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Ignorant question, sorry.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Tgirl and admirer events, are these for TV and their admirers as well?
All these labels confuse me but i'm wondering if i'm welcome at some events or not.
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"Tgirl and admirer events, are these for TV and their admirers as well?
All these labels confuse me but i'm wondering if i'm welcome at some events or not.
Thanks."
We have been to a few and I think it depends ... sometimes female admirers are welcomed, and at other times they are not. Our experience has been varied, mostly welcomed, once absolutely not so ... |
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In our experience, we were welcomed by the organisers, but some of the people there were not so welcoming .... we wouldn't hold it against the organisers. Everyone has their issues .... so its just luck of the draw as to who is there I think. |
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"In our experience, we were welcomed by the organisers, but some of the people there were not so welcoming .... we wouldn't hold it against the organisers. Everyone has their issues .... so its just luck of the draw as to who is there I think. "
I'm really looking forward to going so hopefully we'll be welcomed. Bit nervous as well, like i am when going anywhere new.
My question was more based on whether tgirl nights are for TV as well, like i said ignorant question but it'd be worse (for me anyway) if we turned up and it wasn't somewhere we should be. |
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"The only people not welcome at these events are those who are uncomfortable or judgemental with trans, bi, cd/tvs and their possible behaviour."
I don't think that is the case all the time. For certain individuals, women are not welcome. This is rare, but we have seen it first hand. I wouldn't say either one of us is uncomfortable or in any way judgemental since OH is bi and we have attended many clubs where we have played together with TVs or he has played alone ... on occasion, there are some individuals who try to make some people feel unwelcome. This is the case across the board though, as there are all sorts of awkward people around... OP, I am sure you will be fine. |
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"Tgirl and admirer events, are these for TV and their admirers as well?
All these labels confuse me but i'm wondering if i'm welcome at some events or not.
Try gatehouse sunday afternoons you will be made very welcome see sally swings profile
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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I'm not going to the townhouse this time but have been wanting to go their for a long time now, it's too far away for me to get to though (takes over 3 hrs on public transport). |
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I had an idea i'd be welcome, just wanted to check i was going on the right night.
