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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi we want to try a club for the first time, would prefer a daytime but don't know how it works. Do we have to be members, and how does it work if we decide to play are there private rooms etc. Thanks |
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HI OP
all clubs usually have private rooms and rooms that you can also be observed in
Different clubs can operate differently some require membership for couples others dont - all usually require payment for entry to the club
All clubs will usually give you a tour on arrival and go through the rules with you both.
Some can be dress down on arrival and others you dont
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Chams is open in the day. If you want to stay local. You need to sign up on the door  "
They have plenty of private rooms and yeah you need to become members there. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi we want to try a club for the first time, would prefer a daytime but don't know how it works. Do we have to be members, and how does it work if we decide to play are there private rooms etc. Thanks "
Some clubs open during the day. Some clubs require paid membership on first entry. Most clubs have private rooms or couples rooms.
Daytime tends to be lots of single guys and a bit creepy in *some* clubs. |
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By *haunMan
over a year ago
Halton |
"Hi we want to try a club for the first time, would prefer a daytime but don't know how it works. Do we have to be members, and how does it work if we decide to play are there private rooms etc. Thanks "
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A lot would depend upon which club you decide to go along and visit?
(Check out the clubs section for a club that is near enough and open during the day)
If the club is open during the day? unless they are running a party event?
I am sure you can just go along (maybe sign up) on the day.
Those around the NW that I visited are like that.
Once in, main things to consider are:
You don't have to do anything.
You can just go along and treat it as a social or visit to check out the club.
Don't feel the need to do anything you don't want to.
Most (again those around the NW do), have private rooms.
So if you get so turned on by the proceedings around you.
You can take yourself off in private and enjoy the experieince of being somewhere else.
The amount of new couples I meet, who do that is very high.
They enjoy the experience of being in the club, the atmosphere, the excitement of something new. but just want to go and share that between themselves in a private room.
This is perfectly fine.
You never have to go and play with anyone else when in a club.
It is you discretion if every you do.
A lot of clubs also have some public areas, that may allow you to be watched but you are still playing on your own.
So find a club you fancy trying and go along.
Enjoy it, don't set any expectations.
Do only what you feel comfortable with and just have fun.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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AFAIK, Chams isn't taking new memberships until the new year. Mind you, that might just be for single males.
As for being nervous, just remember that old saying: "If ever you're nervous speaking to a crowd, just imagine everyone is naked!", except, of course, most people ARE naked at these places, and that's bloody O.K!
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By *haunMan
over a year ago
Halton |
"Dying to go to a club but just so nervous! X"
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It's perfectly understandable that you may be nervous.
The thrill and excitement of something new, but you're not sure what to expect.
Consider looking for a local club that may be running a social event.
That way you can go along and just check out the club with everyone in the same social boat.
Or just go to a local club and treat it as a social event to just check it out.
Don't set expectations, you don't have to play or do anything.
You can go along, sit at the bar and just chat.
Yes there is generally something going on around you (in the rooms) but most clubs I have been are just nice places to go, grab a drink and chat.
More laid back then going to a pub.
And if you just want to walk around and see what is going on? That is fine. A little voyeuristic viewing can be good fun and a major turn on.
If your nervous, then try to not pick a busy night (party event) just find a normal day to go along. Or consider an evening that is couples only. Yes..The majority of single men are well behaved (just report any that are not) but choosing an evening without single men may make it a slightly easier evening to check out the club.
The hardest part is pulling up and walking through the doors into the unknown.
Once inside you'll realise it's much more fun and less scary than you thought.
Ultimately...
If you go and don't like it?
Just get your stuff and go.
Don't sit through something you don't enjoy. It's all about relaxing and having fun.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Dying to go to a club but just so nervous! X"
I know that feeling, my boyfriend is more concerned about single males trying to join us. Will bite the bullet and go though soon. |
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By *umpkinMan
over a year ago
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"AFAIK, Chams isn't taking new memberships until the new year. Mind you, that might just be for single males.
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That will indeed be only for single males!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Dying to go to a club but just so nervous! X
I know that feeling, my boyfriend is more concerned about single males trying to join us. Will bite the bullet and go though soon. "
Couples nights can help there and usually an easier night for starting |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Dying to go to a club but just so nervous! X
If you want to chat to us about the clubs please drop us a PM. Happy to share our experiences with you."
Thanks will do x |
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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago
Stoke area |
"Have a look at Club Atlantis Evolution in Burslem, Stoke-on-Trent?
Not far from you."
Atlantis is an ideal club for people anxious about attending a club for the first time. I go regularly on my own and find it very friendly and no pressure at all.
However the OP was asking about daytime clubs and it's only open from 9pm apart from when it hosts separate fetish events.
I am happy for people to PM me to discuss what expect and I have met people before hand and go in with them if it's their first time.
I don't work at Atlantis, but like to promote it, cos I think it is an extremely good club.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Chams (Darlaston) and City Celts (Leicester)are both open daytimes.
Check their websites for opening times.
Both are great during the day and we actually far prefer going to a club in the daytime rather than evenings/nightime. |
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By *umpkinMan
over a year ago
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As it looks like you`ve settled on Chams, it is a dress down type of club, so towel or shorts for the lads, sexy dress, underwear, lingerie or towel for the ladies. If you want to take alcohol, give it to reception and they will serve it as you wish. Do not take soft drinks or water. These will be supplied by the club and charged to your locker key. Food is available to order and like the soft/hot drinks, reasonably priced.
Remember that some nights are themed and whilst you may intend to stay on into the evening, you may not wish to stay into Bi-Night (Mondays) or Nude Night (Tuesdays)!
Tell the club it`s your first time to a/the club and they will show you round or point you in the direction of somebody who does! |
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"Dying to go to a club but just so nervous! X"
You'll be just fine they're a lot more chilled than most people think and you're more than welcome to pm me and get it from a single females point of view |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"As it looks like you`ve settled on Chams, it is a dress down type of club, so towel or shorts for the lads, sexy dress, underwear, lingerie or towel for the ladies. If you want to take alcohol, give it to reception and they will serve it as you wish. Do not take soft drinks or water. These will be supplied by the club and charged to your locker key. Food is available to order and like the soft/hot drinks, reasonably priced.
Remember that some nights are themed and whilst you may intend to stay on into the evening, you may not wish to stay into Bi-Night (Mondays) or Nude Night (Tuesdays)!
Tell the club it`s your first time to a/the club and they will show you round or point you in the direction of somebody who does!"
Thanks. Will remember all that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hi we are most likely going to chams Friday if you decide to go we will be more than happy to sit and have a chat with you all you need to remember is we were all new there once (Kat) xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Hi we are most likely going to chams Friday if you decide to go we will be more than happy to sit and have a chat with you all you need to remember is we were all new there once (Kat) xx"
Thanks, will see what we can do x |
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