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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi Guys,
We have managed to get a rare night off the children and wanted to go to a club and have been to chams a few times now and love it there.
However it's a Monday night so it's BI night, now I'd say I am (the female) Bi ish, as in I love to play with a woman but can't make the first move 
My partner (the male) is 100% straight but has no issue being around BI men playing etc just wouldn't want to play with men or men to play with him. Of course a polite no thank you would only ever be used to express this.
Is this ok and allowed?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We attended our first bi night at chams on Monday. I'm bi jays straight. Providing you are both bi friendly and as you've already said it would be a polite no thanks that would be fine. We really enjoyed it hope you do too  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Absolutely no pressure for a straight guy to be pressured into anything....as hopefully you'll find out this Monday 
It's easily our favourite night at Chameleons |
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We are going for our second Monday visit. Had a great day last time.
Although we are both bi at reception they say that one of the couple has to be a practicing bi sexual.
Plenty of couples with a str8 male attend. No problem xx |
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By *werty38Man
over a year ago
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As with all clubs don't expect to be pounced on. Everybody has a choice in who and how they play. As long as your partner is bi friendly and can say no thank you should a guy take a fancy then you will both be fine.
As others have said it is by far the best night at Chams with a very chilled atmosphere.
Id say go chill and enjoy.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi Guys,
We have managed to get a rare night off the children and wanted to go to a club and have been to chams a few times now and love it there.
However it's a Monday night so it's BI night, now I'd say I am (the female) Bi ish, as in I love to play with a woman but can't make the first move
My partner (the male) is 100% straight but has no issue being around BI men playing etc just wouldn't want to play with men or men to play with him. Of course a polite no thank you would only ever be used to express this.
Is this ok and allowed?
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I can be shy about approaching another female also, I never make the first move we love Chams though and may give the club a visit on a bi night, Mr Cheshire is straight but I may have a better chance with the ladies on a bi night haha |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thank you all for your comments they have help so much.
We am looking forward to coming and have now booked a room.
Bring on the filthy sexy fun
Kay and rich
Please message us if.you am going so.we can send you a picture of us so.you can say hi xx
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Maybe you should come and joining and be nervous together xx
Definitely come and join in with us later xx"
I hope some of ye like the Irish accent 
In the area and hoping to come along x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi Guys,
We have managed to get a rare night off the children and wanted to go to a club and have been to chams a few times now and love it there.
However it's a Monday night so it's BI night, now I'd say I am (the female) Bi ish, as in I love to play with a woman but can't make the first move
My partner (the male) is 100% straight but has no issue being around BI men playing etc just wouldn't want to play with men or men to play with him. Of course a polite no thank you would only ever be used to express this.
Is this ok and allowed?
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You'll be fine. You won't be the only couple with a non bi make half and bi female, judging by the occasions I've approached a cute guy only for him to tell me he's straight but his partner isn't. However, 'bi' is not a black and white thing and many straight guys gave enjoyed what they didn't think they would so do have an open mind too!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Vicars and tarts on bi bank holiday Monday, optional fancy dress, free buffet included and the chocolate and champagne disco room will be open from 7pm.  |
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we want to go Mrs bi Mr still testing the water nervous as hell