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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Myself I prefer private meets! Be it a social or play I know exactly who I'm meeting & no distractions from other pple. & the £35 wld have spent on entry club fee goes to bottles of bubbly & nibbles lol I'm a considerate host    |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Interesting reading this! As somebody that is yet to meet, I had in my mind that I would want to do a private meet before clubs. But thinking about it, I can imagine meeting in a club can maybe remove some of the awkwardness? |
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By *anSusieCouple
over a year ago
Midlothian |
I (Dan) really enjoy private parties. No worries if one of the couples doesn't turn up, guaranteed play and easy to chat to other people. I like clubs too though, always lots of choice and sexy people around  |
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"I just love meeting in clubs but would never arrange to meet in one. Prefer the excitement of the Unknown. Just love a kinky surprise x"
Same here...no need to arrange anything, just go with the flow.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I prefer going to clubs and seeing who's there. I do do private meets, but only with those I have met socially or in a club first and would feel comfortable accommodating  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Both. They offer different things although I would say clubs are a better bet for not being let down by someone not showing up. Usually a bad day if you go to a club and no one else turns up!
There is quite a disappointment if you plan a private meet and the other party doesn't show or goes quiet on you - feels like a wasted opportunity especially if you had a couple of options and ended up choosing what ultimately turned out to be the wrong one. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I can see the benefits of both private and clubs, we've had very little luck with private meets off here, far too many time wasters, we've had a few good meets and some terrible meets. At least with a club there's likely to be someone you'll chat to and maybe even had some fun with. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Only ever go clubs these days, especially if I'm on my own. Nothing to do with being let down at private meets... I just enjoy the anonymity of it all. Don't need to know who anyone is and there's always lots of fun to be had (naughty or not). I don't like 1 on 1. It's too intimate.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Myself I prefer private meets! Be it a social or play I know exactly who I'm meeting & no distractions from other pple. & the £35 wld have spent on entry club fee goes to bottles of bubbly & nibbles lol I'm a considerate host "
This......and so easy to arrange too!
(Not against meeting in clubs tho. Done this too!) |
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"Only ever go clubs these days, especially if I'm on my own. Nothing to do with being let down at private meets... I just enjoy the anonymity of it all. Don't need to know who anyone is and there's always lots of fun to be had (naughty or not). I don't like 1 on 1. It's too intimate.
V x "
Spot on, as usual!  |
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We have tried private meets in the past and they just haven't worked. So much potential for things to go wrong and they have. We found that going to a club, we could see people at face value, they have made the effort to turn up, there's no issue of pics being 20 years out of date and you can have a convo before moving to the next base. xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Only ever go clubs these days, especially if I'm on my own. Nothing to do with being let down at private meets... I just enjoy the anonymity of it all. Don't need to know who anyone is and there's always lots of fun to be had (naughty or not). I don't like 1 on 1. It's too intimate.
V x "
you sound just like me... I prefer clubs as there is less expectations...
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"We have tried private meets in the past and they just haven't worked. So much potential for things to go wrong and they have. We found that going to a club, we could see people at face value, they have made the effort to turn up, there's no issue of pics being 20 years out of date and you can have a convo before moving to the next base. xx"
Pretty much this
I can get more about a person from a 5 minute face to face chat that weeks of messaging.
And if they aren't for me then, well to be honest there are plenty of others to choose from right there |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Club meets first always due to let downs and people not being who they said they were. Happy to do private meets with people I really connect with after that though "
After this week's letdown, totally agree with this. Hence Chameleons today...and Monday |
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By *tasiaCouple
over a year ago
West Bromwich |
Personally I don't understand folks doing private meets these days. You swap a couple of photo's on Fab, and check out their interests and profile, and then assume from that you'll all get on like a house on fire!! Really??? Just so many other factors to consider.
At least in the club environment, you can quickly decide on how you feel, and move on if required to other folks who may be more your type. And they in turn, having discovered they're not for you, can do the same, no loss all round.
I know we're a club and would of course have this opinion, but surely choice of 200 others is better than risking a single meet?
As for those out there still worrying about their first ever meets...surely its better to go somewhere for a possible meet, where if you don't like what you see for whatever reason, you can easily back out and move on to others? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Yes it's looks like club meets wins all the time.
I like club meets met so many new friend, one couple I met at the club, we are meeting for a private meet. John |
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Clubs first. Then the possibility may exist of meeting elsewhere in the future... But why bother? Hotels still have to be travelled to and paid for.... And seem so sterile and forced intimacy.
I can get fuckes by a dozen guys in a club over the course of a night without any hassle. Or none -/and if that happens we can just play ourselves in a sultry environment. |
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Always clubs or parties for us.
We (especially Mrs) just find the "meet in a bar, back for a shag" routine very awkward and clinical.
We liken our club nights to Narnia, we walk through the door, leave our vanilla lives behind, and enter our secret world for a few hours.
If someone wants to meet us there then that is fine. If it is a no show then we still have a good night, or ditto if we just don't click with the meet. |
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"Always clubs or parties for us.
We (especially Mrs) just find the "meet in a bar, back for a shag" routine very awkward and clinical.
We liken our club nights to Narnia, we walk through the door, leave our vanilla lives behind, and enter our secret world for a few hours.
If someone wants to meet us there then that is fine. If it is a no show then we still have a good night, or ditto if we just don't click with the meet. "
haha this |
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Interesting question.
We are wary of private meets -
Finding ourselves in situations that are awkward to get out of is the biggest concern. But on the other hand we'd really like to get to know people we can chat with as well as cum with We have really enjoyed our club visits but the "getting to know you" bit can be elusive. I think we'd like to find people we can connect with at a club and then perhaps meet up elsewhere at another time. X |
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By *arteeneWoman
over a year ago
aylesbury |
"Interesting question.
We are wary of private meets -
Finding ourselves in situations that are awkward to get out of is the biggest concern. But on the other hand we'd really like to get to know people we can chat with as well as cum with We have really enjoyed our club visits but the "getting to know you" bit can be elusive. I think we'd like to find people we can connect with at a club and then perhaps meet up
elsewhere at another time. X"
I love both x |
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