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Best for a new lady

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

So I have a FB who I am slowly corrupting and she wants to try a club out.

I've been to ABFAB'S loads and wouldn't say it is great for someone new. Very expensive and people have their cliques which are hard to break in to.

So essentially where in the south East is good for non members and a new to the scene woman?

Thanks in advance

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By *enithWoman over a year ago

closer than you think

I wouldn't say Abfabs is expensive as a couple .... If you are prepared to pay £60+ as a single male, then surely £30 for a couple is a bargain!

With regard to cliques, every club has them. Getting to know people is a two way thing - a smile and hello is usually a good ice breaker

Go on!!! Treat her to Abfabs

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I wouldn't say Abfabs is expensive as a couple .... If you are prepared to pay £60+ as a single male, then surely £30 for a couple is a bargain!

With regard to cliques, every club has them. Getting to know people is a two way thing - a smile and hello is usually a good ice breaker

Go on!!! Treat her to Abfabs

Unless it has changed it is 50 for a couple for abfab. You're thinking of kestrels

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If your willing to travel then you have Chameleons near Birmingham, it's a spa one like Kestrels, Xtasia is a nightclub based one which is great, lots of rooms and a hot tub. Or Bedford you have Vanilla Alternative, I've never been there but lots of people I know so go and love it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We would recommend vanilla alternative as a newbie. Where we tried first and been hooked ever since! If you say you're new when you get there they will show you around. It has a bar area so if she doesn't want to brave the play areas she doesn't have to

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I wouldn't say Abfabs is expensive as a couple .... If you are prepared to pay £60+ as a single male, then surely £30 for a couple is a bargain!

With regard to cliques, every club has them. Getting to know people is a two way thing - a smile and hello is usually a good ice breaker

Go on!!! Treat her to Abfabs

Unless it has changed it is 50 for a couple for abfab. You're thinking of kestrels "

It's £50 for a couple on a Saturday, other nights are cheaper.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Personally for a new person, I would say to take her to Kestrels on a Sunday.

It has such a friendly, relaxed atmosphere there and she can get a feel of the place whilst sunbathing and using the pool and hot tubs too.

I tend to go on a Sunday so if you do decide to go then and you see me, say hi.

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By *hiterabbit6Couple over a year ago

Sexytown, Moray

"Personally for a new person, I would say to take her to Kestrels on a Sunday.

It has such a friendly, relaxed atmosphere there and she can get a feel of the place whilst sunbathing and using the pool and hot tubs too.

I tend to go on a Sunday so if you do decide to go then and you see me, say hi.

I totally agree with this

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

hi hun having just been on our first visit to chams on friday with my GF i can deffo highly recommend it as a perfect first time club for a nervous newbie lady

The staff were amazin the clientele were lovely n friendly and club its self is outstanding

If you go on friday steve will give you the warmest welcome on arrival n deffo ask for carl n lisa when you hit the bar hun coz they will have you settled in in n gigglin in no time we loved it and are planning our next thelma n louise road trip just to see the staff again

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Thanks everyone, some really good advice here. She's lovely and is excited about trying new things. Would you believe she's pushing me to arrange an MFF, like shouldn't that be me? Lol

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By *enithWoman over a year ago

closer than you think

"I wouldn't say Abfabs is expensive as a couple .... If you are prepared to pay £60+ as a single male, then surely £30 for a couple is a bargain!

With regard to cliques, every club has them. Getting to know people is a two way thing - a smile and hello is usually a good ice breaker

Go on!!! Treat her to Abfabs

Unless it has changed it is 50 for a couple for abfab. You're thinking of kestrels

It's £50 for a couple on a Saturday, other nights are cheaper. "

I don't go Saturday's so it's always been cheaper ie £30 per couple and yes I agree Kestrels is good but remember it's naturist!

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By *litterbabeWoman over a year ago

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The the Vanilla Alternative have their festival this coming weekend as well, so there will be plenty going on like a live band and a foam party if you want to have the social side of it mixed right in there.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"The the Vanilla Alternative have their festival this coming weekend as well, so there will be plenty going on like a live band and a foam party if you want to have the social side of it mixed right in there."

Sadly she is on holiday this weekend so we can't make it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Sadly she is on holiday this weekend so we can't make it "

We are at the va on the 12th

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By *aydeesclubCouple over a year ago

Bedfordshire

You could try us out at Jaydees its £21 a couple and bring your own drink, you can also camp over or stay in one of our rooms... Check our reviews out under the clubs section. Lots of people recommend us as the best club for newbies as we dont have restrictions on taking clothes off in certain areas etc. We have lots on offer too, hot tub, plenty of play areas and plenty of private lockable rooms as well as a couples only cinema

plus a disco with bar with a bar person looking after all the drinks for the night....

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By *enithWoman over a year ago

closer than you think

"You could try us out at Jaydees its £21 a couple and bring your own drink, you can also camp over or stay in one of our rooms... Check our reviews out under the clubs section. Lots of people recommend us as the best club for newbies as we dont have restrictions on taking clothes off in certain areas etc. We have lots on offer too, hot tub, plenty of play areas and plenty of private lockable rooms as well as a couples only cinema

plus a disco with bar with a bar person looking after all the drinks for the night...."

Definitely recommend

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

plus a disco with bar with a bar person looking after all the drinks for the night...."

Well as you have taken the time to reply here directly I have suggested it to her. A nice touch of yours to do that, thank you x

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By *aydeesclubCouple over a year ago

Bedfordshire

That's ok we like to take the time to keep up with what's going on

We look forward to meeting you both xxx

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