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Clubs ... to expensive for single guys ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

A question aimed at you lovely ' single ' men who attend clubs .

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"A question aimed at you lovely ' single ' men who attend clubs .

Coming from the experience of club meets with a fbuddy and speaking to many single blokes at the time. There are many factors.

The lack of people wanting to play with single guys, waiting lists, membership and entry costs to refused entry in a "If your face fits" scenario. Pretty sad to be honest that these things are at play... Or rather a lack of.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"A question aimed at you lovely ' single ' men who attend clubs .

Are you sure that the club doesn't limit the numbers of single guys that they allow in?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Given my experience in some clubs and reviews of certain club nights I would say that there is no overall problem and you need to use other clubs

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By *piritsonfabCouple over a year ago

Nottingham

I feel the same. If we go on a Friday night "single guy" night we would like more than one or two to choose from. Couples nights aren't always appropriate if only one partner swaps.

I've rarely had a guy act inappropriately and don't know why they have such a bad rep. In fact some of them seem terrified to get involved.

Sad that in the very area and at the very time they should feel encouraged to be sex positive they still feel inhibited.: (

The Costs seem excessive at some clubs - how can we expect a single guy to meet us at a club if he has to pay a fortune just to get in.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

There are clubs that do cater towards couples and singles and actually network their venues with promotion to attract that clientele. But that seems to be few and far between these days as many clubs just stick to what they know and what works out of personal preference.

And Wasp_Hunter is right, a good number of venues limit the attendance of single males.

Saying that, the problematic clubs are more fewer in numbers these days but there are still many of them.

I just wish they'd limit the single males on bi nights as bi couples are used as a testing ground for those lonesome "straight" males who only want to play with fems.

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By *MaleMan over a year ago

The bad rep the masses of cpls/fems voice about single males on here isn't really promotional material. It's far from what's needed to attract decent singles to clubs.

Saying that, I thought the clubs had masses of single males at them. Going on some single male posts in forums at times I thought we we're the bulk & bain of clubland as opposed to lesser spotted & needed

Decent cpls meeting us singles socially/for fun outside of clubland have always appealed more to me. There's plenty of cpls meeting that way too

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By *abioMan over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

different nights are set to cater for different groups of people and therefore the prices are different accordingly...

see i hate the arguement of people being "priced" out as it is much more nuisanced that than...

for example, i go on a night as a singe guy, that is primarily based at couples, and the price i pay reflects that... but for me it is a much more socialable night that the mixed night... and that suits me much better... so i don't begrudge anyone who pays less than me...

the other thing is the comparison in price... some like to compare it to people going on the same night.... i don't! I compare it to what i would be doing on the same night instead..

so for example what i spend on going to a club is probably equal or less than i would going into town, buying a meal, buying drinks, taxi's ect.....

the truth is... there are some people who will just chat to anyone without an m.o and would have a good time at a club regardless......... and there are those guys would will just wander around the clubs like lemmings thinking a club is a cheap knocking shop...who won't say boo to a goose and expect to play just because they pay to get in.....

one lot are likely to complain more than the other..... guess which set!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"The bad rep the masses of cpls/fems voice about single males on here isn't really promotional material. It's far from what's needed to attract decent singles to clubs.

Decent cpls meeting us singles socially/for fun outside of clubland have always appealed more to me. There's plenty of cpls meeting that way too

Maybe because the majority of single males on here and other sites make it an implausible challenge to most single fems and couples. Online it's fantasist material for guys wanting a quick cum and run scenario and get verbally aggressive when the word "No" is employed.

Clubs are a different thing. I can see it deters the disrespectful single guys (as above). There is a very fine line which doesn't help at either end from twats to genuine.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Ive only ever been to one club. Cost £50 for a night pass. Told membership cost is £70 for the year & a further £30 everytime i wanted to use the club after that but would need to call in advance of going as i was told just because im a member doesnt give me automatic entry. Hence why ive only been once

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

My club of choice is excellent value for money I have to say.

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By *abioMan over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

"Ive only ever been to one club. Cost £50 for a night pass. Told membership cost is £70 for the year & a further £30 everytime i wanted to use the club after that but would need to call in advance of going as i was told just because im a member doesnt give me automatic entry. Hence why ive only been once"

but it would only take 4 visits in the year for it to pay for itself.... once visit every 3 months.....

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By *r an Mrs xMan over a year ago

liverpool

Most clubs up here are about £20 a visit.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Most clubs up here are about £20 a visit. "

I wish it was that cheap in the West Midlands or London. Travelling is a bitch at times but works out the same after costs.

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By *r an Mrs xMan over a year ago

liverpool

Reality is that most clubs survive on the income singles guys provide. However £20 plus a few cabs of beer is still cheaper than 4/5 pints out in town. So relatively a cheap night.

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By *heBlackZorroMan over a year ago

Birmingham

The costs do seem to be rising but that isn’t a reason for me not to go. The main issue for me as a single guy (in the Midlands) is that I can’t go to a local club on a Saturday night. I work Monday to Friday 9 to 5(ish) and sometimes I’m too knackered to go out after a hard week. So I’ve started planning going to clubs in the North West on a Saturday night, as they seem to be more accommodating of single males. I’ve also spoken to many couples (who only play with single males) that voice the same opinion. Plus it seems entrance costs are slightly cheaper up north! Personally, I’d rather pay a little extra in travel costs etc to go to a club on a Saturday night when I’m fully rested and raring to go so to speak.

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By *awandOrderCouple over a year ago

SW London

"There are clubs that do cater towards couples and singles and actually network their venues with promotion to attract that clientele. But that seems to be few and far between these days as many clubs just stick to what they know and what works out of personal preference.

And Wasp_Hunter is right, a good number of venues limit the attendance of single males.

Saying that, the problematic clubs are more fewer in numbers these days but there are still many of them.

I just wish they'd limit the single males on bi nights as bi couples are used as a testing ground for those lonesome "straight" males who only want to play with fems."

We look forward to bi nights as male bi experience is what we particularly look for, so why would we not want single males? We don't look for bi females on a bi night, we dont need to ... I think limiting single males n a bi night isn't a good idea. I think if they come to a bi night, they should be bi curious at least ....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

And Wasp_Hunter is right, a good number of venues limit the attendance of single males.

Saying that, the problematic clubs are more fewer in numbers these days but there are still many of them.

I just wish they'd limit the single males on bi nights as bi couples are used as a testing ground for those lonesome "straight" males who only want to play with fems.

Sadly (and I do mean sadly), myself and my ex-FB used to suffer the foolish ploys of single straight males on Bi nights. It's a tactic of playing dress up to get their cock wet.

They were often given their marching orders.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

but it would only take 4 visits in the year for it to pay for itself.... once visit every 3 months.....

I think it's pretty fucking appalling that guys can't just go along though.

I never know until the night if I fancy going to a club, so I never book beforehand. I don't see why others should be forced to do so. What if you're not in the mood to go? Or what if you're suddenly in the mood to go?

It sucks. And it's not fair at all.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

And Wasp_Hunter is right, a good number of venues limit the attendance of single males.

Saying that, the problematic clubs are more fewer in numbers these days but there are still many of them.

I just wish they'd limit the single males on bi nights as bi couples are used as a testing ground for those lonesome "straight" males who only want to play with fems.

Sadly (and I do mean sadly), myself and my ex-FB used to suffer the foolish ploys of single straight males on Bi nights. It's a tactic of playing dress up to get their cock wet.

They were often given their marching orders."

It's not really rocket science. If you're in any doubt then get the guys to start playing first. It's bi night - it shouldn't be that difficult for either party.

If they won't, then you know you've got a straight guy, and can choose accordingly if you want to play.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have to say that from a legal point of view the clubs are discriminating against the Equality Act 2010 if anyone ever wanted to challenge prices. When the Act came in women could no longer claim cheaper car insurance. If anyone wanted to challenge. I do however think it would be fair to cap the quota in an evening of single guys to couples and ladies

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By *r an Mrs xMan over a year ago

liverpool

"I have to say that from a legal point of view the clubs are discriminating against the Equality Act 2010 if anyone ever wanted to challenge prices. When the Act came in women could no longer claim cheaper car insurance. If anyone wanted to challenge. I do however think it would be fair to cap the quota in an evening of single guys to couples and ladies "

Private members clubs are exempt from the equality act 2010

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By *awandOrderCouple over a year ago

SW London

And Wasp_Hunter is right, a good number of venues limit the attendance of single males.

Saying that, the problematic clubs are more fewer in numbers these days but there are still many of them.

I just wish they'd limit the single males on bi nights as bi couples are used as a testing ground for those lonesome "straight" males who only want to play with fems.

Sadly (and I do mean sadly), myself and my ex-FB used to suffer the foolish ploys of single straight males on Bi nights. It's a tactic of playing dress up to get their cock wet.

They were often given their marching orders.

It's not really rocket science. If you're in any doubt then get the guys to start playing first. It's bi night - it shouldn't be that difficult for either party.

If they won't, then you know you've got a straight guy, and can choose accordingly if you want to play."

We always insist the guys play first ... straight guys usually easy to spot, not only do they make the beeline for pepper, but they also ask black cop if she can play ... assuming she has no opinion or choice in the matter and that she is sub ... wrong!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

but it would only take 4 visits in the year for it to pay for itself.... once visit every 3 months.....

I think it's pretty fucking appalling that guys can't just go along though.

It sucks. And it's not fair at all."
not only that what happens if you book then suddenly cant go. Are you then blacklisted?

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By *awandOrderCouple over a year ago

SW London

I don't like this quota thing because its basically the club making a decision as to who we can play with .... we can make our own minds up and we can also say 'no' ....

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By *ndykinkyMan over a year ago

STOKE-ON-TRENT

Try different clubs or checkout the clubs rules on single men. It can depend on how single men have behaved in the past or even the club owners perception of what it's clientele want.

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By *yrdwomanWoman over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I won't go to a club that restricts single male attendance. For one, it's bad enough they pay more, without having to go through a selection process. For another, club owners rarely allow the sort of guys I am interested in through their lottery.

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By *awandOrderCouple over a year ago

SW London

"I won't go to a club that restricts single male attendance. For one, it's bad enough they pay more, without having to go through a selection process. For another, club owners rarely allow the sort of guys I am interested in through their lottery."

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Most clubs I believe ration the single guys as to how many couples and single ladies are booked in so it doesn't become over run with single guys.

I agree that limiting the number and the high prices does make it somewhat harder for us ladies that only like to play with 'single' guys at clubs.

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By *ndykinkyMan over a year ago

STOKE-ON-TRENT

Those who enjoy meeting single men could always arrange to meet away from clubs or arrange their own events

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By *awandOrderCouple over a year ago

SW London

"Those who enjoy meeting single men could always arrange to meet away from clubs or arrange their own events

Why?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Those who enjoy meeting single men could always arrange to meet away from clubs or arrange their own events

Plenty of women like exhibitonism.

Plenty of women feel safer at clubs.

Plenty of women have no interest in organizing events.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

cheaper for a guy /couple to get a travellodge

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By *awandOrderCouple over a year ago

SW London

"cheaper for a guy /couple to get a travellodge"

Not as much choice at a Travelodge though .... too much pressure too

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The clubs do it because, on the whole, they can get away with it. The guys just pay up. Single guys do get a bad rep but it is usually because of a smaller number of them or clubs where packs of them have turned up and scan and stalk the venue.

It's a bit of a pity as clubs are a great way for connections to be made. Makes it easier then for meets outside of a club. I can understand why the clubs will charge more for single guys but, like others on this thread, it would be nice if they didn't have such a price differential. For me, it just means I go far more selectively than I would if the entry were £20 less.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

And Wasp_Hunter is right, a good number of venues limit the attendance of single males.

Saying that, the problematic clubs are more fewer in numbers these days but there are still many of them.

I just wish they'd limit the single males on bi nights as bi couples are used as a testing ground for those lonesome "straight" males who only want to play with fems.

Sadly (and I do mean sadly), myself and my ex-FB used to suffer the foolish ploys of single straight males on Bi nights. It's a tactic of playing dress up to get their cock wet.

They were often given their marching orders.

It's not really rocket science. If you're in any doubt then get the guys to start playing first. It's bi night - it shouldn't be that difficult for either party.

If they won't, then you know you've got a straight guy, and can choose accordingly if you want to play."

You'd be surprised to the level these guys will go until they get into a locked room. Kiss, wank etc... As soon as your in a room and the door is locked - the process changes.

And start the record from the first groove all over again...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Those who enjoy meeting single men could always arrange to meet away from clubs or arrange their own events

Plenty of women like exhibitonism.

Plenty of women feel safer at clubs.

Plenty of women have no interest in organizing events."

A whole lot of truth there...

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

The reason we go to clubs is to meet single guys , if a guys taken the trouble to get to a club then you know hes going to be up for some fun whereas trying to arrange a meet off here is somewhat frustrating .

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By *awandOrderCouple over a year ago

SW London

And Wasp_Hunter is right, a good number of venues limit the attendance of single males.

Saying that, the problematic clubs are more fewer in numbers these days but there are still many of them.

I just wish they'd limit the single males on bi nights as bi couples are used as a testing ground for those lonesome "straight" males who only want to play with fems.

Sadly (and I do mean sadly), myself and my ex-FB used to suffer the foolish ploys of single straight males on Bi nights. It's a tactic of playing dress up to get their cock wet.

They were often given their marching orders.

It's not really rocket science. If you're in any doubt then get the guys to start playing first. It's bi night - it shouldn't be that difficult for either party.

If they won't, then you know you've got a straight guy, and can choose accordingly if you want to play.

You'd be surprised to the level these guys will go until they get into a locked room. Kiss, wank etc... As soon as your in a room and the door is locked - the process changes.

And start the record from the first groove all over again..."

We don't do locked rooms, not as a couple, Mr may go in with another man, but not me. I can quite easily tell a single guy, a couple or a single female I don't want to play, or scream the place down if they take it too far ... no worries about straight single guys here

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I would love to go to a club but the cost is the problem, especially if you do not meet anybody, as stated above "The lack of people wanting to play with single guys" Guys will just not part with that amount of money on the off chance of some fun.

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By *abioMan over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

" Guys will just not part with that amount of money on the off chance of some fun. "

no offence... but if that is the mental attitude of the single guys that aren't going to clubs..... then clubs can certainly do without that type of person....

I've see guys turn up and complain because there is "no action" and i just tell them if they want a guarentee then go to a brothel... and the fact you think a swinging club is akin to a brothel probably isn't helping chances either..

no all clubs charge the same on each night.... some nights are aimed at some more than others.... but it just feels like these threads just turn into one massive chip on the shoulder.....

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I would love to go to a club but the cost is the problem, especially if you do not meet anybody, as stated above "The lack of people wanting to play with single guys" Guys will just not part with that amount of money on the off chance of some fun. "

we spoke to four couples who were all looking for a guy or even two to join them the last time we went . But it amazes us that guys just dont want to introduce themselves in the bar areas but are quite happy to stand at the bottom / side of where we are playing and expect to join in ! If female half likes the look of a guy then we go over to them and say hi so it works both ways .we pay to get in pay for a hotel pay out for taxies so couples go to quite a bit of effort as well .

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The last time I went to a club I paid £40 to get in. It was empty by midnight and I didn't get to chat to anyone...

I think it's a bit steep and has put me off going again unless I plan to meet someone there.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

That's not including the effort us women go to with new outfit including undies, hair, make up, nails, grooming, etc!

On occassion it would be nice for single guys to interact with others rather than just stand around with their cocks hanging out hoping u will play or suck it, then if it does happen just wander off like nothing happened!

Just my personal opinion here (Miss N)

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By *rMrsRandyCouple over a year ago

Mids

It's tough for the club's to get it right end of. Too cheap=swamped, Too much=empty and everyone's cheap,expensive opinion differs hugely.

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By *reakShow90Man over a year ago

Manchester/halifax

Well single males are clubs bread and butter they pay the most are expendable are in constant supply and if a guy does get lucky is more lightly to come back.i have had the feeling that some clubs only want your cash and once your in are left alone with some times bad staff or cliqy groups but this is what I have been told thankfully I have not had this have always been treated great and even if it is a quiet night have always had a laugh with every one and made to feel at home and welcomed as it has been said a few bad apples mess it up for the rest of us I see a club as a pub with added flith lol if I get lucky great if not few beers takeaway and bed lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yes I am a single guy, I went to the kestrels near to Heathrow, I live in the midlands , so with petrol, Hotel and £50 or Saturday and then another £50 for Sunday it's an expensive weekend, don't get me wrong I enjoyed my time there, but £50 entry free is a lot of money, But clubs should thing more about its prices, I go to the Attic in Derby and they charge me £20 for males and they get a lot of males going, and I think that's a fair price to pay, but I do enjoy the club scene, and enjoy the social side of it too. But I do agree in what you say.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"The last time I went to a club I paid £40 to get in. It was empty by midnight and I didn't get to chat to anyone...

I think it's a bit steep and has put me off going again unless I plan to meet someone there. "

Arranging to meet beforehand works great for us.....and then the added frission of excitement from the random encounter with someone new and totally unplanned....that's what makes clubs so exciting....of course, sometimes things don't pan out into the amazing mmfmm we would like but we always have some fun.

Some clubs are better value for money than others - swinging is like most social activities - in order to gain satisfaction participants need to spend money but also put in their effort and their time and their social skills. when we attend as a couple or when one of us attend as a single we make an effort to connect with people we find mentally and physically attractive.

It would be nice if single men could pay the same amount as one half of a couple but clubs can charge single men more because of market forces. Clubs are businesses after all, peoples job's depend on the profit being made. We are lucky that within 90 minutes from where we live there are 8 clubs to chose from - all with different pricing structures.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's tough for the club's to get it right end of. Too cheap=swamped, Too much=empty and everyone's cheap,expensive opinion differs hugely.

What you call 'swamped' is what I call 'choice'.

I only want to play with single men or m/m couples when I go out.

Imagine if a club said 'we're going to restrict single women to just six women per night on couples night, so that the couples don't get swamped' - there would be uproar! All the couples would whinge about not having any choice and how expensive the entrance fee was if they had such little chance of finding someone compatible!

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By *oxesMan over a year ago

Southend, Essex

"different nights are set to cater for different groups of people and therefore the prices are different accordingly...

see i hate the arguement of people being "priced" out as it is much more nuisanced that than...

the other thing is the comparison in price... some like to compare it to people going on the same night.... i don't! I compare it to what i would be doing on the same night instead..

so for example what i spend on going to a club is probably equal or less than i would going into town, buying a meal, buying drinks, taxi's ect.....

one lot are likely to complain more than the other..... guess which set!"

Interesting and well thoughtthrough post. and I agree about the lemming thing you see that a lot at OP4F.Although I have only ever been tgere on a Sunday.

I personaly think if you are ñot happy with the price of the club then go to another one.

You only enjoy what you put into it, If you think there is a promise not a premise of sex then tge chances are you will leave disappointed.

at the ame time I could not justify to my bank acount going to a club that charged £70+

yet again what ones think is expensive and good value is a matter of perspective and opinion and demographics. lets use vannila clubbing in cadiff/bristol compared to clubbing in Essex as an example. both of the former Citys are student towns entry avg £3/4/5 1.50 a drink (upselling). Essex: entry £10/15 sometimes near £30 £3 a drink I thought that was cheap but my mates from briz and diff thought that was well expensive. So geography how much you earn will dictate weather a club niggt is expensive.

also there are some clubs for what ever reason where they cant get single men for love nor money. Galores is certainly one of those clubs.

So i'l hapily pay my £30 and enjoy myself weather I play or not.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"A question aimed at you lovely ' single ' men who attend clubs .

Are clubs getting a little to expensive ? After another visit to our favourite club on a friday night the attendance or rather lack of attendance of ' single' guys was very evident .Are you being put off by the rising costs or maybe something else ? "
I went to abfabs not Saturday gone previous Saturday as a couple and cost me £70 plus £20 each way for taxi plus hotel so an expensive night ,not something I can do too often enjoyed it though

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By *ikeC81Man over a year ago

harrow

My regular club costs 25 quid on a party night which I think is value for money. I think of all the nights I have been going one night was a little quiet but I still enjoyed the social side.

I sometimes go to Abfabs but do find the cost for a single guy to be a bit expensive by the time I pay for a taxi home as well.

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By *laqgrapeMan over a year ago

Sanderstead

Definitely expensive but thats where the real money is coz single guys are the majority.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You can guess where I go

I think it has a very fare price for single men of which is the same price as couples,so they don't overcharge because your a male.they also have free membership.

I went there Friday night and it was £25 yes I paid as a couple not man ,Saturdays are £35 and some other events eg bdsm are £15 each whether male or fem,even to £10 for Wednesday/some Sundays

Yes I do events there but only four times in a year so I use the club as a guest more,never found it overrun by single guys just alot of choice

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"cheaper for a guy /couple to get a travellodge"

Not as much fun though, far more fun to play at a club.

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By *laqgrapeMan over a year ago

Sanderstead

It's why I stick to my favorite party Eyeswideshut they offer early bird tickets at half the price when booked in advance x £20

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By *HaRiFMan over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.

Well the price is probably there to stop us lot flooding the place. While for me it can be off putting some of the time. The main reason I would stop going is the after reading the reviews on the clubs by other patrons not wanting us there sharing their space. After all why go where you’re not wanted.

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By *umpkinMan over a year ago

near the sounds of the wimborne quarter jack!

but it would only take 4 visits in the year for it to pay for itself.... once visit every 3 months.....

Chams give you a loyality card with room for 5 stamps. Once the card is full I believe you get a free entry if not a reduced one!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yes when I was a single guy I found a lot of couples were hostile you me like there something special and as for having be pay to be a member of a club is a discrace again u pay member ship then pay to get in its cheaper to go to a massage parlour lol But now as I'm on here as a couple we get hundreds of messages from single guys wanting to play but I won't let my partner play with another guy unless he had a lady for me to play with so I can now see it from a couples point of view but just cos I'm on here as a couple doesn't give me the right to talk to single men like shit like some do on here

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"The reason we go to clubs is to meet single guys , if a guys taken the trouble to get to a club then you know hes going to be up for some fun whereas trying to arrange a meet off here is somewhat frustrating ."
i couldnt agree more

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By *r.BlondeMan over a year ago

Chester/Wirral

Some clubs don't charge membership fees for single men, single men seem to be looked down upon in the swinging world to quote "single men are 10 a penny" but in fact most clubs rely on the income of single men yet some are treated like criminals, Now if I go to clubs I don't always expect to play as I'm fussy and wont play unless I'm attracted to a lady but I will make an effort to talk to people I'm interested in and try work out who is looking for single guys and make myself known as that's what people are there for isn't it?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don't go to clubs as often as I would like simply because I cannot afford it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Compared to what I used to spend on a night out going clubbing. I reckon it's easily half the money and ten times more fun!

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By *ermandrMan over a year ago

Glasgow

This is an interesting thread. I started going to clubs as part of a couple and continue to do so as a single male. It's partly supply and demand and partly quality control, I think. I am more than happy to pay more as a single male at clubs as high quality as Abfabs. Paying a larger fee shouldn't give anyone a sense of entitlement, but it should induce a feeling of occasion to the evening. I think that making an effort - getting dressed up and preparing properly for a night out is part of the fun - even if nothing happens. I only feel ripped off if the club doesn't have a single male to couple ratio policy and the place is rammed with aggressive and bolshy men, chasing women and coupes. I know that it's a buyers market when it comes to us poor put-upon single guys, but it's generally worth it if the club is well run, like Abfabs, VA or the Townhouse.

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By *ermandrMan over a year ago

Glasgow

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

clubs are becoming to expensive for single guy although i can respect the reasons for it being so much but it affects the good guys from going to clubs. i have not been to a club in ages because of cost so go rarely and has to be planned well as its a lot of money to go through for a evening out. would be nice if clubs had frequent decent guys that attend their clubs that they would do them some kind of deal so to allow those decent guys to attend more regular

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"The costs do seem to be rising but that isn’t a reason for me not to go. The main issue for me as a single guy (in the Midlands) is that I can’t go to a local club on a Saturday night. I work Monday to Friday 9 to 5(ish) and sometimes I’m too knackered to go out after a hard week. So I’ve started planning going to clubs in the North West on a Saturday night, as they seem to be more accommodating of single males. I’ve also spoken to many couples (who only play with single males) that voice the same opinion. Plus it seems entrance costs are slightly cheaper up north! Personally, I’d rather pay a little extra in travel costs etc to go to a club on a Saturday night when I’m fully rested and raring to go so to speak. "

We agree, work etc sometimes makes Friday's impossible, it awkward that clubs do follow the same blueprint.. Friday singles. Saturday couples. Which clubs cater for males on Saturday ?

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By *inglesCouple over a year ago

Colchester

We allow singles in on Fridays and Saturdays. After feedback for our members we have held a couples only event and will be holding this every couple of months. Have found this works really well with our members, Bex xxx

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By *ikerdaveMan over a year ago

redcar

but it would only take 4 visits in the year for it to pay for itself.... once visit every 3 months.....

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£70 membership then 4 × 30 = £190 ÷ by 4 equals nearly £50per visit add fuel costs each time is quite expensive in my eyes

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I know Jaydees let a certain amount of single guys in on a Saturday and more on a Friday

They are also letting guys in this Friday 15th April for £15 the same price as a couple

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By *ndykinkyMan over a year ago

STOKE-ON-TRENT

Atlantis Evolution is £5 joining fee and then single men pay £30 per visit on Friday nights or the Greedy Girls Night on the first Wednesday of every month.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"different nights are set to cater for different groups of people and therefore the prices are different accordingly...

see i hate the arguement of people being "priced" out as it is much more nuisanced that than...

the other thing is the comparison in price... some like to compare it to people going on the same night.... i don't! I compare it to what i would be doing on the same night instead..

so for example what i spend on going to a club is probably equal or less than i would going into town, buying a meal, buying drinks, taxi's ect.....

one lot are likely to complain more than the other..... guess which set!"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Atlantis Evolution is £5 joining fee and then single men pay £30 per visit on Friday nights or the Greedy Girls Night on the first Wednesday of every month. "

What do the pay on the other 25 nights a month?

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By *uited staffs guyMan over a year ago

staffordshire

but it would only take 4 visits in the year for it to pay for itself.... once visit every 3 months.....

Chams give you a loyality card with room for 5 stamps. Once the card is full I believe you get a free entry if not a reduced one!

It's one free entry once the card is filled

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have been to clubs before, but yes it is getting to much to keep paying the entrance fee lol.

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By *aybird69Woman over a year ago

Doncaster

La Chambre has never put there entree fee up in 18 years, it is £25 for guys on a Friday night, which is around the same price as most of the clubs we have been to around the country. It also has free membership on at the moment so it is actually cheaper for the guys .

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It is called price elasticity of demand, in that you charge the maximum you can and in a swinging club it serves as a regulator. But I worry that it may just exclude the younger less solvent guys, but in reality if you're a good looking guy with the right attitude you will get in.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Couldn't be added reading all the previous posts but just wanted to add that my local club, townhouse, let's single guys in for just a tenner for some daytime events and even FREE for kinky karaoke. Can't say fairer than that!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I wanted to go last weekend for the first time - thought I'd read up on the website first. Turns out I wasn't going. 1. I'm not allowed as I'm not a member. 2. I'm not allowed if I was as it was couples only. Then I saw the prices, and the sign up form.

I get all that, I really do.

Then I started reading the finer rules, waiting lists, how I could be asked not to return etc.

I get that too, I really do.

But you add it all up and it starts to seem like an elite social clique that you can only become part of if the people in charge like you.

That's rather off putting to me. I'm never going to be rude, forceful, unhygienic or break any rules whilst in a club. I'm social, funny and respectful, I want to make friends as well as have fun. Also the idea of walking into a sex club as a single is s little daunting. What if I don't like all the openness, couldn't I have a trial first??

I'd rather meet people off my own back at the moment, but as competing with rest of the single males and have no veris yet - it's difficult.

Rock and a hard place.

Despite my reservations, I do really want to go to a club and I'm sure I'll apply in s few months and see if I get accepted. I hope to see some of you there.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

but it would only take 4 visits in the year for it to pay for itself.... once visit every 3 months.....

Chams give you a loyality card with room for 5 stamps. Once the card is full I believe you get a free entry if not a reduced one!

It's one free entry once the card is filled "
how many times do you have to go to get a full card? Is it like mcdonalds free cup of coffee after you've paid for 9?

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By *arehamMan over a year ago

handforth

There is three round here that don't charge for membership,so not to dear.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I really don't get the sometimes massive difference between men women and couples, what is so special about single women that they get in free? Why are single men penalised for been a single man, charge everyone the same and limit the numbers, 10 15 quid a person is fair I think, yes it would cost couples more but there are 2 of them,

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I know its not a popular view and there is no point in slagging me off because its already been done, but i do think the majority of such clubs are only there to milk single men who pay good money in the mistaken belief that they are going to be invited to engage in sex with a female or couple. If you are willing to pay that much for so called membership and entry fees well go hire an escort and you will definitely get sex !

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By *layfullsamMan over a year ago

Solihull

"A question aimed at you lovely ' single ' men who attend clubs .

Can't cost more than a normal night out so still has to be worth it I would think ?

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By *r.BlondeMan over a year ago

Chester/Wirral

"I know its not a popular view and there is no point in slagging me off because its already been done, but i do think the majority of such clubs are only there to milk single men who pay good money in the mistaken belief that they are going to be invited to engage in sex with a female or couple. If you are willing to pay that much for so called membership and entry fees well go hire an escort and you will definitely get sex !"
I know what your saying and I understand but Personally I wouldn't pay for sex, when I go a club I've paid for an opportunity where sex could happen if there's mutual attraction, I want people to to want to have sex with me and not because I gave them money to do so much better that way. You might not always play either depends on nights you go or whos there on the nights but if you make an effort and talk to people you could play on future visits.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I know its not a popular view and there is no point in slagging me off because its already been done, but i do think the majority of such clubs are only there to milk single men who pay good money in the mistaken belief that they are going to be invited to engage in sex with a female or couple. If you are willing to pay that much for so called membership and entry fees well go hire an escort and you will definitely get sex ! I know what your saying and I understand but Personally I wouldn't pay for sex, when I go a club I've paid for an opportunity where sex could happen if there's mutual attraction, I want people to to want to have sex with me and not because I gave them money to do so much better that way. You might not always play either depends on nights you go or whos there on the nights but if you make an effort and talk to people you could play on future visits. "

I hear you. Well there are plenty of men who are happy to pay for sex an some for whom it is their only outlet. Its not something i could be bothered with.

Clubs,,well you could just as well say that if you went out in any social situation, there is always the possibility of meeting a nice girl.

Of course if you do go to a club at the right time, you could well be offered sex by one of the honeypots loosely employed by the club owners to hook single guys.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Of course if you do go to a club at the right time, you could well be offered sex by one of the honeypots loosely employed by the club owners to hook single guys."

Sounds like you're going to the wrong clubs - none of the clubs I go to do this.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Of course if you do go to a club at the right time, you could well be offered sex by one of the honeypots loosely employed by the club owners to hook single guys.

Sounds like you're going to the wrong clubs - none of the clubs I go to do this."

I dont go to any clubs.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Of course if you do go to a club at the right time, you could well be offered sex by one of the honeypots loosely employed by the club owners to hook single guys.

Sounds like you're going to the wrong clubs - none of the clubs I go to do this.

I dont go to any clubs."

There's your problem then. You're basing your posts on absolutely nothing more than rumour and untruth.

I can think of one single sex club that employs women to have sex with the clientele - but it's not a swingers club.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The clubs I tried in Stoke, charged me half of what they charged for couples. Cheaper than for single males granted, but no incentive for me as a single female to go again.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"The clubs I tried in Stoke, charged me half of what they charged for couples. Cheaper than for single males granted, but no incentive for me as a single female to go again."

What kind of incentive did you want?

Surely the incentive is the fact it's a swingers club and you get to meet other swingers?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Of course if you do go to a club at the right time, you could well be offered sex by one of the honeypots loosely employed by the club owners to hook single guys.

Sounds like you're going to the wrong clubs - none of the clubs I go to do this.

I dont go to any clubs.

There's your problem then. You're basing your posts on absolutely nothing more than rumour and untruth.

I can think of one single sex club that employs women to have sex with the clientele - but it's not a swingers club."

Well i guess thats a distinct possibility. I do see the same females on here day in day out saying they are at a certain club today. Presumably they are unemployed or else the club is actually their employment i.e they are honeypotting. If you get a prozzie who is past her best and cant make a living on the escort scene,,well she could team up with certain clubs,,be in there posing as a single fem or couple and service a few guys. They pay a fat membership and entry fee, think they are getting a bona fide swinging experience, the club takes money and bungs some to the prozzie and everyones happy. They can also swap veris.. Not saying it happens everywhere..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"The clubs I tried in Stoke, charged me half of what they charged for couples. Cheaper than for single males granted, but no incentive for me as a single female to go again.

What kind of incentive did you want?

Surely the incentive is the fact it's a swingers club and you get to meet other swingers?"

Of course, my mistake

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Of course if you do go to a club at the right time, you could well be offered sex by one of the honeypots loosely employed by the club owners to hook single guys.

Sounds like you're going to the wrong clubs - none of the clubs I go to do this.

I dont go to any clubs.

There's your problem then. You're basing your posts on absolutely nothing more than rumour and untruth.

I can think of one single sex club that employs women to have sex with the clientele - but it's not a swingers club.

Have you ever actually been to a swingers club ?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Of course if you do go to a club at the right time, you could well be offered sex by one of the honeypots loosely employed by the club owners to hook single guys.

Sounds like you're going to the wrong clubs - none of the clubs I go to do this.

I dont go to any clubs.

There's your problem then. You're basing your posts on absolutely nothing more than rumour and untruth.

I can think of one single sex club that employs women to have sex with the clientele - but it's not a swingers club.

Wondered when you would come out with the 'all women who go to clubs are prozzies' line AGAIN. Fucking hilarious from someone who doesn't have the balls to even set foot inside a club.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Of course if you do go to a club at the right time, you could well be offered sex by one of the honeypots loosely employed by the club owners to hook single guys.

Sounds like you're going to the wrong clubs - none of the clubs I go to do this.

I dont go to any clubs.

There's your problem then. You're basing your posts on absolutely nothing more than rumour and untruth.

I can think of one single sex club that employs women to have sex with the clientele - but it's not a swingers club.

Have you ever actually been to a swingers club ?"

No, Why would i go to a swingers club..?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Of course if you do go to a club at the right time, you could well be offered sex by one of the honeypots loosely employed by the club owners to hook single guys.

Sounds like you're going to the wrong clubs - none of the clubs I go to do this.

I dont go to any clubs.

There's your problem then. You're basing your posts on absolutely nothing more than rumour and untruth.

I can think of one single sex club that employs women to have sex with the clientele - but it's not a swingers club.

Wondered when you would come out with the 'all women who go to clubs are prozzies' line AGAIN. Fucking hilarious from someone who doesn't have the balls to even set foot inside a club."

Perhaps you need to re-read as i didnt for one minute suggest or say that all women who go to such clubs are prozzies.

As for having the balls,,what on earth has that to do with it? Its all about money on the door and i have plenty of that.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Of course if you do go to a club at the right time, you could well be offered sex by one of the honeypots loosely employed by the club owners to hook single guys.

Sounds like you're going to the wrong clubs - none of the clubs I go to do this.

I dont go to any clubs.

There's your problem then. You're basing your posts on absolutely nothing more than rumour and untruth.

I can think of one single sex club that employs women to have sex with the clientele - but it's not a swingers club.

Have you ever actually been to a swingers club ?

No, Why would i go to a swingers club..?"

You seem to have very strong views about something you obviously have no idea about, we've been to many swingers clubs and never seen any women paid to have sex with people

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Of course if you do go to a club at the right time, you could well be offered sex by one of the honeypots loosely employed by the club owners to hook single guys.

Sounds like you're going to the wrong clubs - none of the clubs I go to do this.

I dont go to any clubs.

There's your problem then. You're basing your posts on absolutely nothing more than rumour and untruth.

I can think of one single sex club that employs women to have sex with the clientele - but it's not a swingers club.

Wondered when you would come out with the 'all women who go to clubs are prozzies' line AGAIN. Fucking hilarious from someone who doesn't have the balls to even set foot inside a club.

Perhaps you need to re-read as i didnt for one minute suggest or say that all women who go to such clubs are prozzies.

As for having the balls,,what on earth has that to do with it? Its all about money on the door and i have plenty of that."

You have said exactly that in the past. You called all club going women prozzies - yep some of us women remember stuff like that.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Of course if you do go to a club at the right time, you could well be offered sex by one of the honeypots loosely employed by the club owners to hook single guys.

Sounds like you're going to the wrong clubs - none of the clubs I go to do this.

I dont go to any clubs.

There's your problem then. You're basing your posts on absolutely nothing more than rumour and untruth.

I can think of one single sex club that employs women to have sex with the clientele - but it's not a swingers club.

Have you ever actually been to a swingers club ?

No, Why would i go to a swingers club..?

You seem to have very strong views about something you obviously have no idea about, we've been to many swingers clubs and never seen any women paid to have sex with people "

I wouldnt say i have strong views. I have just my own views and perceptions which i have formed from stuff i have been told, read or surmised. As i say, i recognise that not all clubs are the same and of course it would be ridiculous to say that all women who attend such places are in the pay of the owners. Its not difficult to spot the ones who may be though.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Of course if you do go to a club at the right time, you could well be offered sex by one of the honeypots loosely employed by the club owners to hook single guys.

Sounds like you're going to the wrong clubs - none of the clubs I go to do this.

I dont go to any clubs.

There's your problem then. You're basing your posts on absolutely nothing more than rumour and untruth.

I can think of one single sex club that employs women to have sex with the clientele - but it's not a swingers club.

Wondered when you would come out with the 'all women who go to clubs are prozzies' line AGAIN. Fucking hilarious from someone who doesn't have the balls to even set foot inside a club.

Perhaps you need to re-read as i didnt for one minute suggest or say that all women who go to such clubs are prozzies.

As for having the balls,,what on earth has that to do with it? Its all about money on the door and i have plenty of that.

You have said exactly that in the past. You called all club going women prozzies - yep some of us women remember stuff like that. "

If you are so sure then perhaps you can quote where i said that and i shall immediately retract and apologise. As that is not my belief it is unlikely that i have said it. Which clubs do you attend with your friends?

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By *uited staffs guyMan over a year ago

staffordshire

but it would only take 4 visits in the year for it to pay for itself.... once visit every 3 months.....

Chams give you a loyality card with room for 5 stamps. Once the card is full I believe you get a free entry if not a reduced one!

It's one free entry once the card is filled how many times do you have to go to get a full card? Is it like mcdonalds free cup of coffee after you've paid for 9?"

6 and then a free entry if I remember, which means over 7 visits it makes it just over £28 on average

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Of course if you do go to a club at the right time, you could well be offered sex by one of the honeypots loosely employed by the club owners to hook single guys.

Sounds like you're going to the wrong clubs - none of the clubs I go to do this.

I dont go to any clubs.

There's your problem then. You're basing your posts on absolutely nothing more than rumour and untruth.

I can think of one single sex club that employs women to have sex with the clientele - but it's not a swingers club.

Wondered when you would come out with the 'all women who go to clubs are prozzies' line AGAIN. Fucking hilarious from someone who doesn't have the balls to even set foot inside a club.

Perhaps you need to re-read as i didnt for one minute suggest or say that all women who go to such clubs are prozzies.

As for having the balls,,what on earth has that to do with it? Its all about money on the door and i have plenty of that.

You have said exactly that in the past. You called all club going women prozzies - yep some of us women remember stuff like that.

None of your business where I go with my friends, tho they are many and varied.

The Green arrow tells your story

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If I lived in Birmingham I would proberbly go to fetish and swing clubs two or three times a week.

Does that make me a prostitute? Or just someone who enjoys sex clubs and playing with other people?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If they didn't limit the number of single guys or charge them more to dissuade them from turning up in large numbers it would just end up like this site - 100 single guys trying their best to play with 4 women and then pushing on to couples who aren't interested.

If they stopped having couples and single lady only nights and allowed an unlimited number of men entrance then it would put a lot of couples off.

As for never having bad experiences of single men at clubs, we have at least one everyone we go on a night that single men are allowed in... then again we've had bad experiences with 'couples' too... funny that.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Of course if you do go to a club at the right time, you could well be offered sex by one of the honeypots loosely employed by the club owners to hook single guys.

Sounds like you're going to the wrong clubs - none of the clubs I go to do this.

I dont go to any clubs.

There's your problem then. You're basing your posts on absolutely nothing more than rumour and untruth.

I can think of one single sex club that employs women to have sex with the clientele - but it's not a swingers club.

Wondered when you would come out with the 'all women who go to clubs are prozzies' line AGAIN. Fucking hilarious from someone who doesn't have the balls to even set foot inside a club.

Perhaps you need to re-read as i didnt for one minute suggest or say that all women who go to such clubs are prozzies.

As for having the balls,,what on earth has that to do with it? Its all about money on the door and i have plenty of that.

You have said exactly that in the past. You called all club going women prozzies - yep some of us women remember stuff like that.

None of your business where I go with my friends, tho they are many and varied.

The Green arrow tells your story "

Do get back to us when you can quote where i said all females who went to clubs were prozzies.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If I lived in Birmingham I would proberbly go to fetish and swing clubs two or three times a week.

Does that make me a prostitute? Or just someone who enjoys sex clubs and playing with other people?"

Waspi, i have no idea as to whether you are a prostitute or not. It is really non of my business and i am quite happy with your stated desires and reasons for attending clubs. I hope it is a rewarding and enjoyable experience for both yourself and all others. All i am saying is that sometimes all is not what it seems and single guys can be exploited if they are naive/desperate enough.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If I lived in Birmingham I would proberbly go to fetish and swing clubs two or three times a week.

Does that make me a prostitute? Or just someone who enjoys sex clubs and playing with other people?

No, you were speculating that all women who spend too much time (according to you) going to clubs were prostitutes. That they have some kind of deal with the management.

You have absolutely no fucking clue about clubs because you never actually go to them.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If I lived in Birmingham I would proberbly go to fetish and swing clubs two or three times a week.

Does that make me a prostitute? Or just someone who enjoys sex clubs and playing with other people?

No, you were speculating that all women who spend too much time (according to you) going to clubs were prostitutes. That they have some kind of deal with the management.

You have absolutely no fucking clue about clubs because you never actually go to them."
No,i am speculating that SOME women some females have vested interests in certain clubs. Do you believe that to be not the case?

I have never flown an airbus but i do have some knowledge of how it works.We are no longer in the dark ages. Those who can think and comprehend have the privilege of being able to access more information now than at any time in the past by virtue of the internet. What a wonderful thing it is.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If I lived in Birmingham I would proberbly go to fetish and swing clubs two or three times a week.

Does that make me a prostitute? Or just someone who enjoys sex clubs and playing with other people?

No, you were speculating that all women who spend too much time (according to you) going to clubs were prostitutes. That they have some kind of deal with the management.

You have absolutely no fucking clue about clubs because you never actually go to them.No,i am speculating that SOME women some females have vested interests in certain clubs. Do you believe that to be not the case?

I quote, directly from you:

"I do see the same females on here day in day out saying they are at a certain club today. Presumably they are unemployed or else the club is actually their employment"

That seems to say that if women enjoy going to clubs frequently that means they are either:

1. Unemployed

2. Employed by the club

That's what you said. They're unemployed or they're hookers who are working from a swingers club because they can't get work elsewhere as a hooker.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Of course if you do go to a club at the right time, you could well be offered sex by one of the honeypots loosely employed by the club owners to hook single guys.

Sounds like you're going to the wrong clubs - none of the clubs I go to do this.

I dont go to any clubs.

There's your problem then. You're basing your posts on absolutely nothing more than rumour and untruth.

I can think of one single sex club that employs women to have sex with the clientele - but it's not a swingers club.

Wondered when you would come out with the 'all women who go to clubs are prozzies' line AGAIN. Fucking hilarious from someone who doesn't have the balls to even set foot inside a club.

Perhaps you need to re-read as i didnt for one minute suggest or say that all women who go to such clubs are prozzies.

As for having the balls,,what on earth has that to do with it? Its all about money on the door and i have plenty of that.

You have said exactly that in the past. You called all club going women prozzies - yep some of us women remember stuff like that.

None of your business where I go with my friends, tho they are many and varied.

The Green arrow tells your story

Do get back to us when you can quote where i said all females who went to clubs were prozzies. "

Here: for those interested in the thread it's the sinsations one.

"I suppose so though ive never been to one. They are mostly thinly disguised brothels for extracting cash from mug male punters."

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Of course if you do go to a club at the right time, you could well be offered sex by one of the honeypots loosely employed by the club owners to hook single guys.

Sounds like you're going to the wrong clubs - none of the clubs I go to do this.

I dont go to any clubs.

There's your problem then. You're basing your posts on absolutely nothing more than rumour and untruth.

I can think of one single sex club that employs women to have sex with the clientele - but it's not a swingers club.

How rude to say that!

I go to swingers clubs, i go weekdays or weekends. I am not a prozzie (your word). Just because women go to swingers clubs doesn't mean they are prostitutes it just means they like swingers clubs and may want to socialise there and have sex there. How rude to sugest otherwise !

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If I lived in Birmingham I would proberbly go to fetish and swing clubs two or three times a week.

Does that make me a prostitute? Or just someone who enjoys sex clubs and playing with other people?"
its the clubs in Birmingham that are the most expensive. Sating that ive only been to one & the cost put me off being a member

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If I lived in Birmingham I would proberbly go to fetish and swing clubs two or three times a week.

Does that make me a prostitute? Or just someone who enjoys sex clubs and playing with other people?

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By *izzy.Woman over a year ago

Stoke area

Of course if you do go to a club at the right time, you could well be offered sex by one of the honeypots loosely employed by the club owners to hook single guys.

Sounds like you're going to the wrong clubs - none of the clubs I go to do this.

I dont go to any clubs.

There's your problem then. You're basing your posts on absolutely nothing more than rumour and untruth.

I can think of one single sex club that employs women to have sex with the clientele - but it's not a swingers club.

I really enjoy going to my local swingers club and often mention it in the forums, in order to encourage others to come along and discover what a great place it is.

The idea that I may be thought of as a past her best prostitute is disgusting.

I feel sick that someone could rationally think such a thing. I am an articulate woman...but am lost for words. Nasty nasty nasty nasty man !!!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The Attic in Derby Friday & Saturday for single guys

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Unless you go greedy girls nights it's free for single females and couples at the Atlantis on that night.

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By *laqgrapeMan over a year ago

Sanderstead

"Well the price is probably there to stop us lot flooding the place. While for me it can be off putting some of the time. The main reason I would stop going is the after reading the reviews on the clubs by other patrons not wanting us there sharing their space. After all why go where you’re not wanted."

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Many people, us included, go clubs to meet single guys so you are wanted !

It's the ones who behave badly that aren't wanted and that's not just single guys but couples and fems too.

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By *osieWoman over a year ago

Wembley

"It's why I stick to my favorite party Eyeswideshut they offer early bird tickets at half the price when booked in advance x £20

and it is run by a very friendly lady. There is no membership fee and 'early bird' tickets for couples are £15 and for women, £5. I think those prices are very fair

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Of course if you do go to a club at the right time, you could well be offered sex by one of the honeypots loosely employed by the club owners to hook single guys.

Sounds like you're going to the wrong clubs - none of the clubs I go to do this.

I dont go to any clubs.

There's your problem then. You're basing your posts on absolutely nothing more than rumour and untruth.

I can think of one single sex club that employs women to have sex with the clientele - but it's not a swingers club.

You have no idea what you're talking about yet again!!! Your views are poorly judged and clinical at best.

We go to clubs for the primary reason it's a safe environment to sexually explore. Turning up at some strangers house or hotel room... Do you not watch Crimewatch???

As for the cost to either single guys or couples, it's still a lot cheaper than any hotel, with facilities that you wouldn't normally have at home or in a hotel.

These clubs are businesses. They need to make money to pay rent, staff, maintain the property, buy equipment. None of that comes cheap. Our continued patronage will ensure their survival. You only have to look at how many pubs are closing to see how tough it is.

As you have never been to a club you have no idea.

Wht are you even on this site???

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By *ndykinkyMan over a year ago

STOKE-ON-TRENT

"Atlantis Evolution is £5 joining fee and then single men pay £30 per visit on Friday nights or the Greedy Girls Night on the first Wednesday of every month.

What do the pay on the other 25 nights a month?"

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By *ndykinkyMan over a year ago

STOKE-ON-TRENT

"Atlantis Evolution is £5 joining fee and then single men pay £30 per visit on Friday nights or the Greedy Girls Night on the first Wednesday of every month.

What do the pay on the other 25 nights a month?"

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By *ndykinkyMan over a year ago

STOKE-ON-TRENT

"Atlantis Evolution is £5 joining fee and then single men pay £30 per visit on Friday nights or the Greedy Girls Night on the first Wednesday of every month.

What do the pay on the other 25 nights a month?"

Only open to single guys on Friday nights and the first Wednesday of every month so they don't pay anything unless they attend a Fetish Event on a Sunday.

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By *ndykinkyMan over a year ago

STOKE-ON-TRENT

Of course if you do go to a club at the right time, you could well be offered sex by one of the honeypots loosely employed by the club owners to hook single guys.

You are on a Swinger's website so there is a chance you would be interested in going to a Swinger's club to meet Swingers.

Sounds like you're going to the wrong clubs - none of the clubs I go to do this.

I dont go to any clubs.

There's your problem then. You're basing your posts on absolutely nothing more than rumour and untruth.

I can think of one single sex club that employs women to have sex with the clientele - but it's not a swingers club.

Have you ever actually been to a swingers club ?

No, Why would i go to a swingers club..?"

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By *oxesMan over a year ago

Southend, Essex

Of course if you do go to a club at the right time, you could well be offered sex by one of the honeypots loosely employed by the club owners to hook single guys.

Sounds like you're going to the wrong clubs - none of the clubs I go to do this.

I dont go to any clubs.

There's your problem then. You're basing your posts on absolutely nothing more than rumour and untruth.

I can think of one single sex club that employs women to have sex with the clientele - but it's not a swingers club.

You have no idea what you're talking about yet again!!! Your views are poorly judged and clinical at best.

We go to clubs for the primary reason it's a safe environment to sexually explore. Turning up at some strangers house or hotel room... Do you not watch Crimewatch???

As for the cost to either single guys or couples, it's still a lot cheaper than any hotel, with facilities that you wouldn't normally have at home or in a hotel.

As you have never been to a club you have no idea.

Wht are you even on this site??? "

Another classic case of a person with an oppinion based on no fact what so ever.

To give him his dues he has used the Sherlock Holmes logic of adduction to come to if honnest a completly wrong conclusion.

I have been to clubs and have never paid for sex. I would never pay a vulnrable women for sex. That just dosn't appeal to me.

the closests thing I have seen to your argument is girl offering non-sexule massages and another girl offering men to drink shots from her crevaces at op4f.

Women who work for clubs and/or the ones attend the clubs are not easy, they are aspiratinal sexually liberated not easy.

I think you sir need to research what you are talking about before messaging.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

" Guys will just not part with that amount of money on the off chance of some fun.

no offence... but if that is the mental attitude of the single guys that aren't going to clubs..... then clubs can certainly do without that type of person....

no all clubs charge the same on each night.... some nights are aimed at some more than others.... but it just feels like these threads just turn into one massive chip on the shoulder....."

You, good sir, are a goddam genius. You summation of the issue is spot on. We have to laugh when we hear single guys moaning about 'no action' as if saying that us the thing that is going to change their night.

We will happily play with respectful singles, but it seems to us that respectful single males are the real unicorns of the swinger scene sometimes...

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By *oxesMan over a year ago

Southend, Essex

" Guys will just not part with that amount of money on the off chance of some fun.

no offence... but if that is the mental attitude of the single guys that aren't going to clubs..... then clubs can certainly do without that type of person....

no all clubs charge the same on each night.... some nights are aimed at some more than others.... but it just feels like these threads just turn into one massive chip on the shoulder.....

We will happily play with respectful singles, but it seems to us that respectful single males are the real unicorns of the swinger scene sometimes... "

im sorry to hear that your experence of finding men on here is like what you have written. I hope from here on in your expereince becomes more fruitful.

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By *ethnmelvCouple over a year ago

Cardiff

It is no more expensive than going to the football, golf, theatre, a night out on the lash. So no, we don't accept the premise. Just prioritise as we all do.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's why I stick to my favorite party Eyeswideshut they offer early bird tickets at half the price when booked in advance x £20

and it is run by a very friendly lady. There is no membership fee and 'early bird' tickets for couples are £15 and for women, £5. I think those prices are very fair"

But what I don't get is why women are 5 and men 4 times that? It's good that there isn't a massive difference like some places, but 200 percent more is still a bit excessive,

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I really do think single men are put up on and taken advantage of by clubs, 4 don't see why a single man cannot pay the same as a couple and then just limit the number of men? If every club agreed to charge women a tenner and single men and couples 20 I think that would be a fairer system?

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By *orthwest_cplCouple over a year ago

Stretford

"But what I don't get is why women are 5 and men 4 times that? It's good that there isn't a massive difference like some places, but 200 percent more is still a bit excessive,"

Quite simply because far more men are likely to turn up than women, especially if the prices are equal. Women are therefore offered a discount to attract them. The gender imbalance on this website is a prime example of what happens with equal opportunity pricing.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"But what I don't get is why women are 5 and men 4 times that? It's good that there isn't a massive difference like some places, but 200 percent more is still a bit excessive,

But with a venue you can limit numbers to let's say 10 men, and 10 women, in our experience of clubs women can be just has bad as men, trying to take over the club,

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By *orthwest_cplCouple over a year ago

Stretford

"But what I don't get is why women are 5 and men 4 times that? It's good that there isn't a massive difference like some places, but 200 percent more is still a bit excessive,

But with a venue you can limit numbers to let's say 10 men, and 10 women, in our experience of clubs women can be just has bad as men, trying to take over the club, "

If you limit numbers then prices go up as the club's income needs to stay the same. If they can't get women through the door at £5 good luck on getting them at £10 but more likely more.

Clubs are businesses. If there was profit in charging women more, or the same, as men then they would be doing it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

There isn't much difference between 10 men at 20 and 5 men at 50, most clubs I have been to seem to do OK with the amount of single women, plus if every club did the same then it would be a level playing field, plus the extra money off the women would compensate for the slight loss on the men

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By *rown-eyesMan over a year ago

South Yorkshire

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Open a club... charge men the same as women and don't limit the number of men.

I'd give it 3 months before you had to close the doors.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Open a club... charge men the same as women and don't limit the number of men.

I'd give it 3 months before you had to close the doors. "

How do fetish clubs manage it?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Atlantis Evolution is £5 joining fee and then single men pay £30 per visit on Friday nights or the Greedy Girls Night on the first Wednesday of every month.

What do the pay on the other 25 nights a month?

Only open to single guys on Friday nights and the first Wednesday of every month so they don't pay anything unless they attend a Fetish Event on a Sunday. "

You are hardly a beacon of equality then!

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By *abioMan over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

"Open a club... charge men the same as women and don't limit the number of men.

I'd give it 3 months before you had to close the doors. "

i have pointed this out before..... its very easy to be a warrior is you don't back your own principle and place your money where your view seems to apply... but alas i am still waiting on "utopia" to open (i even gave her a name she could call the club)

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By *umpkinMan over a year ago

near the sounds of the wimborne quarter jack!

"I wanted to go last weekend for the first time - thought I'd read up on the website first. Turns out I wasn't going. 1. I'm not allowed as I'm not a member. 2. I'm not allowed if I was as it was couples only. Then I saw the prices, and the sign up form.

I get all that, I really do.

Then I started reading the finer rules, waiting lists, how I could be asked not to return etc.

I get that too, I really do.

But you add it all up and it starts to seem like an elite social clique that you can only become part of if the people in charge like you.

I'd rather meet people off my own back at the moment, but as competing with rest of the single males and have no veris yet - it's difficult.

Rock and a hard place.

Despite my reservations, I do really want to go to a club and I'm sure I'll apply in s few months and see if I get accepted. I hope to see some of you there."

You read ...................... the rules?

Seriously, good on you for doing your homework and I hope you do manage to find a club to go to and enjoy!

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By *ndykinkyMan over a year ago

STOKE-ON-TRENT

"Open a club... charge men the same as women and don't limit the number of men.

I'd give it 3 months before you had to close the doors.

How do fetish clubs manage it?"

There is a difference between Fetish Events and Swinging Events and that is why they manage.

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By *ndykinkyMan over a year ago

STOKE-ON-TRENT

"Atlantis Evolution is £5 joining fee and then single men pay £30 per visit on Friday nights or the Greedy Girls Night on the first Wednesday of every month.

What do the pay on the other 25 nights a month?

Only open to single guys on Friday nights and the first Wednesday of every month so they don't pay anything unless they attend a Fetish Event on a Sunday.

You are hardly a beacon of equality then!"

Never said anything about being equal.

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By *ongton loversCouple over a year ago

stokeontrent

"Atlantis Evolution is £5 joining fee and then single men pay £30 per visit on Friday nights or the Greedy Girls Night on the first Wednesday of every month.

What do the pay on the other 25 nights a month?

Only open to single guys on Friday nights and the first Wednesday of every month so they don't pay anything unless they attend a Fetish Event on a Sunday.

You are hardly a beacon of equality then!"

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By *ongton loversCouple over a year ago

stokeontrent

"Atlantis Evolution is £5 joining fee and then single men pay £30 per visit on Friday nights or the Greedy Girls Night on the first Wednesday of every month.

What do the pay on the other 25 nights a month?

Only open to single guys on Friday nights and the first Wednesday of every month so they don't pay anything unless they attend a Fetish Event on a Sunday.

You are hardly a beacon of equality then!

Never said anything about being equal. "
no but your saying plenty about everything else mmmm commission I wonder

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By *osieWoman over a year ago

Wembley

"It's why I stick to my favorite party Eyeswideshut they offer early bird tickets at half the price when booked in advance x £20

and it is run by a very friendly lady. There is no membership fee and 'early bird' tickets for couples are £15 and for women, £5. I think those prices are very fair

But what I don't get is why women are 5 and men 4 times that? It's good that there isn't a massive difference like some places, but 200 percent more is still a bit excessive,"

I don't know; what I do know is £20 is not a lot of money to enter any club; most half-decent nite-clubs in the West End cost a lot more

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I really do think single men are put up on and taken advantage of by clubs, 4 don't see why a single man cannot pay the same as a couple and then just limit the number of men? If every club agreed to charge women a tenner and single men and couples 20 I think that would be a fairer system?"
i would agree with that & being a respectical single guy i would go more often

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By *r an Mrs xMan over a year ago

liverpool

Most clubs in the north west are not expensive and offer a cheap night out. It seems down south it becomes expensive. ....and you miss out northern charm

...... Bloody southern poofters. (. Joke )

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By *izzy.Woman over a year ago

Stoke area

Just remind me......this thread started as a thread about if clubs being expensive for single guys. It then became offensive: talking about ladies who talk about clubs on a regular being prostitutes who are past their sell by dates and paid for by the club.

Then men talking about clubs are thought to be commission.

I will tell you a little secret. Some people enjoy going to the clubs and are happy to tell other people about the place they have discovered. I don't think there are any rules to stop people telling others what they like.

Why do certain people feel the need to be so rude and unpleasant. Suggesting prostitution or payment from clubs is unnecessary. I am seriously contemplating reporting these comments to admin

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By *ongton loversCouple over a year ago

stokeontrent

I was under the impression everyone was entitled to their opinion no names have been mentioned exepted one by someone so basically if people are offended don't read it quite simple really lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Just remind me......this thread started as a thread about if clubs being expensive for single guys. It then became offensive: talking about ladies who talk about clubs on a regular being prostitutes who are past their sell by dates and paid for by the club.

Then men talking about clubs are thought to be commission.

Why do certain people feel the need to be so rude and unpleasant. Suggesting prostitution or payment from clubs is unnecessary. I am seriously contemplating reporting these comments to admin "

I reported some comments three times to admin, and a mod. Apparently not offensive

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By *ongton loversCouple over a year ago

stokeontrent

Of coarse there not offensive it's people's views

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By *ndykinkyMan over a year ago

STOKE-ON-TRENT

"Atlantis Evolution is £5 joining fee and then single men pay £30 per visit on Friday nights or the Greedy Girls Night on the first Wednesday of every month.

What do the pay on the other 25 nights a month?

Only open to single guys on Friday nights and the first Wednesday of every month so they don't pay anything unless they attend a Fetish Event on a Sunday.

You are hardly a beacon of equality then!

Never said anything about being equal. no but your saying plenty about everything else mmmm commission I wonder"

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By *ndykinkyMan over a year ago

STOKE-ON-TRENT

"Atlantis Evolution is £5 joining fee and then single men pay £30 per visit on Friday nights or the Greedy Girls Night on the first Wednesday of every month.

What do the pay on the other 25 nights a month?

Only open to single guys on Friday nights and the first Wednesday of every month so they don't pay anything unless they attend a Fetish Event on a Sunday.

You are hardly a beacon of equality then!

Never said anything about being equal. no but your saying plenty about everything else mmmm commission I wonder"

Unfortunately no commission, I help out behind the bar for free because I enjoy meeting the people, the music and doing this has helped me overcome my shyness.

I have made some good friends and enjoyed some great nights dancing and chatting, occasionally more.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Of coarse there not offensive it's people's views"

I felt some were offensive about generalisation of women being prostitute/escort/paid by club. Some people were Effing at the other persons view. I thought it was getting hurtful at times, hence I reported. But I was wrong, just backing up another posters concerns about some content

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By *ndykinkyMan over a year ago

STOKE-ON-TRENT

"Of coarse there not offensive it's people's views"

Just because something is someone's view doesn't make it not offensive.

Some people have racist views but this is offensive to others.

Saying that women who go to swingers clubs is offensive and you know that most of the women who go to swingers clubs are not prostitutes.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Of coarse there not offensive it's people's views

Just because something is someone's view doesn't make it not offensive.

Some people have racist views but this is offensive to others.

Saying that women who go to swingers clubs is offensive and you know that most of the women who go to swingers clubs are not prostitutes. "

AND I just admitted I was wrong ????

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By *anB451Man over a year ago

M1 Southbound

I'm not a member of any clubs and probably never will be. I'm not fussed about paying extra to get in. That's just basic supply and demand. For me the bit I really don't like is that most clubs will only admit single guys on certain days. What happens if I'm not free on that day one week? Then I can't go. For me that's the big thing

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By *izzy.Woman over a year ago

Stoke area

"Of coarse there not offensive it's people's views

Just because something is someone's view doesn't make it not offensive.

Some people have racist views but this is offensive to others.

Saying that women who go to swingers clubs is offensive and you know that most of the women who go to swingers clubs are not prostitutes.

AND I just admitted I was wrong ????

You are not wrong. Suggesting clubs employ prostitutes to entice people in and commenting about ladies promoting the clubs are paid by the club and gents talking about the club must be paid by them also I find deeply offensive.

As for the suggestion that I should stop reading posts, because of certain people's offensive comments is outrageous. However difficult their comments may be to read, due to poor spelling and grammar. Sorry....I am stooping to their level. I shall stop at this point. But thank you for taking this to admin. I wonder if several reports about the same people would make admin re think ?

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By *izzy.Woman over a year ago

Stoke area

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Though intrigued to visit a proper club I'm not that fussed by them. Reading from reviews I think Yes guys are overpriced! Which adds up when acc travel costs, drinks, accom etc.

All this i think create the problem I've read most in club revs "anticipation" having fooked out over £100 in expense to get there some guys might think 'best get my money's worth attitude' hence why single guys get bad rep.

Myself rather take that £35 entry fee get some bubbly & nibbled have a great meet at mine or their place

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By *izzy.Woman over a year ago

Stoke area

"Though intrigued to visit a proper club I'm not that fussed by them. Reading from reviews I think Yes guys are overpriced! Which adds up when acc travel costs, drinks, accom etc.

Myself rather take that £35 entry fee get some bubbly & nibbled have a great meet at mine or their place

The advantage of going to a club, is if your lovely meet doesn't show, you have another 40 or 60 or 80 people to mingle with. There is the chance to play PLUS the chance to swap details with others to fix up dates for the future.

Clubs are more about just sex. The chance to spend several hours with like minded people, getting to know them and having a laugh. The build up , flirting etc. It is all part of the fun.

I am not sure one guy could keep me entertained for 6 hours....a club guarantees 6 hours of fun. If it's £30 entrance....That's a fiver an hour. Cheaper than golf,cinema , theatre etc....

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By *oxesMan over a year ago

Southend, Essex

Then men talking about clubs are thought to be commission.

Why do certain people feel the need to be so rude and unpleasant. Suggesting prostitution or payment from clubs is unnecessary. I am seriously contemplating reporting these comments to admin

I reported some comments three times to admin, and a mod. Apparently not offensive

how can the posts about prostitutes not be offensive?

pakhurst, Lloyd george, St Frances of Whycomb and Hildegaurd of Bingham would all be rolling in their graves.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Though intrigued to visit a proper club I'm not that fussed by them. Reading from reviews I think Yes guys are overpriced! Which adds up when acc travel costs, drinks, accom etc.

Myself rather take that £35 entry fee get some bubbly & nibbled have a great meet at mine or their place

Clubs are more about just sex. The chance to spend several hours with like minded people, getting to know them and having a laugh. The build up , flirting etc. It is all part of the fun.

I am not sure one guy could keep me entertained for 6 hours....a club guarantees 6 hours of fun. If it's £30 entrance....That's a fiver an hour. Cheaper than golf,cinema , theatre etc.... "

Fair point, each to their own. I been fortunate enough meet great folks now consider friends. Meet most on a reg for social & fun don't really need go club. But a visit deffo on my bucket list just so can say I did it lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Just a little tip, for those guys who want to attend but the money puts them off, have look in the swinging club forums and both xtasia and townhouse do free nights now and again for fab members, and they are great nights, 4 guess they are a great way to introduce new people to the club scene, and well done to the club's for putting them on

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By *izzy.Woman over a year ago

Stoke area

"Just a little tip, for those guys who want to attend but the money puts them off, have look in the swinging club forums and both xtasia and townhouse do free nights now and again for fab members, and they are great nights, 4 guess they are a great way to introduce new people to the club scene, and well done to the club's for putting them on"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Our local club runs a Friday night every couple of months thats free entrance for singles and couples with the only limit being the total number of people allowed in

Its first come first served on the guest list but all the events we've been to are mainly couples and fems and few single men turn up. so when it is offered why do so few single men who always seem to moan about the price dont take advantage?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

What a varied lot of views and opinions lol. I am not employed by my local club or a prostitute but like to attend regularly as it is very convenient for me near work to relax, have a chat and if anyone takes my fancy then play. It is free entry to single women, £18 for couples and either £11 or £18 for single men depending on whether there is an event or if they are eligible for a concession. I don't feel that those prices are unfair. Single men are not limited so despite it only being a small club the women who attend are vastly outnumbered. This is where the price difference becomes useful. A woman would not pay £18 to be pestered by several single men. The fact we get in free means that we can go in the quieter periods to just use the sauna facilities and because the men haven't had to pay an arm and a leg to get in there is much less of the "I paid so I have to play" mentality. £18 is not a lot for a full days entry, you can leave and come back later if you don't fancy any of the other visitors at that time without paying again to get in and for an additional £5 you get into the other local club too so for £23 you have access to both clubs, the facilities and should you return to the first one or need to pop out for dinner then it's not a problem.

Women occasionally need the incentive of it being free, yes they are good places to be social and have a natter but a fair period of our time is keeping the single blokes entertained so they aren't bugging the staff so much. We keep them talking, they are more likely to stay longer and become more comfortable there, especially if it's their first time. Women are the ones more likely to be doing the tours around and intros when the staff are busy and we act as unofficial bouncers telling the staff when a situation is arising. We earn our free entry lol.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Open a club... charge men the same as women and don't limit the number of men.

I'd give it 3 months before you had to close the doors.

How do fetish clubs manage it?"

Comparing a fetish club to a swingers club is like comparing a nightclub to a book club.

How many single men go to fetish clubs with the sole intention to fuck swingers?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think clubs should allow threesome or more rather than a couple and a single...

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By *otlovefun42Couple over a year ago

Costa Blanca Spain...

This

We do all our swinging in clubs and much prefer it when a guy comes and chats to us at the bar or wherever.

We love meeting single guys in clubs and any presentable polite guy who chats to us first will almost certainly get some fun later in the evening.

However the leg strokers (as we call them) You know the ones, they hang around the open playrooms waiting for some action to get going then slowly manoeuvre themselves into position and start by stroking a leg or an arm, then, if they don't get brushed away, venture further are not really for us. I wont say we've never let one or more join in but we've red carded many more.

So come on guys. Stop hanging around the playrooms waving your cock about and get into the lounge/bar and actually talk to people. I'm sure most couples will agree that it will pay dividends.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Wow very well put now all the single guys on here should read it

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By *ndykinkyMan over a year ago

STOKE-ON-TRENT

"I think clubs should allow threesome or more rather than a couple and a single... "

They are allowed once you get inside

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By *atEvolutionCouple over a year ago

atlantisEVOLUTION Swingers Club. Stoke

We do all our swinging in clubs and much prefer it when a guy comes and chats to us at the bar or wherever.

We love meeting single guys in clubs and any presentable polite guy who chats to us first will almost certainly get some fun later in the evening.

So come on guys. Stop hanging around the playrooms waving your cock about and get into the lounge/bar and actually talk to people. I'm sure most couples will agree that it will pay dividends. "

Nicely put.

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