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Chams Bi Night Monday 13th
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Oh and we would be wanting to meet nice bi guys preferably under 45 and ideally sub. And maybe an exceptional couple, but the emphasis is on bi male play so not looking to meet straight men or focus on bi fem play. Thank you   |
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over a year ago
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"A rare opportunity is presented to us. We are free to go 
Who else is going or thinking of going "
I'm a bi guy and also sub. But I can't send you a message. |
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"Oh and we would be wanting to meet nice bi guys preferably under 45 and ideally sub. And maybe an exceptional couple, but the emphasis is on bi male play so not looking to meet straight men or focus on bi fem play. Thank you
We'll stay out of your way then...  "
 . Is having preference a problem? |
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"So chams would turn down someone who isn't gay or bi on a Monday? Male of female? No I don't think so But if your not bi-friendly then they could "
If they know you're a straight male they are very likely to turn you away on a Monday for good reason. |
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"Strange re so called "straight" guys thinking of attending a bi night ???? ... lol ... wonders never cease .. "
Yes last bi night we ateended - not Chams - the only guy we asked to play turned out to be straight. Three guys in this club. We asked this one to join us in a room. He happily agreed and followed us. Must have been sixth sense that i even asked if he was bi. No he replied I'm straight and smirked.
We got up and left. We attend bi nights for bi male play. We would attend other nights for straight or bi fem play. We're odd I know |
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"So chams would turn down someone who isn't gay or bi on a Monday? Male of female? No I don't think so But if your not bi-friendly then they could
If they know you're a straight male they are very likely to turn you away on a Monday for good reason. "
I've been there when Mark has turned people away, I think it's fair enough! |
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"So chams would turn down someone who isn't gay or bi on a Monday? Male of female? No I don't think so But if your not bi-friendly then they could
If they know you're a straight male they are very likely to turn you away on a Monday for good reason.
I've been there when Mark has turned people away, I think it's fair enough! "
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"So chams would turn down someone who isn't gay or bi on a Monday? Male of female? No I don't think so But if your not bi-friendly then they could
If they know you're a straight male they are very likely to turn you away on a Monday for good reason.
I've been there when Mark has turned people away, I think it's fair enough! "
Love Marks bi/gay test lol |
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"So chams would turn down someone who isn't gay or bi on a Monday? Male of female? No I don't think so But if your not bi-friendly then they could
If they know you're a straight male they are very likely to turn you away on a Monday for good reason.
I've been there when Mark has turned people away, I think it's fair enough!
Love Marks bi/gay test lol"
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Ok yes that's right people are looking for bi people I just thought at chams you had to be bi friendly I.e not cringing at bi people playing my mistake sorry to butt in   |
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"Ok yes that's right people are looking for bi people I just thought at chams you had to be bi friendly I.e not cringing at bi people playing my mistake sorry to butt in "
Every night is a bi night for ladies.
Unlike some clubs; our place for fun, for example, Chams is bi friendly towards men too.
However, there's nothing more likely to put a bi curious guy making his first tentative move to find the guy he's just propositioned is straight and takes great exception to the suggestion that he may look bi.
So Chams have Mondays for bi guys and ladies who are happy to be around bi guys playing.
My wife is straight but accompanied me on countless bi nights as she loves to see me play with guys.
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"Do you have to be a member to go on a Monday night ?
Couples can show up and join on the night I believe, I know we did
What about a guy on his own ? "
Yes you have to be a member to do so single men can't just show up. I'm not sure whether there is a waiting list but I think there may be. Best bet on that is to contact the club directly and ask. |
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"So chams would turn down someone who isn't gay or bi on a Monday? Male of female? No I don't think so But if your not bi-friendly then they could "
Yes they would! They turn way my straight friend one Monday we needed to be with a bi person , you can phone up the club and ask,because that happened two weeks ago.x |
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"Do you have to be a member to go on a Monday night ?
Couples can show up and join on the night I believe, I know we did
What about a guy on his own ? "
I know there used to be a Monday only membership for guys, don't know if they still do it but it can't hurt to ask. |
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Well it's pretty obvious in some of the areas, notably the jacuzzis and the glory holes.
For instance when guys are happy for Cheryl to play with their cock and forcibly push my hand away when I try and engage.
Rachael is quite right too, it's less of a problem for guys who are experienced, but newbies just starting out will take it badly when rebuffed in that way.
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Myself and my (now ex) partner used to love going on Mondays. He is straight. One, not both of u has to be bi. Straight guys can still have loads of fun on a monday! |
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As part of a fully bi couple, I can confirm there is nothing more annoying than straight guys at a bi event.
We are regulars on normal Saturday nights in ClubF (we are there most Saturdays) and also attend most Bi and TBird nights.
But before xmas there was a bi/TV/TS afternoon held, it turned out that there was far more straight guys than bi, no bi play was had at all, and the only T girl that turned up felt very uncomfortable and left half way through.
No bi guy wants to do any bi play in front of straight guys, it sounds great that you guys are vetting them on entry |
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By *reygorCouple
over a year ago
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we regular chamers.and there are bi people in there every day [not so many as MONDAY]but thats why there are private rooms to go to .most couples go to have fun and are none judgemental .so go along to our fav club and have a look .have fun |
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Interesting posts. Just checked Chams own website and it states it does accept bi friendly people to the club on Mondays.
Well work is conspiring against us a bit, but I hope if we do make the nearly two hour journey later, there would be bi people there, not just people who don't mind bi people ! |
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"Interesting posts. Just checked Chams own website and it states it does accept bi friendly people to the club on Mondays.
Well work is conspiring against us a bit, but I hope if we do make the nearly two hour journey later, there would be bi people there, not just people who don't mind bi people !"
Don't suppose you fancy picking me up and taking me with you guys so you? I'll be good? |
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"Interesting posts. Just checked Chams own website and it states it does accept bi friendly people to the club on Mondays.
Well work is conspiring against us a bit, but I hope if we do make the nearly two hour journey later, there would be bi people there, not just people who don't mind bi people !"
Fair point. And I agree that it would be a bit odd for me to visit the club today if I wasn't ready (hoping!) for some of that special Monday fun... With luck we'll run into each other there. |
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"Well it's pretty obvious in some of the areas, notably the jacuzzis and the glory holes.
For instance when guys are happy for Cheryl to play with their cock and forcibly push my hand away when I try and engage.
Rachael is quite right too, it's less of a problem for guys who are experienced, but newbies just starting out will take it badly when rebuffed in that way.
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If the guys who are clearly only after the ladies get reported they are asked to leave.
Obviously just saying no isn't proof that he's straight, because he may not fancy the guy who approaches him. It's usually pretty obvious if they are there for the ladies hoping the guys will be busy with each other though. |
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Wasn't the night for playing for us unfortunately. The place was well attended and some play going on.
But another club night where guys and even a couple have no appreciation of personal space. While In the cinema, Sir moved up a tier to play with a guy briefly and in a flash a couple came and sat down either side of me and without even a word were about to touch me. The assumption that if you're in a club you're fair game is really wearing thin and after a successful home meet with 3 guys last night, we are thinking of leaving the clubs alone for a bit. At least at home we can see what's going on (club lighting can be too dark) and don't have to be concerned about all and sundry inviting themselves to touch.
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"Wasn't the night for playing for us unfortunately. The place was well attended and some play going on.
But another club night where guys and even a couple have no appreciation of personal space. While In the cinema, Sir moved up a tier to play with a guy briefly and in a flash a couple came and sat down either side of me and without even a word were about to touch me. The assumption that if you're in a club you're fair game is really wearing thin and after a successful home meet with 3 guys last night, we are thinking of leaving the clubs alone for a bit. At least at home we can see what's going on (club lighting can be too dark) and don't have to be concerned about all and sundry inviting themselves to touch.
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That is such a shame and yes you can never be sure of what will happen at a club or spa. I am normally very wary of single straight guys. Yet this week when we were approached at a spa they were respectful. |
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Sorry to hear that. Popped my head into the cinema a few times on Monday but it was very busy so didn't go in.
Met some great people on the top floor though. |
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It's an odd one. I'm not a shy player at all and had a great time first time we went. But I find it a massive turn off when people presume. Makes me feel like an unpaid prostitute. I'd never assume to touch someone without asking. |
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By *AM2214Man
over a year ago
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"It's an odd one. I'm not a shy player at all and had a great time first time we went. But I find it a massive turn off when people presume. Makes me feel like an unpaid prostitute. I'd never assume to touch someone without asking. "
Respect is not reserved for thw Home Counties during a break in play at the Polo. I've never taken offence when so.eone i've approached has said "not my type" as I know there must be someone else around with a fetish for fat bald ugly blokes |
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"It's an odd one. I'm not a shy player at all and had a great time first time we went. But I find it a massive turn off when people presume. Makes me feel like an unpaid prostitute. I'd never assume to touch someone without asking. Respect is not reserved for thw Home Counties during a break in play at the Polo. I've never taken offence when so.eone i've approached has said "not my type" as I know there must be someone else around with a fetish for fat bald ugly blokes "
But is your approach a verbal or physical one ? |
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I loved the sign by reception when I went on a Monday. Something about if you enter the Club you should be comfortable with seeing guy on guy action, as there well be some going on in the club. |
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