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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Survey......How do you feel about single guys turning up by themselves at clubs ?
I want to know the couples & singles view.
Thank you in advance for your opinions.
X mwah |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I like them if they're nice, respectful and chatty. Just like anyone really
Unfortunately some turn into the Zombie Wanking Squad once they get through the door  "
Funny but true |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I like them if they're nice, respectful and chatty. Just like anyone really
Unfortunately some turn into the Zombie Wanking Squad once they get through the door "
reason why I find it a pathetic venture, part three.
Embarrassing! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I like them if they're nice, respectful and chatty. Just like anyone really
Unfortunately some turn into the Zombie Wanking Squad once they get through the door
Quality.  "
......Quality dogging?  |
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"I like them if they're nice, respectful and chatty. Just like anyone really
Unfortunately some turn into the Zombie Wanking Squad once they get through the door "
I always think they look like a flock of starlings lol - but where would we be without the sexy, intelligent ones? Xx |
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Speaking as a man, it's one of the reasons I will never set foot in a club again;
On the few occasions I have been, I found the behaviour of the single men to be utterly vile, and do not wish to be part of it. |
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Never had a problem with single guys at clubs on any night I've attended, always been polite and chatty and accepting when I've said not interested, I wouldn't go if there were no single guys there. |
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By *nfamyMan
over a year ago
Goole |
"I like them if they're nice, respectful and chatty. Just like anyone really
Unfortunately some turn into the Zombie Wanking Squad once they get through the door "
Is that not a good look then?
This is my only reason for attending  |
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"Survey......How do you feel about single guys turning up by themselves at clubs ?
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I'm not sure whether the question is simply about single men in clubs, or whether they should be turning up alone or in groups (or with their mum? ). I'll answer (a)...
We have only been to the Attic, where we have found
Most single men are polite
Most are respectful
Most are welcoming
Most are 'normal'.
A few may try to push their luck, but have always responded well when spoken to.
Overall they are no different to me, or couples, or single women, or any other group really.
When we first considered a club, we only wanted to go on a night with no single men, as we were really apprehensive, but the Attic don't have couple-only nights. As it turned out our worries were mostly in our minds, and we needn't have worried.
Mr ddc |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We have only been to va and the single men have only ever been polite and never felt like they were wanking zombies. Had fun with a couple of them too. We like finding a nice young man to join us (and couples too!)  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ah the good old single men are the pariahs of swinging culture thread!
Sometimes single women are idiots, sometimes couples are entitled morons, sometimes single guys are idiots. I'm not defending anyone's behaviour but only the single guys are vilified for other peoples behaviour constantly |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Survey......How do you feel about single guys turning up by themselves at clubs ?
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Turning up by themselves? Who else do you expect a single guy to turn up with? His mum n dad? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Survey......How do you feel about single guys turning up by themselves at clubs ?
Turning up by themselves? Who else do you expect a single guy to turn up with? His mum n dad?"
Or his nan & grandad! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ah the good old single men are the pariahs of swinging culture thread!
Sometimes single women are idiots, sometimes couples are entitled morons, sometimes single guys are idiots. I'm not defending anyone's behaviour but only the single guys are vilified for other peoples behaviour constantly"
What about the d*unk cackling women.
Or the entitled men in couples that think being in a couple puts them in a higher social scale. Same for the women in couples.
The sweet polite single men that look out for the single woman that chats to them and (possibly) makes them feel human again. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ah the good old single men are the pariahs of swinging culture thread!
Sometimes single women are idiots, sometimes couples are entitled morons, sometimes single guys are idiots. I'm not defending anyone's behaviour but only the single guys are vilified for other peoples behaviour constantly
What about the d*unk cackling women.
Or the entitled men in couples that think being in a couple puts them in a higher social scale. Same for the women in couples.
The sweet polite single men that look out for the single woman that chats to them and (possibly) makes them feel human again. "
its nice to see some people sticking up for us single men, we aren't all morons  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I prefer single men to go as single men, rather than latch on to a woman for the sake of it. Been to clubs many times where a man has tagged along with a woman who he barely knows. Surprisingly, it seems to be the woman that kicks off if the man wishes to play with someone else, as she wants him to give her all the attention. While I know it can be expensive for a man to go, I won't go near a man who has just joined up with a woman for the night as it's been seen to cause far too much drama. |
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By *exysuzi and Mr.SCouple
over a year ago
CONISTON .Stoke Suburbia. Staffs. BARMOUTH. The Lakes (Monthly) |
"Ah the good old single men are the pariahs of swinging culture thread!
Sometimes single women are idiots, sometimes couples are entitled morons, sometimes single guys are idiots. I'm not defending anyone's behaviour but only the single guys are vilified for other peoples behaviour constantly
What about the d*unk cackling women.
Or the entitled men in couples that think being in a couple puts them in a higher social scale. Same for the women in couples.
The sweet polite single men that look out for the single woman that chats to them and (possibly) makes them feel human again.
its nice to see some people sticking up for us single men, we aren't all morons "
What a nice sexy ass moron lol.... xxxxx  I'm still going strong lol xxxxx |
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By *osieWoman
over a year ago
Wembley |
"Survey......How do you feel about single guys turning up by themselves at clubs ?
I want to know the couples & singles view.
Thank you in advance for your opinions.
X mwah "
No point in me visiting any club unless single men are welcome on that evening too |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Survey......How do you feel about single guys turning up by themselves at clubs ?
I want to know the couples & singles view.
Thank you in advance for your opinions.
X mwah "
So are you saying you don't want single men at clubs?? Just asking |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I like them if they're nice, respectful and chatty. Just like anyone really
Unfortunately some turn into the Zombie Wanking Squad once they get through the door "
I can definatly say I am not a member of this squad lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ah the good old single men are the pariahs of swinging culture thread!
Sometimes single women are idiots, sometimes couples are entitled morons, sometimes single guys are idiots. I'm not defending anyone's behaviour but only the single guys are vilified for other peoples behaviour constantly
What about the d*unk cackling women.
Or the entitled men in couples that think being in a couple puts them in a higher social scale. Same for the women in couples.
The sweet polite single men that look out for the single woman that chats to them and (possibly) makes them feel human again.
its nice to see some people sticking up for us single men, we aren't all morons
What a nice sexy ass moron lol.... xxxxx I'm still going strong lol xxxxx"
good morning suzi how are you? |
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By *ty31Man
over a year ago
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As a single guy I love attending clubs, meeting new people, chatting to those I already know and generally having fun. I've no desire to follow women or couples around all night nor do I wish to join the Wanking Dead. |
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When you say single guys ....... By themselves fine but we were in a club and about 6 guys trundled in and were a complete pain in the arse thought it was pussy on tap ! Soon got fucked off though !
So single guys yes very respectful on mass not a chance |
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By *exysuzi and Mr.SCouple
over a year ago
CONISTON .Stoke Suburbia. Staffs. BARMOUTH. The Lakes (Monthly) |
"Ah the good old single men are the pariahs of swinging culture thread!
Sometimes single women are idiots, sometimes couples are entitled morons, sometimes single guys are idiots. I'm not defending anyone's behaviour but only the single guys are vilified for other peoples behaviour constantly
What about the d*unk cackling women.
Or the entitled men in couples that think being in a couple puts them in a higher social scale. Same for the women in couples.
The sweet polite single men that look out for the single woman that chats to them and (possibly) makes them feel human again.
its nice to see some people sticking up for us single men, we aren't all morons
What a nice sexy ass moron lol.... xxxxx I'm still going strong lol xxxxx
good morning suzi how are you? "
Very tired actually, been a busy night....gonna be zzzzing it soon ...xxxxxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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What about the d*unk cackling women.
Or the entitled men in couples that think being in a couple puts them in a higher social scale. Same for the women in couples.
The sweet polite single men that look out for the single woman that chats to them and (possibly) makes them feel human again. "
Looking forward to the days that actually happens to me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wouldn't go to a club unless single men were there.
I'll make a point of chatting to any that are obviously visiting for the first time.
Most are shy and nervous and seem to appreciate someone coming and saying hi to them. |
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By *osieWoman
over a year ago
Wembley |
"Ah the good old single men are the pariahs of swinging culture thread!
Sometimes single women are idiots, sometimes couples are entitled morons, sometimes single guys are idiots. I'm not defending anyone's behaviour but only the single guys are vilified for other peoples behaviour constantly
What about the d*unk cackling women.
Or the entitled men in couples that think being in a couple puts them in a higher social scale. Same for the women in couples.
The sweet polite single men that look out for the single woman that chats to them and (possibly) makes them feel human again. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We often find that single guys just walk fast around the club, never speaking to anyone. Some often have their hand on their cock too.
It's a shame they don't chat to people even just a simple "hello" can start a conversation.
Last time we went we got talking to one guy in particular, chatting about football cus we are avid fans. Other guys joined in too and it made a pleasant social time |
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"I wouldn't go to a club unless single men were there.
I'll make a point of chatting to any that are obviously visiting for the first time.
Most are shy and nervous and seem to appreciate someone coming and saying hi to them."
As a TV I've always been accepted and involved at clubs. But then being dressed in sexy underwear seems to help
But I'd never go as a single bloke. Ok there are some - good looking ones or regulars - who do alright but most are standing round like zombies....but they are not zombies they are just hoping but very much out of their comfort zone. they are there for a thrill but are feeling timid. They are there for easy sex but nothing is easy.
I think you should make them feel at home and at ease...it must be sooo difficult.
Sometimes I see myself as doing a social service....sort of pro bonk. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Survey......How do you feel about single guys turning up by themselves at clubs ?
I want to know the couples & singles view.
Thank you in advance for your opinions.
X mwah "
Clubs are something i'd like to try but i think i'd feel a bit like a spare part!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We often find that single guys just walk fast around the club, never speaking to anyone. Some often have their hand on their cock too.
It's a shame they don't chat to people even just a simple "hello" can start a conversation.
Last time we went we got talking to one guy in particular, chatting about football cus we are avid fans. Other guys joined in too and it made a pleasant social time "
You ask why single men don't chat to people - I'd ask why so many couples I've met at my usual club (AbFabs) won't even reply to a 'Hello'. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I like them if they're nice, respectful and chatty. Just like anyone really
Unfortunately some turn into the Zombie Wanking Squad once they get through the door "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I like them if they're nice, respectful and chatty. Just like anyone really
Unfortunately some turn into the Zombie Wanking Squad once they get through the door "
That is funny. "The Wanking Dead" Poor things, they just need some female attention. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We don't go to couples nights and prefer the nights with single men. Me i wouldn't go if there was no single men in a club find it boring without them!
Doll x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Fantastic response .....
I didn't state my opinion as I didn't want to bias the question. im kool with single makes in clubs xxx
My opinion - Rough Results:
Reputational - negative "flock of starlings" type thing especially if arrive in a group
Actual generalised - need and wanted to be in clubs for enjoyment of all
Issue - communication - initial contact for both parties / nerves / wants / not knowing etc.....
THANK YOU SO MUCH xxxx
Mwah xx
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We often find that single guys just walk fast around the club, never speaking to anyone. Some often have their hand on their cock too.
It's a shame they don't chat to people even just a simple "hello" can start a conversation.
Last time we went we got talking to one guy in particular, chatting about football cus we are avid fans. Other guys joined in too and it made a pleasant social time
You ask why single men don't chat to people - I'd ask why so many couples I've met at my usual club (AbFabs) won't even reply to a 'Hello'."
It works both ways.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We often find that single guys just walk fast around the club, never speaking to anyone. Some often have their hand on their cock too.
It's a shame they don't chat to people even just a simple "hello" can start a conversation.
Last time we went we got talking to one guy in particular, chatting about football cus we are avid fans. Other guys joined in too and it made a pleasant social time
You ask why single men don't chat to people - I'd ask why so many couples I've met at my usual club (AbFabs) won't even reply to a 'Hello'.
It works both ways.
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"Fantastic response .....
I didn't state my opinion as I didn't want to bias the question. im kool with single makes in clubs xxx
My opinion - Rough Results:
Reputational - negative "flock of starlings" type thing especially if arrive in a group
Actual generalised - need and wanted to be in clubs for enjoyment of all
Issue - communication - initial contact for both parties / nerves / wants / not knowing etc.....
THANK YOU SO MUCH xxxx
Mwah xx
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OMG
Do you work for Sydney University?
Gissa plane ticket so we can get a pic of Mrs ddc on Sydney Harbour Bridge, I promise we'll do all your future studies too
Mr ddc |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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"I like them if they're nice, respectful and chatty. Just like anyone really
Unfortunately some turn into the Zombie Wanking Squad once they get through the door "
i've seen the same amount of couples just go... sit in a corner and not say boo to a goose..... so men aren't the only culprits!!!!!
anyway.... its just a door.... if you are adult enough to be on a site like this and look for partners to play with, then surely you are adult enough to walking thru a door all by yourself...... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Fantastic response .....
I didn't state my opinion as I didn't want to bias the question. im kool with single makes in clubs xxx
My opinion - Rough Results:
Reputational - negative "flock of starlings" type thing especially if arrive in a group
Actual generalised - need and wanted to be in clubs for enjoyment of all
Issue - communication - initial contact for both parties / nerves / wants / not knowing etc.....
THANK YOU SO MUCH xxxx
Mwah xx
OMG
Do you work for Sydney University?
Gissa plane ticket so we can get a pic of Mrs ddc on Sydney Harbour Bridge, I promise we'll do all your future studies too
Mr ddc"
Us too! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We like to see & meet single guys in clubs. Part of the fun is finding a cute guy to play with. The challenge is getting one of them to say hello - a simple hi is worth a million zombie wanks.... "
As a single guy, I'm there alone, feeling very much on the periphery of an alien environment - dying to participate in a sociable chat (nevermind the vanishingly small odds of being invited to play). The main challenge for me, is finding a valid conversation opener. Having said that, someone pointed out that 'Hello' sometimes works! (Will try that, next time and see what happens)
At my last club visit, I got lost and arrived late. There was a great crowd but everyone was already engaged in loud conversation. Not always easy (or polite) to butt in, willy nilly.
I can't speak for other single guys but this one very much appreciates it, when someone says hi. It can turn an otherwise lonely evening, into a fun event. |
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By *osieWoman
over a year ago
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"We like to see & meet single guys in clubs. Part of the fun is finding a cute guy to play with. The challenge is getting one of them to say hello - a simple hi is worth a million zombie wanks....
As a single guy, I'm there alone, feeling very much on the periphery of an alien environment - dying to participate in a sociable chat (nevermind the vanishingly small odds of being invited to play). The main challenge for me, is finding a valid conversation opener. Having said that, someone pointed out that 'Hello' sometimes works! (Will try that, next time and see what happens)
At my last club visit, I got lost and arrived late. There was a great crowd but everyone was already engaged in loud conversation. Not always easy (or polite) to butt in, willy nilly.
I can't speak for other single guys but this one very much appreciates it, when someone says hi. It can turn an otherwise lonely evening, into a fun event."
Don't know how it works for couples but this is how it works with me:
You: "Hi, I saw you as you as you arrived and I just had to say that you look very nice in that dress/outfit"
Me: "Oh, thank you"
"Are you here with your husband?"
"No I came here on my own"
"So did I; do you mind if we chat for a little while?"
"Not at all"
You get the picture. Keep the conversation away from sex or swinging or swing clubs for the next 5 to 10 minutes but don't start asking personal questions like where I live etc, unless you first volunteer this information about yourself. Even then, be careful when asking for such details. Keep your questions open and non-threatening. Don't ask, "have you had 'fun' yet?"
But for heavens sake, don't write all of this on the back of your and read from there |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Don't know how it works for couples but this is how it works with me:
You: "Hi, I saw you as you as you arrived and I just had to say that you look very nice in that dress/outfit"
Me: "Oh, thank you"
"Are you here with your husband?"
"No I came here on my own"
"So did I; do you mind if we chat for a little while?"
"Not at all"
You get the picture. Keep the conversation away from sex or swinging or swing clubs for the next 5 to 10 minutes but don't start asking personal questions like where I live etc, unless you first volunteer this information about yourself. Even then, be careful when asking for such details. Keep your questions open and non-threatening. Don't ask, "have you had 'fun' yet?"
But for heavens sake, don't write all of this on the back of your and read from there "
Thanks for the tips! - I'd forgotten about compliments.
(Recently single, after 24 years of wife doing all the talking - haha).
Tbh, I usually feel that people are thinking 'a fugly like him, doesn't belong here', so I'm unlikely to steer conversation away from harmless small-talk. But even that is better than awkward silence.
I'll take your advice onboard and try it, at the next event |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As a single bloke going into a club... my first visit I waa extremely nervous, but put at ease by the lovely owners, I don't follow anyone around... I prefer to stay at the bar area and have a drink, chat with a few people, and generally treat it like a social club
Now I go regular to a club, I am getting known by people and getting more sociable with them all, that's what it's all about in my view, not a shagfest just because I have paid my entrance fee's.
Happy to just go and be myself, something that the owners of the club have helped me to do over the last 6 months.... I feel normal again!! |
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By *osieWoman
over a year ago
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"Don't know how it works for couples but this is how it works with me:
You: "Hi, I saw you as you as you arrived and I just had to say that you look very nice in that dress/outfit"
Me: "Oh, thank you"
"Are you here with your husband?"
"No I came here on my own"
"So did I; do you mind if we chat for a little while?"
"Not at all"
You get the picture. Keep the conversation away from sex or swinging or swing clubs for the next 5 to 10 minutes but don't start asking personal questions like where I live etc, unless you first volunteer this information about yourself. Even then, be careful when asking for such details. Keep your questions open and non-threatening. Don't ask, "have you had 'fun' yet?"
But for heavens sake, don't write all of this on the back of your and read from there
Thanks for the tips! - I'd forgotten about compliments.
(Recently single, after 24 years of wife doing all the talking - haha).
Tbh, I usually feel that people are thinking 'a fugly like him, doesn't belong here', so I'm unlikely to steer conversation away from harmless small-talk. But even that is better than awkward silence.
I'll take your advice onboard and try it, at the next event "
Oh and, once I start talking you wouldn't need to worry too much about what you might have to say next; I only pause for short, life-sustaining gulps of oxygen |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We often find that single guys just walk fast around the club, never speaking to anyone. Some often have their hand on their cock too.
It's a shame they don't chat to people even just a simple "hello" can start a conversation.
Last time we went we got talking to one guy in particular, chatting about football cus we are avid fans. Other guys joined in too and it made a pleasant social time
You ask why single men don't chat to people - I'd ask why so many couples I've met at my usual club (AbFabs) won't even reply to a 'Hello'.
It works both ways.
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It does indeed however many guys don't respond to my "hello" other than following us around and wanking then touching when in the jacuzzi lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Fantastic response .....
I didn't state my opinion as I didn't want to bias the question. im kool with single makes in clubs xxx
My opinion - Rough Results:
Reputational - negative "flock of starlings" type thing especially if arrive in a group
Actual generalised - need and wanted to be in clubs for enjoyment of all
Issue - communication - initial contact for both parties / nerves / wants / not knowing etc.....
THANK YOU SO MUCH xxxx
Mwah xx
OMG
Do you work for Sydney University?
Gissa plane ticket so we can get a pic of Mrs ddc on Sydney Harbour Bridge, I promise we'll do all your future studies too
Mr ddc"
I don't - just a discussion with a fellow FABBIte and we disagreed - so this was to show results ....I think single males in clubs are dine and behave accordingly xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would love to see more single guys at clubs, im single, so thats what i look for, as do many of my single female friends.
Poor singles get a bad name, yes, some wank....some dont.
Id like to see more singles nights in clubs and not do much bad mouthing of them.
All have needs afterall.
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I went to a couples only club with an ex...there were more guys hanging around there watching and wanking then I've ever seen at a club that allows singles in and monitors them.
The male halves seem to be prowling for someone to play with! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Survey......How do you feel about single guys turning up by themselves at clubs ?
I want to know the couples & singles view.
Thank you in advance for your opinions.
X mwah "
if single guys didn't turn up on their own it would be odd x |
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"Don't know how it works for couples but this is how it works with me:
You: "Hi, I saw you as you as you arrived and I just had to say that you look very nice in that dress/outfit"
Me: "Oh, thank you"
"Are you here with your husband?"
"No I came here on my own"
"So did I; do you mind if we chat for a little while?"
"Not at all"
You get the picture. Keep the conversation away from sex or swinging or swing clubs for the next 5 to 10 minutes but don't start asking personal questions like where I live etc, unless you first volunteer this information about yourself. Even then, be careful when asking for such details. Keep your questions open and non-threatening. Don't ask, "have you had 'fun' yet?"
But for heavens sake, don't write all of this on the back of your and read from there
Thanks for the tips! - I'd forgotten about compliments.
(Recently single, after 24 years of wife doing all the talking - haha).
Tbh, I usually feel that people are thinking 'a fugly like him, doesn't belong here', so I'm unlikely to steer conversation away from harmless small-talk. But even that is better than awkward silence.
I'll take your advice onboard and try it, at the next event
Oh and, once I start talking you wouldn't need to worry too much about what you might have to say next; I only pause for short, life-sustaining gulps of oxygen "
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A single guy shows up and doesn't head straight for the play rooms but stands like a lost part at the bar.
He doesn't immediately join in
You don't fancy the guy or wouldn't want to play with him.
Are there any ladies or couples who would engage him / invite him over to chat ? |
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over a year ago
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"Question / Scenario :
A single guy shows up and doesn't head straight for the play rooms but stands like a lost part at the bar.
He doesn't immediately join in
You don't fancy the guy or wouldn't want to play with him.
Are there any ladies or couples who would engage him / invite him over to chat ?"
Yes I would, and I have done before. |
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Ok I never wank when in a club!
But I am a lot quieter than I am in a pub for instance.
That goes for regular clubs too, I think it's the music and I have a low, quiet voice, so end up shouting and losing it by morning!
Fuck that just sounded old!! |
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over a year ago
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"its nice to see some people sticking up for us single men, we aren't all morons
Only those called Gordon "
anyone under the age of 40 will struggle with that lol |
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"its nice to see some people sticking up for us single men, we aren't all morons
Only those called Gordon anyone under the age of 40 will struggle with that lol
Lost on me "
I rest my case |
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"Speaking as a man, it's one of the reasons I will never set foot in a club again;
On the few occasions I have been, I found the behaviour of the single men to be utterly vile, and do not wish to be part of it."
I've never been to a club and this is the reason why, they give us decent respectful single guys a bad name |
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"Speaking as a man, it's one of the reasons I will never set foot in a club again;
On the few occasions I have been, I found the behaviour of the single men to be utterly vile, and do not wish to be part of it.
I've never been to a club and this is the reason why, they give us decent respectful single guys a bad name "
You've taken one person's point of view as the reason you won't go to clubs? |
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"Speaking as a man, it's one of the reasons I will never set foot in a club again;
On the few occasions I have been, I found the behaviour of the single men to be utterly vile, and do not wish to be part of it.
I've never been to a club and this is the reason why, they give us decent respectful single guys a bad name "
I do go to clubs and totally get what your both saying but that's the reason why decent respectful singles should go. The tossers spoil enough for us and I for 1 won't go down with out a fight. Least not unless the lady asks nicely  |
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"Speaking as a man, it's one of the reasons I will never set foot in a club again;
On the few occasions I have been, I found the behaviour of the single men to be utterly vile, and do not wish to be part of it.
I've never been to a club and this is the reason why, they give us decent respectful single guys a bad name
You've taken one person's point of view as the reason you won't go to clubs?"
Yeap, that and travelling time |
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"Survey......How do you feel about single guys turning up by themselves at clubs ?
I want to know the couples & singles view.
Thank you in advance for your opinions.
X mwah "
the same way i feel about single women who turn up alone at clubs
why wouldn't they? |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"Speaking as a man, it's one of the reasons I will never set foot in a club again;
On the few occasions I have been, I found the behaviour of the single men to be utterly vile, and do not wish to be part of it.
I've never been to a club and this is the reason why, they give us decent respectful single guys a bad name "
We need more decent respectful men there though. You not going does bugger all to change the status quo. |
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"Speaking as a man, it's one of the reasons I will never set foot in a club again;
On the few occasions I have been, I found the behaviour of the single men to be utterly vile, and do not wish to be part of it.
I've never been to a club and this is the reason why, they give us decent respectful single guys a bad name
We need more decent respectful men there though. You not going does bugger all to change the status quo."
I've been asked a lot about joining couples at a club, maybe this year I'll go and see what I've been missing. |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"Speaking as a man, it's one of the reasons I will never set foot in a club again;
On the few occasions I have been, I found the behaviour of the single men to be utterly vile, and do not wish to be part of it.
I've never been to a club and this is the reason why, they give us decent respectful single guys a bad name
We need more decent respectful men there though. You not going does bugger all to change the status quo.
I've been asked a lot about joining couples at a club, maybe this year I'll go and see what I've been missing."
You have a very good club in Birkenhead which has an excellent 'single guys' policy. try it and enjoy |
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By *nfamyMan
over a year ago
Goole |
"Speaking as a man, it's one of the reasons I will never set foot in a club again;
On the few occasions I have been, I found the behaviour of the single men to be utterly vile, and do not wish to be part of it.
I've never been to a club and this is the reason why, they give us decent respectful single guys a bad name
I do go to clubs and totally get what your both saying but that's the reason why decent respectful singles should go. The tossers spoil enough for us and I for 1 won't go down with out a fight. Least not unless the lady asks nicely "
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"Speaking as a man, it's one of the reasons I will never set foot in a club again;
On the few occasions I have been, I found the behaviour of the single men to be utterly vile, and do not wish to be part of it.
I've never been to a club and this is the reason why, they give us decent respectful single guys a bad name
We need more decent respectful men there though. You not going does bugger all to change the status quo."
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"Question / Scenario :
A single guy shows up and doesn't head straight for the play rooms but stands like a lost part at the bar.
He doesn't immediately join in
You don't fancy the guy or wouldn't want to play with him.
Are there any ladies or couples who would engage him / invite him over to chat ?"
Yup we have often spoken to new people regardless of sex or If we would play with them |
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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago
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"Speaking as a man, it's one of the reasons I will never set foot in a club again;
On the few occasions I have been, I found the behaviour of the single men to be utterly vile, and do not wish to be part of it.
I've never been to a club and this is the reason why, they give us decent respectful single guys a bad name
I do go to clubs and totally get what your both saying but that's the reason why decent respectful singles should go. The tossers spoil enough for us and I for 1 won't go down with out a fight. Least not unless the lady asks nicely "
That's the thing last night there was a cpl of vile men that really put the couples off which does spoil it for the genuine guys |
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"Speaking as a man, it's one of the reasons I will never set foot in a club again;
On the few occasions I have been, I found the behaviour of the single men to be utterly vile, and do not wish to be part of it.
I've never been to a club and this is the reason why, they give us decent respectful single guys a bad name
I do go to clubs and totally get what your both saying but that's the reason why decent respectful singles should go. The tossers spoil enough for us and I for 1 won't go down with out a fight. Least not unless the lady asks nicely
That's the thing last night there was a cpl of vile men that really put the couples off which does spoil it for the genuine guys "
And hopefully the club fucked em off pretty damn sharp. It really passes me off getting tard with the same brush. I understand why it happens but I won't even send a 1st mail on here now because I no what she's going to think |
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"Speaking as a man, it's one of the reasons I will never set foot in a club again;
On the few occasions I have been, I found the behaviour of the single men to be utterly vile, and do not wish to be part of it.
I've never been to a club and this is the reason why, they give us decent respectful single guys a bad name
We need more decent respectful men there though. You not going does bugger all to change the status quo."
I am not interested in changing the status quo;
It was only "one of" the reasons I won't go to a club.
Quite apart from the vile behaviour, I just find clubs don't interest me;
I have been , I have played with single women and couples; but it just didn't really "do it" for me: just not my thing, I didn't find it sensual, or sexy, or exciting at all. Others clearly revel in it. Each to his/her own. |
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Have to say on rare occasions I've seen guys behaving badly (pushy - not taking no for an answer) the staff at clubs have acted rapidly to remove these people. If you want to go, go, and behave on your terms, don't worry about anyone else |
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By *osieWoman
over a year ago
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"Question / Scenario :
A single guy shows up and doesn't head straight for the play rooms but stands like a lost part at the bar.
He doesn't immediately join in
You don't fancy the guy or wouldn't want to play with him.
Are there any ladies or couples who would engage him / invite him over to chat ?"
Not if he stands over there like some sourpuss peacock. But if he smiles and makes eye contact, then, yes |
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"Question / Scenario :
A single guy shows up and doesn't head straight for the play rooms but stands like a lost part at the bar.
He doesn't immediately join in
You don't fancy the guy or wouldn't want to play with him.
Are there any ladies or couples who would engage him / invite him over to chat ?
Not if he stands over there like some sourpuss peacock. But if he smiles and makes eye contact, then, yes"
I always head to the bar,
Never immediately join in,
Take ages to engage and
Am somewhat of a peacock!!
Oooooooppppsss!! |
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By *osieWoman
over a year ago
Wembley |
"Question / Scenario :
A single guy shows up and doesn't head straight for the play rooms but stands like a lost part at the bar.
He doesn't immediately join in
You don't fancy the guy or wouldn't want to play with him.
Are there any ladies or couples who would engage him / invite him over to chat ?
Not if he stands over there like some sourpuss peacock. But if he smiles and makes eye contact, then, yes
I always head to the bar,
Never immediately join in,
Take ages to engage and
Am somewhat of a peacock!!
Oooooooppppsss!!"
Nothing wrong with heading to the bar
But then standing there with feigned amazement as if have 'accidentally' have walked into that club and giving off macho vibes might get you somewhere with other. Me; I would spend my time looking for someone nice |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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"Speaking as a man, it's one of the reasons I will never set foot in a club again;
On the few occasions I have been, I found the behaviour of the single men to be utterly vile, and do not wish to be part of it.
I've never been to a club and this is the reason why, they give us decent respectful single guys a bad name "
no.... you are using it as an excuse to justify what you believe to be the case when it is something you have nvere experienced...
its an easy kop out........ sorry it is...
an arse is an arse, whether that arse by a single man, or part of a couple (which i have seen) or a single fem (which i have also seen)
so if a lot of the guys are arses you have the perfect platform to show you are different!!!!! they can see straight away between an "oooh he is nice and i'd play with him" and "he is an arse!!!!" |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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"Question / Scenario :
A single guy shows up and doesn't head straight for the play rooms but stands like a lost part at the bar.
He doesn't immediately join in
You don't fancy the guy or wouldn't want to play with him.
Are there any ladies or couples who would engage him / invite him over to chat ?"
treat it like you would in a pub.... speak to people at the bar......speak to people in the smoking area (notice that people will just chat to anyone!)
just because you are in a place that deals with sex, the convo doesn't have to be about sex 25/8...... in fact all good convo's and a fair few shitty ones start with the same word...
hello.....
an hello isn't some sort of opening gambit... its just a hello! take it for what it is!
p.s if is he standing there like a lost part... i would give him exactly the same advice i would to a new couple in the same situation.... it takes two, so get out there and mingle!! |
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"Question / Scenario :
A single guy shows up and doesn't head straight for the play rooms but stands like a lost part at the bar.
He doesn't immediately join in
You don't fancy the guy or wouldn't want to play with him.
Are there any ladies or couples who would engage him / invite him over to chat ?
Not if he stands over there like some sourpuss peacock. But if he smiles and makes eye contact, then, yes
I always head to the bar,
Never immediately join in,
Take ages to engage and
Am somewhat of a peacock!!
Oooooooppppsss!!
Nothing wrong with heading to the bar
But then standing there with feigned amazement as if have 'accidentally' have walked into that club and giving off macho vibes might get you somewhere with other. Me; I would spend my time looking for someone nice"
To be fair, I don't feel I have anything to prove, so never play the silverback....
Like any other establishment or event, I just try to enjoy the atmosphere, I have always thought women have a idea of what they want, so I never try to influence the process...
The chips will fall where they may! |
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By *osieWoman
over a year ago
Wembley |
"Question / Scenario :
A single guy shows up and doesn't head straight for the play rooms but stands like a lost part at the bar.
He doesn't immediately join in
You don't fancy the guy or wouldn't want to play with him.
Are there any ladies or couples who would engage him / invite him over to chat ?
Not if he stands over there like some sourpuss peacock. But if he smiles and makes eye contact, then, yes
I always head to the bar,
Never immediately join in,
Take ages to engage and
Am somewhat of a peacock!!
Oooooooppppsss!!
Nothing wrong with heading to the bar
But then standing there with feigned amazement as if have 'accidentally' have walked into that club and giving off macho vibes might get you somewhere with other. Me; I would spend my time looking for someone nice
To be fair, I don't feel I have anything to prove, so never play the silverback....
Like any other establishment or event, I just try to enjoy the atmosphere, I have always thought women have a idea of what they want, so I never try to influence the process...
The chips will fall where they may!"
Whatever works for you. I was merely answering the question from my perspective
So, yes, even if I did not fancy the guy and had absolutely no intention of playing with him, I would still start with a "hello" if he smiled at me and made eye contact and was standing next to me or near me |
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"Question / Scenario :
A single guy shows up and doesn't head straight for the play rooms but stands like a lost part at the bar.
He doesn't immediately join in
You don't fancy the guy or wouldn't want to play with him.
Are there any ladies or couples who would engage him / invite him over to chat ?
Not if he stands over there like some sourpuss peacock. But if he smiles and makes eye contact, then, yes
I always head to the bar,
Never immediately join in,
Take ages to engage and
Am somewhat of a peacock!!
Oooooooppppsss!!
Nothing wrong with heading to the bar
But then standing there with feigned amazement as if have 'accidentally' have walked into that club and giving off macho vibes might get you somewhere with other. Me; I would spend my time looking for someone nice
To be fair, I don't feel I have anything to prove, so never play the silverback....
Like any other establishment or event, I just try to enjoy the atmosphere, I have always thought women have a idea of what they want, so I never try to influence the process...
The chips will fall where they may!
Whatever works for you. I was merely answering the question from my perspective
So, yes, even if I did not fancy the guy and had absolutely no intention of playing with him, I would still start with a "hello" if he smiled at me and made eye contact and was standing next to me or near me"
Yeah I totally get that, I wasn't arguing (well maybe a little provocative).
I feel the same way, courtesy costs nothing...
And you may make a friend. |
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By *osieWoman
over a year ago
Wembley |
"Question / Scenario :
A single guy shows up and doesn't head straight for the play rooms but stands like a lost part at the bar.
He doesn't immediately join in
You don't fancy the guy or wouldn't want to play with him.
Are there any ladies or couples who would engage him / invite him over to chat ?
Not if he stands over there like some sourpuss peacock. But if he smiles and makes eye contact, then, yes
I always head to the bar,
Never immediately join in,
Take ages to engage and
Am somewhat of a peacock!!
Oooooooppppsss!!
Nothing wrong with heading to the bar
But then standing there with feigned amazement as if have 'accidentally' have walked into that club and giving off macho vibes might get you somewhere with other. Me; I would spend my time looking for someone nice
To be fair, I don't feel I have anything to prove, so never play the silverback....
Like any other establishment or event, I just try to enjoy the atmosphere, I have always thought women have a idea of what they want, so I never try to influence the process...
The chips will fall where they may!
Whatever works for you. I was merely answering the question from my perspective
So, yes, even if I did not fancy the guy and had absolutely no intention of playing with him, I would still start with a "hello" if he smiled at me and made eye contact and was standing next to me or near me
Yeah I totally get that, I wasn't arguing (well maybe a little provocative).
I feel the same way, courtesy costs nothing...
And you may make a friend."
Exactly; socialising and making new friends is part and parcel of the 'club experience'
I talk to lots of people; male, female, TV/TS, couples. I don't fancy all of them but then again, I don't fancy all people at work either but I still go out and socialise with them
Infact, I would go as far as saying that I generally, only go to clubs to socialise; and if something more happens, then great. If not, I've still had a good Saturday (or Friday) night out |
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"Speaking as a man, it's one of the reasons I will never set foot in a club again;
On the few occasions I have been, I found the behaviour of the single men to be utterly vile, and do not wish to be part of it."
A very honest quote Rene we have never been to a swingers club before because of what you have experienced we do prefer the single guy though but would expect good manners and a non pushy attitude before we would select him for fun |
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"Survey......How do you feel about single guys turning up by themselves at clubs ?
I want to know the couples & singles view.
Thank you in advance for your opinions.
X mwah "
Answers on a postcard to the research department at Sydney University. |
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I've not been to a club as a single man (only made 3 club visits total and all as part of a couple).
Honestly, the thought terrifies me and excites me in equal measure. I do think I would enjoy it, if I can just get past the opening 'hi'. It can be quite intimidating to turn up (even as a nervous couple) and see everyone in conversation at the bar (or wherever) and wonder how to make yourself part of it without feeling like you're intruding and feeling like they're looking at you as the precursor to the zombie wanking club...
I'm going to give it a go in the next month or so, and I'm going to make myself say hi to everyone I can, because I am actually quite a friendly, sociable and polite person, but that just because I'm 6'5" doesn't mean I'm über confident! If you do see me and I say hi, please say hi back! I won't expect you to fuck me I promise, I will be happy with a smile and a chat, but I'll be over the moon if people fancy playing with me later! |
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"We like to see & meet single guys in clubs. Part of the fun is finding a cute guy to play with. The challenge is getting one of them to say hello - a simple hi is worth a million zombie wanks....
As a single guy, I'm there alone, feeling very much on the periphery of an alien environment - dying to participate in a sociable chat (nevermind the vanishingly small odds of being invited to play). The main challenge for me, is finding a valid conversation opener. Having said that, someone pointed out that 'Hello' sometimes works! (Will try that, next time and see what happens)
At my last club visit, I got lost and arrived late. There was a great crowd but everyone was already engaged in loud conversation. Not always easy (or polite) to butt in, willy nilly.
I can't speak for other single guys but this one very much appreciates it, when someone says hi. It can turn an otherwise lonely evening, into a fun event.
Don't know how it works for couples but this is how it works with me:
You: "Hi, I saw you as you as you arrived and I just had to say that you look very nice in that dress/outfit"
Me: "Oh, thank you"
"Are you here with your husband?"
"No I came here on my own"
"So did I; do you mind if we chat for a little while?"
"Not at all"
You get the picture. Keep the conversation away from sex or swinging or swing clubs for the next 5 to 10 minutes but don't start asking personal questions like where I live etc, unless you first volunteer this information about yourself. Even then, be careful when asking for such details. Keep your questions open and non-threatening. Don't ask, "have you had 'fun' yet?"
But for heavens sake, don't write all of this on the back of your and read from there "
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I seen this question so many times and it annoyed me to no end single guys turning up to the club's doesn't mean they are after a free bang now here is a question what happenes if your partner wife dies God forbid dose that now exclude you from these said clubs and put you on the road to exile sexually I hope it never happens to you because some people lack compassion |
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We have no issue with single guys in clubs but how some of them behave is a bit off
We were in a room with another couple recently and the door,which didn't have a lock,was opened up by two grown men and despite the fact everyone in the room stopped what they were doing to tell them to close the door they both stood their giggling like a pair of teenagers getting an eyeful for a good while before closing the bloody door, crap like that gives single men a bad reputation which for most is undeserved |
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"That's why I don't go to a club, it is just to expensive lol.
Erm, Shag, not every thread is about how expensive clubs are for single men "
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When clubs offer both couples only nights and nights when single guys can attend, then I think its fair to assume that the majority of couples have some interest in single guys on those nights.
Thats not to say every couple want to play with every single guy. We used to only go on couples nights but now will only go on nights when single guys are allowed in-whilst we may go with the intention of hopefully finding a nice couple to play with, we like to keep our options open. The best advice I can offer single guys, is smile, make small talk and you will soon find out if there is any interest. Do not just sit down next to couples and say nothing or start following them to Jacuzzis/toilets/playrooms etc!! Oh and as we are going to Libertys on the 22nd Jan, please feel free to say hi if you see us there guys  |
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You are right. It's when WO joins MAN that it's complete to be called WOMAN. Men should be waiting for the women to come otherwise the women we just be WO. Then the party won't be complete. And on the business side for club owners. More money are been made when it's a mixed party. Also may lighten up the party....Not many single men though |
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We’ve been to clubs a few times as a couple and I (Pip), have also been as a single (with Megan’s consent and approval). She was away on a girl’s weekend and I was at a loose end. I’d enjoyed the vibe and sexiness of a club when we’d been together and the fact that she was intrigued and excited to hear how I got on by myself gave me the impetus to go.
It’s undoubtedly more nerve-wracking going on your own as when you are in a couple, you’re always going to have someone to talk to and you can wander around and just watch/play together without wondering how you are going to initiate anything – whether that be playing or just chatting.
When I went on my own, I did try to chat and say hello to some couples but I didn’t always get a welcoming response. However, some did appreciate it and I was invited to play towards the end of the night by one couple I had chatted to earlier.
The ‘zombie wankers’ do exist – we’ve occasionally experienced that as a couple – but when I went on my own, I also saw a couple of women holding court and loudly rating out of ten, the bodies of any guy who passed by, which is hardly conducive to encouraging guys to open up (especially as one poor sod was given a 2!).
Like all things in the world of swinging, it’s what you make of it. Go with an open mind and no expectations and it can be fab.
PS – there’s another girl’s weekend in two week’s time and so it looks like my second visit as a single is on the cards
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"Ah the good old single men are the pariahs of swinging culture thread!
Sometimes single women are idiots, sometimes couples are entitled morons, sometimes single guys are idiots. I'm not defending anyone's behaviour but only the single guys are vilified for other peoples behaviour constantly"
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over a year ago
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We go for mainly couples, but that said if one guys takes her fancy then I'm happy if she's happy.
Last time we went to a mixed night she did have her eye on one fella but he was in a big group of single fellas who had all obviously come together we didn't approach them, mainly because we didn't want to get into a conversation with the others.
Our advice to single fellas is be just that, don't go in groups or split up approach people and be nice and others with be polite back either with a nice decline or your in, If he was on his own we would of made the effort. |
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