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Tease II was ok depending on the people attending. Jaydees is much classier.
Personally I do not like the VA. Incredibly cliquey, refused a private booking on body type grounds and not enough private play areas. If you liked the layout of Tease II you may not find the VA to your liking. |
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I'm pretty sure Tease II is gone for good and won't be re-opening.
But there are other clubs 
And just because I don't like the VA doesn't mean others will dislike it...but it is very different to Tease II. |
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By *ngeluk69Woman
over a year ago
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Tease is done and dusted.
Most have moved onto Jaydees or Va.
i used to host at Tease and have now moved to Jaydees, and very successfully too. There is more space, more play areas and nothing to pay past the door price.
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Quite a few old Tease clients and Jaydees are seen at VA and prefer the layout. Tease and Jaydees are just cheaper and more in line with each other. More and more people are saying they have been told VA was cliquey but having been found it not to be the case. As long as people are happy to mingle you will be fine. |
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The time I tried the VA was with my wife and another couple. There were two large groups of guests, clearly everyone in each group knew each other. The most "conversation" any of us had with another guest was when I got thanked for holding the toilet door open.
The open layout promotes voyeurism rather than group play or swapping. There are very few places to be private. In any case it seemed couples preferred to show off each other rather than swap.
In defence of the VA it is certainly clean and professionally run. I hear the themed nights do involve more play. But their refusal to consider a private booking based on body shapes is the nail in the coffin for us.
Jaydees is like a classier Tease II in some ways. Everything is spotless and upkeep is excellent. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The time I tried the VA was with my wife and another couple. There were two large groups of guests, clearly everyone in each group knew each other. The most "conversation" any of us had with another guest was when I got thanked for holding the toilet door open.
The open layout promotes voyeurism rather than group play or swapping. There are very few places to be private. In any case it seemed couples preferred to show off each other rather than swap.
In defence of the VA it is certainly clean and professionally run. I hear the themed nights do involve more play. But their refusal to consider a private booking based on body shapes is the nail in the coffin for us.
Jaydees is like a classier Tease II in some ways. Everything is spotless and upkeep is excellent. "
I used to help hosting the milf club when it first started my size and shape wasn't an issue
I've been to many events and size has never been an issue |
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"The time I tried the VA was with my wife and another couple. There were two large groups of guests, clearly everyone in each group knew each other. The most "conversation" any of us had with another guest was when I got thanked for holding the toilet door open.
The open layout promotes voyeurism rather than group play or swapping. There are very few places to be private. In any case it seemed couples preferred to show off each other rather than swap.
In defence of the VA it is certainly clean and professionally run. I hear the themed nights do involve more play. But their refusal to consider a private booking based on body shapes is the nail in the coffin for us.
Jaydees is like a classier Tease II in some ways. Everything is spotless and upkeep is excellent. "
Private bookings must mean parties that are not VA related , private events? Is that what you mean? |
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"The time I tried the VA was with my wife and another couple. There were two large groups of guests, clearly everyone in each group knew each other. The most "conversation" any of us had with another guest was when I got thanked for holding the toilet door open.
The open layout promotes voyeurism rather than group play or swapping. There are very few places to be private. In any case it seemed couples preferred to show off each other rather than swap.
In defence of the VA it is certainly clean and professionally run. I hear the themed nights do involve more play. But their refusal to consider a private booking based on body shapes is the nail in the coffin for us.
Jaydees is like a classier Tease II in some ways. Everything is spotless and upkeep is excellent.
I used to help hosting the milf club when it first started my size and shape wasn't an issue
I've been to many events and size has never been an issue "
I must say I agree. All sorts of shapes and sizes when I have been and at my nights. Lots of play and group play |
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I've been to many events and size has never been an issue
They outright refused to consider booking it for a BBW night because - their words - do not wish to be associated with such things.
Yes thats very true but not for the reasons youre actually thinking. The VA will not have a bbw night as they dont like labelling people by size
Everyone big or small goes to VA and they wont segregate people by size. I know this because I actually asked about hosting one too.
Its not, as youre assuming because they are sizist lol.
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I've been to many events and size has never been an issue
They outright refused to consider booking it for a BBW night because - their words - do not wish to be associated with such things.
Yes thats very true but not for the reasons youre actually thinking. The VA will not have a bbw night as they dont like labelling people by size
Everyone big or small goes to VA and they wont segregate people by size. I know this because I actually asked about hosting one too.
Its not, as youre assuming because they are sizist lol.
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Yes thats very true but not for the reasons youre actually thinking. The VA will not have a bbw night as they dont like labelling people by size
Everyone big or small goes to VA and they wont segregate people by size. I know this because I actually asked about hosting one too.
Its not, as youre assuming because they are sizist lol. |
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By *andjCouple
over a year ago
tempsford |
"Tease II was ok depending on the people attending. Jaydees is much classier.
Personally I do not like the VA. Incredibly cliquey, refused a private booking on body type grounds and not enough private play areas. If you liked the layout of Tease II you may not find the VA to your liking."
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What is the "refused a private booking on body type grounds" mean?
Your right there are not long ads of private play areas, it's a sociable club if your a sociable person and make an effort to chat to others, but if you have a room in the hotel your welcome to take people to your room. |
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By *andjCouple
over a year ago
tempsford |
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I've been to many events and size has never been an issue
They outright refused to consider booking it for a BBW night because - their words - do not wish to be associated with such things.
Ooh, now that's an out right twist on a quote.
Our policy is always, we do not discriminate.....has been for six years and will continue to be.
Same as we don't do black only, black and white, BBW, BBC, under 30's over 50's, etc etc.
EVERYONE is welcome here, there is no discrimination on age, size, colour, gender, or preference.
T-girls are welcomed on the same booking and pricing as ladies, the same as a pre op transgender female to male is treated as a gentleman......
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By *andjCouple
over a year ago
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I've been to many events and size has never been an issue
They outright refused to consider booking it for a BBW night because - their words - do not wish to be associated with such things.
Who did you ask to hold a private party at the VA, as it certainly was not me, who makes all of those decisions. I'm no skinny Minnie at a size 16 and once upon a time I was a size 26. I think you must be hearing what you want rather than talking to the organ grinder!!!
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All I can say is that when I was part of an attempt to book the VA for a BBW night they refused because they don't wish to be associated with "that sort of people".
The impression we got was very much that they felt a BBW night specifically would sully their reputation in a way that other themed nights do not.
It's always possible that we were unlucky when we attended, but we found the crowd very unfriendly and our attempts to converse rebuffed. There were clearly two large groups, everhine within each group knew each other. No interaction between the two groups and no swapping...just couples playing with each other and showing off.
That is not the fault of management, as I've said the place was spotlessly clean and seemed well run. But the layout probably won't appeal to the OP, who is looking for an experience closer to Tease II. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We went to Tease a few times and always thought it was a bit limited in it's particular layout. But, always a shame when any club closes. Since then we have discovered Jaydee's and we love it. We like VA for it's design but had an unpleasant experience with prissy management which put us right off. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Lordy lord, what a kufuffle!
Each club is different, all have great points, all need to improve in areas, one is not better than another,
THERE IS NO PERFECT CLUB FOR EVERYONE, that utopia can never exist
every club has a clique just like every pub has, normally made up of regulars. how management and hosts manage the clique can make or break newcomers visit.....
So ignore the negatives, the positives and all the comments in between, plenty of people on this thread have a gripe or reversely a need to big up a certain club.
TRY THE CLUBS OUT FOR YOURSELF |
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Quite right there is no perfect club for everyone.
OP was looking for somewhere with a similar vibe/experience to Tease II. They are most likely to find that at Jaydees.
And I have no reason to "big up" Jaydees. I am wholly unconnected with their management/owners and have no vested interest. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I agree with the sentiment that every club is different. That is because everybody is different as well. Every club has great, good and not so good things about them. The main thing is to attend one which is to your liking and make friends. If there are cliques, then that is not a club for me.
I have my favourites, but they would not be on others list. Each to their own. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In the new year myself and my lady friend are looking to attend a club.
She has never been before but is very keen. Can someone please suggest a night designed for newbies and where please.
Thanks |
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"In the new year myself and my lady friend are looking to attend a club.
She has never been before but is very keen. Can someone please suggest a night designed for newbies and where please.
Thanks "
Jaydees
The friendliest club I've been to. |
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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago
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"In the new year myself and my lady friend are looking to attend a club.
She has never been before but is very keen. Can someone please suggest a night designed for newbies and where please.
Thanks
Jaydees
The friendliest club I've been to."
this and i've been to a fare few clubs,all over the place. for newbies, its ideal imo xx its the only club, where i hold socials, because of the inclusive and relaxed atmosphere.x i like other clubs, i go to other clubs regularly, but Jaydees always feels like coming home x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Having been to most of the local and distant clubs both as a single male and a couple I can happily say that each club has its merits. VA is somewhat more 'polished' however it's lack of private areas perhaps makes it more onerous for first timers or the more body conscious. Jaydees has more nooks and crannies (so to speak) but is slightly more difficult to interact socially due to the louder music. Both have their cliques which is impossible to avoid with adult clubs. The easiest way to interact is to speak to people on here or go to the local socials. No one is being cliquey on purpose, it's just always easier to speak with the regular people you know! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Thank you.
When is the next social even at Jaydee's or newbie night so to speak?
I am attending VA on my own in the new year so can see how that is too. |
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By * and PCouple
over a year ago
Northampton |
"Thank you.
When is the next social even at Jaydee's or newbie night so to speak?
I am attending VA on my own in the new year so can see how that is too. "
The next Newbies night being held at JayDees is Saturday 21st January but check out their website for details of all the events being held in January  |
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"Thank you.
When is the next social even at Jaydee's or newbie night so to speak?
I am attending VA on my own in the new year so can see how that is too. "
Looking forward to seeing you  . Two totally different clubs but you should enjoy both. I have in the past.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I had some of my first experiences at tease which have left very fond memories. I'm looking forward to hopefully more experiences in the new year when I go to VA.
i look forward to meeting you and all the other nice sounding people. |
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