Hi all,
I am off to Jaydees on Saturday as a single male - wondering if anyone wants to meet me and go as a couple or if any couples are going that want to chat before
Especially would appreciate advice as although I've been to a few swingers clubs and swinging holidays in the past I always feel a bit nervous about going to a new club.
Many thanks
Mike x |
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"As you are looking for someone to go with as a couple can I assume that you haven't booked in as a single man?"
LOL hardened swingers know all the tricks of the trade. You just can't fight it guys. It'll get you nowhere |
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"As you are looking for someone to go with as a couple can I assume that you haven't booked in as a single man?
LOL hardened swingers know all the tricks of the trade. You just can't fight it guys. It'll get you nowhere"
Care to try that again, make a bit of sense next time  |
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"As you are looking for someone to go with as a couple can I assume that you haven't booked in as a single man?
LOL hardened swingers know all the tricks of the trade. You just can't fight it guys. It'll get you nowhere
Care to try that again, make a bit of sense next time "
O level English must have been easy in my day. It reads pretty clear |
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Crikey, that's not how I saw this going - hopefully the people at the club will not be so presumptuous and generalising or I fear I will have wasted the price of a decent bottle of wine !!
Oh and for the record I am booked in as a single male and not trying to 'fight the system'.
Having attended numerous UK swinging clubs, several in Europe as well as venturing a couple of times to hedonism on Jamaica both as a single male and a part of various couples I find that things are a little easier when you enter as a couple (even if you don't play together) as has proven on here people are very quick to tar the single males with the same brush when in reality if those very people took as long to fact find as they did jump to conclusions they might find there are quite a few respectable single males out there ...
Anyway let's see if anyone offers some sensible advice or conversation about the original question !!!
Mike x |
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over a year ago
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"Crikey, that's not how I saw this going - hopefully the people at the club will not be so presumptuous and generalising or I fear I will have wasted the price of a decent bottle of wine !!
Oh and for the record I am booked in as a single male and not trying to 'fight the system'.
Having attended numerous UK swinging clubs, several in Europe as well as venturing a couple of times to hedonism on Jamaica both as a single male and a part of various couples I find that things are a little easier when you enter as a couple (even if you don't play together) as has proven on here people are very quick to tar the single males with the same brush when in reality if those very people took as long to fact find as they did jump to conclusions they might find there are quite a few respectable single males out there ...
Anyway let's see if anyone offers some sensible advice or conversation about the original question !!!
Mike x"
Thought I was perfectly polite  |
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I've also played in clubs all over the world and this Was one of the best club I've gone to. (That may also gave something to do with the common language)
Be relaxed, follow cues and don't be shy to introduce yourself especially if there's eye contact.
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"Hi all,
I am off to Jaydees on Saturday as a single male - wondering if anyone wants to meet me and go as a couple or if any couples are going that want to chat before
Especially would appreciate advice as although I've been to a few swingers clubs and swinging holidays in the past I always feel a bit nervous about going to a new club.
Many thanks
Mike x"
Hoping to go ,so might see you there. Just mingle ,you will be fine  |
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"Hi all,
I am off to Jaydees on Saturday as a single male - wondering if anyone wants to meet me and go as a couple or if any couples are going that want to chat before
Especially would appreciate advice as although I've been to a few swingers clubs and swinging holidays in the past I always feel a bit nervous about going to a new club.
Many thanks
Mike x"
You'll be fine just follow the be respectful and polite mantra and all's good. Jaydees is a very friendly club and easy to get to chat to people there  |
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"Crikey, that's not how I saw this going - hopefully the people at the club will not be so presumptuous and generalising or I fear I will have wasted the price of a decent bottle of wine !!
Oh and for the record I am booked in as a single male and not trying to 'fight the system'.
Having attended numerous UK swinging clubs, several in Europe as well as venturing a couple of times to hedonism on Jamaica both as a single male and a part of various couples I find that things are a little easier when you enter as a couple (even if you don't play together) as has proven on here people are very quick to tar the single males with the same brush when in reality if those very people took as long to fact find as they did jump to conclusions they might find there are quite a few respectable single males out there ...
Anyway let's see if anyone offers some sensible advice or conversation about the original question !!!
Mike x
Thought I was perfectly polite "
Sadly some people do not appreciate guidance and advice. At least you made the effort to make sure that the member was aware of the potential problem of turning up and being refused admission. |
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"Crikey, that's not how I saw this going - hopefully the people at the club will not be so presumptuous and generalising or I fear I will have wasted the price of a decent bottle of wine !!
Oh and for the record I am booked in as a single male and not trying to 'fight the system'.
Having attended numerous UK swinging clubs, several in Europe as well as venturing a couple of times to hedonism on Jamaica both as a single male and a part of various couples I find that things are a little easier when you enter as a couple (even if you don't play together) as has proven on here people are very quick to tar the single males with the same brush when in reality if those very people took as long to fact find as they did jump to conclusions they might find there are quite a few respectable single males out there ...
Anyway let's see if anyone offers some sensible advice or conversation about the original question !!!
Mike x
Thought I was perfectly polite Sadly some people do not appreciate guidance and advice. At least you made the effort to make sure that the member was aware of the potential problem of turning up and being refused admission. "
True.
Not like it is written all over the clubs website. |
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Hi we look forward to meeting you when you come along and we know you will have a good time. Our club is very friendly and the Wild West Theme is a very busy one, everyone loves it. We also have an hour of fun learning to line dance with a fun line dancing teacher.
Single guys do have to book in as we dont allow too many... The single guys that come along have been recommended or verified too. We always ask single guys to check the etiquette on how to chat to people and not expect sex... This seems to work well....
See you all Saturday new people always welcome, just send us a message and check our profile for the party updates....
Dont forget to add your names to the list in club event ads and other people will see who is coming along love Jaydee and Tracy xxx |
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