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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Just wondering who's been and what's it like ? me and my partner are thinking of attending for our first ever club meet end of the month. Quite scared but quite excited to hoping to get friendly with some one before we go to help us through it as she wants her first bi experience as well and love people watching us , any dos and donts  ? |
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There's certainly nothing to be scared about. The social area is just like being in a public bar (except for the porn on the TV). There are always a variety of different folk there, and most are happy to chat.
Be proactive and go and talk to people, be honest and open about what you're looking for and you never know what could happen.
If you're new to the whole swinging scene, it's always worth having a good talk between yourselves and agreeing on your boundaries. It is much harder to have that chat later when you're naked with your new play mates.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thanks for your advice we allready have set the boundaries and talked a lot before we made the choice, We have met people as a couple before and is somthing we both really wanna do so we would probably see you there at some point |
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"Thanks for your advice we allready have set the boundaries and talked a lot before we made the choice, We have met people as a couple before and is somthing we both really wanna do so we would probably see you there at some point "
Quite possible, we look forward to it.
Watch out for that Kez though, she's been known to be a bad influence 
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By *ohnkezCouple
over a year ago
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"Thanks for your advice we allready have set the boundaries and talked a lot before we made the choice, We have met people as a couple before and is somthing we both really wanna do so we would probably see you there at some point
Quite possible, we look forward to it.
Watch out for that Kez though, she's been known to be a bad influence
Cal x"
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By *ohnkezCouple
over a year ago
shefiield |
"Myself and my partner have thought about visiting la chambre too. I googled it and it looks good. Just need to pick a day  "
Depends on what you are looking for as to which night would best suit you. Single guys are allowed in on Fridays and Sundays (Fridays are more club/party like atmosphere - Sundays are less busy and chilled out). Saturdays are still party/club atmosphere but for couples and single ladies only |
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By *eendeeCouple
over a year ago
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As above to be honest there's not much we can add the club is so relaxing there's no pressure from anyone and you can chill in all areas get along enjoy and maybe see you in there one Saturday night xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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if you like men watching you then go Friday nights, if not then Saturday nights are for you.
It was our first club a few years ago and it was perfect for us, we went on a Saturday night
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By *ohnkezCouple
over a year ago
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"if you like men watching you then go Friday nights, if not then Saturday nights are for you.
It was our first club a few years ago and it was perfect for us, we went on a Saturday night
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if you play in private rooms no one else can see you on any night  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thanks for all you replies. I'm very nervous about going but would def like to try a bit of female on female action. Love the idea of people watching me and T too, it sounds ideal for us! Hopefully see some of you there at the end of the month xx |
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By * and BCouple
over a year ago
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"Ha we where thinking fri 29th to dip our toes and see what it's all about thanks for the replys kinda excited now hopefully see you all there
T "
We just new to it all and we did a club for the first time NYE. We went on our own, Apprehensive and nervous about what we'd find. It was brilliant, people were friendly very polite and respectful. We'd say give it a go. you don't need someone to hold your hand as you will get chatting to people very quick. especially if you are sitting just the two of you.
Do look at the club reviews on here and pick a club that looks right for you. We were going to go to le chambre on a fri but seen the reviews about the single men so didn't, just solely as that's not for us. go on get your toes wet, we did and loved it |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"if you like men watching you then go Friday nights, if not then Saturday nights are for you.
It was our first club a few years ago and it was perfect for us, we went on a Saturday night
X if you play in private rooms no one else can see you on any night "
Op likes people watching so a private room wouldn't give them this
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