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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hey all
We are planning our first trip to a swingers club on the 17th and have decided to go to abfabs as the reviews seem good and is well placed any hints or tips for first timers or if you plan to be there would be good to have friendly faces to look out for.
E and a x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"at least we arent the only ones going from here"
We aren't going. We don't go there anymore. But you won't be alone. There is gerenarlly people there on a Saturday night. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Of course some people still love the place. And that's there choice. We just choose not to attend based on our own experiences. We suggest everyone makes up there own mind on every venue. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's a great club local to me, I've been to a few and it's the friendliest for sure xx get along there, enjoy and make your own mind up, I'm sure you will be very popular and fine what your lady is looking for xx enjoy xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ok just seems like every1 has something bad to say when every i decide on a club to go to"
Not saying anything bad. You will find that lots of people have different opinions on every club. That's why you have to make up your own mind. |
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By *andrewMan
over a year ago
GUILDFORD |
Hello Saturday night for a first time visit to Abfabs is a good choice. The staff are very good and as no single men following all the couples the atmosphere is more relaxed. Just go to see how you feel and chat to people and then if feels good join in. If not treat it as a great social night out. |
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Every club has an occasional off day. Yes someone was sick the other week, yes people shouldn't get that d*unk but sometimes they do whatever clubs. I've been going to Abfab for 10 years and would recommend you go and try it for yourself, the reviews in the club section imho are balanced. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ok just seems like every1 has something bad to say when every i decide on a club to go to"
You will always hear bad reviews about every club. We have as bad times at abfabs but lots of good ones too. You are always going to get single men follow you no matter what club you go to. Sat nights are couple nights so best night to go if your not looking for single men. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You'll have a great time at abfabs, the reviews are overwhelmingly positive!! Don't have any expectations, treat it as a night out, if you play then that's a bonus. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think sometimes you can overthink things. Opinions about clubs can be different for different people the clubs we may enjoy you may hate and visa versa. Just go relax and don't expect anything you are looking for a very niche thing in swinging and even in a club it may take some time to find someone who is compatible. We have been very lucky and enjoyed a few connections with single ladies but we have never gone looking for it. It's happened organically. |
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By *ENNFUNCouple
over a year ago
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We too agree. We are still new to this scene and liked our first visit to Abfabs. It's big and has places to socialise and for you to be away from the crowd as well.
Now we are visiting tonight for second time. Hopefully see you there. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"thanks everyone gonna go and have fun and judge for ourselves "
You will have a great time. We love Abfabs. We were there in the summer and had an amazing time. We spent all say at Kestrels and went back for a great night. We just wish it was closer. Staff are great and the playrooms/log cabins we think are the best in the country. Don't forget the cinema too! X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Went last night and had a great time. Everyone was friendly and great facilities 
A few friends went last night. They would have been the noisy ones 
No idea who you could possibly mean  "
Well it was a pleasure to hear you  |
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