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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago
Stoke area |
Can't tell you about local clubs to you, but general advise....
Look friendly, mingle and chat. Chat about everyday stuff and not sex ( for the first 2 minutes at least ).
Sit by the bar. People come to the bar, so it's easier to chat there.
If you sit on your own, arms folded, looking anxious people won't be keen to approach you. Make some effort.
Wear what's appropriate. Check the clubs website.
Do not expect to have sex! Plan to get a feel for the place, see what it's all about. Chat to people and swap fab usernames. You can get verifications and then maybe arrange to meet the team again, or meet privately.
Relax and have a pleasant evening out. |
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Ring the club first. Tell them you're a nervous newbie (we've ALL been one once!)
Ask them the best night to go to get a feel for the place. That's maybe not a really busy night.
When you go, again tell them you were the guy who called.
Then if you can, after a look round, sit by the bar and chat with the staff. Again - good reason to avoid a packed night!
They will get you into conversation with other customers. And then maybe someone will help show you the ropes or they can offer advice.
For our first visit - go with no expectation of playing. Just see it as a "fact finding" trip. You can always change your mind....
Good luck!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As has been said, VA is great for newbies. We've been twice now, couple night and bi night. Enjoyed bi night more, but that's just us. Don't have any ideas that you will be in an orgy all night and you will be fine  . Oh, and enjoy yourself..... |
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Some great advice above, though I think all clubs are welcoming of new members.
You may find dress down a bit intimidating the first time, so any of the three nearest to you (La Chambre, Quest and The Attic) would be good.
Have a look at the club section on here and their websites and take the plunge |
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You have two very good clubs near you both allow single guys in .take the plunge and just try . Like others have said make an effort to chat to people , even if you like a woman give her a wink and let her know you like them .my wife often comes up to me to say that guy over there winked and I quite like him so we will chat and of things go well we take it from there. But don't go expecting sex with anyone you like , if it happens all good but some nights can be quite , but there are open areas and if you don't get layed at least you get to watch |
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