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The Attic what is it like
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"Why dont you read the reviews in the "Clubs" section?
We have but like just a little more info as not everyone puts a review up xxx"
No your right, and it would be hard to get a general idea with only 1196 reviews showing....  |
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By *ustyBBW42 OP Couple
over a year ago
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"Why dont you read the reviews in the "Clubs" section?
We have but like just a little more info as not everyone puts a review up xxx
No your right, and it would be hard to get a general idea with only 1196 reviews showing.... "
Ok see your point lol
Well we going to give it ago and see for our selfs |
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"Why dont you read the reviews in the "Clubs" section?
We have but like just a little more info as not everyone puts a review up xxx
No your right, and it would be hard to get a general idea with only 1196 reviews showing....
Ok see your point lol
Well we going to give it ago and see for our selfs "
Im sure youll have a great night, the club has come on leaps and bounds over the past few years and developing more and more weekly. It is most certainly worth a peek yourself and making your own mind up!
Come say hi if you see me there  |
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By *ustyBBW42 OP Couple
over a year ago
bromsgrove |
"Why dont you read the reviews in the "Clubs" section?
We have but like just a little more info as not everyone puts a review up xxx
No your right, and it would be hard to get a general idea with only 1196 reviews showing....
Ok see your point lol
Well we going to give it ago and see for our selfs
Im sure youll have a great night, the club has come on leaps and bounds over the past few years and developing more and more weekly. It is most certainly worth a peek yourself and making your own mind up!
Come say hi if you see me there "
Sure will xxx |
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over a year ago
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Never experienced any of the above 4/5connents, never had any men cause me any bother, some talk to you some don't, but more men speak than couples. If you're just going to sit there then you'll have a rubbish night, that goes for all clubs though. The majority of my friends in this scene I met at the attic, that goes for couples, single men and single females.
The attic only allow a set amount of men in and do so on a ratio of men to couples/fems. The staff are very approachable and if you feel like something isn't right then they'll happily listen to your concerns and help you, but if you don't do anything there and then and just slate the place on here, well that's not the clubs fault.
The club has come on leaps and bounds because it listens to its customers, I'm there saying not enough men, but couples saying too many, so they go with the majority a cut it down. But if you're not interested in men and are prejudice against TVs/TGs then this club is not for you.
I give all clubs 2 tries, if I decide I don't like it the first time, as I'm aware they can vary night to night depending on the clientele that are in.
The attic is one of my favourite clubs now, but three years ago it wasn't. I have watched it develop and seen the effort the owners have put into it and can truly appreciate that they are doing everything possible to please the customers. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Problem is that it's full of desparate men following couples around like sheep. "
So you're aware your review of the club is still there, should check before making inaccurate statuses. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've been many a time and if single guys were like sheep I'd never have gone a second time.
I guess the ones with a problem with single guys are either the male half of the couple or couples not interested in single guys  |
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We are tempted to pop along soon and have a look, but meens finding a hotel in area.
We find clubs to be hit and miss, they can be packed with nothing happening or very quiet looking and yet have an amazzing night. Same with single guys tbf, 6 ugly singles following you around can feel like a plague of singles, yet replace same niumber but attractive and we have seen same couples complain there arnt enough.
Luckily we have hit point of if we have great sex together in a nice place, then rest is a bonus xx |
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will be going on the 25th And staying at the Conference centre with a play mate She is more into the fetish side of things so not up for playing unless the mood takes her. look out for us playing on the cross |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I visited yesterday... only got as far as the cinema
I admit it was a cock-fest & mostly older guys, but I happen to like that. A lot.   
Like any club, you need to try it for yourself & give different nights a go. The vibe (excuse the pun) will vary.
Can't hurt to try!  |
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The club is great. Obviously there are always going to be a lot of people who just walk around the place with no intention of every actually letting themselves go and enjoying themselves, but if you are genuinely into the scene, then I would recommend the venue. |
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What is the attic like if you call this a swinging club ya having a laugh more like a Cattle market its over run by single guy who think they can feel you up when they want the Regular CouplesAre very clicky give you dirty looks As well as other staff this place is a joke keep well away |
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"What is the attic like if you call this a swinging club ya having a laugh more like a Cattle market its over run by single guy who think they can feel you up when they want the Regular CouplesAre very clicky give you dirty looks As well as other staff this place is a joke keep well away"
Obviously it was so bad that you left a review to that effect........oh wait, nope I can't find one! |
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It's not clicky in any way or form either cpl and esp staff xx just because there was nobody to your liking but everyone has there option xx if we went by reviews on other clubs Wed neaver go again xx |
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By *ustyBBW42 OP Couple
over a year ago
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We went a few weeks back for our 1st love the club and think it could of done with more single guys the time we went and never felt like we had to play or anything and the staff was great there is a few couples the keep them self together but maybe that's who they came to play with we loved the club and been to a few , we wish we could come more often people are different so make your own mind up we did and love the place |
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"We thinking of trying it on 8th April if anyone wants to show us attic Virgins what it's like x"
Happy to show you around but the 8th is off the radar for me as i am in London that weekend and Amsterdam the following one |
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By (user no longer on site)
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We go there often and always have a good night and chat to everyone it's not clicky at all. It's just about making the effort to talk to people. The people that don't chat might be nervous. And we don't have a problem with single men. Just tell them where to go if they follow. X |
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I ventured to the Attic the other week on a Saturday night for my first time to a club. I was determined not to be "one of those" single guys and so made an effort to chat to a few people and also to try to start the dancing (yes if you saw a guy merrily dancing by himself on the dance floor early in the night, that was me! ).
I have nothing to compare it to but the welcome was good (spoke to Sharon in the day at the Cinema, and then got a tour by Ron in the evening).
It can be hard to get chatting, especially as you don't want to come across as "unwanted attention" but luckily I struck up a conversation with a couple of ladies that led to some play with one of them, and then an invite to an 8sum! This provided me along with the play, a group to chat to afterwards which was great.
In terms of the club, it is huge and early on can seem quiet because of that. But it does fill up (though I never did see anyone else up dancing!) and seemed a good fun place with something to suit anyone's tastes.
I get the impression you will get out what you put into it, and whilst some couples might get "pestered" by some single guys, there are also plenty who are bravely taking the effort to try to engage.
My advise to single guys:
Don't follow couples around, stick with a few areas and try to connect with people there.
Make eye contact and smile to see if you get a response.
Talk to people, and not just those who you would want to play with, just get chatting! You can learn about the club, may get introductions, and if nothing else you get some chat to past the time.
Don't expect any play, just go to socialise, maybe dance, and anything else is a bonus.
Also some advice for everyone:
If you want to dance but are nervous, just do it and do it with a smile on your face. It's okay to dance badly as long as you are having fun and don't take yourself seriously. 
BTW I have another week until I am allowed to write a club review, so will add that later. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I ventured to the Attic the other week on a Saturday night for my first time to a club. I was determined not to be "one of those" single guys and so made an effort to chat to a few people and also to try to start the dancing (yes if you saw a guy merrily dancing by himself on the dance floor early in the night, that was me! ).
I have nothing to compare it to but the welcome was good (spoke to Sharon in the day at the Cinema, and then got a tour by Ron in the evening).
It can be hard to get chatting, especially as you don't want to come across as "unwanted attention" but luckily I struck up a conversation with a couple of ladies that led to some play with one of them, and then an invite to an 8sum! This provided me along with the play, a group to chat to afterwards which was great.
In terms of the club, it is huge and early on can seem quiet because of that. But it does fill up (though I never did see anyone else up dancing!) and seemed a good fun place with something to suit anyone's tastes.
I get the impression you will get out what you put into it, and whilst some couples might get "pestered" by some single guys, there are also plenty who are bravely taking the effort to try to engage.
My advise to single guys:
Don't follow couples around, stick with a few areas and try to connect with people there.
Make eye contact and smile to see if you get a response.
Talk to people, and not just those who you would want to play with, just get chatting! You can learn about the club, may get introductions, and if nothing else you get some chat to past the time.
Don't expect any play, just go to socialise, maybe dance, and anything else is a bonus.
Also some advice for everyone:
If you want to dance but are nervous, just do it and do it with a smile on your face. It's okay to dance badly as long as you are having fun and don't take yourself seriously.
BTW I have another week until I am allowed to write a club review, so will add that later."
Thats a good review and to be fair totally agree with your comments.
We haven't been in far to long x |
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We went a couple of times last year when we were in the area. The club itself is huge and fascinating to explore! So much hard work has gone into the different room themes! And there's something new each time. The people there were great and the staff were all really helpful and friendly There were a few single guys stalking about and hanging around in the maze but we didn't have any problems. There was also a lot going on for us to watch which was great!
Our only real turn off was that it's not a dress-down club in the play areas. It's great as a voyeuristic experience if you want to stay clothed and watch the action but for us, we found it off putting. We found it made it feel too awkward to get undressed and start playing. When you're just in you're underwear things can move on more naturally.
Obviously that's largely our experience and comfort level showing but it's enough to put us off visiting again unless we're passing by with an evening to kill. But overall it is definitely worth a visit! |
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By *ustyBBW42 OP Couple
over a year ago
bromsgrove |
"I ventured to the Attic the other week on a Saturday night for my first time to a club. I was determined not to be "one of those" single guys and so made an effort to chat to a few people and also to try to start the dancing (yes if you saw a guy merrily dancing by himself on the dance floor early in the night, that was me! ).
Well put
I have nothing to compare it to but the welcome was good (spoke to Sharon in the day at the Cinema, and then got a tour by Ron in the evening).
It can be hard to get chatting, especially as you don't want to come across as "unwanted attention" but luckily I struck up a conversation with a couple of ladies that led to some play with one of them, and then an invite to an 8sum! This provided me along with the play, a group to chat to afterwards which was great.
In terms of the club, it is huge and early on can seem quiet because of that. But it does fill up (though I never did see anyone else up dancing!) and seemed a good fun place with something to suit anyone's tastes.
I get the impression you will get out what you put into it, and whilst some couples might get "pestered" by some single guys, there are also plenty who are bravely taking the effort to try to engage.
My advise to single guys:
Don't follow couples around, stick with a few areas and try to connect with people there.
Make eye contact and smile to see if you get a response.
Talk to people, and not just those who you would want to play with, just get chatting! You can learn about the club, may get introductions, and if nothing else you get some chat to past the time.
Don't expect any play, just go to socialise, maybe dance, and anything else is a bonus.
Also some advice for everyone:
If you want to dance but are nervous, just do it and do it with a smile on your face. It's okay to dance badly as long as you are having fun and don't take yourself seriously.
BTW I have another week until I am allowed to write a club review, so will add that later."
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"What is the attic like if you call this a swinging club ya having a laugh more like a Cattle market its over run by single guy who think they can feel you up when they want the Regular CouplesAre very clicky give you dirty looks As well as other staff this place is a joke keep well away"
It was so bad on your first visit that you decided to go back a month later and have another awful visit, leaving another bad review!
Either that or you're abusing the whole point of the review system just because you didn't like it on the one occasion that you did visit. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What is the attic like if you call this a swinging club ya having a laugh more like a Cattle market its over run by single guy who think they can feel you up when they want the Regular CouplesAre very clicky give you dirty looks As well as other staff this place is a joke keep well away"
we have been many times and even on greedy girl nights the guys for the majority ask before touching.
Last time either of us went it was to chaperone a friend and the guys were totally respectful.
I cant say at the attic ive ever had a problem with the guys... yet have at other clubs. Whether its because those that know me know I am likely to put guys in their place and prewarn i dont know.
As to cliquey. I Think any club can be dependent on the clientele but again not really had that. But then anyone that knows Lee and I knows we talk to everyone... even if they dont want us too |
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"We went a few weeks back for our 1st love the club and think it could of done with more single guys the time we went and never felt like we had to play or anything and the staff was great there is a few couples the keep them self together but maybe that's who they came to play with we loved the club and been to a few , we wish we could come more often people are different so make your own mind up we did and love the place "
Fair play to you , the only real way to find out, glad you enjoyed it. We are like you (never been) but are going soon, , have heard lots about it , good and bad , but we'll give it a try and take it from there |
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