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over a year ago
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I really want to try a swinging club but really don't fancy doing alone on my first time. Is this normal or the fact I don't wanna go alone,does that say I shouldn't do it all? |
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"I really want to try a swinging club but really don't fancy doing alone on my first time. Is this normal or the fact I don't wanna go alone,does that say I shouldn't do it all? "
Just means you are just like everyone else, there are people that will take you just ask, I would let you come with us but you are a bit far away unless you are willing to travel. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I really want to try a swinging club but really don't fancy doing alone on my first time. Is this normal or the fact I don't wanna go alone,does that say I shouldn't do it all?
Just means you are just like everyone else, there are people that will take you just ask, I would let you come with us but you are a bit far away unless you are willing to travel. "
Oh right ok thank you! Yes I would be willing to travel I think going to one that's not local would be best for my first as I'd not bump into my neighbor or something when I'll be incredibly nervous?? |
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"I really want to try a swinging club but really don't fancy doing alone on my first time. Is this normal or the fact I don't wanna go alone,does that say I shouldn't do it all?
Just means you are just like everyone else, there are people that will take you just ask, I would let you come with us but you are a bit far away unless you are willing to travel.
Oh right ok thank you! Yes I would be willing to travel I think going to one that's not local would be best for my first as I'd not bump into my neighbor or something when I'll be incredibly nervous?? "
Well the next event/club we are going to is the ffff at Xtasia 17th march it's in the forum check it out you will need to be a member, although if we go attic before then I'll let you know, that one you don't need membership for. |
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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago
Wherever the party is! |
"I really want to try a swinging club but really don't fancy doing alone on my first time. Is this normal or the fact I don't wanna go alone,does that say I shouldn't do it all?
Just means you are just like everyone else, there are people that will take you just ask, I would let you come with us but you are a bit far away unless you are willing to travel.
Oh right ok thank you! Yes I would be willing to travel I think going to one that's not local would be best for my first as I'd not bump into my neighbor or something when I'll be incredibly nervous?? "
If you bumped into your neighbour, what do YOU think they would be doing there?  |
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By *ilacWoman
over a year ago
Cheshire |
"I really want to try a swinging club but really don't fancy doing alone on my first time. Is this normal or the fact I don't wanna go alone,does that say I shouldn't do it all? "
I think it's normal to feel nervous. You'll be fine once you're through the door. Townhouse club have a Newbies and Not So Newbies night every Wednesdays. New guys book in for an induction, get a tour round and get the club rules and ethos explained to them and you can ask questions. Then you can mingle with everyone. A lot of seasoned swingers there and it's a very relaxed evening. |
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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago
Stoke area |
"I really want to try a swinging club but really don't fancy doing alone on my first time. Is this normal or the fact I don't wanna go alone,does that say I shouldn't do it all?
I think it's normal to feel nervous. You'll be fine once you're through the door. Townhouse club have a Newbies and Not So Newbies night every Wednesdays. New guys book in for an induction, get a tour round and get the club rules and ethos explained to them and you can ask questions. Then you can mingle with everyone. A lot of seasoned swingers there and it's a very relaxed evening. "
I didn't realise it was every week. I thought you had to go on a specific Wednesday !?! |
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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago
Stoke area |
"Try Club Atlantis Evolution in Burslem, Stoke-on-Trent.
Checkout the Club's website and the reviews on here. "
Atlantis is great for new people. It's not dress down and as lots of reviews state it is a really friendly club. If you come on a Friday, when single men are allowed, you will get a tour around and chance to ask questions and have a chat about etiquette and useful tips and then you will be introduced to some regulars. |
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