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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi fellow swingers.
I'm seriously considering going to the newbie night at tease2 next month. I have never been to a club, and am very new to the swinging scene. I have been talking to a lovely staff member who helps with the newbie night, and she has been extremely helpful.
Has anyone else been in my position and have been as a single lady on there own?
Did you feel comfortable?
Did you feel safe?
Welcomed?
Did you feel pushed by other members to play?
I'm thinking for my first time I'd like to just experience the atmosphere and social side of things.
Would love to hear from people's experiences and advice on this please.
Many thanks x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hiya hun. I went for the first time 2 wks ago to townhouse international. By myself I might add . Single female lol. New to the scene aswel.
I dnt know the club u went to but there I felt safe not pushed by anyone to do anythin I didn't want. I met some lovely people who chatted to me n made me feel welcome. How bad can it be if u dnt like uv lost nothing. Dnt do anything u dnt want xx good luck hun |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Hiya hun. I went for the first time 2 wks ago to townhouse international. By myself I might add . Single female lol. New to the scene aswel.
I dnt know the club u went to but there I felt safe not pushed by anyone to do anythin I didn't want. I met some lovely people who chatted to me n made me feel welcome. How bad can it be if u dnt like uv lost nothing. Dnt do anything u dnt want xx good luck hun "
Hey hun. I havnt been yet lol, just wanted to know as a single female how you felt when you were there.
Sounds like you met some great people and was made to feel relaxed and welcome  |
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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago
not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds) |
"Hi fellow swingers.
I'm seriously considering going to the newbie night at tease2 next month. I have never been to a club, and am very new to the swinging scene. I have been talking to a lovely staff member who helps with the newbie night, and she has been extremely helpful.
Has anyone else been in my position and have been as a single lady on there own?
Did you feel comfortable?
Did you feel safe?
Welcomed?
Did you feel pushed by other members to play?
I'm thinking for my first time I'd like to just experience the atmosphere and social side of things.
Would love to hear from people's experiences and advice on this please.
Many thanks x"
If you mention to the staff it's your first time they'll likely give you a guided tour and introduce you to a few folk...
It's accepted that no means no and if folk don't accept this mention it to the staff and they'll help.
It's like any new environment everyone is nervous, if you treat it like a normal bar and chat I'm sure you'll soon feel comfortable.. |
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