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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Amen to that.
I wont go on my own though still looking for a willing partner"
It will be easier to go on your own as it will be hard to find someone willing to go with you....what have you got to loose? |
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By *hygirlWoman
over a year ago
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Been loving this place or past yrs,,, xanthan let it go without a fight,,, to the people who want it gone I say live and let live if you don't like what they do don't go,,,, let is all enjoy it. Xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well that's good news we went last Friday.
And currently trying to arrange a few local couples to us for a Saturday night in September, hopefully you are still open. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Amen to that.
I wont go on my own though still looking for a willing partner"
Don't hang about too long mate or you may miss the boat and then regret it. Just go. There's nothing to be worried or nervous about. I am not the most outgoing of people and I found it very comfortable the first time I went. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'll be going for HDZ, got to take the chance for a summer night swim while I still can. "
Will see you there!
We have PLENTY of time and another Summer's worth of night swims to enjoy at least! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'll be going for HDZ, got to take the chance for a summer night swim while I still can.
Will see you there!
We have PLENTY of time and another Summer's worth of night swims to enjoy at least!"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hi all, can someone please message me to provide me a bit of background about these parties, new to all this and have no idea what goes on and how it plays out. Ta x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why what's happened ? "
The owners lost their latest appeal against the council shutting them down for breach of planning rules. There's another appeal in the works, so closure isn't imminent, but the odds do seem to be against them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Amen to that.
I wont go on my own though still looking for a willing partner
Don't hang about too long mate or you may miss the boat and then regret it. Just go. There's nothing to be worried or nervous about. I am not the most outgoing of people and I found it very comfortable the first time I went. "
Ive been once but I have a minor confidence problem in that I fi d it incredibly hard to walk upto a lady ive never met or spoken to and strike up that conversation so dont want to end up sitting on the sidelines so to speak.
Easy enough to say just do it. Putting it into practice is another matter. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There's a pub just along the road, I popped in there and had a couple to stop my nerves and in I went !! It really isn't a big deal, it's a very friendly club. |
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"Please support our club despite losing its latest appeal the club is not giving up ... Please continue to visit and enjoy business as usual
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We will continue to visit and support the club, Spelthorne council will not spoil our fun  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Anyone can go but you need two forms of ID Single men need to be booked in advance as numbers limited.
I didnt book in advance"
You're getting Ab Fabs mixed up with Kestrels. For Kestrels you can just turn up with 2 forms of ID (one photo one with address), the entrance fee and some flip flops and you're good to go. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We are looking to attend on Wednesday evening, we won't be able to get there until about 8, is that OK as we will need to complete our membership as well?
Anyone else going on Wednesday evening? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do Newbies hsve to be there by 10.39? I'm running late
No you'll be fine. They prefer not to do tours later as its busy but im sure they won't turn u away "
Thanks we got in fine  |
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so why are they closing it? because of the club or because of the planning permission?
this is my fave club.please let it stay open.
i cant believe in 2016 people are judging adults behind doors doing there thing.
i dont wanna make my long journey there and find out it is closed. please keep us informed of what is happening. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"so why are they closing it? because of the club or because of the planning permission?
this is my fave club.please let it stay open.
i cant believe in 2016 people are judging adults behind doors doing there thing.
i dont wanna make my long journey there and find out it is closed. please keep us informed of what is happening."
It's not closing anytime soon. Even if they can't appeal, they should have a year to find somewhere else. |
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"so why are they closing it? because of the club or because of the planning permission?
this is my fave club.please let it stay open.
i cant believe in 2016 people are judging adults behind doors doing there thing.
i dont wanna make my long journey there and find out it is closed. please keep us informed of what is happening.
It's not closing anytime soon. Even if they can't appeal, they should have a year to find somewhere else. "
phew
honestly if i ever get filthy rich im gonna purchase a small island just for swingers lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I haven't been there in about 3 1/2 years..... (Due to trying a vanilla lifestyle).....
I used to love my Saturday nights there.... And visited many times..... Have many a happy fun memory....
the T5 travelodge became familiar with my bar requests too,,,,lol...
Think maybe a revisit is in order...
Keep fighting...
Xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We are going on Wednesday evening, the Mrs is going to look hot!! I on the other hand have no idea what to wear or what not to wear. Any advice from those who have been on Wednesday night would be greatly appreciated, I was thinking of wearing nothing but I would look a right wally if I'm the only one!! |
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"We are going on Wednesday evening, the Mrs is going to look hot!! I on the other hand have no idea what to wear or what not to wear. Any advice from those who have been on Wednesday night would be greatly appreciated, I was thinking of wearing nothing but I would look a right wally if I'm the only one!! "
As a bloke i normally wear either black jeans or trousers with a smart casual shirt and shoes. If I feel like getting in a towel later I do. Take flip flops if you're planning the latter.
Maybe there Wednesday too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We are going on Wednesday evening, the Mrs is going to look hot!! I on the other hand have no idea what to wear or what not to wear. Any advice from those who have been on Wednesday night would be greatly appreciated, I was thinking of wearing nothing but I would look a right wally if I'm the only one!! "
On Tuesdays and Wednesdays the AbFabs party is described as "clothing optional". There's no break between Kestrels and AbFabs, they just open up the rest of the house in the evening, so you get some people in their party clothes, while others are in robes, towels or nothing at all. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We are going on Wednesday evening, the Mrs is going to look hot!! I on the other hand have no idea what to wear or what not to wear. Any advice from those who have been on Wednesday night would be greatly appreciated, I was thinking of wearing nothing but I would look a right wally if I'm the only one!!
On Tuesdays and Wednesdays the AbFabs party is described as "clothing optional". There's no break between Kestrels and AbFabs, they just open up the rest of the house in the evening, so you get some people in their party clothes, while others are in robes, towels or nothing at all. "
That's great, Thank you!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We are going on Wednesday evening, the Mrs is going to look hot!! I on the other hand have no idea what to wear or what not to wear. Any advice from those who have been on Wednesday night would be greatly appreciated, I was thinking of wearing nothing but I would look a right wally if I'm the only one!!
On Tuesdays and Wednesdays the AbFabs party is described as "clothing optional". There's no break between Kestrels and AbFabs, they just open up the rest of the house in the evening, so you get some people in their party clothes, while others are in robes, towels or nothing at all.
That's great, Thank you!! "
It's the same on Mondays except it's optional bi night |
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"Please support our club despite losing its latest appeal the club is not giving up ... Please continue to visit and enjoy business as usual
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Great to hear,,maybe we will get to visit your club sometime !!! Hope your both well.xx |
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By *enithWoman
over a year ago
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"Could I get away with shirt, shorts and flip flops?
really? 
What's wrong with that?"
Just my opinion, be ok if you had been at kestrels and just put some clothes on but to turn up at Abfabs clothed like that is a no no ....... But then that's just me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Could I get away with shirt, shorts and flip flops?
really?
What's wrong with that?
Just my opinion, be ok if you had been at kestrels and just put some clothes on but to turn up at Abfabs clothed like that is a no no ....... But then that's just me "
Even on the Wednesday? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Could I get away with shirt, shorts and flip flops?
really?
What's wrong with that?
Just my opinion, be ok if you had been at kestrels and just put some clothes on but to turn up at Abfabs clothed like that is a no no ....... But then that's just me "
Read the website for dress code on the night you are attending
The other week a chap got told off for walking around the lounge in the evening in a towel.
Fine in the pool.
I mean what's the point of others making the effort if people are allowed to walk around in a towel?
Never been during the day but I assume everyone walks around nude or in a towel. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have never dressed up there and I've never been told off either.
I go there to use the pool so getting dressed up would be pointless as I'd only have to keep stripping  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We are thinking of going Friday but want to go to both! Dose anyone know if we can go in the afternoon and then stay for the night?"
Friday is open all day until 8pm then you will need to leave then go back dressed for 9pm for AbFabs im afraid....
Mon, Tues & Weds are the only days you can stay on all day. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We are thinking of going Friday but want to go to both! Dose anyone know if we can go in the afternoon and then stay for the night?"
We shall be there Fri night |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What's it like Friday night?"
This Friday is HDZ night so will be a bit more Fetish based....there is a really good mix of people and we find there seems to be a better atmosphere on a Friday!
Also there are a couple of Birthdays I believe |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ok cool thank you. Is it more of an old or young crowd ?"
There's usually a good mix - last month it was very quiet but that was a real aberration for an HDZ night. Hopefully it'll be a lot busier this time. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ok cool thank you. Is it more of an old or young crowd ?
There's usually a good mix - last month it was very quiet but that was a real aberration for an HDZ night. Hopefully it'll be a lot busier this time. "
Will certainly be noisier   |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ok cool thank you. Is it more of an old or young crowd ?
There's usually a good mix - last month it was very quiet but that was a real aberration for an HDZ night. Hopefully it'll be a lot busier this time.
Will certainly be noisier "
I'll bring my notebook, I could use some pointers |
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By *enithWoman
over a year ago
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"What's it like Friday night?
This Friday is HDZ night so will be a bit more Fetish based....there is a really good mix of people and we find there seems to be a better atmosphere on a Friday!
Also there are a couple of Birthdays I believe "
Ooh see you there!!! |
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"Ok cool thank you. Is it more of an old or young crowd ?
There's usually a good mix - last month it was very quiet but that was a real aberration for an HDZ night. Hopefully it'll be a lot busier this time.
Will certainly be noisier
I'll bring my notebook, I could use some pointers "
Mr D/s is going on friday, I do hope he picks up some tips!
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ok cool thank you. Is it more of an old or young crowd ?
There's usually a good mix - last month it was very quiet but that was a real aberration for an HDZ night. Hopefully it'll be a lot busier this time.
Will certainly be noisier
I'll bring my notebook, I could use some pointers
Mr D/s is going on friday, I do hope he picks up some tips!
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Get him to come and say hi to Mark  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ok cool thank you. Is it more of an old or young crowd ?
There's usually a good mix - last month it was very quiet but that was a real aberration for an HDZ night. Hopefully it'll be a lot busier this time.
Will certainly be noisier
I'll bring my notebook, I could use some pointers "
Come over and say hi! |
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"Ok cool thank you. Is it more of an old or young crowd ?
There's usually a good mix - last month it was very quiet but that was a real aberration for an HDZ night. Hopefully it'll be a lot busier this time.
Will certainly be noisier
I'll bring my notebook, I could use some pointers
Mr D/s is going on friday, I do hope he picks up some tips!
Get him to come and say hi to Mark "
Thanks guys! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Could I get away with shirt, shorts and flip flops?
really?
What's wrong with that?
Just my opinion, be ok if you had been at kestrels and just put some clothes on but to turn up at Abfabs clothed like that is a no no ....... But then that's just me
Read the website for dress code on the night you are attending
The other week a chap got told off for walking around the lounge in the evening in a towel.
Fine in the pool.
I mean what's the point of others making the effort if people are allowed to walk around in a towel?
Never been during the day but I assume everyone walks around nude or in a towel. "
Dressing up is the requirement to get in, and dressing up should be done for the individuals pleasure.
Personally once l am in Abfabs l want to play with my companion in the pool, the jacuzzi and the cinema room (not necessarily in that order). Being clothed gets in the way. Given that there is a bed in the lounge l have never seen dressed people playing on it!
I visit dry clubs and dressing and undressing is just a pain. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've had many happy times at this club, and have only stopped going because I moved from Reading to Sheffield. A great club, and it deserves every success. |
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