Hi all
We're very nee, and quite nervous, but we really want to go to a good, busy club. I'm quite big, size 22, and so is my fella which makes us really self conscious. Through experience, which clubs in the Midlands would be best for us?
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If you feel self-conscious why not try a BBW night, then you know most of the women there will be larger.
I went to the BBW night at Jaydees last friday and I know they are having another later this month. |
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By *tasiaCouple
over a year ago
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Personally hate to think that size is a barrier to going anywhere. We desperately try to avoid BBW nights, just as much as we try to avoid doing "Skinnies nights". Get a good crowd together, friendly, fun folks, then size really shouldn't matter to anyone.  |
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"Personally hate to think that size is a barrier to going anywhere. We desperately try to avoid BBW nights, just as much as we try to avoid doing "Skinnies nights". Get a good crowd together, friendly, fun folks, then size really shouldn't matter to anyone. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm a big girl and have never been made to feel my weight is an issue at any of them. The bbw events even had me once or twice refused for not being big enough 
Chams bbw bash is always a good one... Jaydees is lovely but even the more local clubs to you welcome all sizes.
I go to clubs all over and hoping to try abfabs/kestrels next x |
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By *ndykinkyMan
over a year ago
STOKE-ON-TRENT |
"Hi all
We're very nee, and quite nervous, but we really want to go to a good, busy club. I'm quite big, size 22, and so is my fella which makes us really self conscious. Through experience, which clubs in the Midlands would be best for us?
Thanks xx"
Try Atlantis Evolution in Burslem, Stoke-on-Trent very friendly and welcoming. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Chams is great.
Im big (fat is the word i use generally lol) and i never feel akward or out of place there except saturday nights. We never go then now though as we prefer daytimes. |
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By *umpkinMan
over a year ago
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If you look in the organised meets section, there is a BBW event at Chams on the 5th June. If you put your names down on the list you won`t need to take out membership. If you decide you like the club then you can apply for membership afterwards!  |
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Jaydees have a BBW night coming up on the 27th May.
I totally get your nerves, been a newbie too and found it all very daunting. But took to it like a duck to water hehe.
Feel free to message if you have any questions.
A x |
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City Celts Leicester doesn't seem to have specific BBW nights but I'm fat and go there, never had any horrid remarks or anything and always been welcomed with open arms. Size is irrelevant there |
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By *AA123Couple
over a year ago
Lichfield |
Same concerns here.
A is a ssbbw (by her own definition) and we don't want any body concious situations to spoil the evening.
Not sure if going on a bbw night is best or just a non specific night? |
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By *AA123Couple
over a year ago
Lichfield |
"Chams is great.
Im big (fat is the word i use generally lol) and i never feel akward or out of place there except saturday nights. We never go then now though as we prefer daytimes."
Can I ask why Saturday nights are the exception? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Chams is great.
Im big (fat is the word i use generally lol) and i never feel akward or out of place there except saturday nights. We never go then now though as we prefer daytimes.
Can I ask why Saturday nights are the exception? "
I have no idea why saturday nights are the exception. Could be the mix of people, i don't know.
We never go saturday nights now and havn't been then for a while as we now prefer daytimes and as we now only look for single guys then saturday nights are a waste of time as they are for couples and single fems |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Hi hun.. i would suggest the private club!! Regardless of size you would be very welcomed!! Birminghams best kept secret, 6 parties a week. Look on our website for events and you can call for more info!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Hi xxx
We host the BBW Night @ Jaydees being a larger lady myself I know how you feel X our next night is Friday 27th May and we have lots of lovely people coming and you would always be welcome if you have any questions feel free to message guys xxx
Sarah xx |
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