in as a couple and charge as singles. You're a single guy; bite the bullet and do what every other nervous single guy has done and go alone

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Undecided but your right hit it on my own X

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By *ishopstippleMan over a year ago

Purley

"I keep hoping that they come up with a drugs that's the polar opposite to Viagra .... I've a constant boner & could do with some respite

Stop eating the blue and orange smarties then

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I will av a kamagra I won't fail then

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