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Chams Darlaston on a Monday night
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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We are thinking of paying a visit to Chams Darlaston on a Monday evening and were wondering how busy it gets?
Also we are aware that its a Bi night - I'm bi but my partner isn't - would that be a problem?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It'll be fine. Just as long as you make sure you say to anyone who advances. No one will be looking to jump you both. It's still the same rules as non bi night. No means no. Simples xx |
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I see it like this. It's a BI night so why go if you're not BI? The night is there so the men who are genuinely bi can meet and play when it's frowned upon on other nights. Bi women can and do play on any night as that's more 'acceptable' so why not just go on a 'normal' night? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I see it like this. It's a BI night so why go if you're not BI? The night is there so the men who are genuinely bi can meet and play when it's frowned upon on other nights. Bi women can and do play on any night as that's more 'acceptable' so why not just go on a 'normal' night? "
because a Monday is the only night we can go...and to be honest, I was more interested in how busy it would be anyway as not much point going anywhere if its not that busy.. |
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We are regulars at Chams Monday Bi-Nights. In our experience the evenings can be quite busy early on (up to about 9.30pm) but it does tend to tail off after then. The problem is always whether the heavy presence of single guys are genuine Bi's or only there for a perve!
Parking can be tight between 7.30 and 9.30pm
There has been quite a lot of discussion on here regarding the attendance of folks who are straight on Bi Nights and most of the people we have spoken to would prefer if the management would enforce the idea that Monday is reserved for people of a Bi persuasion. They advertise Monday nights specifically for Bi's so why not stick to the house rule.
You rarely see people attempt to wear anything on a Tuesday Nude Night and when they do they are quickly reminded of the house rule.
People like ourselves go on Mondays and Tuesdays specifically because these are the scenes we are looking for.
We hope you find what you are looking for.
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By (user no longer on site)
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Never had a problem on a Monday night and it is essentially a "Bi and Bi friendly" night. So make the most of it.
There are always the single males who are just there to perv and try their chances but the word "No" should always be at play if they get too close for comfort. Me and my ex-buddy made sure we did.
It's been a while since I last went but if there are any issues then just let the staff know - they're there to make sure you're more at ease than the single males.
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By (user no longer on site)
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We have been tonight, quite busy and a good atmosphere. What disappointed us is the lack of outwardly bi men, surely that is what a night like this is actively for, rather than straight couples and straight men just our opinion of course but it has been a good night  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I see it like this. It's a BI night so why go if you're not BI? The night is there so the men who are genuinely bi can meet and play when it's frowned upon on other nights. Bi women can and do play on any night as that's more 'acceptable' so why not just go on a 'normal' night? "
Are you saying Mondays are basically a sausage fest? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I see it like this. It's a BI night so why go if you're not BI? The night is there so the men who are genuinely bi can meet and play when it's frowned upon on other nights. Bi women can and do play on any night as that's more 'acceptable' so why not just go on a 'normal' night?
Are you saying Mondays are basically a sausage fest?"
That would be ludicrous to suggest that it's a sausage fest. Past experience says it's more bi-gem based than willing guys. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I see it like this. It's a BI night so why go if you're not BI? The night is there so the men who are genuinely bi can meet and play when it's frowned upon on other nights. Bi women can and do play on any night as that's more 'acceptable' so why not just go on a 'normal' night?
Are you saying Mondays are basically a sausage fest?"
Not at all this Monday gone was a good mix of couples and singles, something for everyone. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I see it like this. It's a BI night so why go if you're not BI? The night is there so the men who are genuinely bi can meet and play when it's frowned upon on other nights. Bi women can and do play on any night as that's more 'acceptable' so why not just go on a 'normal' night?
Are you saying Mondays are basically a sausage fest?
That would be ludicrous to suggest that it's a sausage fest. Past experience says it's more bi-gem based than willing guys."
Not even at the buffet? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I see it like this. It's a BI night so why go if you're not BI? The night is there so the men who are genuinely bi can meet and play when it's frowned upon on other nights. Bi women can and do play on any night as that's more 'acceptable' so why not just go on a 'normal' night?
Are you saying Mondays are basically a sausage fest?
That would be ludicrous to suggest that it's a sausage fest. Past experience says it's more bi-gem based than willing guys.
Not even at the buffet?"
I quite like the buffet... When I can get to it... No sausage sadly (buffet wise) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I quite like the buffet... When I can get to it... No sausage sadly (buffet wise)"
I've never been brave enough to eat the buffet - or the mints at the bar  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I quite like the buffet... When I can get to it... No sausage sadly (buffet wise)
I've never been brave enough to eat the buffet - or the mints at the bar "
Alcohol and chlorine permitting from the two jacuzzi's... The mints go down particularly well ?? The buffet is fine... It's when you start eating more than minimal when you get the look like you're a fat bastard! 
Must get a new membership (if my buddy can pull her finger out of her backside) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Not been for a little while but i was always led to believe every nights a bi night for girls.
Monday's are for the guys. If your male partner is straight you shouldn't really go as the idea is to avoid the embarrassment for a guy coming into a guy being told his object of desire is straight. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Not been for a little while but i was always led to believe every nights a bi night for girls.
Monday's are for the guys. If your male partner is straight you shouldn't really go as the idea is to avoid the embarrassment for a guy coming into a guy being told his object of desire is straight. "
This is what I was eluding to earlier - whether or not that is indeed how people view it.
If it were intended for bi-men only presumably it would be called bi-male night? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Not been for a little while but i was always led to believe every nights a bi night for girls.
Monday's are for the guys. If your male partner is straight you shouldn't really go as the idea is to avoid the embarrassment for a guy coming into a guy being told his object of desire is straight.
This is what I was eluding to earlier - whether or not that is indeed how people view it.
If it were intended for bi-men only presumably it would be called bi-male night?"
Bi females are welcome same as every night. |
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