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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi
I've never been to a swingers club but I am very tempted to take a trip to a local club one night to see how I get on.
Are these places popular with single ladies? Or are they practically sausage fests? I just want to know what to expect... I know different clubs hold different events in different nights but I find it hard to imagine many single females going. I could be out of touch and these places could be packed wall to wall with gorgeous women. Please help me Fabbers... Any ladies fancy showing the ropes at a local club It would be much appreciated  |
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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago
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"Hi
I've never been to a swingers club but I am very tempted to take a trip to a local club one night to see how I get on.
Are these places popular with single ladies? Or are they practically sausage fests? I just want to know what to expect... I know different clubs hold different events in different nights but I find it hard to imagine many single females going. I could be out of touch and these places could be packed wall to wall with gorgeous women. Please help me Fabbers... Any ladies fancy showing the ropes at a local club It would be much appreciated "
No single ladies go to swingers clubs. Ever. |
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"Hi
I've never been to a swingers club but I am very tempted to take a trip to a local club one night to see how I get on.
Are these places popular with single ladies? Or are they practically sausage fests? I just want to know what to expect... I know different clubs hold different events in different nights but I find it hard to imagine many single females going. I could be out of touch and these places could be packed wall to wall with gorgeous women. Please help me Fabbers... Any ladies fancy showing the ropes at a local club It would be much appreciated
No single ladies go to swingers clubs. Ever."
I do hope this is a joke or a sarcastic comment as I absolutely object xxx regardless of how hot you are Vic xx |
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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago
Wherever the party is! |
"Hi
I've never been to a swingers club but I am very tempted to take a trip to a local club one night to see how I get on.
Are these places popular with single ladies? Or are they practically sausage fests? I just want to know what to expect... I know different clubs hold different events in different nights but I find it hard to imagine many single females going. I could be out of touch and these places could be packed wall to wall with gorgeous women. Please help me Fabbers... Any ladies fancy showing the ropes at a local club It would be much appreciated
No single ladies go to swingers clubs. Ever.
I do hope this is a joke or a sarcastic comment as I absolutely object xxx regardless of how hot you are Vic xx"
Just trying to eliminate the competition. Not that I need to stoop to such mischievous levels...  |
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"Hi
I've never been to a swingers club but I am very tempted to take a trip to a local club one night to see how I get on.
Are these places popular with single ladies? Or are they practically sausage fests? I just want to know what to expect... I know different clubs hold different events in different nights but I find it hard to imagine many single females going. I could be out of touch and these places could be packed wall to wall with gorgeous women. Please help me Fabbers... Any ladies fancy showing the ropes at a local club It would be much appreciated
No single ladies go to swingers clubs. Ever.
I do hope this is a joke or a sarcastic comment as I absolutely object xxx regardless of how hot you are Vic xx
Just trying to eliminate the competition. Not that I need to stoop to such mischievous levels... "
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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago
Wherever the party is! |
"Hi
I've never been to a swingers club but I am very tempted to take a trip to a local club one night to see how I get on.
Are these places popular with single ladies? Or are they practically sausage fests? I just want to know what to expect... I know different clubs hold different events in different nights but I find it hard to imagine many single females going. I could be out of touch and these places could be packed wall to wall with gorgeous women. Please help me Fabbers... Any ladies fancy showing the ropes at a local club It would be much appreciated
No single ladies go to swingers clubs. Ever.
I do hope this is a joke or a sarcastic comment as I absolutely object xxx regardless of how hot you are Vic xx
Just trying to eliminate the competition. Not that I need to stoop to such mischievous levels...
I like your thinking  xx"
Someone who likes me for my mind?
Makes a change.  |
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"Hi
I've never been to a swingers club but I am very tempted to take a trip to a local club one night to see how I get on.
Are these places popular with single ladies? Or are they practically sausage fests? I just want to know what to expect... I know different clubs hold different events in different nights but I find it hard to imagine many single females going. I could be out of touch and these places could be packed wall to wall with gorgeous women. Please help me Fabbers... Any ladies fancy showing the ropes at a local club It would be much appreciated
No single ladies go to swingers clubs. Ever.
I do hope this is a joke or a sarcastic comment as I absolutely object xxx regardless of how hot you are Vic xx
Just trying to eliminate the competition. Not that I need to stoop to such mischievous levels...
I like your thinking  xx
Someone who likes me for my mind?
Makes a change. "
Are you complaining?! Lol  |
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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago
Wherever the party is! |
"Hi
I've never been to a swingers club but I am very tempted to take a trip to a local club one night to see how I get on.
Are these places popular with single ladies? Or are they practically sausage fests? I just want to know what to expect... I know different clubs hold different events in different nights but I find it hard to imagine many single females going. I could be out of touch and these places could be packed wall to wall with gorgeous women. Please help me Fabbers... Any ladies fancy showing the ropes at a local club It would be much appreciated
No single ladies go to swingers clubs. Ever.
I do hope this is a joke or a sarcastic comment as I absolutely object xxx regardless of how hot you are Vic xx
Just trying to eliminate the competition. Not that I need to stoop to such mischievous levels...
I like your thinking  xx
Someone who likes me for my mind?
Makes a change.
Are you complaining?! Lol "
Not right now. Ask me later.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Of course single ladies go to clubs, myself and lots of friends included. I'm afraid you will have to man up and go it alone. Highly unlikely that any single fem would take a random newbie to a club. Nothing in it for her, she is stuck with them all night and their behaviour reflects on her as they are seen as a couple. Take a deep breath .....and enjoy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Many single ladies attend clubs. In fact most we'll run clubs & their members especially the males recognise that clubs are female centric. The ladies are completely in control. Their safety & enjoyment of their visits are paramount. Successful respectful couples & guys understand this fundimental point.
Cupids "where the ladies come first" |
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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago
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"Of course single ladies go to clubs, myself and lots of friends included. I'm afraid you will have to man up and go it alone. Highly unlikely that any single fem would take a random newbie to a club. Nothing in it for her, she is stuck with them all night and their behaviour reflects on her as they are seen as a couple. Take a deep breath .....and enjoy."
I see things very differently. As a single lady I enjoy taking the occasional random newbie to a club. I go in as a single, he goes in as a single. I agree to be with them for the first hour....chat, have a drink, show them round, introduce them to a handful of people and then let them enjoy their evening in the club.
For most people it's just the initial getting through the door that is scary. I am not responsible for them, make no promises to play. What do I get out if it ? Just helping scared newbies to experience the club scene. I have enjoyed it myself for years and like introducing others to it.
I do it cos I is nice |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Of course single ladies go to clubs, myself and lots of friends included. I'm afraid you will have to man up and go it alone. Highly unlikely that any single fem would take a random newbie to a club. Nothing in it for her, she is stuck with them all night and their behaviour reflects on her as they are seen as a couple. Take a deep breath .....and enjoy.
I see things very differently. As a single lady I enjoy taking the occasional random newbie to a club. I go in as a single, he goes in as a single. I agree to be with them for the first hour....chat, have a drink, show them round, introduce them to a handful of people and then let them enjoy their evening in the club.
For most people it's just the initial getting through the door that is scary. I am not responsible for them, make no promises to play. What do I get out if it ? Just helping scared newbies to experience the club scene. I have enjoyed it myself for years and like introducing others to it.
I do it cos I is nice "  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I go solo quite often and have always felt welcome and have had a great time.
If I just want to socialise and make that clear then guys have been most respectful .  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Of course single ladies go to clubs, myself and lots of friends included. I'm afraid you will have to man up and go it alone. Highly unlikely that any single fem would take a random newbie to a club. Nothing in it for her, she is stuck with them all night and their behaviour reflects on her as they are seen as a couple. Take a deep breath .....and enjoy.
I see things very differently. As a single lady I enjoy taking the occasional random newbie to a club. I go in as a single, he goes in as a single. I agree to be with them for the first hour....chat, have a drink, show them round, introduce them to a handful of people and then let them enjoy their evening in the club.
For most people it's just the initial getting through the door that is scary. I am not responsible for them, make no promises to play. What do I get out if it ? Just helping scared newbies to experience the club scene. I have enjoyed it myself for years and like introducing others to it.
I do it cos I is nice "
And my experiences have been very very different. Continue wuth your approach if it works for you and I hope you don't let lumbered with some of the arseholes I've encountered over the years.
I don't do it not cos 'I is nice' but because my charity days are long over and my play time is rare and for my benefit. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I attend clubs (eurekas and paradise spa) on my own. I would only met a newbie or a guy there and show them around the clubs. Don't want to be babysitting but I have found most like to stay by your side like little kids hanging on to their mums backside.... This is one of the reasons prefer to met them there and tell them straight... we are both here as singles. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi
I've never been to a swingers club but I am very tempted to take a trip to a local club one night to see how I get on.
Are these places popular with single ladies? Or are they practically sausage fests? I just want to know what to expect... I know different clubs hold different events in different nights but I find it hard to imagine many single females going. I could be out of touch and these places could be packed wall to wall with gorgeous women. Please help me Fabbers... Any ladies fancy showing the ropes at a local club It would be much appreciated
No single ladies go to swingers clubs. Ever.
I do hope this is a joke or a sarcastic comment as I absolutely object xxx regardless of how hot you are Vic xx
Just trying to eliminate the competition. Not that I need to stoop to such mischievous levels... "
Actually there is none here in NW . Singles ladies just don't go to club around here. They prefer meeting home  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I go solo quite often and have always felt welcome and have had a great time.
If I just want to socialise and make that clear then guys have been most respectful . " is that pleasures? Want to go there myself by always chicken out after reading some people's views. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I go to the clubs as a single girl. I love it. The guy to girl ratio on average is 70/30 if singles are allowed in the clubs. I only attend single nights, I've introduced quite a few guys to the scene, I was new once too
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi
I've never been to a swingers club but I am very tempted to take a trip to a local club one night to see how I get on.
Are these places popular with single ladies? Or are they practically sausage fests? I just want to know what to expect... I know different clubs hold different events in different nights but I find it hard to imagine many single females going. I could be out of touch and these places could be packed wall to wall with gorgeous women. Please help me Fabbers... Any ladies fancy showing the ropes at a local club It would be much appreciated "
I go as a single woman - have a fabulous time  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi
I've never been to a swingers club but I am very tempted to take a trip to a local club one night to see how I get on.
Are these places popular with single ladies? Or are they practically sausage fests? I just want to know what to expect... I know different clubs hold different events in different nights but I find it hard to imagine many single females going. I could be out of touch and these places could be packed wall to wall with gorgeous women. Please help me Fabbers... Any ladies fancy showing the ropes at a local club It would be much appreciated " I know single women do go but would I heck pay £40/£50 as a single guy to get in a club I'll rather have a wank and spunk it on FIFA 17  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi
I've never been to a swingers club but I am very tempted to take a trip to a local club one night to see how I get on.
Are these places popular with single ladies? Or are they practically sausage fests? I just want to know what to expect... I know different clubs hold different events in different nights but I find it hard to imagine many single females going. I could be out of touch and these places could be packed wall to wall with gorgeous women. Please help me Fabbers... Any ladies fancy showing the ropes at a local club It would be much appreciated I know single women do go but would I heck pay £40/£50 as a single guy to get in a club I'll rather have a wank and spunk it on FIFA 17 "
Why on earth would you want to wank and spunk it on your Fifa game?? Fifa isn't that attractive you know! Lol  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I go solo quite often and have always felt welcome and have had a great time.
If I just want to socialise and make that clear then guys have been most respectful . is that pleasures? Want to go there myself by always chicken out after reading some people's views. "
Eurekas.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Why do they have to be singles?
Aren't the female halves of couples any good?"
Absolutely nothing wrong with couples but I was specifically wondering about single women. I'm looking for a relationship, someone who's into this scene and knows what they want. I expect it to be easier than getting into a vanilla relationship and exposing yourself as a sexual deviant after 6 months. I should have made that clearer in OP |
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"Why do they have to be singles?
Aren't the female halves of couples any good?
Absolutely nothing wrong with couples but I was specifically wondering about single women. I'm looking for a relationship, someone who's into this scene and knows what they want. I expect it to be easier than getting into a vanilla relationship and exposing yourself as a sexual deviant after 6 months. I should have made that clearer in OP "
Nobody wants a relationship on here..always after the next thing. Or maybe I have that effect on people  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why do they have to be singles?
Aren't the female halves of couples any good?
Absolutely nothing wrong with couples but I was specifically wondering about single women. I'm looking for a relationship, someone who's into this scene and knows what they want. I expect it to be easier than getting into a vanilla relationship and exposing yourself as a sexual deviant after 6 months. I should have made that clearer in OP
Nobody wants a relationship on here..always after the next thing. Or maybe I have that effect on people "
That's a very bleak view! Lots of people want to meet someone special
In regards to the OP lots of single ladies in most well run clubs, a good balance is essential for keeping the clientele happy
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why do they have to be singles?
Aren't the female halves of couples any good?
Absolutely nothing wrong with couples but I was specifically wondering about single women. I'm looking for a relationship, someone who's into this scene and knows what they want. I expect it to be easier than getting into a vanilla relationship and exposing yourself as a sexual deviant after 6 months. I should have made that clearer in OP
Nobody wants a relationship on here..always after the next thing. Or maybe I have that effect on people
That's a very bleak view! Lots of people want to meet someone special
In regards to the OP lots of single ladies in most well run clubs, a good balance is essential for keeping the clientele happy
Beard"
Funny enough I've been on this site awhile now and have seen about 6/7 couples who have met on here. Who go to clubs .... me personally don't think I could start up a relationship with anyone on here... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi
I've never been to a swingers club but I am very tempted to take a trip to a local club one night to see how I get on.
Are these places popular with single ladies? Or are they practically sausage fests? I just want to know what to expect... I know different clubs hold different events in different nights but I find it hard to imagine many single females going. I could be out of touch and these places could be packed wall to wall with gorgeous women. Please help me Fabbers... Any ladies fancy showing the ropes at a local club It would be much appreciated I know single women do go but would I heck pay £40/£50 as a single guy to get in a club I'll rather have a wank and spunk it on FIFA 17
Why on earth would you want to wank and spunk it on your Fifa game?? Fifa isn't that attractive you know! Lol " come into my office madam!  |
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By *mega_1Woman
over a year ago
Birkenhead |
Yikes I use Townhouse as if it was just my local bar lol, I can forever be found in there, as a single female I would much rather go to a club than a local pub as I feel much more at home and safer in that environment. |
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"Hi
I've never been to a swingers club but I am very tempted to take a trip to a local club one night to see how I get on.
Are these places popular with single ladies? Or are they practically sausage fests? I just want to know what to expect... I know different clubs hold different events in different nights but I find it hard to imagine many single females going. I could be out of touch and these places could be packed wall to wall with gorgeous women. Please help me Fabbers... Any ladies fancy showing the ropes at a local club It would be much appreciated
No single ladies go to swingers clubs. Ever."
What a load of crap.....always go alone that way uou know your not being used to gain entry |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I go to the clubs as a single girl. I love it. The guy to girl ratio on average is 70/30 if singles are allowed in the clubs. I only attend single nights, I've introduced quite a few guys to the scene, I was new once too
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Me too.....cannot wait till next Friday xxx |
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We go to jaydees you do get some single ladies there , true you can some times get lots of single guys too , why are you ruling out married women and cutting your chances in half , you may find quite a few husbands at club enjoy watching their wife having fun ? ?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We go to jaydees you do get some single ladies there , true you can some times get lots of single guys too , why are you ruling out married women and cutting your chances in half , you may find quite a few husbands at club enjoy watching their wife having fun ? ??"
He did respond to someone else as to why he was wondering if single females go and not couples |
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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago
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"Why do they have to be singles?
Aren't the female halves of couples any good?
Absolutely nothing wrong with couples but I was specifically wondering about single women. I'm looking for a relationship, someone who's into this scene and knows what they want. I expect it to be easier than getting into a vanilla relationship and exposing yourself as a sexual deviant after 6 months. I should have made that clearer in OP "
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By *uai17Woman
over a year ago
Twickenham |
"Hi
I've never been to a swingers club but I am very tempted to take a trip to a local club one night to see how I get on.
Are these places popular with single ladies? Or are they practically sausage fests? I just want to know what to expect... I know different clubs hold different events in different nights but I find it hard to imagine many single females going. I could be out of touch and these places could be packed wall to wall with gorgeous women. Please help me Fabbers... Any ladies fancy showing the ropes at a local club It would be much appreciated
No single ladies go to swingers clubs. Ever."
What a crock of Shite...I along with many others go |
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