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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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There is a couple who's female half I have met a few times and we get on very well. One thing she suggested at one time is to see if clubs were for me as it is a great way of expanding into the swinging scene.
Since I've never been and due to lack of research I don't really know all that much about it.
What do you say to a young single male who would want to venture into the club scene? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have found going to clubs to be a great way of getting your self known by a larger number of people who you wouldn't normally get to interact with. Yeah its quite daunting at first but worth it all in all  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Take a look at socials/events that are being held at clubs you may be interested in attending. The ones where you don't have to become a member are great as you can check out the club/clubs without having to commit to membership. If you like it, become a member, if you don't you haven't wasted too much time becoming a member.
There are plenty of clubs that don't cost a fortune for single guys to attend, just make sure that you do your homework first. |
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By *teed99Man
over a year ago
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"The biggest barrier is cost. The first visit as a single man can cost a fortune. It proves you are not a time waster tho. "
At The Vanilla Alternative the first visit for a single guy on a Friday night is the same as for any other Friday night. Single guys must register online via the club's website (no cost) and telephone the club early in the week they want to attend to book in, as only 10 allowed in each time. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The biggest barrier is cost. The first visit as a single man can cost a fortune. It proves you are not a time waster tho.
At The Vanilla Alternative the first visit for a single guy on a Friday night is the same as for any other Friday night. Single guys must register online via the club's website (no cost) and telephone the club early in the week they want to attend to book in, as only 10 allowed in each time."
That's decent. First trip to my local club would be £60. |
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As just mentioned go to socials they are lower pressure environment for all involved. My first social I ended up at an after party and it was certainly sociable |
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"There is a couple who's female half I have met a few times and we get on very well. One thing she suggested at one time is to see if clubs were for me as it is a great way of expanding into the swinging scene.
Since I've never been and due to lack of research I don't really know all that much about it.
What do you say to a young single male who would want to venture into the club scene? "
Do some research into clubs nearby, be prepared to travel to the one that suits you best. Great section on her with people's reviews. Maybe look for a club that caters more for your age group. Most clubs have their own Web site
Once you've decided give them a ring, explain you've never been to a club and if they are any good they will alay your fears and.look put for you.
Have no preconceived ideas go with the outlook it's a social event. Once there abide by the club rules but be sociable talk to people.
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for a new club i try to go on its quietest day the first time.
ie a sunday or a weekday during daytime.
generally people are pleasant. girls and guys (if you are)
just feels like ure in any social gathering, just without clothes. |
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