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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Message the club a few days in advance and introduce yourself and let them know it's your first time. If it's a club worth its salt, they'll spend some time showing you around and talking you through etiquette and club rules and guidelines, they'll also introduce you to people and keep an eye out for you. Have fun, be polite and just chat. Best of luck. |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
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As said above go along with no expectations other than having a social evening as you would at a normal club/bar etc.
That said do make the effort to talk to people but be courteous and respectful, and prepared to accept a polite "no thanks" if people don't want to talk.
Just be yourself and you'll be fine - and whatever you do don't get d*unk!!  |
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"Message the club a few days in advance and introduce yourself and let them know it's your first time. If it's a club worth its salt, they'll spend some time showing you around and talking you through etiquette and club rules and guidelines, they'll also introduce you to people and keep an eye out for you. Have fun, be polite and just chat. Best of luck. "
Thats lovely lady for your input you seem a lovely lady |
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I take it you have made the list for Thursday night? You were on the reserve, so I'm not sure if Jess has confirmed your place yet??
You will be shown around on arrival, we will answer any questions you may have and get you settled in.
Most guys are quite nervous when they first attend but I always say, don't put any pressure on yourself, treat the night as a social and an opportunity to meet new friends and find your feet. If you happen to be invited to play, only do so if you really want to; it's ok to say no. If you don't get invited to play, don't beat yourself up as it's a bonus anyway if you are asked.
Enjoy the atmosphere, enjoy the banter, enjoying the voyeurism and pat yourself on the back for walking through the door. The rest will evolve naturally xx |
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"Thanks im still reserve but fingers crossed. It would be a good opportunity"
Well the reserve list is huge, so it may be that you won't make the main guestlist on this occasion I'm afraid. So I don't want you to get your hopes up :-/ The party guestlist has been ongoing for 6 weeks and guys have been adding their names during this time; to be added to future events, you are best adding your name as early as possible to avoid disappointment.
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"Thanks im still reserve but fingers crossed. It would be a good opportunity
Well the reserve list is huge, so it may be that you won't make the main guestlist on this occasion I'm afraid. So I don't want you to get your hopes up :-/ The party guestlist has been ongoing for 6 weeks and guys have been adding their names during this time; to be added to future events, you are best adding your name as early as possible to avoid disappointment.
Thanks
Vic x"
Ok vic thanks for letting me know as i didnt know that. Do you do any on a saturday. You seem very nice and giving me good advice. Very much appreciated xx |
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"Thanks im still reserve but fingers crossed. It would be a good opportunity
Well the reserve list is huge, so it may be that you won't make the main guestlist on this occasion I'm afraid. So I don't want you to get your hopes up :-/ The party guestlist has been ongoing for 6 weeks and guys have been adding their names during this time; to be added to future events, you are best adding your name as early as possible to avoid disappointment.
Thanks
Vic x
Ok vic thanks for letting me know as i didnt know that. Do you do any on a saturday. You seem very nice and giving me good advice. Very much appreciated xx"
I've PM'd you x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Hi Gareth.
I'm glad to see your so enthusiastic about your first club visit.. townhouse is a lovely friendly club with great staff and great members... I've been a member myself there for over two years
Please however don't get your hopes up.. We are at capacity for our single guys numbers and have a very BIG reserve list.. Do not just turn up on the evening.
We will be holding this event again in the new year -So pleased keep your eyes posted so you can get your name down on the guest list early...
Jess xx
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For the guys who are worried about their size, don't! Most ladies really aren't size queens and actually prefer average and not a mega cock.
If you are worried about cumming too quick try not to focus too much on penetration. Lots and lots of foreplay first to pleasure the person you are with. Use your hands and mouth not just your cock.
If it does happen try not to make too big a deal of it and go for round 2 if they are up for it after you both recover. Play doesn't have to stop once you have cum, you can still pleasure the other person in other ways.
I have seen it mentioned on here that some guys have a "tactical wank" beforehand so they don't cum too quick.
Most of all just relax and enjoy yourself. |
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