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By *randmrsR OP Couple
over a year ago
Cambridge |
Hi, we are going to try the Mild Club at vanilla alternative this month. We can't get a sitter for weekends so booked some naughty time off work!
So, anyone going been before on a Wednesday daytime? Would be inteteted to hear experiences.
And, is anyone going on the 13th?
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Hi we were looking at attending this...but would be our first time going to a swingers club. ..was warned by someone who attends that it gets busy with lots of singles guys..and if u don't mind randoms trying to touching you its ok...but this put me off for a first time experience. Would be interested to know how you get on though. Nic x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi we were looking at attending this...but would be our first time going to a swingers club. ..was warned by someone who attends that it gets busy with lots of singles guys..and if u don't mind randoms trying to touching you its ok...but this put me off for a first time experience. Would be interested to know how you get on though. Nic x"
I went there for the first time with my lady on NYE and our experience was completely the opposite. Was very friendly based on those we did get to speak to and based on the night would recommend it for a first club visit. It was classy and the staff were great - they've even messaged me in the forum since which has confirmed (if there was any doubt) that we'll be returning as soon as we can. Didn't feel remotely intimidating and was at ease within minutes of arriving. Hope this helps, but feel free to either message on here or pm me if you wanted any more detail. Have a great time if you do decide to go.  |
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By *randmrsR OP Couple
over a year ago
Cambridge |
Well, we are going so there will be at least one couple there!
We went as first timers and found it a great intro to the scene. There was only touching that we were comfortable with.
I'm fact, now we know what to expect we feel comfortable going with the intention of playing more. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We've been twice ( my husband and I) both times it was VERY male heavy! But the first time nobody touched without asking and we had a great time. The second visit there were a lot more guys and they did just touch and didn't respect our privacy, our fault though as we should of been more direct and complained to staff.
The club is amazing and on Friday nights single guys are limited.
There is a couples only area which is lovely so if the guys got too much you can go in there, its big and really nice Xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We've been twice ( my husband and I) both times it was VERY male heavy! But the first time nobody touched without asking and we had a great time. The second visit there were a lot more guys and they did just touch and didn't respect our privacy, our fault though as we should of been more direct and complained to staff.
The club is amazing and on Friday nights single guys are limited.
There is a couples only area which is lovely so if the guys got too much you can go in there, its big and really nice Xx "
Thanks for the feedback, I think we may retreat to the safety of the couples area if it gets too much, hopefully there is a respectful crowd in and management ensure that the single guys behave! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We've been twice ( my husband and I) both times it was VERY male heavy! But the first time nobody touched without asking and we had a great time. The second visit there were a lot more guys and they did just touch and didn't respect our privacy, our fault though as we should of been more direct and complained to staff.
The club is amazing and on Friday nights single guys are limited.
There is a couples only area which is lovely so if the guys got too much you can go in there, its big and really nice Xx
Thanks for the feedback, I think we may retreat to the safety of the couples area if it gets too much, hopefully there is a respectful crowd in and management ensure that the single guys behave!"
The management are brilliant!! We didn't say anything tbh so that was our fault x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We've been twice ( my husband and I) both times it was VERY male heavy! But the first time nobody touched without asking and we had a great time. The second visit there were a lot more guys and they did just touch and didn't respect our privacy, our fault though as we should of been more direct and complained to staff.
The club is amazing and on Friday nights single guys are limited.
There is a couples only area which is lovely so if the guys got too much you can go in there, its big and really nice Xx
Thanks for the feedback, I think we may retreat to the safety of the couples area if it gets too much, hopefully there is a respectful crowd in and management ensure that the single guys behave!
The management are brilliant!! We didn't say anything tbh so that was our fault x "
So will you guys go again? |
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Hi just to add our 10 penneth to this topic. It really is up to the guy ( if it is a couple attending) to look after his lady and make sure that wanted advances are encouraged and vice versa.
Everyone will be there to have fun therefore it is simply a case of "managing" the over excitable males!!!! Hopefully catch up with all of you on Wednesday. Just to say hello obviously
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi just to add our 10 penneth to this topic. It really is up to the guy ( if it is a couple attending) to look after his lady and make sure that wanted advances are encouraged and vice versa.
Everyone will be there to have fun therefore it is simply a case of "managing" the over excitable males!!!! Hopefully catch up with all of you on Wednesday. Just to say hello obviously
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You need to get your name on the list. I went last montg but didn't have a great experience there. ..
What happened?"
Crap m/f ratios. Loads of really rude guys who kept trying to get involved without asking and had to be asked repeatedly to leave a private area when they followed us in without being invited. Bit of a lack of oversight by organisers |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You need to get your name on the list. I went last montg but didn't have a great experience there. ..
What happened?
Crap m/f ratios. Loads of really rude guys who kept trying to get involved without asking and had to be asked repeatedly to leave a private area when they followed us in without being invited. Bit of a lack of oversight by organisers"
Hopefully the organisers have taken on board the feedback, and sorry to hear your experience was less than it should have been due to the rude guys. |
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By *andjCouple
over a year ago
tempsford |
Jules here from The VA.
Let me explain the difference between Milf Club and a regular Friday Night..
Milf club was set up specifically for those ladies that like the attention of multiple men...so the ratio is very different from Fridays where the amount of gents permitted entry is 10....however the rules are exactly the same...no touching without invitation, no means no and respect others at all times.
As someone has already pointed out the couples area remains just that, no single gents there even by invite from a couple.
If anyone ever has any issues with anyone, be it a lady or a gent, come and tell us at the bar and we will do our best to sort it.
The single gents that come to the club are nice guys and most are return members, but there are new guys that come along and sometimes get a little carried away or are a little green of the etiquette of play, 99 out of 100 times a polite word is all it takes, however if someone persists in being a pest, like you we don't want them at our parties either and they will be asked to leave and membership withdrawn.
The only other party that sees more than the usual 10 gents is Bi Night. This party has rocketed in popularity since _picyminx brought it to the VA as it is not jst Bi ladies but Bi guys also, so by nature there are more than usual gents, however this is still a capped guest list for gents.
Hope that clears up any confusion, but feel free to message me here or ring the club with further questions.
Jules xx |
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"Jules here from The VA.
Let me explain the difference between Milf Club and a regular Friday Night..
Milf club was set up specifically for those ladies that like the attention of multiple men...so the ratio is very different from Fridays where the amount of gents permitted entry is 10....however the rules are exactly the same...no touching without invitation, no means no and respect others at all times.
As someone has already pointed out the couples area remains just that, no single gents there even by invite from a couple.
If anyone ever has any issues with anyone, be it a lady or a gent, come and tell us at the bar and we will do our best to sort it.
The single gents that come to the club are nice guys and most are return members, but there are new guys that come along and sometimes get a little carried away or are a little green of the etiquette of play, 99 out of 100 times a polite word is all it takes, however if someone persists in being a pest, like you we don't want them at our parties either and they will be asked to leave and membership withdrawn.
The only other party that sees more than the usual 10 gents is Bi Night. This party has rocketed in popularity since _picyminx brought it to the VA as it is not jst Bi ladies but Bi guys also, so by nature there are more than usual gents, however this is still a capped guest list for gents.
Hope that clears up any confusion, but feel free to message me here or ring the club with further questions.
Jules xx"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There was a fantastic crowd at the last one. Lets do it all again. X
It was a fantastic MILF club! Really enjoyed it. "
Was you there? You didn't say hello? |
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