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over a year ago
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"Never been to a club before, but looking to go. Probably quest in Leeds? Any advice going as a single male? What to take with me etc?
Tia"
We joined recently, albeit as a couple, so here's a few thoughts:
Have a shower before you go and dress smart but relatively casual. You'll need ID to join. You can take your own alcoholic drink and they'll keep it behind the bar for you and provide a free glass. If you want soft drinks or tea/coffee you can buy them quite cheaply. They sell condoms but probably easier to take some.
When there you can get a locker for a £5 deposit. One of the staff will give you a tour - and they are all really friendly. They'll also give you a towel which you'll wear in the play areas but some guys keep their trolleys on too.
You can use the jacuzzi or sauna and there's a free, and popular, pool table.
Most people have a drink in the bar for a while before going to the play areas.
There's a good section on the club website on etiquette but advice from us - and we've played with several single guys there - is be respectful but friendly. If a couple seem happy for you to watch but you think they might want more then ask if it's ok to touch.
Some couples are only there to play with other couples, some are meeting specific people, some are there for social only, many just like to be watched or have FF fun. However, there are certainly couples like us, who like the single guys too, who're likely to say 'yes'. Ask either half of the couple but ultimately the one who decides what happens should always be the lass.
Maybe the most important thing to take is a realistic expectation. If you go along thinking you will have sex with a dozen women you'll leave frustrated and disappointed. If you go with the view that you'll relax; get to see some well turned out women feeling confident and sexy; will certainly get to watch people playing and might sometimes get to play too, then you won't go far wrong.
Hope that helps.
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"Never been to a club before, but looking to go. Probably quest in Leeds? Any advice going as a single male? What to take with me etc?
Tia
We joined recently, albeit as a couple, so here's a few thoughts:
Have a shower before you go and dress smart but relatively casual. You'll need ID to join. You can take your own alcoholic drink and they'll keep it behind the bar for you and provide a free glass. If you want soft drinks or tea/coffee you can buy them quite cheaply. They sell condoms but probably easier to take some.
When there you can get a locker for a £5 deposit. One of the staff will give you a tour - and they are all really friendly. They'll also give you a towel which you'll wear in the play areas but some guys keep their trolleys on too.
You can use the jacuzzi or sauna and there's a free, and popular, pool table.
Most people have a drink in the bar for a while before going to the play areas.
There's a good section on the club website on etiquette but advice from us - and we've played with several single guys there - is be respectful but friendly. If a couple seem happy for you to watch but you think they might want more then ask if it's ok to touch.
Some couples are only there to play with other couples, some are meeting specific people, some are there for social only, many just like to be watched or have FF fun. However, there are certainly couples like us, who like the single guys too, who're likely to say 'yes'. Ask either half of the couple but ultimately the one who decides what happens should always be the lass.
Maybe the most important thing to take is a realistic expectation. If you go along thinking you will have sex with a dozen women you'll leave frustrated and disappointed. If you go with the view that you'll relax; get to see some well turned out women feeling confident and sexy; will certainly get to watch people playing and might sometimes get to play too, then you won't go far wrong.
Hope that helps.
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"Never been to a club before, but looking to go. Probably quest in Leeds? Any advice going as a single male? What to take with me etc?
Tia
We joined recently, albeit as a couple, so here's a few thoughts:
Have a shower before you go and dress smart but relatively casual. You'll need ID to join. You can take your own alcoholic drink and they'll keep it behind the bar for you and provide a free glass. If you want soft drinks or tea/coffee you can buy them quite cheaply. They sell condoms but probably easier to take some.
When there you can get a locker for a £5 deposit. One of the staff will give you a tour - and they are all really friendly. They'll also give you a towel which you'll wear in the play areas but some guys keep their trolleys on too.
You can use the jacuzzi or sauna and there's a free, and popular, pool table.
Most people have a drink in the bar for a while before going to the play areas.
There's a good section on the club website on etiquette but advice from us - and we've played with several single guys there - is be respectful but friendly. If a couple seem happy for you to watch but you think they might want more then ask if it's ok to touch.
Some couples are only there to play with other couples, some are meeting specific people, some are there for social only, many just like to be watched or have FF fun. However, there are certainly couples like us, who like the single guys too, who're likely to say 'yes'. Ask either half of the couple but ultimately the one who decides what happens should always be the lass.
Maybe the most important thing to take is a realistic expectation. If you go along thinking you will have sex with a dozen women you'll leave frustrated and disappointed. If you go with the view that you'll relax; get to see some well turned out women feeling confident and sexy; will certainly get to watch people playing and might sometimes get to play too, then you won't go far wrong.
Hope that helps.
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