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over a year ago
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I fancy trying a new club where people are actually playing. I have been to The Attic in Derby a couple of times and although a great club there was nothing to report. Can anyone suggest where i might try please?
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"I fancy trying a new club where people are actually playing. I have been to The Attic in Derby a couple of times and although a great club there was nothing to report. Can anyone suggest where i might try please?
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Was it a Saturday night you went the attic? |
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"I fancy trying a new club where people are actually playing. I have been to The Attic in Derby a couple of times and although a great club there was nothing to report. Can anyone suggest where i might try please?
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we've stopped going for this reason it's one big social |
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over a year ago
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East Midlands clubs, there is Vanilla Alternative at Bedford, Jaydees at St Neots, Liberty Elite at Lutterworth, Mingles at Colchester not sure about any others. We often go up to Birmingham to Chams and Xtasia as well  |
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"I fancy trying a new club where people are actually playing. I have been to The Attic in Derby a couple of times and although a great club there was nothing to report. Can anyone suggest where i might try please?
we've stopped going for this reason it's one big social "
All the people I've seen playing must have been a figment of my imagination and I must have been day dreaming when I thought I had played with people.
It's probably the busiest club at the minute, due to the increased reputation it's getting, so many newbies are going and just testing out the water rather than just jumping straight in, but talking to those that are approachable or those that approach them. |
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"I fancy trying a new club where people are actually playing. I have been to The Attic in Derby a couple of times and although a great club there was nothing to report. Can anyone suggest where i might try please?
we've stopped going for this reason it's one big social
All the people I've seen playing must have been a figment of my imagination and I must have been day dreaming when I thought I had played with people.
It's probably the busiest club at the minute, due to the increased reputation it's getting, so many newbies are going and just testing out the water rather than just jumping straight in, but talking to those that are approachable or those that approach them."
I can do that in the pub and not pay a entrance fee I go to a club to play thato what a swingers club is unfortunately it's been ruined by people who want stand around talking about useless shit  |
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Every time i been to the attic i did have sex...sometimes only just when i think its time to go home i had a good night..then i had the chance to have sex. But i don't go has often has i should..but there seems to be many couples who like to be alone...few like to be watched and rare like you to join in. But never the less its still a good night and i live very close i can walk it |
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"Every time i been to the attic i did have sex...sometimes only just when i think its time to go home i had a good night..then i had the chance to have sex. But i don't go has often has i should..but there seems to be many couples who like to be alone...few like to be watched and rare like you to join in. But never the less its still a good night and i live very close i can walk it "
 I've Been The Attic For Years And Yes Had Some HD Times But It Got Where Certain People would sit on the beds talking about there shopping ect bit of a passion killer |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I Like to play but its no big deal if i dont... Clubs are there as much socially as anything else..
Not been to the attic on a Saturday night in a very long time but from what I hear from friends its busy..
Other clubs that seem busy in the East Midlands are very spread out.. jaydees is a good club.. but i believe (sorry if im wrong) that the op is a single guy.. so many of the other clubs are couples only on Saturday.
Quest is busy and lots going on... but you cant go to any club with the intention of playing as even as a lady or a couple its not guaranteed |
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"I Like to play but its no big deal if i dont... Clubs are there as much socially as anything else..
Not been to the attic on a Saturday night in a very long time but from what I hear from friends its busy..
Other clubs that seem busy in the East Midlands are very spread out.. jaydees is a good club.. but i believe (sorry if im wrong) that the op is a single guy.. so many of the other clubs are couples only on Saturday.
Quest is busy and lots going on... but you cant go to any club with the intention of playing as even as a lady or a couple its not guaranteed "
it's no big deal to us all I'm saying is certain people have no regard for anyone else when you do play last ime we went a group of regulars all sat on the beds on the first floor chatting about shopping there's places for social banter and it's not in the play areas as it states on the walls but this gets ignored |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I Like to play but its no big deal if i dont... Clubs are there as much socially as anything else..
Not been to the attic on a Saturday night in a very long time but from what I hear from friends its busy..
Other clubs that seem busy in the East Midlands are very spread out.. jaydees is a good club.. but i believe (sorry if im wrong) that the op is a single guy.. so many of the other clubs are couples only on Saturday.
Quest is busy and lots going on... but you cant go to any club with the intention of playing as even as a lady or a couple its not guaranteed it's no big deal to us all I'm saying is certain people have no regard for anyone else when you do play last ime we went a group of regulars all sat on the beds on the first floor chatting about shopping there's places for social banter and it's not in the play areas as it states on the walls but this gets ignored"
i take it you mean where the club used to end. Where there are the 3 beds and used to be the room with the sheer curtain on.... ? |
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I think that has always ended up a bit of a bus stop there.. with the exception of gg nights.. if all the club is open its not an issue as being the way through to the other bit of the club.. not many play there now anyway.
Perhaps turning that bit into a social area officially would work.. i do object in proper rooms if people are chatting about normal stuff but can understand it there. |
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"I think that has always ended up a bit of a bus stop there.. with the exception of gg nights.. if all the club is open its not an issue as being the way through to the other bit of the club.. not many play there now anyway.
Perhaps turning that bit into a social area officially would work.. i do object in proper rooms if people are chatting about normal stuff but can understand it there. "
this was before the full extention was open so the space was needed then |
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"I fancy trying a new club where people are actually playing. I have been to The Attic in Derby a couple of times and although a great club there was nothing to report. Can anyone suggest where i might try please?
we've stopped going for this reason it's one big social
All the people I've seen playing must have been a figment of my imagination and I must have been day dreaming when I thought I had played with people.
It's probably the busiest club at the minute, due to the increased reputation it's getting, so many newbies are going and just testing out the water rather than just jumping straight in, but talking to those that are approachable or those that approach them.I can do that in the pub and not pay a entrance fee I go to a club to play thato what a swingers club is unfortunately it's been ruined by people who want stand around talking about useless shit "
Think you maybe getting a swingers club confused with a brothel.
Am fairly certain there isn't one swingers club that states in the rules that if you attend you have to play. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Yes it was a Saturday.
I am sure there is fun in the place but it does not seem to happen much and is more of a great social club.
I used to visit Le Chambre many years ago and always lots of people playing.
Thank you for the advice everyone
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"I fancy trying a new club where people are actually playing. I have been to The Attic in Derby a couple of times and although a great club there was nothing to report. Can anyone suggest where i might try please?
we've stopped going for this reason it's one big social
All the people I've seen playing must have been a figment of my imagination and I must have been day dreaming when I thought I had played with people.
It's probably the busiest club at the minute, due to the increased reputation it's getting, so many newbies are going and just testing out the water rather than just jumping straight in, but talking to those that are approachable or those that approach them.I can do that in the pub and not pay a entrance fee I go to a club to play thato what a swingers club is unfortunately it's been ruined by people who want stand around talking about useless shit
Think you maybe getting a swingers club confused with a brothel.
Am fairly certain there isn't one swingers club that states in the rules that if you attend you have to play."
I never said that how dare you say that !!!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We love the attic and have been about 15times now and each time most off the rooms get full up and we play in the big white room and there's always other couples playing in there xx |
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the attic on saturday nights is extremely busy and i can assure everyone theres plenty of play and good times also dont no why arguing about rooms that are no longer there makes it look silly as the beds in the bedouin room have been gone for a while now and new shower rooms for two or three to play in put in place and neww rooms being built will be open soon |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Backwithabang, you're right people did use those beds to sit on and socialise, but please tell me how it put a damper on the evening, as the beds are not near any other play rooms so could not be heard talking. I have been to the club numerous times and only ever seen the bed that used to be behind the curtain get used for playing on, so was it really an issue. When I go there I can know from 2 to 30 people, majority of these I know through chatroom or going to the club and getting to know people, so many do end up finding somewhere to chat and this is at any club I go to, so where else would you like to see this happen at the attic? We did venture to the room with the swing in before but it's not really made for people to socialise in, same as on the dance floor. Clearly not everyone is like you as many prefer to chat with others prior to playing and having where the beds are as a bus stop area would work great as people walk through and tend to stop and talk, to get to know people.
Only last week you were saying you really like the attic, just certain people that go which you dislike. But yes you are going on to any post about the attic and trying to make it avoidable, I just hope no-one listens to you. You made comments about Jane previously on a thread and I believe that couple went and left a review and said what they thought of Jane, no negativity about her. You seem to have a bee in your bonnet and coming across very bitter about whatever has gone on, why not be an adult and just accept not everyone likes everyone and going on to every post about the attic and giving it a negative light makes you appear like a complete moron, considering you state you really liked it, went regularly etc; so to me it is obvious there's something more behind your opinion about the club. Of course you're entitled to your opinion, but when you look at previous threads it's clear there's more to it. Just because you don't like someone doesn't mean no one else will. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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True i saw that a lot last time i went...a room with 3 beds i think and about 5 people sat there talking all night apart from moving to another area...but if that's what they want to do. Maybe they get sex on a more regular basis then us single guys who have to hunt for it |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"True i saw that a lot last time i went...a room with 3 beds i think and about 5 people sat there talking all night apart from moving to another area...but if that's what they want to do. Maybe they get sex on a more regular basis then us single guys who have to hunt for it "
thing is since that area was a walk through for the new changing rooms it's always ended up as a natural bus stop type place... made it quite funny on occassion when it was busy and having fun on there..
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"the attic on saturday nights is extremely busy and i can assure everyone theres plenty of play and good times also dont no why arguing about rooms that are no longer there makes it look silly as the beds in the bedouin room have been gone for a while now and new shower rooms for two or three to play in put in place and neww rooms being built will be open soon "
my point was only my option I've not bad mouthed the attic it was our favourite club my grievance is over the way we were treated over blackpool for asking simply why there was a charge not a unreasonable request I messaged Jane privately 3 times to ask and they were read and deleted with no reply hence why I'm a touch peeved I have been told tonight we are not welcome at the attic anymore is this true ??? I have the greatest like for Ron but we've been hit by several people getting involved I'd like to know of Ron if we are not welcome in the future then we will stay away rather than others attacking us with your not welcome
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"True i saw that a lot last time i went...a room with 3 beds i think and about 5 people sat there talking all night apart from moving to another area...but if that's what they want to do. Maybe they get sex on a more regular basis then us single guys who have to hunt for it thing is since that area was a walk through for the new changing rooms it's always ended up as a natural bus stop type place... made it quite funny on occassion when it was busy and having fun on there..
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I will still go again but not often has i wish i could. But i try to keep the balance of hopping of having sex or blow job to nothing at all...and focus on enjoying it there |
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