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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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We finally went to our first club last night. We're not sure what the etiquette is regarding playing with others. Do you wait for invites or invite others? We had plenty of chats with other singles and couples and the odd cheeky chappy trying to have a good grope. We told the couples it was our first time but no invites? We're an attractive couple so just watched and had ourselves a fun night but want some involvement next time. Tips please. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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If everyone waited for invites them no one would play. We go with if you are chatting with people and feel comfortable, then perhaps ask them if they would like to go somewhere more private or to the open play areas and carry on. If they say yes great, if no, thank them for the chat and wish them a good night 
And don't forget you can do the same of someone invites you.
As for the cheeky gripes of your uncomfortable with that in the slighest say no, no one should be coming up and touching without asking first, ever. |
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"If everyone waited for invites them no one would play. We go with if you are chatting with people and feel comfortable, then perhaps ask them if they would like to go somewhere more private or to the open play areas and carry on. If they say yes great, if no, thank them for the chat and wish them a good night
And don't forget you can do the same of someone invites you.
As for the cheeky gripes of your uncomfortable with that in the slighest say no, no one should be coming up and touching without asking first, ever."
Thanks for that. It seems so simple really. Maybe it was first time nerves and just getting that first time out of the way. Think we would be more upfront about asking next time. And feel if we got a no then it wouldn't be a reason to stop chatting |
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"If everyone waited for invites them no one would play. We go with if you are chatting with people and feel comfortable, then perhaps ask them if they would like to go somewhere more private or to the open play areas and carry on. If they say yes great, if no, thank them for the chat and wish them a good night
And don't forget you can do the same of someone invites you.
As for the cheeky gripes of your uncomfortable with that in the slighest say no, no one should be coming up and touching without asking first, ever.
Thanks for that. It seems so simple really. Maybe it was first time nerves and just getting that first time out of the way. Think we would be more upfront about asking next time. And feel if we got a no then it wouldn't be a reason to stop chatting"
I agree that a no doesn't mean stop chatting, however it may be that both parties do want to find someone suited to them and if you continue to chat then the possibility of finding other people may diminish as they are going off to play or explore. You can always say hi to them again later in the evening if your getting a drink or relaxing etc.
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