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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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All, a little help, the club we used to attend has now closed and we now are looking for a new club to attend
Both chams and Xtasia are around the same distance from us 60-70 miles about 1hr 20
Which is the best club for us as a couple looking to play with straight single males?
Thanks in advance peoples |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Both clubs are great but completely different types of club.
Friday nights in both single males are allowed but Saturday nights is couples and single females only.
Xtasia is a nightclub style slub and chams is a wet/dress down club.
I'd say try both. Check out the forums for when Friday night events are on at either of them  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Can't comment on _tasia but chams is a nice friendly club Friday night or Sundays are good for single guys or so we have found...it also has hotel rooms you can book if your worried about drink driving which is what we like about it. Also driving back 60+miles after a hot evenings play is totally exhausting and the last thing you want to be doing... |
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By *umpkinMan
over a year ago
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Also can`t comment on Xtasia but it has a Premier Inn next door and if you mention the club when you book (by phone) you`ll get a discount.
As has been said before, dress up or dress down being the main question.
Both clubs have good reputations and work hard at keeping a tight ship. |
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"All, a little help, the club we used to attend has now closed and we now are looking for a new club to attend
Both chams and Xtasia are around the same distance from us 60-70 miles about 1hr 20
Which is the best club for us as a couple looking to play with straight single males?
Thanks in advance peoples "
What days are you thinking of attending?
Both clubs have themed nights which which may increase or decrease the number of single guys on a specific night and both ban single guys on a Saturday night so that one is best avoided! |
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As has been said Chams and Xtasia both have an entirely different ambience.
Xtasia is very much night club based with dressing up encouraged and quite an emphasis on fetish.
Chams is definitely a swingers club, where dressing down is the order of the day.
Both are busy on Friday and Saturday evenings. Saturday nights are couples only so if its single guys you are looking for Friday is your night, where there are plenty to choose from.
At the moment Xtasia is having outside building works done and is looking a little bit tired on the inside.
Our personal opinion is that at Chams swinging is actively encouraged, at Xtasia that aspect is controlled.
You takes your pick, try both as they compliment each other and provide alternative experiences. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We love both but you get a totally different night in each of them. It's times when I read things like this that I feel lucky by my location. 10 mins to _tasia and 20 to chams |
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"We love both but you get a totally different night in each of them. It's times when I read things like this that I feel lucky by my location. 10 mins to _tasia and 20 to chams "
Being able to walk to chams is nice!
As above, both clubs have their own ambience. Chams is a lot more chilled out and relaxed in our opinion and the tubs are bigger too though if you are fans of keeping your clothes on until play time, you might prefer _tasia.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We love both but you get a totally different night in each of them. It's times when I read things like this that I feel lucky by my location. 10 mins to _tasia and 20 to chams
Being able to walk to chams is nice!
As above, both clubs have their own ambience. Chams is a lot more chilled out and relaxed in our opinion and the tubs are bigger too though if you are fans of keeping your clothes on until play time, you might prefer _tasia.
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Lucky pair, if we lived in walking distance I would be there every day  |
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By *rs DCouple
over a year ago
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"All, a little help, the club we used to attend has now closed and we now are looking for a new club to attend
Both chams and Xtasia are around the same distance from us 60-70 miles about 1hr 20
Which is the best club for us as a couple looking to play with straight single males?
Thanks in advance peoples "
try _tasia its great x |
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By *tasiaCouple
over a year ago
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"As has been said Chams and Xtasia both have an entirely different ambience.
Xtasia is very much night club based with dressing up encouraged and quite an emphasis on fetish.
Chams is definitely a swingers club, where dressing down is the order of the day.
Both are busy on Friday and Saturday evenings. Saturday nights are couples only so if its single guys you are looking for Friday is your night, where there are plenty to choose from.
At the moment Xtasia is having outside building works done and is looking a little bit tired on the inside.
Our personal opinion is that at Chams swinging is actively encouraged, at Xtasia that aspect is controlled.
You takes your pick, try both as they compliment each other and provide alternative experiences. "
Just wanting to pick a couple of points out from this reply if we may.
The swinging club...the main building on a Friday and Saturday night, has no emphasis on Fetish at all...you'll need to go next door to see any of that happening.
The building work on the front bar is all internal now and the scaffold has all gone!
Xtasia controls swinging?? No idea what's meant by that, the rooms are open to all whenever you wish! What we do find is that folks like to dance and build up to playing, rather than jumping in early, but that's by choice rather than us implementing anything that restricts play.
Again, we'd also recommend trying both, make a weekend of it and see what you think. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would recommend chams both clubs are great but at _tasia a lot of people go back to the premier Inn to play not sure about Friday's that maybe different only been on a sat cples night,chams seems to have more rooms for play and seems to lots more playing going on then I've seen at _tasia |
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By *rs DCouple
over a year ago
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"I would recommend chams both clubs are great but at _tasia a lot of people go back to the premier Inn to play not sure about Friday's that maybe different only been on a sat cples night,chams seems to have more rooms for play and seems to lots more playing going on then I've seen at _tasia"
dont kmow what time you was at _tasia,but most people have a good dance on the floor first,then the room start getting well full from around 12.30
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I would recommend chams both clubs are great but at _tasia a lot of people go back to the premier Inn to play not sure about Friday's that maybe different only been on a sat cples night,chams seems to have more rooms for play and seems to lots more playing going on then I've seen at _tasia"
We've never failed to have fun at _tasias and we've always been able to find a room or spot. We're normally to worn out to have fun at the premier inn afterwards, where we always stay.
Unless you being a complete dick the management just allow you to be yourself and have fun !!!
Fetish !! This isn't true unless it's a themed night, which is clearly stated.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Been to both.
Chams is a towel club as soon as you go in if it's not a theme you have to change gents into a towel.
Xtasia is a night club. They have certain theme's. No requirement to undress.
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many ladies wear sexy lingerie and a lot of gents wear shorts at chams
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